Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Recorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 9/4/2019https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiserCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to the rules to love by, raw blog for a few minutes, and then It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a conversation with Rhiannon Aarons where we get back to some basics. There are a few spots in this where mixer was acting up but don’t worry the 2 or 3 times it happens are very brief. [1:59] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[2:26] Rhiannan Aaronshttp://www.rhiannonaarons.com/https://twitter.com/rhiannonaaronsShow notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/230 Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Jeremiah, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and RaefeIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next Time on the Krypt:Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 8/22/2019NEPAK Donations Link: https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiserWelcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a really cool conversation with Sir Pent where we talk about consensual breast torture and several extremely well-stated pieces of advice. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[2:10] Sir PentHow long have you been in the kink scene?What are your favorite things?How did you get into breast torture?After you discovered this love, how did you get educated?[5:35] Safety and things to know about breast torture.[7:45} Breast implants and torture?[12:32] What does the lifestyle mean to you? FAMILY![17:14] Is there any one big piece of advice you give? What is the biggest warning you give?Contact Sir Pent: @SirPent89 on Fetlife, Insta, and TwitterShow notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/229 Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and RaefeIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 8/14/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for an interesting chat with Mistress Barbie on Personalities within the community and finding your role through https://BDSMTest.org Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:13] Mistress Barbie BiMistressBarbie on https://fetlife.com/users/1084991 Where does Barbie come from? Your first scene?https://BDSMTest.orgProfessional vanilla life merging with Kinky life?You consider yourself a hybrid of the scene. What does this mean?How often do you recommend people retake the test?Are you currently involved in long term relationship?A female-led relationship?How long have you been in kink?The things we did to our toys when we were kids.Learning to use your words?What are you doing that you are unconscious able?Master Kuldrin’s soapbox on taking responsibility.What are your tricks of the trade? “Crapportunity??? (The website has been moved.)http://whatworksconsultants.com/Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/228  Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and RaefeIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next time on The Krypt: Sir Pent on Breast Torture. Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Original article found at https://theswaddle.com/bdsm-women-positive-effects-confidenceRecorded: 8/7/2019 / Published: 8/7/2019PatreonCan call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, I am going to share an article that Patreon Executive Producer BabyLove2269 she found on theswaddle.com and written by Pallavi Prasad titled BDSM Culture Can Make Women More Assertive In Work, Relationships. After I read it, I’m going to give you my first impression of what was said. Yep, this is going to be totally different than anything I’ve done before in that its pretty much a raw and unedited episode. Stick around afterward for a special announcement. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“BDSM Culture Can Make Women More Assertive In Work, Relationships” By Pallavi Prasad found at https://theswaddle.com/bdsm-women-positive-effects-confidence Published June 28, 2019“I don’t know how to explain it … but I have more clarity the morning after. It’s come to a point where my partner and I ensure we engage in a play scene before any big meetings I have. It really gives me the boost I need.”R.P. is a 32-year-old consultant living in Mumbai. When she joined a high-powered consulting firm seven years ago, she found herself struggling to keep up with the pace and make herself heard.“Around the same time, I got into a relationship with a man who was into BDSM [bondage and discipline; dominance and submission; sadism and masochism] and kink play. He introduced me to it and I instantly took a liking to it,” R.P. says. “Surprisingly, I found myself gravitating towards the role of the Dominant. Within the confines of a loving and safe space with a partner I trusted, I was able to assert myself in ways I couldn’t outside my bedroom. Slowly, I began to notice that especially on days after we had engaged in a play scene, I would feel more focussed, composed and clear-headed. It was almost as if the satisfied feeling I felt in bed, in that position of power, flowed over the next day. I feel like I know more about myself — my mind and my body.”According to recent research by Dr. Brad Sagarin, a professor of psychology at Northern Illinois University, kinks such as BDSM alter the blood flow pattern in the brain, creating altered states of consciousness. For those who assume the dominant position in BDSM, these mental states are called “flow” — the term popularized by positive psychologist Mihály Csíkszentmihályi. Flow is defined as an “optimal state of consciousness where we feel our best and perform our best.” It’s a state of hyperawareness, laser focus, and euphoria, which resonates with R.P.’s experience. “I just feel more brave, if that makes sense,” she says. Sagarin’s research confirms just that. The study found that people who regularly experience flow as an effect of dominant BDSM roles report improved concentration, clarity about goals, decision-making skills, and listening and intuitive skills. They also demonstrate lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol, less self-consciousness and less aversion to risk.The study also found those taking on submissive roles in BDSM play experience “transient hypofrontality,” a peaceful, dreamlike state, often compared to a runner’s high or described as being “in the zone.” Creativity and productivity peak in this state of decreased self-awareness.R.P. explains how her female friends from the BDSM community have discussed this before: “Sometimes when we share — and we’re all doms — our experiences with each other, we all agree that we are in a great mood throughout the next day and feel more energized and creative. It’s like a strange high, knowing what we did the previous night.”People who experience either of these altered mental states report higher levels of happiness, creativity, and productivity for up to three days after, according to research by Harvard University professor Teresa Amabile. They also report transferring the focus, confidence, concentration, and decision-making skills of BDSM into everyday life. It is no wonder, then, that people who engage in BDSM are less neurotic, more extraverted, more open to new experiences, more conscientious, less sensitive to rejection, and have higher subjective well-being outside the bedroom, according to a 2016 study on the psychological characteristics of BDSM practitioners.Additionally, partners who engage in sadomasochism are more connected and more intimate than those who do not engage in it, according to a 2009 study published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior. The honest expression of one’s fantasies and desires, and consensually, respectfully and safely executing that as a BDSM scene, requires a high level of communication and trust between partners — a feature regularly absent from non-kinky or “vanilla” sex, as the BDSM community calls it.“My boyfriend and I have definitely become much closer since we started exploring this space together. We don’t lie to each other in our relationship — white lies not included, and even those we mostly confess — because the trust between us is the same, inside and outside the bedroom,” says R.P. “There’s very little drama and if we ever fight, we usually resolve it by talking to each other. But it almost never reaches that point because every day, in a way, we tell each other about what it is that we want from the other person and what we don’t. It’s like learning how to negotiate with another person.”Women have traditionally been discouraged from developing such open and clear communication skills. In 2018, former dominatrix, Kasia Urbaniak started The Academy, a school to teach women the “foundations of power and influence” via month-long female empowerment sessions in New York. Speaking to The Guardian, she says: “It’s about the communications that women carry that either make them go speechless, or afraid of coming across as too bossy or too needy.” Urbaniak explains that by being in the dominant role of BDSM, women learn to project their strength and attention outward. It’s a skill they can then use to flip the power dynamic in the outside world, where women are forced to turn their attention inward, with self-doubt and over-analysis.A barrage of recent research hints at the effects of empowerment via BDSM: people with sexual kinks or fetishes, such as BDSM, group sex, or role-play, have better mental health, less psychological stress, higher self-worth, and more satisfying relationships.Not everyone is convinced of BDSM’s benefits, however. The feminist sex wars over BDSM’s potential for women’s empowerment rage on, with one side seeing BDSM as a way to explore and enable female sexuality, and the other side seeing it as yet another manifestation of the hyper-masculine, patriarchal order’s violent idea of sex. But, as black lesbian poet and feminist writer Audrey Lorde puts it in a personal essay, embracing the erotic fosters a deep and irreplaceable “self-connection and fearless underlining of [one’s] capacity for joy.” Released of social context, when examined in individual’s lives and homes, BDSM seems to allow, well, release. And that kind of release writes Lorde, “flows through and colors my life with a kind of energy that heightens and sensitizes and strengthens all my experience.”Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/227  Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and RaefeIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. https://tporridtimber.comNext Time on the Krypt:??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 7/31/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for a conversation with the founder of The International Mr. and Ms.Olympus Leather contest, Dave Rhodes. In this conversation, we cover a lot of ground from living through the beginning of the AIDS epidemic to founding a publication and an international leather contest. [1:03]Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:30] Dave Rhodes https://www.theleatherjournal.com/ [1:30] How old are you? How long have you been in the lifestyle? Openly gay? [2:40] When did you get into leather?[4:20] Drummer Magazine in 1976.[6:52] The “Old Guard” and the transformation of the scene from 1976 to the 1990s.[7:57] 1978 the real start of the HIV / AIDS epidemic and the personal impact. [9:00] How did the disease affect the scene and what is the last effect?[10:38] The lesbian community steps in to help the male guy leather community.Losing three people a month from AIDS![12:50] What have you done with the Leather Competitions? Founded The International Mr. and Ms. Olympus Leather Contest in 1996.[19:02] What is it “To be Leather”?[22:27] What is the best advice you can give to the new and the old?[27:15] Id the glass half full or half-empty? Yes.Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/226  Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, and knot_the_daddyIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next Time on the Krypt:???Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/10/2019 / Published: 7/23/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for a conversation with Micael G. about being a male submissive and importance of dominant women. [0:52]Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:19] Micael G.: [1:32] Why are FemDoms so important to you?[2:45] Do you work to empower women professionally, as a passion, or both? You are an author? [4:35] Are you a submissive male? Service submissive? Do you serve all genders?[6:48] How old are you and how long have you been involved with kink?[7:27] Starting in kink so long ago with a more judgemental culture, did you suffer any judgment for being a male submissive that participates in sissification?[8:57] If you could go back in time, what is one warning and one piece of advice you would give yourself?[10:22] “Be true to yourself...this isn’t a phase”[10:33] Giving advice to an 18 or 19-year-old newbie in Vegas.[11:19] Gender equality in the workplace: how it has changed and how much it still needs to change.[15:12] The bonobo study https://www.sciencedaily.com/terms/bonobo.htm Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/225  Thank you: Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, Morgan, and knot_the_daddyIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource      Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 7/15/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for an interview with world-famous Professional Domme Hudsy Hawn. She has been on Buzzfeed's “The Try Guys: Try "Fifty Shades" Style BDSM”, E! TV special ”The Real 50 Shades of Grey”, and several other shows including A&E’s “Storage Wars” So, let’s hit those Rules to Love By and jump into the interview. Then stay tuned for my thoughts after the conversation.[1:10]Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:37] Hudsy Hawn: https://www.fromvanillatokink.com/ For links to her videos: https://www.fromvanillatokink.com/media[2:14] Wrong was the dangerous way you accidentally got into the kink scene?[3:15] Hudsy the artist and the advocate? Developing life balance and outing yourself.[5:41] Depression and suicide within the BDSM world is 40 percent![6:37] More about self-outing and how the family handled it.[8:11] “Everyone is kinky if you dig deep enough.”[8:50] WHAT?!?!?! You are a submissive in your personal life?!?!?![11:05] A good Top/Dom tries things out on themselves before they try it on others.[12:17] Kuldrin wants to do a 30-day challenge as a submissive and wants Hudsy to be his Domme.[15:37] Other than your initial entry into this world, what other pieces of advice do you give newbies?[16:55] “The kinky trinity: reading books, going to events, and going to classes.”[17:44] When was your last frenzy? New relationship energy with one’s self?[20:40] http://v2kcoaching.com Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/224  Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

THERE IS A PIC OF DAVE NAVARRO'S SUSPENSION IN THE FULL SHOW NOTES AT HTTPS://KULDRINSKRYPT.COM/223Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 7/08/2019PatreonYou can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for an interview with Meister Schmerz on hook suspension. Now, this might not be your bucket list but the stories from Meister Schmerz are still worth your time...especially if you are a fan of Jane’s Addiction or Dave Navarro. [1:02]Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:29] Meister Schmerz[1:40] The history name?.[2:41] What is hook suspension? [4:00] How did you get into hook suspension?Book author mentioned: Stelark This is NOT the documentary mentioned in the show but this is a good example of flesh hook suspension. https://vimeo.com/83312499[6:36] How many times have you been suspended?[9:11] What is the Torture Garden? https://torturegarden.com/events/ [10:41] What other types of body modifications are you into?[14:07] Did you vipergate you own tongue?[15:00] Is there anything that bothers you to watch? Yes, safety violations.[18:05] Can anesthesia be used?[19:28] Working with the band Jane’s Addiction and Dave Navarro?[20:25] Dave Navarro and Billy Morrison (Billy Idol): Above Ground raising funds for mental health awareness. https://youtu.be/zsYOVqPTjqM [22:41] Meister Shmerz team Embrace Chaos https://embracechaos.com/[24:10] What is one piece of advice that you would go back and give yourself at the beginning of your journey?Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/223  [25:58] Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next time on The Krypt: Hudsy HawnContact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 1/31/2019 / Published: 7/01/2019PatreonWelcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I have a brief listener comment to share, we will hit the Rules to Love By, and then I have something a little different for you. It the sound bite I recorded for The Hall of Kink that covers several different topics from what are Doms and subs to flogging and rope.“Jackwagon6969” in an email basically said “you talk so slow I just can’t listen. For someone obviously smart, you sound so stupid.” Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungEducational Clips from The Hall of Kink at DomCon LA, 2019[2:31] The history of BDSM as a term.[4:15] Clinical Diagnosis of Kink Special thanks to Lady Katheryne for lending her voice and research.[10:04] What is a Dominant?[11:38] What is a submissive?[15:09] How are submissives and slaves different?[18:36] Why do we flog?[20:52] Styles of flogging.[23:31] The different types of ropes and a little on the types of rigging.Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/222  [29:19] Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next time on The Krypt: ??? Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource   Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/25/2019 / Published: 6/24/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode:1: The Rules to Love By2: Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual FreedomRules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:30] Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual Freedomhttps://NCSFreedom.org[1:30] What is the NCSF?[3:10] What has the NCSF done to help get BDSM removed from the DSM as a diagnosable mental illness. How has this impacted the community?[6:25] What steps have been taken to make these changes come about?Child custody issues?[11:19] Hurt Vs. Harm and nationalizing the definition for consent and decriminalizing BDSM.[14:47] Wrongful arrest and conviction of a knife player.[15:30] How do we make political changes to make necessary law changes.[17:49] Confronting consent violations against men.[20:01] FOSTA/SESTA: What is it, what has been the effects of it, and what is being done to fight it?[28:51] NCSF Direct Services needs increased due to the current political climate.[35:10] Getting the government out of our lives and how to become a lobbyist.[39:20] Kink Aware Professionals (K.A.P.) https://www.ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/kink-aware-professionals-59776[42:35] What is your personal experience with kink and nonmonogamy?Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/221  [47:00] Thank you Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan.If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey