
The Thais Gibson Podcast
Welcome to The Thais Gibson Podcast, where transformation happens fast and lasts a lifetime. Tune in for expert insights on breaking free from repetitive patterns, practical steps for reprogramming your subconscious mind, and empowering conversations that will inspire you to evolve into your best self across all aspects of life!
Latest episodes

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Dec 1, 2024 • 1h 5min
THIS Is Why Avoidants Seem Fine After A Break Up
Dive into the complex world of dismissive avoidant attachment styles and their seemingly unbothered demeanor after breakups. Discover how they mask emotional pain and the impact of childhood conditioning on their behavior. The discussion highlights key strategies for healing, the distinction between superficial and deep connections, and the importance of self-reflection. Personal anecdotes and practical advice offer clarity for those navigating the emotional aftermath, ensuring a compassionate approach to understanding and moving forward in relationships.

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Nov 25, 2024 • 1h 5min
Do THESE Things to Heal Anxiety in Relationships!
Explore transformative strategies to heal anxious attachment styles in relationships. Discover six essential pillars for personal growth and emotional balance. Learn the art of self-soothing, emphasizing solo activities for self-connection. Dive into practical tools for effective communication and managing emotional needs. Uncover the interplay between self-care and building deeper connections. Empower yourself with techniques that promote independence and emotional resilience, paving the way for healthier relationships.

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Nov 23, 2024 • 1h 8min
These Things Reveal if an Avoidant is Healing
Dive into the journey of healing from avoidant attachment styles as the hosts unpack the signs of emotional growth. Discover the power of reconnecting with feelings and the importance of vulnerability in relationships. Practical tools like journaling and meditation are highlighted to aid in processing emotions. The discussion also reveals how physical movement and self-care play a crucial role in fostering emotional stability. Personal anecdotes and effective strategies offer listeners insight into transforming their relationships and personal growth.

Nov 21, 2024 • 18min
THIS IS Why You Keep Attracting Avoidant People
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Are you stuck in a cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable or avoidant partners?
In this insightful episode, Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, dives deep into the subconscious patterns that draw us to these dynamics. Learn the three critical reasons behind this pattern and discover actionable steps to break free and create meaningful, fulfilling relationships.
Thais combines her expertise in attachment theory, the subconscious mind, and neuroplasticity to uncover the hidden comfort zones that shape our connections. She also shares a transformative exercise to help you rewire these patterns and shift your attraction to healthier dynamics.
Whether you're seeking emotional closeness, clarity in your standards, or better boundary-setting strategies, this episode offers valuable tools and fresh perspectives. Tune in to start your journey toward lasting connection and personal growth.
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Nov 19, 2024 • 13min
THIS Is How a Secure Person Reacts to an Avoidant Having a Phantom Ex
Explore the dynamics of dating someone stuck in the past with a 'phantom ex.' Discover how securely attached individuals communicate openly to navigate these challenges. Learn to set boundaries while maintaining self-respect and emotional availability. Gain insights on fostering healthier relationships and recognizing when a partner may not be ready for commitment. This insightful discussion equips you with tools to address unmet needs and build trust, empowering you on your personal growth journey.

Nov 16, 2024 • 54min
Foundations of Longevity: Sleep, Nutrition, and Wellness Strategies with Nathalie Niddam
Nathalie Niddam, a holistic nutritionist and wellness advocate, shares her insights on health and longevity. She highlights the importance of sleep hygiene, offering practical tips like optimizing meal timing and reducing blue light exposure. Nutritional strategies are another focus, with an emphasis on whole foods and the balance of healthy fats. Nathalie also discusses personalized wellness plans, connecting sleep, nutrition, and exercise as essential pillars for a vibrant life. Tune in for actionable advice to improve your quality of life!

Nov 14, 2024 • 13min
This Is How a Secure Person Reacts to an Avoidant Flaw-Finding in Relationships
Explore how securely attached individuals navigate relationships where partners exhibit avoidant behaviors. Discover effective strategies for handling flaw-finding and maintaining healthy communication. Learn to set boundaries, avoid personalizing criticism, and directly address patterns of behavior. This discussion offers insights into overcoming challenges and fostering resilience, ultimately leading to more fulfilling connections.

Nov 12, 2024 • 23min
THIS Is How To Heal Fearful Avoidant Triggers FAST & Improve Relationships
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Are you feeling the ups and downs of a relationship that seems like an emotional rollercoaster?
In this episode, Thais Gibson, founder of the Personal Development School, dives into the root of this instability by exploring the fearful avoidant attachment style and its common triggers.
Learn how unresolved core wounds, like fear of betrayal or rejection, resurface in relationships, creating intense, often overwhelming emotions.
Thais shares actionable steps for rewiring these subconscious patterns to foster secure, healthy attachments. Tune in to discover transformative exercises that help you break free from the cycle of fear and instability, leading to more fulfilling relationships and inner peace.
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Nov 11, 2024 • 1h 12min
Why Do Avoidant Attachment Styles Ghost And How to Move On!
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In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we dive into the complex dynamics of ghosting, focusing on the behavior patterns of dismissive avoidant and fearful avoidant attachment styles.
Join Thais and her co-host, Mike, as they unpack why dismissive avoidants often ghost during dating and relationships, shedding light on common misconceptions and the deeper fears that drive this behavior. They discuss the role of online dating culture in normalizing ghosting and how attachment wounds play a part in avoiding confrontation or difficult conversations.
The episode explores ghosting across different relationship stages, from early dating to long-term commitments, and the unique reasons why avoidant types may disengage without explanation. Thais shares personal stories and offers compassionate advice on how to handle being ghosted, focusing on self-worth and emotional healing.
Listeners will learn actionable steps to heal from the pain of ghosting, including how to reframe the experience, understand the attachment patterns at play, and build resilience. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has faced ghosting or wants to deepen their understanding of attachment theory in modern relationships.
Timestamps:
00:00:00 - Intro
00:00:30 - Welcome & Introduction of Guest and Topic
00:01:18 - Overview of Avoidant Attachment Styles and Ghosting
00:02:50 - Online Dating Culture and Ghosting
00:05:18 - The Stages of Relationships and Ghosting at Each Stage
00:10:08 - Communication Challenges: Why People Ghost
00:13:09 - Handling the Emotional Impact of Being Ghosted
00:18:02 - Personal Story: The Experience of Being Ghosted
00:24:45 - Ghosting in Long-Term Relationships and the Consequences
00:28:46 - 14-Day Free Trial Mention for Healing Resources
00:30:18 - Ghosting by Fearful Avoidants: Personal Experiences
00:39:05 - Healing Strategies for the Anxious Attachment Style
00:44:08 - Balancing Reciprocity in Relationships
00:54:44 - Understanding Self-Worth in the Context of Ghosting
00:55:00 - Outro & Final Thoughts
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Nov 9, 2024 • 1h 16min
Early Dating & Texting Expectations of Each Attachment Style
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Join us for an in-depth exploration of attachment styles and relationship dynamics!
In this episode, we dive into the communication patterns of different attachment styles—especially how dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant, and anxious styles approach calling, texting, and the challenges of early dating.
Discover actionable insights on finding healthy compromises, spotting green flags when a partner is truly doing the work, and strengthening your own attachment style.
Plus, learn powerful ways to foster secure, confident connections with science-backed tools for a more fulfilling relationship journey.
Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
02:45- DA Texting & Calling Recap
08:23 - Share Your Needs With DAs
14:19 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass
15:11 - Share Your Needs With DAs Cont’d
21:58 - Live Exercise: DA
34:41 - Hello Fresh
36:09 - Live Exercise: FA
41:02 - Live Exercise: AP
43:24 - FAs and Rushing Relationship Milestones
48:18 - Integrated Attachment Theory Certification 49:29 - FAs and Phone Calls
53:53 - Ideal Quality Time for DAs in Dating
56:02 - Ideal Quality Time for FAs in Dating
58:35 - Why Don't APs Date Other APs?
1:06:14 - DAs and Drinking
1:08:28 - Conclusion
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