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The Thais Gibson Podcast

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Feb 9, 2025 • 25min

Dating a Dismissive Avoidant? Here’s What You Need to Know! | Dismissive Avoidant Attachment

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are you dating someone who seems emotionally distant, withdraws when things get serious, or struggles with intimacy? Understanding dismissive avoidant attachment can completely shift how you navigate these challenges in your relationship. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we dive deep into what it’s really like to date a dismissive avoidant—why they behave the way they do, the root causes of their fear of intimacy, and how to create a healthier, more secure connection. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why dismissive avoidants often struggle with commitment and emotional intimacy ✔️ How childhood experiences shape their avoidance patterns ✔️ Common triggers that cause them to shut down in relationships ✔️ How to communicate effectively and build trust ✔️ What dismissive avoidants actually need in a relationship If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why does my partner push me away?” or “Can a dismissive avoidant ever change?”, this episode will give you the insights and tools to better understand and navigate your relationship. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #commitmentissues #datingadvice #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #relationshipgoals #selfhealing #emotionalintimacy #findlove Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Feb 8, 2025 • 29min

40 Traits of the Commitment-Fearing Person in Relationships | Dismissive Avoidant Attachment

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are you dating or in a relationship with someone who seems emotionally distant, avoids commitment, or struggles to open up? In this episode, The Thais Gibson Podcast breaks down the 40 key traits of the dismissive avoidant attachment style, shedding light on why some individuals fear deep emotional connection and how to navigate these relationship dynamics. Dismissive avoidant individuals often struggle with vulnerability, emotional intimacy, and long-term commitment—sometimes without even realizing it. This episode will help you identify the signs, understand why they act this way, and explore strategies to foster healthier relationships. What You'll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How to recognize dismissive avoidant behaviors in dating and relationships ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants often seem distant, cold, or emotionally unavailable ✔️ The role of childhood emotional neglect in shaping attachment styles ✔️ How dismissive avoidants react to conflict, vulnerability, and deep emotional connection ✔️ How to build a healthier, more secure relationship dynamic If you've ever asked yourself, "Why does my partner pull away?" or "Why do I struggle with emotional intimacy?", this episode is for you. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #commitmentissues #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals #findlove #selfhealing #emotionalintimacy Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Feb 7, 2025 • 9min

5 Signs An Avoidant is ACTUALLY INTERESTED, Not Just Physically Attracted

Discover the telltale signs that an avoidant partner is genuinely interested, not just seeking a physical connection. Learn how initiating plans, performing acts of service, and maintaining regular communication reveal their emotional investment. Explore the significance of subtle affirmations and personal sharing in understanding their intentions. This insightful discussion helps clarify the complexities of avoidant attachment, empowering you to gauge the depth of your relationship.
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Feb 5, 2025 • 55min

Shocking Coping Mechanisms of Fearful Avoidants

The discussion dives into the complex behaviors of Fearful Avoidants, revealing how harsh words often emerge from emotional overwhelm. Spiteful actions are explored as misguided attempts to forge deeper connections. The hosts analyze the emotional whiplash of flipping from hot to cold and discuss the unconscious testing of partners by pushing them away. Additionally, they highlight the critical tendency to create emotional distance, providing insights into healthier communication and coping strategies for those in or navigating relationships.
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Feb 3, 2025 • 12min

THIS Is Why An Avoidant Leaves A GOOD Relationship

Delve into the fears behind avoidant partners pulling away from good relationships. Explore how childhood experiences shape their struggles with intimacy and commitment. Discover the subconscious fear of vulnerability that leads to these dynamics. Learn about common patterns, like flaw-finding and unrealistic expectations, that complicate connections. Gain practical tips on how to communicate effectively and support an avoidant partner for a healthier relationship.
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Feb 2, 2025 • 25min

The Dismissive Avoidant’s Idea of a Healthy Relationship

Discover the complexities of dismissive avoidant attachment and how it shapes perceptions of healthy relationships. Core needs like autonomy and consistent acceptance come to the forefront. Learn effective communication strategies to connect deeper while respecting boundaries. Insights reveal the lasting impact of early caregiver interactions, emotional safety, and the vital role of validation. This discussion offers a roadmap for fostering intimacy and understanding in relationships where dismissive avoidant individuals are involved.
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Feb 1, 2025 • 30min

How The Fearful Avoidant Reacts To Breakups (& How To Win Them Back!)

Breakups can be particularly tough for those with a fearful avoidant attachment style. They often withdraw emotionally, leading to confusion and frustration. This discussion dives into their unhealthy coping mechanisms and the inner conflict they face. Key strategies for healing and personal growth are shared, alongside insights on the possibility of reconciliation. Authentic communication and emotional validation emerge as essential steps to rebuild trust and foster deeper connections.
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Jan 31, 2025 • 13min

5 Signs A Fearful Avoidant Misses You But Won’t Say It

Curious if a fearful avoidant partner misses you? Discover five subtle signs that reveal their hidden feelings. Learn how pushing you away can be a test, and why they might ask about the small details of your life. Delve into their need for novel experiences to bond and the significance of planning quality alone time together. Understanding these behaviors can help bridge emotional gaps and enhance communication in your relationship.
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Jan 29, 2025 • 1h 8min

5 Shocking Protest Behaviors of the Dismissive Avoidant

Get ready for an eye-opening discussion on the protest behaviors of those with dismissive avoidant attachment styles. Discover the patterns of stonewalling, emotional withdrawal, and flaw-finding that can create barriers in relationships. Learn practical strategies to foster healthier communication and emotional connections. The impact of these behaviors on relationships is explored, along with tips for navigating conflicts and encouraging reassurance. Whether you're directly affected or just curious, this conversation offers valuable insights into attachment theory.
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Jan 27, 2025 • 13min

5 Strange Things Every Avoidant Needs to Be Happy in Love

Explore the unique needs of individuals with avoidant attachment styles in love. Discover how independence, empathy, and clear communication contribute to their happiness. Delve into the balance between wanting space and the desire for connection. Learn practical strategies for fostering understanding and support in relationships. This is essential listening for anyone seeking to navigate their own attachment style or better connect with an avoidant partner.

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