Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Recorded: 4/5/2020 / Published: 4/23/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I am going to finally dive into Quid Pro Quo BDSM and exactly what that means. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDefinition of Quid Pro Quo: a favor or advantage granted or expected in return for something.(https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+definition&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.1.0l6j69i61l2.10242j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)-Put simply “This for that.”-How does this work?-Negotiated Quid Pro Quo-BDSM-Vanilla:-“Keepin’ Love Alive: No More Quid Pro Quo” From The Star Harald by Mental Health Therapist Mark Anderson. https://www.starherald.com/keepin-love-alive-no-more-quid-pro-quo/article_3e7f7aa1-e3fb-58ab-8642-00cacb66a24f.html-Non-Negotiated Quid Pro Quo In United States labor law, workplace sexual harassment can take two forms; either "Quid pro quo" harassment or hostile work environment harassment. "Quid pro quo" harassment takes place when a supervisor requires sex, sexual favors, or sexual contact from an employee/job candidate as a condition of their employment. (https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+harassment&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.3.69i59j69i57j0l4j69i61l2.15594j1j9&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)[00:01:25] Rules to Love By[00:02:35] Patreon Producers[00:04:16] Discord Group[00:05:31] Master Gabriel and slave Star joins the chat[00:06:07] Keeping Love Alive by Mark Anderson in The Star Harrold[00:07:37] Real Service by Ravan Kaldera[00:09:28] 50/50 Split in Relationships[00:14:15] Non Negotiated Quid Pro Quo[00:18:07] 100/100 Relationship comment by Mytor[00:19:05] 50/50 Vs. 100/100 Relationships[00:23:11] Relationships are not to be driven by AtlantaChaos[00:23:59] Is it possible to give 100%, 100% of the time by LilyChaos[00:26:13] Spoon Theory[00:29:39] Chronic Illness in Relationships[00:30:24] Examples of successful relationships based on quid pro quo[00:58:26] Final thought before Q&A.[01:03:59] Listener Q&A[01:17:37] Silent Communication[01:18:19] A final question answered.https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/240Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily ChaosMaster Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngelSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4lifeProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, and JourneyJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmillerIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesContact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 3/28/2020 / Published: 4/07/2020If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I have a special guest, Odalvwaya (a.k.a. Odi) assist me with answering your questions live on YouTube! [00:00:56] Rules to Love By[00:01:21] Opening the live show.[00:03:05] Daily episodes[00:05:04] Getting to know the special guest, Odalvwaya[00:05:29] Growing from a submissive to a Dominant[00:05:59] When a Dominant bottoms[00:07:40] Learning a new implement part 1[00:10:41] Learning a new implement part 2[00:12:29] How long have you been in the scene?[00:14:06] Best advice: Go slow![00:15:47] Biggest warning: Watch out for frenzy![00:16:56] Anyone thing to change?[00:18:45] How to handle play during the COVID-19 pandemic?[00:24:14] When the play slows down does the D/s power exchange increase?[00:26:03] Dealing with brats and being a bratty Dominant[00:29:12] How are single people handling playing during COVID-19[00:33:55] What makes Odi a bratty Dominant[00:39:34] Bluetooth toys for long-distance relationships.[00:42:12] Learning resources for kinksters[00:44:26] Getting kicked out of a group for being a brat.[00:49:24] What is the worst thing in the world for a brat?[00:50:17] Bluetooth Toys in Public[00:50:54] Dealing with a brat long distance[00:54:31] Virtual munches and seminars[00:55:38] Gummy bears, slingshots, marshmallow shooters, and flogging with Twizzlers.[00:58:35] How to handle a male Dom approaching a female Domme for submission.[01:05:16] Advice for people playing at parties in front of others for the first time[01:12:51] Meeting people online and are online relationships healthy?[01:15:35] Get Kuldrin's Krypt Merchandise[01:18:19] What is the best way to approach someone about a scene?[01:20:24] Handling people that claims experience but don't participate in local eventshttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/239Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): LilyChaos and Freedom HillsMaster Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox and Sweet CharlotteSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, and SortOutTheKinksProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Daddy Steve, Duckie Monroe, and JourneyJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller Become one of our show producers: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PatreonVendors I know, like, trust, and use (None are paid sponsors of the podcast):http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesContact info:Email: masterkuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded and Published: 3/7/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt I have an announcement concerning where I have been, what happened to my Fetlife.com account, and when the show will return. Also, some very special thank you’s to some amazing individuals. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungThe Show is NOT ending!!!https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/238Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): Freedom HillsExecutive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFoxSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, and Sir PentProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, LilyChaos, Daddy Steve, Duckie MonroeJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmillerIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt: ???Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/12/2019 and 1/27/2020 / Published: 1/27/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt I have a lost interview from DomCom, LA 2019 with China Doll on fetish fashion and a rant about calling red-emotional vs physical reasons. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. [0:58] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:25] ChinaDoll[14:23] Manscaped: The Lawn Mower 2.0 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/manscaped Coupon Code KULDRIN20[17:05] Rant on Calling Red: Physical Vs. Emotionalhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/237https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx and Freedom HillsSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, Theod123, and Sir PentProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, Daddy Steve, and Duckie MonroeJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt:??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 10/12/2019 / Published: 1/15/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt we are talking to a couple of amazing vendors I met at DomCon New Orleans, I’m going to give you my thoughts on the Manscaped Lawn Mower 2.0, and after the closing stick around for another one of my rants. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. [0:58] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:25] Jessica, Owner of Love Lorn Lingerie https://www.lovelornlingerie.com/ [6:17] Manscaped: The Lawn Mower 2.0 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/manscaped Coupon Code KULDRIN20[10:54] Reggie, Owner of Valkyrie Designs, LLC https://valkyriedesignllc.com/ https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/236https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx and Freedom HillsSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, Theod123, and Sir PentProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, KJ, Daddy Steve, and Duckie MonroeJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt:??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 12/24/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt we’ll hit those rules to love by and talk to Trevor about hypnosis and the importance of communication.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:18] Trevor (TigerBoy4947 on Fetlife.com)[2:00] The thought behind clothing and appearance. [4:10] The writer within.[4:43] Let’s talk kink! How long? [5:34] The two ways people typically join the BDSM community.[6:25] What is your primary kink? Hypnosis?!?! Cool![7:17] How does consent work with hypnosis? Prenegotiation? Edge Play?[8:40] Planning a scene.[9:59] How did you learn to be a hypnotist?[10:27] "Is Hypnosis Fake?" Hypnotist stuns TEDX crowd https://youtu.be/1RA2Zy_IZfQ[10:47] What other areas of BDSM are you into? What do you get out of it? Communication![11:08] What makes it fulfilling is open communication.https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/235https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, Theod123, and Sir PentProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, Pandora, KJ, and Daddy SteveJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt:??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 11/3/2019 / Published: 11/28/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt is from a YouTube Live session I did for those that came together to purchase myself a whip from @_Maker_ (on Fetlife.com)Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:34] A special thank you to those who donated to purchase my whip.[2:37] The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience [3:50] Getting into details about the whip.[6:36] Whip questions:How can you use a whip in a more soft sensual way? How to use it in a more intense way? How can you use it for mind fucks?What's the learning curve for you, on mastering this whip?What is your favorite way to use it? [14:10] Cracking the whip.https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/TeePublic[17:15] Favorite feature on this specific whip, or why is it special from this maker?I would like to hear the sounds of the whip... Other questions:“I’m not putting this question on fet because it’s weird. I've been curious since DomCon if playing does the same release for the top as bottom sometimes and how that works. Because it’s two completely different things. Like, I know for me it felt like walls I’ve put up were literally knocked over. Their back now, but for a few days my walls were knocked down and I got to relax. It’s hard to explain but I think you know what I’m asking.”What is the strangest thing you've had happen at a munch?[27:10] BDSM Wax Play, Fire Play, and Fire Cupping 101[32:11] Fear Play[38:35] Fire Cupping versus Suction Cuppinghttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/234Thank you: Show Producers:Master Producer($50/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaureliaSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babyloveandSir, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Haley, Pandora, and Daddy SteveJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, and Jeremiah If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt:??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 10/20/2019 / Published: 10/27/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then it’s a conversation that I’ve been waiting three years to have with Attorney Lady Steele on BDSM and the Law.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:11] Attorney Lady Steele https://kuldrinskrypt.com/AttorneyLadySteele[1:27] America’s only out and proud kink practicing attorney[3:22] What all BDSM classes do you teach?[7:28] The current state of BDSM and the law and Lady Steele’s Disclaimer.[18:12] How will the changes in the medical community affect the legal aspect of kink?[30:00] Why are BDSM contract bad? Because legally they are considered evidence of abuse.[32:00] False accusations of abuse?[37:14] SESTA/FOSTA and how it applies to the everyday kinkster?[47:38] Kuldrin’s soapbox on the “Save the Children” argument using vaping as an example.[48:40] The “Sold in America” Podcast. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/soldinamericapodcast[49:31] General legal do’s and don’t for our kinks? What to do if the police show up at your home, a house party,  hotel, or a dungeon party you are attending?[1:16:33] Florida man arrested for performing a castration in his home. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/floridacastration[1:22:54] Attorney Lady Steele’s final tidbits on the topic?https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/233  Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Show Producers:Master Producer($50/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, and Electric_FlowSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove2269, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, and HaleyJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy.If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext Time on the Krypt:??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 9/21/2019 / Published: 10/3/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then Master Gabriel is joining us for a talk about the dark side of Dominance.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungMaster Gabriel: [:] Imposter Syndrome[:] Having" to always be "On”[:] Blustery behavior[:] Herd mentality - Like showing off of how big of a dommy pants you are while in a dungeon or changes in behavior based on where you are and who you're with[:] Halo effect - How your behavior as a dominant makes people think certain things of your charges, both good and bad, or how your charge's behavior makes you look[:] Being mad at your sub for your own behaviors https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/232  Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, and HaleyJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Jeremiah, Morgan, and knot_the_daddy.If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com - A place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessoriesNext time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 9/15/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to the rules to love by, then It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a conversation with Pinky and Angel who are mother and daughter kinksters.  [1:53] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[2:20] Mother Pinky and Daughter Angel InterviewMother Pinky, Age 44: Age 40 (2015) started reading “Fifty Shades of Grey” and other “Adult” novels.Jumped into research and finding out the truth of BDSM. Started hosting a munch within two months of joining Fetlife.Polyamourous and Pinky’s interesting and complicated (to the outside world) dynamics.[6:43] 2016 Inland Empire Leather Ambassador Title Holder.[11:00] Misinformation in the lifestyle[16:34] Daughter Angel, Age 19Turning 18 and going to a Dungeon for her birthday[21:00] A sub, a little, a kitten, a fox, and a mild masochistAdvice, warning, and general growth.[39:15] Master Kuldrin goes on another rant.https://submissiveguide.com/https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/231  Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx. Executive Producers ($25/month): ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, Roxiebear, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, and Theod123Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Jeremiah, Hayley, Morgan, knot_the_daddy, and RaefeIf you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.com a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey