
The Angry Therapist Podcast
John Kim is The Angry Therapist, delivering self-help and therapy in a shot glass - street level 3 x week roughly ten minutes an episode. With one longer interview or conversation on Mondays.
Latest episodes

May 23, 2025 • 20min
Love We're Too Scared To Claim
Explore the concept of unpossessive love, where true affection thrives on freedom and presence rather than control. Discover how letting go can often be the most loving choice we can make. Delve into personal stories of self-discovery and the transformative power of love, as well as the challenges of loving unconditionally without expectations. The discussion also highlights the unique experiences that shape our understanding of relationships, while embracing a grounded and authentic approach to love.

May 21, 2025 • 19min
The Shame Men Carry From Childhood Sexual Experiences
Today, John opens up about authenticity, vulnerability, and why men need real conversations. From childhood wounds to mental health, he dives into the power of sharing your story—and breaking the silence.
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May 19, 2025 • 23min
You're Not Lost. You're Just Not Here (How Practicing Presence Rewires Your Life)
John delves into the transformative effects of practicing presence and how it can reshape our experiences. He discusses the power of awareness and self-acceptance in navigating the chaos of daily life. Techniques for integrating mindfulness into busy routines are shared, highlighting the importance of staying anchored in the moment. The conversation also emphasizes the value of movement and creativity as tools for fostering connection and flow, ultimately enhancing our well-being and decision-making.

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May 16, 2025 • 50min
The New Epidemic - She’s Touched Out. He Wants More Sex
This discussion unveils the evolving dynamics of intimacy in modern relationships. Celibacy emerges as a surprising tool for self-discovery. The speakers tackle the complexities of love languages and genuine actions versus societal pressures. Humor blends with introspection as they explore domestic chores' unseen motivations. Addressing emotional expectations and past experiences, they emphasize open communication. The interplay of sex and emotional safety highlights the delicate balance between desire and connection, making for an engaging conversation.

May 14, 2025 • 25min
What If You Left a Relationship and Aren’t Sure It Was the Right Decision?
Delve into the emotional turmoil of breakups, where doubt and grief intertwine with the loss of an imagined future. Discover the significance of self-reflection and emotional awareness, helping to distinguish true longing from mere loneliness. Explore the complexity of second-guessing your decisions and the importance of intentional grieving. Gain insights into past relationship patterns and reassess your personal values for healthier growth. This discussion encourages a thoughtful approach to navigating the aftermath of heartbreak.

May 12, 2025 • 16min
Why I’m Not Having Sex For 30 Days
Explore the intriguing journey of a 30-day celibacy challenge aimed at self-discovery. The host shares personal reflections on redirecting sexual energy and the balance of masculine and feminine qualities. Discover the emotional clarity and empowerment gained through this discipline. Delve into the spiritual growth that emerges when stepping away from distractions, and learn how intentional living fosters deeper self-awareness and personal growth. Join this enlightening conversation about reclaiming one's self through abstinence.

May 9, 2025 • 22min
My Dick Journey
Dive into a heartfelt discussion on body image and masculinity, where personal battles with body dysmorphia and societal norms take center stage. Through candid reflections on childhood and family influences, the host navigates complex feelings tied to cultural identity. Humor meets hard truths as he shares a memorable, if traumatic, coming-of-age story. Emphasis on self-love and acceptance shines through, encouraging others on their own journeys of vulnerability and healing.

May 7, 2025 • 21min
The Misconception of Emotional Suppression (a.k.a. The Soda Can Effect)
Today, John debunks the myth of emotional suppression—aka the "soda can effect"—revealing that holding in emotions leads to burnout, not strength. Through personal insights and practical tips, he promotes healthy emotional expression as key to self-care, strong relationships, and a balanced life.
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May 5, 2025 • 16min
How MDMA Continues to Rewire My Soul
Today, John shares how an MDMA experience transformed his outlook on life, love, and personal growth. He reflects on living more presently, setting boundaries, finding deeper connection through everyday joys, and more.
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May 2, 2025 • 18min
Why We Chase the Wrong People and How to Stop
Today, John explores why people are drawn to unhealthy relationships and how to break the cycle. He emphasizes the role of upbringing, the importance of self-awareness, the need for a corrective love experience to build healthier connections, and more.
Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE
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