Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast Quid Pro Quo BDSM and Live Q&A-S02E40
Apr 23, 2020
01:21:51
Recorded: 4/5/2020 / Published: 4/23/2020
Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
In this episode of The Krypt I am going to finally dive into Quid Pro Quo BDSM and exactly what that means.
Rules to Love by:
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
Definition of Quid Pro Quo: a favor or advantage granted or expected in return for something.
(https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+definition&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.1.0l6j69i61l2.10242j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)
-Put simply “This for that.”
-How does this work?
-Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
-BDSM
-Vanilla:
-“Keepin’ Love Alive: No More Quid Pro Quo” From The Star Harald by Mental Health Therapist Mark Anderson. https://www.starherald.com/keepin-love-alive-no-more-quid-pro-quo/article_3e7f7aa1-e3fb-58ab-8642-00cacb66a24f.html
-Non-Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
In United States labor law, workplace sexual harassment can take two forms; either "Quid pro quo" harassment or hostile work environment harassment. "Quid pro quo" harassment takes place when a supervisor requires sex, sexual favors, or sexual contact from an employee/job candidate as a condition of their employment.
(https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+harassment&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.3.69i59j69i57j0l4j69i61l2.15594j1j9&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)
[00:01:25] Rules to Love By
[00:02:35] Patreon Producers
[00:04:16] Discord Group
[00:05:31] Master Gabriel and slave Star joins the chat
[00:06:07] Keeping Love Alive by Mark Anderson in The Star Harrold
[00:07:37] Real Service by Ravan Kaldera
[00:09:28] 50/50 Split in Relationships
[00:14:15] Non Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
[00:18:07] 100/100 Relationship comment by Mytor
[00:19:05] 50/50 Vs. 100/100 Relationships
[00:23:11] Relationships are not to be driven by AtlantaChaos
[00:23:59] Is it possible to give 100%, 100% of the time by LilyChaos
[00:26:13] Spoon Theory
[00:29:39] Chronic Illness in Relationships
[00:30:24] Examples of successful relationships based on quid pro quo
[00:58:26] Final thought before Q&A.
[01:03:59] Listener Q&A
[01:17:37] Silent Communication
[01:18:19] A final question answered.
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/240
Thank you:
Show Producers:
Benefactor ($2,000/month):
Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
Master Producer ($50/month):
Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, and Journey
Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
Contact info:
Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
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Paypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrin
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
In this episode of The Krypt I am going to finally dive into Quid Pro Quo BDSM and exactly what that means.
Rules to Love by:
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
Definition of Quid Pro Quo: a favor or advantage granted or expected in return for something.
(https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+definition&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.1.0l6j69i61l2.10242j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)
-Put simply “This for that.”
-How does this work?
-Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
-BDSM
-Vanilla:
-“Keepin’ Love Alive: No More Quid Pro Quo” From The Star Harald by Mental Health Therapist Mark Anderson. https://www.starherald.com/keepin-love-alive-no-more-quid-pro-quo/article_3e7f7aa1-e3fb-58ab-8642-00cacb66a24f.html
-Non-Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
In United States labor law, workplace sexual harassment can take two forms; either "Quid pro quo" harassment or hostile work environment harassment. "Quid pro quo" harassment takes place when a supervisor requires sex, sexual favors, or sexual contact from an employee/job candidate as a condition of their employment.
(https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+harassment&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.3.69i59j69i57j0l4j69i61l2.15594j1j9&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)
[00:01:25] Rules to Love By
[00:02:35] Patreon Producers
[00:04:16] Discord Group
[00:05:31] Master Gabriel and slave Star joins the chat
[00:06:07] Keeping Love Alive by Mark Anderson in The Star Harrold
[00:07:37] Real Service by Ravan Kaldera
[00:09:28] 50/50 Split in Relationships
[00:14:15] Non Negotiated Quid Pro Quo
[00:18:07] 100/100 Relationship comment by Mytor
[00:19:05] 50/50 Vs. 100/100 Relationships
[00:23:11] Relationships are not to be driven by AtlantaChaos
[00:23:59] Is it possible to give 100%, 100% of the time by LilyChaos
[00:26:13] Spoon Theory
[00:29:39] Chronic Illness in Relationships
[00:30:24] Examples of successful relationships based on quid pro quo
[00:58:26] Final thought before Q&A.
[01:03:59] Listener Q&A
[01:17:37] Silent Communication
[01:18:19] A final question answered.
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/240
Thank you:
Show Producers:
Benefactor ($2,000/month):
Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily Chaos
Master Producer ($50/month):
Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngel
Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, SirMutualRespect, Master Gabriel, babylove & Sir, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Daddy Steve, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, and Grog4life
Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Seine (Zine), Alexandria, Hayley, KJ, Duckie Monroe, and Journey
Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Morgana13, knot_the_daddy, Jeremiah, and macNmiller
If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.
http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
Contact info:
Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
Paypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrin
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey