Today, John does a deep dive on why people believe they're unlovable whether that's from experiences from childhood, getting cheated on, being in multiple unhealthy relationships, etc. He also talks about how beliefs of being unlovable often stem from neglect, lack of emotional support, and inconsistent love during our formative years. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the deep connection between intuition and the body, revealing how tuning into physical sensations can guide us toward authentic decisions. Through personal stories, he shows how ignoring these signals leads to stress and misalignment—and why trusting your body is key to clarity and well-being. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John redefines love as more than just excitement and romance—it's a messy, ever-present force that drives growth and connection. He explores how love evolves, why embracing change is essential, how relationships can be powerful catalysts for healing, and more. Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John challenges traditional relationships-- exploring relationship anarchy, living apart together, and co-creating love without labels. He also redefines the meaning of autonomy, mindfulness, and the ever-evolving nature of connection.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lair Torrent, author of "The Practice of Love," joins to discuss themes of emotional vulnerability and male loneliness. They explore what it means to be 'unfinished' and the importance of deep connections in a modern context. Lair shares insights on the evolving art of writing and how humor can aid in processing emotions. The conversation also touches on navigating grief while maintaining authenticity, emphasizing that true strength lies in vulnerability. Personal stories highlight the value of recognizing accomplishments and developing meaningful friendships.

Today, John and Vanessa speak with the best selling author of Codependent No More, Melody Beattie. They define codependency, its roots in childhood experiences, practical steps for recovery, emphasizing the significance of understanding one's feelings and setting boundaries, and more.Melody Beattie is the best selling author of Codependent No More. Since its first publication 36 years ago, it has helped heal over seven million readers and continues to sell 100,000+ copies a year. Updated for the first time, with a new chapter on trauma and anxiety, and Melody’s personal story revealed for the first time, this modern classic holds the key to understanding codependency and unlocking its hold on your life.You can find her book HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tpday, John shares a transformative experience from a men’s group gathering at Justin and Emily Baldoni’s home. Using the striking metaphor of “burning down the house,” John explores what it means to shed past identities, embrace new beginnings, and lean into the discomfort of true emotional growth.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares his journey of finding happiness at 51 after years of struggle and self-discovery. He reflects on his life experiences, including his marriage, fatherhood, and the loss of his home to a fire which became a catalyst for writing his first memoir.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the themes of navigating life's uncertainties, the power of awakening through adversity, and the importance of finding calm amidst chaos. He also emphasizes the inevitability of suffering, the necessity of embracing uncertainty as a path to spiritual growth, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the tension between risk and regret, challenging listeners to rethink their fear of failure– because in the long run, it's regret that haunts us. He encourages taking small but meaningful steps toward the life we truly want and shares insights on how to break free from the illusion of safety.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices