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Aug 23, 2022 • 59min

014 Todd Doxzon Breaks Down His Journey From the NFL to Church Planting, His Lifelong Struggle with Identity, and How Kurt Warner Mentored Him in His Faith!

Todd Doxzon was an NFL player living from himself until a mentoring relationship with Kurt Warner, a number of trades, and a series of injuries took him out of the game forever. He refocused his life on following Christ after reading the entire Bible in a year. Doxzon planted Love Church in Omaha, NE, and is committed to sharing God’s best with others. To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com. The gap between how quickly you change and how quickly things change is called irrelevance. The Art of Leading Change course, taught by leadership expect Carey Nieuwhof, is a step-by-step guide to navigating the right changes and implementing them successfully. In the program, you get the entire playbook for leading change—from start to finish—including what changes are worth the risk, when to make changes, how quickly to make them, and how to communicate change. Plus, learn how to do this while minimizing the opposition and pushback. Until August 31st, you can sign up for The Art of Leading Change at it’s introductory price by visiting theartofleadingchange.com. Resources mentioned in the episode: 180MinistriesLove ChurchKey insights from the episode: You can be a competitor and still love Jesus. I never knew! I always thought those were two mutually exclusive ideas. - Todd DoxzonI found when I would excel athletically and would get attention, affirmation, and acceptance, my identity began to be based on performance. On one hand, it's good because it creates a crazy drive to succeed; on the other hand, what happens when that goes away? - Todd Doxzon There’s a lot of people out there who are saying, “I’m gonna show you, Dad,” “I’m gonna show you, girlfriend,” so it’s power, but tragically, if it’s not converted into an identity of “I know who I am and I want to maximize what God’s given me,” then there are problems. It’s a mind shift. - Todd Doxon If I'm fully convinced that I have all I need in Christ, then I'm not as needy for other people's approval or to desire to be in the “in crowd” anymore. We built bridges and reached these athletes through relationships and serving. - Todd DoxzonThere were little ways where you would just serve. We lead with service and unconditional love, not judgment, and it built bridges. - Todd DoxzonWhen I’d go to a new team, one of the first things I would do is open up my Bible. Not in a weird way, but I wanted early on for them to know who I was. - Todd DoxzonThe blanket question I am asking all the time is, “Lord, what are you inviting me into in this season?” - Todd DoxzonBring it real. Don’t be a phony, bring it real. - Todd DoxzonWords that the church and disciples are not known for as much are the things the world needs: fulfillment, joy, and happiness. - Zach ZehnderWe need to redefine and help people to see that, yes, God wants something great for you! God’s happy! Heaven is a party! What about any of this says God doesn’t care about happiness? - Zach ZehnderTodd Doxzon’s Challenge: RESET: Rest, Evaluate, Saturate, Elevate, and Transition. Find some time to RESET this week. Todd talked a lot about your identity being shaped by God, and not the other way around. Did you know that we find our identity in our relationship with God. But how do you grow in your relationship with God? There was only one person who has ever existed in a perfect relationship with God, and His name was Jesus. Being Challenge introduces you to the habits that Jesus practiced, which are habits we are called to practice. The more we “Be” like Jesus, the more we will see our true identity. What are you waiting for? If you want to go deeper into leading yourself (and your church) to building the habits of Jesus, we’d love to introduce you to the 40-Day Being Challenge.Many Christians today aren’t great at maintaining the habits of Jesus. Even the most “mature” Christians struggle with opening up in community, prioritizing prayer, and seeking regular solitude. But that doesn’t have to be your story. The Being Challenge guides you through 40 days of practical, simple-to-understand challenges to help you learn, develop, and grow in the five keystone habits of Jesus.You can learn more about the challenge here!Some not-so-key insights: Todd Doxzon is the nicest Iowa State graduate Chris has ever met. Alliteration and acronyms are Zach’s love languages outside of food. Todd Doxzon’s best years were his first three years since he moved to Omaha, NE when he was four years old. Watch the entire season for free: We’ll be uploading every episode of season one of The Red Letter Disciple on our Youtube Channel. If you aren’t subscribed already, you can do so here!A Hurrdat Media Production. Hurrdat Media is a digital media and commercial video production company based in Omaha, NE. Find more podcasts on the Hurrdat Media Network and learn more about our other services today on HurrdatMedia.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Aug 16, 2022 • 55min

013: FLAME on His Journey to Becoming a Lutheran Hip-Hop Artist, Why the Church Has Not Embraced Rap Music, and Why Understanding Baptism Changes Everything

FLAME is a pioneer in the world of Hip-Hop and Rap music. He shares the journey that took him from a kid growing up in the inner-city who combined his interest in rap along with a terrible tragedy to being a Grammy-nominated performer and artist. To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com. Season 2 of The Red Letter Disciple Podcast could not have been possible without Carey Nieuwhof and The Art of Leadership Academy. On August 22-23, the Art of Leadership Academy is hosting a FREE 2-day, value-packed “Church Disruption Summit.” Change is inevitable. Irrelevance isn’t.That’s why Carey Nieuwhof is hosting the Church Disruption Summit, a free value-packed event where he’ll dissect the “7 Disruptive Church Trends That Will Define the Church of 2032.” Sign up today at www.churchdisruptionsummit.com.Resources mentioned in the episode: Concordia SeminaryThe Cross Movement (CM)Extra Nos AcademyTwitter: @flame314TikTok: @flameextranos Key insights from the episode: “Educa-tainment” - Flame’s grandmother is credited with suggesting he rap to remember facts for tests and he fell in love with rap and hip-hop.While hip-hop did start off with just the party vibe and telling the story of the inner city, it quickly turned to the gang culture, drug culture, and a celebration of criminal activity. The church was caught off-guard by the collection of young people that were excited about rap and combining it with the gospel. - FlameWe are in a season of trying to educate the elder giants of the faith that we, the young people they are passing the baton to; it may look different from the way we are trying to communicate this ancient truth from the scripture, but we do have the heart of God, we have the Holy Spirit leading us. - FlameHip-Hop and rap will be the fastest-growing worship song genre. We need to create content that will engage the youth. - Zach ZehnderGod is the creator of music, sound, and blending and pairing; if we can see hip-hop music as a thing that is innocent in and of itself, that has been usurped by the mainstream society or the devil, then we can ask, What if Christians can get a hold of it, yield it to the Lordship of Jesus Christ, then we can couple it with the gospel? - FlameWe’ve seen this musical journey before in terms of traditional gospel music coming from the blues; even some hymns have their origin in some mainstream things that were going on. - FlameWhen you see the goodness of God’s creation being expressed out loud and being submitted to the Lordship of Christ, it’s the best of both worlds. - FlameThe way some people have sanctification arranged in the room, you’ll always stub your toe on it. - FlameIn the generic American church, baptism is seen as work; it is seen as something that we do when we are ready to prove to God that we are serious about Jesus, or we are ready to hit reset. But it’s upside down. Baptism is a gift from God to us. - Flame You’re always going to see your own inconsistencies, your own hypocrisy, your own disintegration, so I feel like what Lutheranism did was bring me out of myself to focus on Christ and his finished work. Now with my sanctification, I can do good in the world as opposed to being so absorbed with ‘Am I good enough?’ ‘Am I pure enough?’ ‘Are my affections aligned with how Jesus would feel about this?’ I had to break out of that mindset. - FlamePeople that are tapping out of Christianity because they feel overwhelmed by this unattainable thing, I think they'll be attracted back to their Lord when they hear Lutheranism expanded. - FlameWe need to be Lutheran out loud in the arts so that people can know afresh that Jesus is for us. - FlameA big common issue in the world today is mental health and identity, and society answers that question by telling us to look within. - FlameOne of the best habits I have is I try to get back on Sundays so that I can worship with my church body. - FlameTragedy does one of two things, it presses you in, or it presses you out. For Flame, it seems like the tragedy in his life pressed him into God. - Zach ZehnderFlame’s challenge: Hear God’s voice in a world of competing voices. Take some time to read a chapter or a verse from the Bible and listen to what He has to say to you today. Lead yourself (and your church) to be more like Jesus. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Aug 9, 2022 • 7min

The Red Letter Disciple Season 2 Preview

Join your hosts Zach Zehnder and Chris Johnson as they challenge you to become greater disciples of Jesus. In this preview episode, Zach and Chris will share what the listeners can look forward to in Season 2. So, subscribe, follow, rate and review on your favorite platform so you don’t miss out on any of the 13 new episodes. Season 2 starts August 16!A Hurrdat Media Production. Hurrdat Media is a digital media and commercial video production company based in Omaha, NE. Find more podcasts on the Hurrdat Media Network and learn more about our other services today on HurrdatMedia.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Aug 2, 2022 • 49min

012: Scott McConnell on the Statistics that Pastors Get Wrong, The Number One Indicator of a Disciple (It’s not Prayer or Reading Your Bible), and His Results in the 100-People-On-Earth Game

Lifeway Research Executive Director Scott McConnell gives some encouraging data about discipleship and the church. He dives into the future of the church and shares what encourages him about the next generation. To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com. Join the FREE webinar on August 11th at 1 PM CST called “Fund Your Vision—Don’t Let Money Limit Your Ministry.” Phil Ling, President of The Giving Church, will be joining me and we’ll dive into how The Giving Church has helped more than a thousand churches raise more than a billion dollars. They also commissioned a study with more than 4000 churches and uncovered some incredible data that we will bring out in this webinar. Phil will talk about what he has learned through both his experience and through this unique study. You won’t want to miss it. We will be giving away loads of free stuff as well! You can sign up at www.thegivingchurch.com/red and you can grab a FREE PDF “5 Ways to Grow Your Church’s Giving,” while you are there.Resources mentioned in the episode: Lifeway ResearchMost Teenagers Drop Out of Church When They Become Young AdultsDespite Stresses, Few Pastors Give Up on MinistryRed Letter Challenge Assessment5 Actions That Will Immediately Encourage Discipleship in Your ChurchAbout Three-in-Ten U.S. Adults Are Now Religiously UnaffiliatedThe Parent Adventure by Selma and Rodney Wilson and Scott McConnellAmericans Hold Complex, Conflicting Religious Beliefs, According to Latest State of Theology StudyKey insights from the episode: Christians like to inflate the percentage of people leaving the church. One statistic that is not true is young adults leave the church and never come back. - Scott McConnellOur latest research was in 2021, and only 1.5% of pastors are stepping away from the pastorate in a year. - Scott McConnellWe tend to overinflate leaving rates (young adults and pastors). - Scott McConnellWe tend to want to toss out membership numbers these days because they aren’t great, but they are still relevant and an important indicator - Scott McConnellWe are trying to understand the discipleship needs so we can help people take a step closer to Christ and to encourage them to spur one another on to love and good deeds. - Scott McConnellIf you are anything but a small congregation church you cannot cover all the discipleship needs for each person, so tools and assessments are going to be a great systematic tool. - Scott McConnellOne of the challenges we face in surveys is to ask about more than just actions, we try to get at their desires, heart issues, and beliefs. - Scott McConnellWe asked what statistically predicts a closer walk with God and found that praying for opportunities to share your faith with others moved into the top spot. - Scott McConnell29% of Americans indicate no religious preference/atheist/agnostic and that percentage has gone up 1% every year for the past decade. - Scott McConnellWe spend significant time studying other world religions statistically, if we are about maximizing, then we need to be spending at least as much time reaching the atheist or agnostic. - Zach Zehnder People, whether they are followers of another religion or no religion, still have core human needs and if we can be sharing the gospel in a way that points to Jesus and how he satisfies in a way that no other source can, that’s our opportunity.  Scott McConnellThe numbers you see from statistics never tell the whole story. If the numbers look impossible, the Holy Spirit is still working. - Scott McConnellPeople that are in a small group on a weekly basis are more likely to read their Bible, serve within and outside the church, tithe, and volunteer. - Scott McConnellA young person is 3.5 more times to stay in church if at least three adults poured into them at a young age and they can name them. - Scott McConnellYoung people’s failures tend to be those that we pass on to them or reactions to the previous generation. - Scott McConnellAs parents, one of the biggest encouragement you can give is to keep engaging with your teens and trying even if you are only getting one word back. - Scott McConnellScott McConnell’s Challenge of the week: Have a short conversation with God about opportunities that you can have this week to share your faith. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jul 26, 2022 • 49min

011: Danielle Strickland on The Secret to Discipleship, How to be an Advocate for the Abused, and if Darth Vader is Really a Hero After All

Danielle Strickland wakes up every morning determining to embrace love. She isn’t afraid to question long-time practices such as church buildings, ordination, and the addiction problems in our world today. Finally, don’t miss her battle to be the greatest Star Wars fan ever! To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com. Join the FREE webinar on August 11th at 1 PM CST called “Fund Your Vision—Don’t Let Money Limit Your Ministry.” Phil Ling, President of The Giving Church, will be joining me and we’ll dive into how The Giving Church has helped more than a thousand churches raise more than a billion dollars. They also commissioned a study with more than 4000 churches and uncovered some incredible data that we will bring out in this webinar. Phil will talk about what he has learned through both his experience and through this unique study. You won’t want to miss it. We will be giving away loads of free stuff as well! You can sign up at www.thegivingchurch.com/red and you can grab a FREE PDF “5 Ways to Grow Your Church’s Giving,” while you are there.Resources mentioned in the episode: ORU Chapel 2020: "The Discipleship Secret" by Danielle Strickland Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love by Helen Fisher  Breathing Under Water: Spirituality and the Twelve Steps by Richard Rohr  Recovering (Pastoring for Life: Theological Wisdom for Ministering Well): From Brokenness and Addiction to Blessedness and Community by Aaron White  The Other Side of Hope: Flipping the Script on Cynicism and Despair and Rediscovering our Humanity by Danielle Strickland jennariemersma.com Altogether You: Experiencing personal and spiritual transformation with Internal Family Systems therapy by Jenna Ricemarinfinitumlife.com Women Speakers CollectiveKey insights from the episode: We overcomplicate things we don’t want to do. – Danielle Strickland The opposite of pleasure is duty, not pain.  – Danielle Strickland Serving people out of obligation is soul-destroying. – Danielle Strickland When I move away from love, I move into obligation, safety, and disconnection. – Danielle Strickland I think that the discipleship secret is not that we arrive at love and stay there, but that we keep moving towards love. – Danielle Strickland I want to fall in love with Jesus again today. – Danielle Strickland Anything that prevents people from encountering God needs to go. – Danielle Strickland What did Jesus do that made him so safe that a woman felt so safe and wasn’t concerned about being abused? That is a worthwhile study. – Danielle Strickland I think the number one problem with anything we do, the anti-discipleship posture, is “me-centered”. It can look like arrogance, but it can also look like insecurity. – Danielle Strickland Danielle Strickland’s 5 tips for public speaking: 1) authenticity, 2) connection over performance, 3) don’t write it out, talk it out 4) posture of curiosity over judgment 5) answer the question, “So what?” – Danielle StricklandDanielle Strickland’s Challenge of the Week: Connect with another person to walk with you in your faith. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jul 19, 2022 • 54min

010: Rich Birch on The Number One Factor to Grow Your Church, The Ideal Number for How Much a Church Should Grow, and Where to Find the Best Poutine in Canada

Often we benchmark our growth against ourselves when the real indicator of growth is if you are matching the growth of your community. Rich Birch breaks down ideas of tracking church growth and what actual measurements to use. To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com. Join the FREE webinar on August 11th at 1PM CST called “Fund Your Vision—Don’t Let Money Limit Your Ministry.” Phil Ling, President of The Giving Church, will be joining me and we’ll dive into how The Giving Church has helped more than a thousand churches raise more than a billion dollars. They also commissioned a study with more than 4000 churches and uncovered some incredible data that we will bring out in this webinar. Phil will talk about what he has learned through both his experience and through this unique study. You won’t want to miss it. We will be giving away loads of free stuff as well! You can sign up at www.thegivingchurch.com/red and you can grab a FREE PDF “5 Ways to Grow Your Church’s Giving,” while you are there.Resources mentioned in the episode: Unseminary Blog Unseminary Podcast7 Facts About Church Growth That Will Make You Think Twice 7 Startling Facts: An Up Close Look at Church Attendance in AmericaChurch Growth Flywheel master classChurch Growth Flywheel bookGallop Survey: Sermon Content Is What Appeals Most to ChurchgoersWarren BirdKey insights from the episode: It’s the practical things that hold churches back from growth, not theology. - Rich BirchExecutive pastors and those leading from the second or third chair live at the intersection of vision and execution.  - Rich BirchThe way fast-growing churches think is not just to get first-time people in the door, but how do we build a community that ultimately moves people into a growing relationship with Jesus. - Rich BirchChurches that are growing are benchmarking against the wrong thing: don’t benchmark against yourselves, benchmark against the growth of your community.  - Rich BirchOnly 6% of churches in the country are growing faster than the community they are in. - Rich BirchOur church attendance is in decline. If those trends continue, the actual church attendance in 2050 will be half of what it was in 1990 while at the same time, the population will double.  - Rich BirchNo growth and staying small are not OK, if you remain where you are you will lose ground. - Rich BirchThe sweet spot is growth just over the growth of the community. - Rich BirchOnline giving presents a new challenge of a “set it and forget it” mentality. - Rich BirchThe healthy and ideal way to grow that is reasonable and sustainable is to grow 10% a year. - Rich BirchThe local church is the only organization that exists for people who are not here yet, every other business exists for its members. - Rich BirchFast-growing churches equip their members with all kinds of resources to help them invite their friends. - Rich Birch70% of why people come to a church is because of the teaching. - Rich BirchPeople will talk to their friends about what they are hearing at church if they think it will make a difference in their lives. - Rich BirchInvitability: It’s not about you, it’s about your friends. - Rich Birch People like to be a part of something that makes a difference. - Rich BirchRich’s Challenge of the Week: Practice inconvenient hospitality this week. Some not-so-key insights:Omaha is a slice of heaven. - Rich BirchMcDonald’s has the best poutine in Canada. - Rich BirchPetting zoos (including turtles) can grow your church. - Rich BirchI don’t want to build a better mousetrap to catch a bunch of church followers. - Rich Birch I can watch church now with my egg sandwich and a mimosa. - Chris JohnsonThose that eat poutine have a three year longer expectancy. - Zach ZehnderIf it wasn’t for Canadians we would be pulling our shirts and jackets off because we couldn't fasten them. - Chris JohnsonA Hurrdat Media Production. Hurrdat Media is a digital media and commercial video production company based in Omaha, NE. Find more podcasts on the Hurrdat Media Network and learn more about our other services today on HurrdatMedia.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jul 12, 2022 • 57min

009: Josh Dotzler on Raising his Kids in the Inner City, Insights from His Parent’s Mixed-Race Marriage, and Embracing Being a Middle-Aged Dad

Josh Dotzler on Racism, How He Went from a Top Starter for Creighton Basketball to Inner City Pastor, and Why He Describes His Obedience to God as “Kicking and Screaming.” To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com. On August 11th, I’ll be hosting a FREE webinar called “Fund Your Vision: Don’t Let Money Limit Your Ministry” with Phil Ling from the Giving Church. The Giving Church has helped more than a thousand churches raise more than a billion dollars. In addition, they commissioned a study with more than 4000 churches and uncovered some incredible data that will help grow your church’s giving. Phil will talk about what he has learned through both his experience and through this unique study. You won’t want to miss it. We will be giving away loads of free stuff as well! You can sign up at www.thegivingchurch.com/red and you can grab a FREE PDF “5 Ways to Grow Your Church’s Giving,” while you are there.Resources mentioned in the episode: Abide.comLetters from Birmingham Jail by Martin Luther King Jr. Church in Crisis by Josh DotzlerJoshDotzler.comKey insights from the episode: I had a coach tell me that you need to be with as many girls as possible until you are 30, then you decide who you want to be with. But all these coaches didn’t have great marriages. Looking back, marriage was our first act of obedience to God. Obedience was what God constantly called us to; we have been obedient, kicking, and screaming.  - Josh Dotzler Let’s embrace the fact that when we are in this world, we are not always going to have an easy life.– Zach Zehnder We partnered with the police to establish over 700 neighborhoods that could potentially be revitalized. - Josh Dotzler You not only talked the talk, but you also walked the walk. – Chris Johnson In inner-city communities, anyone who is successful moves out. They don’t stay. Abide means to stay and dwell. It’s the power of presence. Something happens when you live in and abide in the neighborhoods.  - Josh Dotzler It’s estimated crime is down 70-75% wherever we have a presence because of the intentionality of those families living in that community. – Josh Dotzler Sundays are the greatest picture of our individual preferences. – Josh Dotzler It wasn’t until my dad became a minority living in a predominately black community that he could start understanding what it was like for his wife to be black in a predominantly white culture. – Josh Dotzler One of the things the black community needs the most is white advocates. - Josh Dotzler The church must be more holistic even in our understanding of trying to be the solution to racial reconciliation. – Josh Dotzler Covid highlighted the crisis of the church. I heard more about compassion fatigue than ever during COVID. I’ve never heard a pastor talk about tithing fatigue or attendance fatigue, but compassion fatigue. I don’t think we’ve conditioned our congregations to allow compassion to be a consistent expression of who we are. - Josh Dotzler Red letters cause us to cross red lines. I believe as we get into those red letters, it compels us to eliminate red lines and leads to a revolution. – Josh Dotzler Josh Dotzler’s Challenge: Get in the game, small steps. Find areas of red lines in your city this week and go there and be present. (be a customer, pray, serve, get involved, volunteer, educate yourself, etc.)A Hurrdat Media Production. Hurrdat Media is a digital media and commercial video production company based in Omaha, NE. Find more podcasts on the Hurrdat Media Network and learn more about our other services today on HurrdatMedia.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jul 5, 2022 • 49min

008: Pastor Rusty George Gets Practical about Being Simple, What He Should Have Said after a Staff Suicide at His Church, and Why He Serves Beer To His Neighbors

Rusty is all about simple. But simple doesn’t mean shallow. After a devastating staff suicide rocked his church, Rusty discusses how his church kept their focus in the midst of this tragedy, and how we can be of help today to those having suicidal thoughts. He also helps the listeners understand that discipleship is about transformation, not just information. To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com.​​Don’t let obstacles stop you. One of my favorite things in the world is when we can take the obstacles of the enemy that were meant to destroy us and flip them for the glory of God. Phil Ling and his team at the Giving Church can help. If you need help in terms of plowing through giving obstacles, if you need coaching, consulting, or even experts in running capital campaigns, get connected with them. But first, enjoy a FREE PDF for how to grow your church’s giving today! Go over to www.thegivingchurch.com/red. Resources mentioned in the episode: Kaywarren.com After Amen by Rusty George Pastorrustygeorge.comLeading Simple PodcastKey insights from the episode: The wrong assumption was that if we give people more information, then transformation will happen. Some of the most knowledgeable people aren’t even Christians. -Rusty George Discipleship is like golf. Hearing the word of God is a backswing, but doing the word of God is the follow-through. – Rusty George For many of us, the most opportune time we get to behave like Jesus is in the parking lot of the church. – Rusty George Suicide never makes things better. You are not a burden. The wake of devastation you will leave behind would be far greater than any burden you feel like you are right now. – Rusty George If suicide happens in a church family, everyone wants someone to blame. The quicker you can shift the blame from who to blame to how can we help, the better you’ll be. – Rusty George I’m not going to waste an opportunity to tell my story because it can help someone else out. – Rusty George It’s assumed that all church leaders have it figured out when in fact, we are all struggling. – Rusty George The lies from the enemies around suicide: 1) they’ll be better off without you, 2) no one will miss you, 3) you’re insignificant, or 4) don’t you want to be out of the pain? – Rusty George  Rusty George’s Challenge: Write down what you pray for.A Hurrdat Media Production. Hurrdat Media is a digital media and commercial video production company based in Omaha, NE. Find more podcasts on the Hurrdat Media Network and learn more about our other services today on HurrdatMedia.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jun 28, 2022 • 55min

007: Kadi Cole on What Women Are Never Asked in the Church, The Difference Between Leadership and Discipleship, and the Best and Worst Food to Bring to a Potluck

In today’s episode, Kadi Cole talks about the difference between leadership and discipleship, and specifically how to develop female leaders. She explains why the best discipleship happens when people are close to the leader and what that means for the church. And, as a self-proclaimed lover of potlucks, she gives us her breakdown of the best and worst foods to bring to a potluck. To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com. Now could be the perfect time to launch a capital campaign. Go with a kingdom-minded, Christ-centered team that has proven results. That’s our friends from The Giving Church. They’ve helped more than 1000 churches raise more than a billion dollars. Crazy! Go on over to www.thegivingchurch.com/red and download a FREE PDF for how to grow your church’s giving today! Resources mentioned in the episode: Developing Female Leaders: Navigate the Minefields and Release the Potential of Women in Your Church by Kadi Cole Leadership Academy  Christ Fellowship Church in Palm Beach Gardens  Key insights from the episode: For most of us, we interconnect leadership and discipleship, but they are two different things. Leadership sits on top of discipleship. - Kadi ColeIn discipleship, we are all equal. However, leadership has qualifications. You can be removed from leadership, you cannot be removed from discipleship. - Kadi ColeMost people won’t serve in full-time ministry roles or pastors, and we do our congregation a disservice when we don’t allow them to grow as disciples in their own spaces. - Zach ZehnderIt is almost universally the experience of women who have leadership gifts that they are not often asked into formal leadership roles in the church to find more organic influential ways outside the church. - Kadi ColeThe higher calling that Scripture talks about is not your career path but to follow Jesus with your whole life.  - Kadi ColeWomen’s role in leadership in the church is not a theological issue; it’s a leadership issue. - Kadi ColeYou have to say it. Godly women will assume they are not welcome in leadership unless you say it. What men leaders can do is articulate where they want women to serve at church. - Kadi ColeWe need to systematize how we develop leaders so that organic leadership can happen. - Kadi ColeSmall church accountability and familiarity are the foundation that allows you to grow exponentially. - Kadi ColeGod’s not looking for success; he’s looking for faithfulness. - Kadi ColeThe further away a new believer is from a mature leader, the harder discipleship is. - Kadi ColeThere are seasons for church, and God will send you the people you need in certain seasons. - Zach ZehnderMature believers need more accountability and more oversight, not less. - Kadi ColeOne of the ways you can tell God’s timing is by who he sends you. - Kadi ColeKadi Cole’s challenge: Find freedom and flexibility in the way in which you connect with GodA Hurrdat Media Production. Hurrdat Media is a digital media and commercial video production company based in Omaha, NE. Find more podcasts on the Hurrdat Media Network and learn more about our other services today on HurrdatMedia.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jun 21, 2022 • 1h 2min

006: Adam Griffin on The Number One Problem Parents Face Today, How He Found Himself Writing a Book with Matt Chandler, and His Favorite Item from Whataburger (it’s not a burger)

After describing himself as lacking ambition, Adam Griffin seems to prove himself wrong. Whether he is investing in the personal lives of teens, transforming children’s lives as a public school teacher, writing books with Pastor Matt Chandler, or leading a church plant to become its own autonomous church, Adam is relentlessly devoted to making disciples who follow Jesus. To learn more about the podcast or access the show notes, visit www.redletterpodcast.com. Pastors, all of us have different gifts and strengths when it comes to leading the church God has entrusted to us. For me, I’ve always leaned on experts to help when I’ve got a kingdom vision that requires raising funds. Some of the best experts in the field are our Season 1 Partner, The Giving Church. They’ve helped more than 1000 churches raise more than a billion dollars. Crazy! Go on over to www.thegivingchurch.com/red and download a FREE PDF for how to grow your church’s giving! Resources mentioned in the episode: Eastside ChurchFamily Discipleship by Adam Griffin and Matt Chandler The Village ChurchKey insights from the episode: A lot of the problems in youth ministry is that you are dealing with people who have adult-sized problems but child-sized maturity. - Adam GriffinThroughout my ministry, I have struggled with a sinful lack of ambition. I have such crippling insecurity about things. I’ve always depended on the Lord to take me to the next thing. - Adam GriffinToday, in American culture, there is an assumption that you cannot be both a Christian and be unbiased in a conversation. I don’t have to set aside the fact that I am a Christian to engage with culture. - Adam GriffinWe need to be training the next generation to be resilient. - Adam GriffinFamily discipleship is an ordinary everyday lifestyle. Let them see your flaws and share your own repentance. - Adam GriffinYou don’t have to be a theologian or scholar to fulfill the role God called you to follow Him and lead your kids to follow Him. - Adam GriffinMost parents believe they are the primary spiritual leader of their kids, but hardly anyone has a plan to do that. - ZachThere are tons of resources on doing family discipleship, but none on how to make a plan. - Adam GriffinThe three aspects of Family Discipleship are 1) Time, 2) Moments, and 3) Milestones. - Adam GriffinI’m always trying to reinvent ways to read the Bible in new ways. - Zach ZehnderA church cannot be built around anyone but the man of Jesus Christ. - Adam GriffinIt’s harder to revitalize churches than plant new ones. - Adam GriffinWe need every single type of church to be the fullest and greatest expression collectively of Jesus we can be in the world. - Zach ZehnderThe younger generation doesn’t love brilliance or humor; they love novelty. But just as easily as they love a new thing, that new thing gets old. The gospel is ageless and timeless. - Adam GriffinAdam’s Challenge of the Week: Check your emotional health, especially on how you compare to other people. Do you look at others and see their weaknesses and feel better about yourself or do you look at others and see their strengths and feel worse about yourself? Where has coveting sought into your heart? - Adam GriffinA Hurrdat Media Production. Hurrdat Media is a digital media and commercial video production company based in Omaha, NE. Find more podcasts on the Hurrdat Media Network and learn more about our other services today on HurrdatMedia.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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