Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E22-Discretion in BDSMJune 20th, 2017IntroThis is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 22 for June 20th, 2017.Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going get into Discretion in BDSM. Why it’s important? How to be discrete? And what happens if someone is outed but as usual I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize. Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up. First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker...he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDiscretion defined:What is it to be discrete? What is outing?What makes discretion so important?Consequences to those who have been outed.Consequences for those who out others. What you can do to if you have been outed. How to be discreet. NEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext on The Krypt we are going to back to the foundation of the show and getting into BDSM Safety 101. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter. Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com Fb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E21-BDSM/submission without SexJuly 9th, 2017IntroThis is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 20 for July 9th, 2017.Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt it all about BDSM without sex but first I have to say hello to my lovely co-host Funsize.Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.First I’d like to thank our Patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker...he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be grateful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through Patreon.Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungBDSM without SexForest scenes from Eros Exposed.  This was not a metaphor for sex, but for all relationships in times of stress and hardship.  Why is it okay or preferable for some to have BDSM without sex?  MarriageSimplifies thingsEverything else is about sex, this can be one thing that isn’t.  How to achieve this?  Tell your play partner what you want from the start. Communicate!How it can help?Lets you have all the benefits of BDSM without feeling used.Brings clarity and intimacy.No fear of children or STDs.  No guilt or question of adultery or cheating.How to find a play partner for celibate BDSM?NEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext on The Krypt I am going to giving a lot of myself to you as Funsize interrogates me about the ins and out of being a Professional Dom. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for the monthly giveaway. While you’re there click on support us for the patreon link.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.comFb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceOutro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E21-Explaining Professional DominationJune 19th, 2017IntroThis is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 21 for June 19th, 2017.Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt it all about BDSM without sex but first I have to say hello to my lovely co-host from Order-of-Avalon.com, Funsize.Before we get into the main topic I have a couple of things to bring up.First I’d like to thank our patreon supporter The Accidental Trucker...he’s been around since the beginning of the show. He gives a dollar a month. If the listeners are getting anything out of I’d be greatful if they would visit the site and click on the support us tab to give through patreon.Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungPro Dom QuestionsWhat is a pro dom?What is and isn't legal?What is the vetting process for clients? How does one become a prodom?It is different from other forms of D/s?    How?How do you find a prodom in your area?Costs for services?Accepting and turning away clientele?What can interested sub do to ensure the safest possible experience?IMVU and other communities vs. r/l dungeons?What kind of services are typically offered?How to get set up as a prodom?How to make a profit?Getting a loyal client base?Findomination and prodoms?  Training to be a prodom?Taxes, how is it listed as a legal business?How is a client different from a lifestyle sub?Working alone vs. working in a pro dungeon?Finding a pro dungeon?What makes a good pro dom?Personal limits and interests, and how they effect professionalism?NEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext on The Krypt I am going to giving a lot of myself to you as Funsize interrogates me about the ins and out of being a Professional Dom. In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Facebook group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for the monthly giveaway. While you’re there click on support us for the patreon link.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.comFb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourcehttp://www.order-of-avalon.comOutro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E19-BDSM Master/slave DynamicsJune 12th, 2017IntroThis is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 19 for June 12th, 2017.Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt Funsize and I are going dive into Master/slave dynamics. Funsize how you doing today?Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Younghttp://bdsmcontracts.org Master defined: The leader of a fully committed and collared D/s relationship responsible for the safety, training, and personal improvement of the slave. The Master is also known as the owner.slave defined: The fully collared submissive of a D/s relationship. Committed to serving their Master in every negotiated way. The slave is also known as property.Voluntary servitudeContracts, check ins, and renegotiationsWhat are the Masters rights?Do slaves have rights?The sharing or selling of slaves?The head spaceProtocol High and LowNEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext week’s agenda we are going to dive into submission without sex. In the meantime be sure to checkout our site kuldrinskrypt.com and while you’re there click on support us to find out how to receive a Kuldrin’s Krypt t-shirt or hoodie. Also, don’t forget about kuldrinskrypt.com/shop It’s our amazon affiliate store where we tryout fun toys, books and other things...if we like it we add it there.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com Fb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E18-Play Partner Vs Lifestyle PartnerMay 29th, 2017IntroThis is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 18 for May 29th, 2017.Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Today it's going to be all about play. We are going to define play partners and lifestyle partners, talk about the similarities and differences, and help you figure out what are the most important traits your partner or partners must have to provide you with what you are looking for. But before that happens...I’ve got to say hello to my lovely co-host.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungWhat is a Play Partner?A play partner is anyone you play, or scene with, whether in real life or online, that you are not in a relationship with. In the vanilla world these would be called “friends with benefits” or “one night stands”. You might meet these people online, at munches, at dungeon parties, or out in the general public, hit it off and scene together once and that be it or you could end up having scenes with them for years but it is never a relationship. It’s also important to remind people that even though I made the comparison to “friends with benefits” and “one night stands” of the vanilla world, these BDSM play partners might not be sexual partners...and if you’ve listened to previous episodes you will know that the majority of my personal BDSM experience is of a nonsexual nature. What is a Lifestyle Partner?Just as any relationship a Lifestyle Partner can take several different forms but in all of those forms they involve a type of relationship with someone that is more than a Play Partners. Emotions and feelings are most often present at this level. Whether it be Dominant and submissive or Master and slave there is a strong bond developed after what should be a long negotiation period. In all of the following examples of different lifestyle partner examples it is important to remember that even though the people involved may only scene randomly there is a connection between them and there will more than likely be tasks that the sub or slave has to perform and a defined checkin time that could be set up several times a day to once a week or even less in a few cases I have seen. Collar on/off24/7Nights & WeekendsWhenever they happen to get together.How are they the same?NegotiationD/s or M/s settingSceningAftercareCheckinRenegotiationHow are they different?When the scene ends the dominance and submission or topping and bottoming ends.You might never see a play partner again after the scene.The emotional attachment is greatly decreased or nonexistent with play partners.A number of other things. How do we determine what I need in a partner of any type?One of the best ways is to complete a list of limits and interest. Which is why we have one on our site at kuldrinskrypt.comThe other way is by experiencing every you that can that is SSCI. However, it is also VERY important to remember that just because you like something in online play or in real life with someone does not mean that you will like it with another person or under different circumstances. NEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext week on the Krypt we are diving off the cliff and going deep into Master/slave dynamics. In the meantime, visit Kuldrinskrypt.com read the show notes for each and every episode, contact us, subscribe to the show, and find out how you can help us continue to bring you our years of experience, like The Accidental Trucker has from the beginning, by becoming a Patreon.com supporter. Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com , funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com Fb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource http://www.order-or-avalon.com Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 PodcastS01E17-Moving Online Play to Offline Play5/22/2017Intro: Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Joining us today and every episode hereafter is my new co-host, Funsize. In our last episode we discussed the nuances of online play. Today we’re looking at moving online relationships offline. When is the Right Time? Very individual Typically most like to try for 6 months to a year after official collaringCircumstances prove optimalThings have lined up for a most enjoyable experienceAre you or they nearby? Is this a vacation, or a permanent move? Are you or they relocating to be closer?Other situations with jobs, or family lining up just so? Doing the Switch the Right WaySafety FirstAvoiding Catfish and PredatorsWhere to meetEmergency protocols if things go badly Have a safe place you can goHave people you check in withMaking sure you're not isolatedBasic first meeting practicesHow Things Will ChangeYour bond will grow deeper. There will need to be another negotiation. At first you’ll go through a training period.Things aren’t going to go the way you initially thought they would. You might feel bored at times. Or annoyed, or depressed. The more work you put in, the better it will be. You HAVE to be realistic about your limits, and communicate even more. You may find that an online life with this person works much better than offline. Making the Most of the New ExperienceKeep it SSC, or RACK, or PRICKBe realisticCommunicate about everything. Enjoy every moment. Have your own spaceHttp://www.BDSMContracts.orgHey Kuldrin here. If you are having trouble putting together contract for your D/s relationship or it you want something nicer, say in soft or hard bound, check out bdsmcontracts.org. I’ve used them in the past and I will continue to use them in the futrure. Use the coupon code Kuldrins20 for a 20% discount off all purchases. NEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext week Funsize is going to continue educating us about modern BDSM practices by discussing the ins and out of taking that online relationship to a real world setting. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com funsize@kuldrinskrypt.com Fb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource http://order-of-avalon.com Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 PodcastS01E16-Online Play & Relationships5/15/2017Intro: Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Joining us today and every episode hereafter is my new co-host, Funsize. Today we’ll be discussing online BDSM, and relationships. Many newcomers to the lifestyle are part of the online scene, as well as several veterans these days. So Funsize, you've got a bit more experience in this area than I do, what exactly is online play? Online BDSM and play is a way for people to connect and learn safely and sometimes more conveniently than in real life. It’s setting up a virtual scene and while some choose to use cams, or pictures, mostly it’s carried out various chat and instant messaging forums, sometimes even through texting. What makes it safer or more convenient? Well for newbies to the lifestyle it’s safer because it’s a way for them to learn and experience, often for the first time, a scene. This doesn’t mean there aren’t dangers or risks in online play, but it does change things. When you say there are risks, what kinds of risks? Well, online as with every where, there are predators. With online play, particularly in chat rooms, the risks of running into these predators increases. Many have been known to even stalk certain online communities. How would you classify an online predator? Usually online predators will behave one of two ways when they start out. They will either start off very sweet, feigning ‘feelings’ that progress very quickly, unreasonably so, or they will instantly ask you to partake in a scene, typically either ignoring or not even bothering with limits or negotiations, and you may feel pressured into a situation that may not be quite comfortable. Other behaviors they may exhibit is asking for pictures, cams, face times, tasks to be carried out, some even want your home or cell phone numbers. Many predators like this will also react badly if you try to put a stop to their behavior, using classic abusive tendencies; guilt, bullying, lying, and even intimidation. They’re different from the fake or instas in that they know what they are doing and push past people’s limits and personal boundaries for their own selfish gains. And I think what throws most people is that it’s not just Doms that can be predators, subs can be too. Subs? Submissive predators are just as dangerous as any others out there, and exhibit a lot of the same behaviors. Wow lots to look out for out there. Alright, back to what you said about it being more convenient? Well for one thing it’s easier to meet people. With the spread of the internet, the flow of communication has grown, and BDSM has stepped out of the proverbial closet, and with it thousands of people are able to connect and be a part of this community like never before. Now you can “meet” someone online that’s across town or halfway around the world. It’s more convenient for finding the right person or people that way. You can also spend months vetting your potential partners before ever meeting face to face. And of course there’s the ease created for those of us with more complicated situations. Marriage, children, personal personas, and ours jobs may keep us from living the lifestyle 24/7, and virtual reality can help with that. It’s a way that many of us can live and have our needs fulfilled when we otherwise couldn’t. I have a friend who takes advantage of this facet of online play in just this way. He has a vanilla marriage, and a high profile career, so online play is really his only outlet currently. His needs are still there, so he has an online only submissive, she’s discreet, and they’re both happy with the arrangement. To me this part of modern BDSM only highlights how accepting our community can be, even when the rest of the world really isn’t sometimes. Alright, so online play stays on online, it’s carried out in virtual reality only. Not always, there are ways for people to experience some parts of it in the real world as well. There’s obviously tasks to be assigned and carried out, but there’s also various forms of self-love, (keeping it pg-13 here), and self-flagellation. Many of it is virtual however, but as they say, the mind is mightier than the flesh. How would a typical scene be played out? Can you give a Pg-13 example?Well for example if you and I were to ever set up a scene, we would start by negotiating hard and soft limits, just as we normally would. However some of those might change from online to real life or vice versa, for example I might say no cams for online, but in real life it might not matter, or it might be no shared videos. Anyway, most likely in this scenario you would say something like, “go to my dungeon.” We could then start the scene in that setting, you could pick a plethora of toys, that you may not even have at your disposal, and “whip” me with them. Or maybe you’d just ask me to “kneel” and behave submissively towards you. Sometimes these scenes develop into something sexual but as with all BDSM, sex isn’t always involved. In truth a lot of online play is based on the mindset of those involved. It’s all about communication and honest interaction. As I understand it you have an online relationship that’s ongoing right now, what can you tell us about that? I have an online Dominant and a sub I play with regularly. I have a collar and everything, actually I have a physical collar. I wear it at home, I wish I could wear it to work but then I’d be violating the dress code, which I’m sure is something many others have experienced. Um we play and have scenes once maybe twice a week, but communicate outside of that every day or at least every other day. I have this kind of relationship right now because it’s more convenient for me that way. I’ve had the 24/7 lifestyle before in real life, but with my current situation in life, I didn’t think I could handle it realistically. Online play is a way for my needs to be met, and for me to have a balance in my life I’d otherwise be lacking. Where would someone go to experience the online lifestyle? There are tons of websites out there that cater to BDSM chat. Fetlife, huge community, has a very good internal messaging service for its members. Then there’s websites like Alt.com, though that is payed a community. And there’s the website I administrate for, the Order of Avalon. But there are tons and tons more out, basically just google BDSM chat and you’ll likely find something. Alright so that’s online play 101, if anyone has any questions please feel free to post, leave messages, or email us.NEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext week Funsize is going to continue educating us about modern BDSM practices by discussing the ins and out of taking that online relationship to a real world setting. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com , funsize@kuldrinskrypt.comFb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E15-Funsize Interview & Order of AvalonMay 8th, 2017This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 15 for May 8th, 2017.Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the chow this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your questions or visit The Krypt at kuldrinskrypt.com. Our guest today is a switch and no newbie to the lifestyle. She is a player of several different kinks including rigging, deep impact, consensual non consent, medical fetishes, and many more. She is a co-founder and administrator of The Order of Avalon, an online fetish community built on the values of safety, education and acceptance. Funsize welcome to the Krypt. Name: Funsize (Adminstrator of the Order of Avalon), zeppoJane on FetlifeContact Info: FunsizeSwitch@outlook.com, https://fetlife.com/users/2090432, http://www.order-of-avalon.com/profile/7-funsize/ Status: Owned and MarriedInterest: Gyno-kink, blood play, edge play, bondage, rigging, flagellation, masochism, sadism, suspension, nipple torture, needles, clamps, whips, canes, temperature play, sensory deprivation, rape play, spankings, medical fetish, blindfolds, blood fetishism, and more. Orientation: BisexualAge: 28Role: SwitchExperience: I’ve been part of the lifestyle in real life and online for just over a decade. I started with a trainer just after my 18th birthday, and spent just over a year just learning. I originally started my training as a submissive but quickly learned that I am a switch. Since then I’ve had subs and Dom’s and even participated in M/s relationships. I spend my time these days in an online only relationship, going to local munches, and helping to run the new online community Order of Avalon.Before we get into The Order of Avalon and the other topics, I'd like to hit you with ten licks if you'd consent. Ten Licks1. How long have been into Kink?2. Top, bottom, or switch? 3. Relationship Status? 4. Favorite Position? 5. Favorite Implement?6. Favorite Roleplay? 7. Favorite kink or fetish?8. Favorite place for kink? 9. Strangest Place you've had sex?10. Something you want to try? Interview Questions1. How old were you and how did you enter you the life style?2. Tell us a little more about the training.3. Lets get into The Order of Avalon. How did this thing start?4. What has this lifestyle done for you?5. How has it made you a different person in the vanilla word?Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungNEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext week my new co-host and I will be discussing the ins and out of Online BDSM Play and Relationships. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E14-Master Arcane InterviewMay 5th, 2017This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 14 for May 5th, 2017.Interview scheduled for April 23, 2017, @ 7:00pm EST.Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the chow this is a place to dispell myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your questions or visit The Krypt at kuldrinskrypt.com. Today on the Krypt Words can't express the level respect I have for today's guest or the excitement I have to be able be able to talk with him today. As a life long kinkster, a world renowned educator and demonstrater of BDSM, an author, and the founder and owner of The Crow Academy he has taught thousands the art of romantic submission and has been an inspiration to countless more including myself. ...Today on The Krypt...Master ArcaneArcane, welcome to the show. Here at the Krypt we like to do a rapid fire question/response get to know you called "10 licks". Would you conscent?How long have been into Kink? ——— Since I was 5 years old technically. Otherwise my entire adult life as I lost my virginity to my first submissive.Top, bottom, or switch?——— Always a Top / Dominant except for one experiment with my very first submissive partner.But I only call myself 99% Dominant as I am submissive to Acupuncturists, Chiropractors, and Deep Tissue Massage folk. ;-)Relationship Status?——— Living happily with my slave DaphneFavorite Position?——— Position 1 from The Crow Academy StyleFavorite Implement?——— Floggers & FurFavorite Roleplay?——— Too many to count. That is how I started at age 5. But I do have a thing for being a Pirate kidnapping his favorite Wench / Heiress, etc.Daphne and I come up with wild role-plays all the time. :)Favorite kink or fetish?——— Bondage - also how I started at age 5, tying up the neighborhood girls in our childhood games.Favorite place for kink?——— My own Dungeon / Play Room.Strangest Place you've had sex?——— Whew….. hard one to answer. Probably in public as a botanical garden with people walking right past us and smiling at us, while not knowing we were having sex.Something you want to try?——— Sex at 30’ below the surface of the ocean at neutral buoyancy. (Daphne just got scuba certified and I am a former instructor)This would only be surpassed by sex in true Zero Gravity. I think the scuba one will be easier. *In my introductory episodes I briefly mentioned you, your style of D/s, and The Crow Academy but can you give us details as to what exactly The Crow Academy is? How it started? What it's mission is? And is it a physical place that people can go to learn from you?(Discuss/follow up)* As a Master I am often asked by newbies and sometimes even veterans of the lifestyle two questions that I'm sure you have received over the years and I'm sure our listeners would love to hear how you respond: What makes me a master?What is the difference between a Dom and a Master?(Discuss/follow up)*Another question that I often get along those lines that I believe you answer in your book "Igniting The Fire: The Art of Romantic Submission" is: What is the difference between a submissive and a slave?How do you answer that?(Discuss/follow up)*Is there another book in the works?******** The number one priority is getting IGNITING THE FIRE out in it’s GORGEOUS Hardback, Coffee-Table Edition. This is going to happen any day now - just a few more adjustments at the printer. It will be stunning and is intended to be a collectors edition as well.I am already far into the outline of the Sequel (Book Two from The Crow Academy) which will cater mainly to Dominants. One of my goals is to help create and guide more Top Quality Dominants in the world. *As someone that is frequently interviewed, is there any question or questions that you don't get asked that you would like the opportunity to address?********* Please see attached text document (rtf) “Interview Questions” for some ideas - pick and choose what you feel your audience would like to know.The set of questions is aimed at Absolute Beginners. :)*What events and appearances do you have coming up?********* Doing a show on the 21st (will have just passed); Big launch of The Crow Academy Members Lounge online - videos, books, documents, forums, etc.Biggest EASY way to come learn from The Crow Academy is through the Monthly Live Webinars that will be available to all Members where I will be answering questions and teaching directly. A vast variety of topics. I’m actually very excited about that. :)*Where can people find you?******** All of the following:www.CrowAcademy.comwww.ArcaneAdvice.comFacebook.com/TheCrowAcademyInstagram: CrowAcademyTwitter: #CrowAcademyI also like to keep an open door for anyone to contact me via the Contact Form found on all websites, answer questions as best as I can, etc.Guiding people into what I consider the incredibly beautiful world of Fine D/s and Romantic BDSM is extremely fulfilling for me.I also announce workshops and seminars (and pretty much everything else) in The Crow Academy Newsletter which is free and when you sign up you get a free 20 Page Ebook “The Crow Academy Guide To Starting Safely With Domination & Submission.” :)http://crowacademy.com/sign-up/*Where can people find you?******** All of the following:www.CrowAcademy.comwww.ArcaneAdvice.comFacebook.com/TheCrowAcademyInstagram: CrowAcademyTwitter: #CrowAcademyI also like to keep an open door for anyone to contact me via the Contact Form found on all websites, answer questions as best as I can, etc.Guiding people into what I consider the incredibly beautiful world of Fine D/s and Romantic BDSM is extremely fulfilling for me.I also announce workshops and seminars (and pretty much everything else) in The Crow Academy Newsletter which is free and when you sign up you get a free 20 Page Ebook “The Crow Academy Guide To Starting Safely With Domination & Submission.” :)http://crowacademy.com/sign-up/Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungNEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext week I will be sharing an interview with you I did with Funsize. She is a switch with over over a decade of experience and a co-founder and administrator of the online community www.order-of-avalon.com. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E13-Humor in BDSMApril 24th, 2017IntroThis is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 13 for April 24th, 2017.(Dave Jackson www.schoolofpodcasting.com BDSM clip)Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going to discuss the importance of humor in BDSM.My original intent when thinking of this episode was to include clips from you, the listeners, based on your personal experiences. However, the very limited amount of response I received, which is to be expected, was of such low audio quality I couldn’t use it but I am grateful for the participation I received and as promised those stickers are in the mail. But don’t worry, I still have something for you that will actually provide you with more information than what I had originally planned. To the outside or vanilla world BDSM can seem rigid and cold, even cruel or abusive at times but along with love and respect that the vanilla don’t see or don’t understand and that I have talked about in every episode also comes humor. One of the biggest mistakes that new kinksters often make is losing site of the fact that this is a role play and should not only be fun but also filled with laughter and happiness. I have to admit here that I was one of those overly serious, stern, stoic types as I entered the lifestyle because I thought that no submissive would ever submit to someone with any other personality and other Dom’s wouldn’t respect me as a peer if I wasn’t almost perpetually pissed off. This couldn’t have been farther from the truth.Makita, the young woman that introduce me to BDSM through our shared vampire fetish, sat me down and pointed out that she had entered into our relationship because of the person I was and she would be leaving it if I continued to be the person I had become. To some this may make perfect sense and to others is might sound harsh or uncaring but to she and I it served as a valuable piece of information to a newbie. “I know all of this seems serious, and there are times when it is, but the rest of time it’s ok to be who we are and laugh a little but like we use too.”I started this episode out with a partial BDSM remake of “A Few of My Favorite Things” instead of my usual “ Welcome to my Dungeon”. This was done by Dave Jackson from schoolofpodcasting.com a podcast about podcasting. Now, I have met Dave, I am a member of The School of Podcasting, we have talked quite a bit, and in all honesty not only is he responsible for me being able to perform the technical side of this podcast but he is also directly responsible for me being alive today. However, when he recorded this spoof we didn’t really know each other at all. I called into his show to leave him a comment and when I left my name and podcast information it was his knee jerk reaction to do what he does which is combined his witty sense of humor with his years of teaching experience and long musical career to deliver those lines that would make people not only remember what was being said but make them connect by a base emotional experience. He always says to deliver content that will make people think, laugh, groan or cry and that is what he was doing. It’s also important to note that he showed an enormous amount of respect by emailing me to tell me what he had done and ask my opinion on publishing it as he didn’t want to offend me or the BDSM community. He didn’t have to do this but that’s the kind of good person he is. So what’s my point in all this? I could have gotten all pissy because an outsider, with little to no knowledge of what we are about made fun of me and the community I love, OR, I could see the truth of the situation...some things are just plane funny...and I don’t know about you but I’d much rather laugh often than walk around ticked off all the time.Now to bring this back to a scene, in multiple previous episodes I have said I am far from perfect and I will stress that again here. Also, I have made many mistakes before, during and after scenes and I have found in some cases one of the best ways to keep the energy of the scene when mistakes are made isn’t to overreact, get angry, be embarrassed, apologize a hundred times,... It’s to make sure that everyone involved is ok then share in a laugh about it. Granted sometimes this can be inappropriate or to soon, timing IS everything, but it can also help remind us that though we often play at the speed of sound sometimes we have to stop and realize that some of the things we do is, in fact, laughable. Which is why I’ve decided to add a new element to the show. A few times a week I am going to give “A not so daily dose of humor from the Krypt”. These will be short jokes published on their own. Some are funny...others not so much but it's a reminder that we are people and alongside the stern names we go by, the evil glares we strive to perfect, the intimidating stances some practice in the mirror, and explicit joy we receive from intimidating our submissives during a scene we are people and people need laughter.To close out this episode I have funny clips I have recorded asking a random people a single simple question-”What do you think of when you hear the term BDSM?”Vox pop interviewsRules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungNEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext week on Kuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast I will be conducting an interview that I have wanted to do for years. I will be talking to Master Arcane of The Crow Academy.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth