The Angry Therapist Podcast

The Angry Therapist
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Jul 23, 2025 • 25min

Why We Keep Chasing the Same Kind of Love

Today, John unpacks the complex layers of attraction, emotional wiring, and how our childhood shapes the way we love as adults. He dives into the connection between self-worth and the partners we choose, and why so many of us find ourselves settling—in both relationships and careers. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, ⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about John⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Jul 21, 2025 • 34min

One Month in Costa Rica: The Good, the Bad, and Could This Be Our New Home?

Today, John reflects on his first month living in Costa Rica—what's surprised him, what’s challenged him, and what’s changed him. He opens up about the warmth of the people, unexpected joy of slowing down, highs, lows, and lessons of this major lifestyle shift. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, ⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠ Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about John⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Jul 16, 2025 • 30min

I Feel Lost. What's the First Step to Changing My Life?

Today, John explores the idea of rebirth and redefining happiness. He emphasizes the importance of pulling from personal truth, recognizing when you're in survival mode, and taking actionable steps towards authenticity and fulfillment. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose,⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠ Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about John⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Jul 14, 2025 • 24min

The Race Was Never Real: Notes on Slowing Down Without Falling Behind

Today, John discusses the importance of embracing change, practicing mindfulness through surfing, and the significance of detachment from societal pressures. He also reflects on redefining success, finding joy in simplicity, and experiencing life in vibrant color. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose,⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠ Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠ Find out more about John⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Jul 9, 2025 • 35min

Nightcap, Costa Rica Edition: Burning Down Old Blueprints & Redefining Happy

Today, John reflects on the rapid changes in his life, the cultural adjustments he faces, and the importance of community and authentic relationships. He discusses the shedding of old blueprints and the creation of a new life that feels more honest and fulfilling. Single On Purpose School⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ starts July 9th! A 6-week program to transform your relationship with yourself and build a life you love — on your terms. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SIGN UP HERE⁠⁠⁠ Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose,⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠ Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠ Find out more about John⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Jul 7, 2025 • 42min

Morning Coffee in the Jungle: Day in the Life & New Mindset Change

Today, John discusses the significance of family, the creative process of documenting life, and the concept of life as an act break. Throughout, he emphasizes the value of intentional living and how it shapes daily routines and interactions. Single On Purpose School⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ starts July 9th! A 6-week program to transform your relationship with yourself and build a life you love — on your terms. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SIGN UP HERE⁠⁠⁠ Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose,⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠ Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠ Find out more about John⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Jul 4, 2025 • 34min

How Life Transitions Impact Relationships.

Today, John and Vanessa discuss their experiences and challenges after moving to Costa Rica. They explore themes of cultural adjustment, language barriers, relationship dynamics, community connection, and the impact of motherhood on their lives. ⁠Single On Purpose School⁠⁠⁠⁠ starts July 9th! A 6-week program to transform your relationship with yourself and build a life you love — on your terms. ⁠⁠⁠⁠SIGN UP HERE⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Vanessa: HERE Order Vanessa's new book, The Motherhood Myth, HERE Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose,⁠ HERE⁠ Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app ⁠HERE⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠ HERE⁠ Find out more about John⁠ HERE⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Jul 2, 2025 • 34min

Costa Rica: Week One

Today, John discusses the challenges and joys of relocating, the importance of community, and the lifestyle changes that come with living in a new country. He reflects on the beauty of the beach life, the culinary delights of Costa Rican food, and the fears he faces about the future. Single On Purpose School⁠⁠⁠⁠ starts July 9th! A 6-week program to transform your relationship with yourself and build a life you love — on your terms. ⁠⁠⁠⁠SIGN UP HERE⁠⁠ Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose,⁠ HERE⁠ Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app ⁠HERE⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠ HERE⁠ Find out more about John⁠ HERE⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Jun 30, 2025 • 25min

The Myth of ‘The One’: Why Soulmates Are Built, Not Found

Delve into the intriguing idea that soulmates are not found but built through shared experiences. The conversation highlights the importance of embracing challenges and emotional repairs in relationships. It redefines soulmates as partners in growth, emphasizing that true connection stems from effort rather than perfection. The discussion also expands the concept to include not just romantic partners but family and friends, showcasing the broader landscape of meaningful relationships.
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Jun 27, 2025 • 16min

RE-RELEASE: Resting B*tch Face

Today, John talks about the transformative power of honesty. Reflecting on past relationships and personal beliefs, he explores the courage it takes to confront self-deception and encourages listeners to examine where they may be out of alignment. ⁠Single On Purpose School⁠ starts July 9th! A 6-week program to transform your relationship with yourself and build a life you love — on your terms. ⁠SIGN UP HERE⁠ Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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