Curiouser and curiouser
Leonie Dams
The podcast for cultivating whimsy, comfort and meaning in a world of doomscrolling. In Curiouser and Curiouser, host Leonie Dams (The Book Leo) talks about every curious thing she's currently overthinking - leading you down a little rabbit hole of internet culture, feminism, philosophy, and whimsical living. If this podcast was a cup of tea, it would contain notes of sharp cultural analysis and a big splash of magic and imagination.
Episodes
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Jan 28, 2026 • 42min
confidence tips aren't actually helping you
They unpack how confidence culture turns systemic problems into personal failings. They contrast male pickup-style messaging with the pressure on women to perform a loud, extroverted confidence. They critique quick-fix tips and parenting or dating advice that treats confidence as an attractiveness skill. They explore alternatives like introspection, solidarity, and community support.
Jan 21, 2026 • 41min
'you don't owe anyone anything' & the friendship crisis
A look at the friendship crisis and how boundary advice mutated into isolation. Discussion of when cutting people off is growth versus convenience. Critique of wellness slogans and therapy-speak used to justify selfishness. Concerns about algorithmic self-care and AI chatbots replacing messy human connection. Suggestions for low-effort rituals and using friends to protect your peace.
