Reclamation Radio with Kelly Brogan MD

Learn more about Kelly's Relaxed Woman System here.What if relaxing around money was the very thing that made it flow?In this episode, I sit down with my friend, ally, and esteemed colleague Kate Northrup, a business owner and author of bestselling books about money and doing less, as well as the host of a top ranking podcast. I still remember exactly where I was when I first read her work on making money a love story and realized I was nowhere near ready to change my own unconscious relationship with it. That title alone has reverberated through my reclamation experience of wealth and even helped me eventually say out loud that I love money.When money has always meant scarcity or panic, being with it in the body can feel like either gripping tight or checking out completely. Tune in to learn how that shows up as lived patterns and how a different kind of nervous system safety slowly makes other choices possible.You’ll Learn:[00:00] Introduction[05:14] Why redefining money as an energetic “yes to life” shifts your entire relationship with it[11:07] How noticing your open versus closed responses shows you exactly where money triggers your nervous system[16:42] What happens when you identify whether you’re in protector mode or expander mode around money[19:14] How family patterns of scarcity and abundance imprint your adult money behavior[22:01] Why kids often mirror the money fears you’re not consciously expressing[27:33] How your inherited beliefs shape whether money feels chaotic or organized in daily life[34:58] The reason your capacity to hold money expands only when your body feels safe[41:22] Why recognizing your upper limit with “havingness” changes what you allow yourself to receive[55:49] What shifts when you see every financial exchange as human-to-human rather than system-to-entity👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources Mentioned:Money: A Love Story by Kate Northrup | BookDo Less by Kate Northrup | BookLearn more about Kate's Relaxed Money program here.Find more from Kate:Kate Northrup | FacebookKate Northrup | WebsiteKate Northrup | InstagramKate Northrup | PodcastFind more from Kelly:Instagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.Go to the Juvent Store and use code KELLY300 at checkout to get $300 off your purchase.

What if the holidays you grew up with were never actually the real story?In this episode, I sit down with Lara J. Day, whose work around the winter season grew out of her own frustration with commercial holidays and her unexpected discovery of a practice that changed how she moved through the entire year. She brings a careful, deeply researched lens to where our modern traditions came from and how they were reshaped long before we inherited them.Old narratives begin to crumble when you hear how many of our rituals were engineered, borrowed, or rewritten. Fresh space opens when you realize there’s a quieter rhythm beneath the noise that most of us have never been taught to notice. The opportunity is choosing how you want to relate to this season without blindly repeating what was handed down. By the end, you’ll see why small shifts during this window can ripple through your entire year.You’ll Learn:[00:00] Introduction[03:50] Why rejecting commercial holidays can open the door to a more meaningful ritual season[06:26] What happens when solstice becomes the anchor that replaces the pressure of traditional celebrations[08:14] The reason skepticism about holiday stories can point toward a deeper desire for truth[10:05] How a practice discovered after becoming a parent reshaped an entire relationship to the season[13:47] Why understanding the origins of holidays changes how you participate in them[19:02] What the four-layer pattern behind modern holidays reveals about power, culture, and control[23:39] How aligning with seasonal rhythms shifts your inner world during the darkest part of the year[28:56] Why the curated version of Christmas was engineered to replace chaotic, older winter traditions[36:30] What ancient myths about reindeer, mushrooms, and midwinter spirits hint about cultural blending[44:05] How the 13-night practice uses nature, dreams, and synchronicity to map the coming yearResources Mentioned:The Battle for Christmas by Stephen Nissenbaum | Book or Audiobook13 Sacred Nights Oracle Deck by Lara J. Day | Website👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Find more from Lara:Lara J. Day | FacebookLara J. Day | WebsiteLara J. Day | InstagramLara J. Day | TikTokGet Lara's 13 Sacred Nights Oracle deck in time for the winter solstice here and use code Reclamation20 for 20% off your order.Find more from Kelly:Instagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.Go to the Juvent Store and use code KELLY300 at checkout to get $300 off your purchase.You can head to lotuswei.com and use the code Kelly15 for 15% off.

How do I know if my sexual energy is healthy?Between attention-seeking and embodied confidence lives a messy gap. There is an old Madonna–whore tug-of-war that lives in many of us, and an archetypal maturation arc to reclaiming sexuality that won’t look the same for everyone.We start by noticing the judgments that flare and then gently trying on the characters we’ve rejected. Temptation to chase the gaze shows up, and it exposes the little parts that want to be applauded. The work is learning to relate to attention differently until the whole spectrum has a place. Press play to hear why developing a healthy relationship with your impulses changes everything.You’ll Learn:[00:00] Introduction[00:35] Why the question “Is my sexual energy healthy?” opens a doorway into your relationship with power[01:32] The difference between attention-seeking and embodied confidence in real life[02:44] How judgment toward “that kind of woman” reveals the parts of yourself asking to be reclaimed[04:09] What happens when you slowly step into the characters you’ve rejected[05:13] Why exploring erotic expression in movement can become a spiritual practice[06:02] The moment you realize your desire to be seen is a natural stage, not a flaw[07:08] How your relationship to the gaze evolves as you mature into self-sourced confidence[08:03] The reason skipping stages of feminine development keeps you stuck in judgment[09:00] Why trusting your impulses is the only true compass for authentic expression👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources Mentioned:The Spiritual Lessons I’ve Learned Through Pole Dance | BlogDear Lover by David Deida and Marianne Williamson | BookThe 3 Stages of Men & Women - Masculinity & Femininity | YouTubeFind more from Kelly:Instagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.

Learn more about Kelly's Relaxed Woman System here.What if everything we’ve been told about birth, the body, and belonging to the system was backwards?In this episode, I sit down with Veda Ray, a wife, a mother, and a guide for families reclaiming sovereignty through conception, pregnancy, and birth. Her work brings a calm, grounded clarity to topics that most of us were taught to fear, from ancestral trauma to the spiritual role of the placenta. She lives what she teaches, and her story begins long before the birth room.We trace how disconnection begins generations before conception, how modern birth rituals mirror that separation, and what it looks like to restore the bond to your body, your baby, and even your lineage. We go where few conversations dare to go: birth certificates, circumcision, and the quiet decision to raise children outside the system. You’ll see why remembering what’s natural isn’t rebellion, it’s homecoming.You’ll Learn:[00:00] Introduction[08:52] The turning point that forced Veda to stop outsourcing her health and trust her body again[16:03] How ancestral trauma can pass through generations, and what it takes to break the pattern before birth[19:47] The surprising imprint a mother’s first thoughts can leave on her baby[27:04] Why revisiting your own birth story can rewrite more than memories[35:56] What a lotus birth really is and the spiritual logic behind letting nature finish the process[47:15] How questioning routine procedures like circumcision can wake you up from medical hypnosis[55:59] The hidden legal meaning of a birth certificate and what opting out actually means[1:06:39] Why redefining motherhood beyond career or convenience can rewire your entire sense of purpose👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources Mentioned:The Business of Being Born | DocumentaryPlacenta: The Forgotten Chakra by Robin Lim | BookThe Elephant in the Hospital by Dr. Ryan McAllister | YouTubeThe Way Forward with Alec Zeck episode on The Great Birth Revival with Veda Ray | Spotify or AppleFind more from Veda Ray:Instagram: @veda.revivalYoutube: @veda.revivalWebsite: vedarevival.comLearn more about Veda's Your Sovereign Baby system here.Find more from Kelly:Instagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.

Dr. Nirvani Umadat, a dental surgeon turned holistic practitioner, reveals fascinating insights into oral health. She challenges the traditional views on cavities and root canals, discussing the connections between dental issues and overall body health. Dr. Umadat explains how emotions and chronic inflammation impact dental pain and advises on natural oral care practices. She offers tips like tongue posture for nervous system health, a quick face massage for jaw tension, and simple daily routines that promote dental wellness.

Join psychotherapist David Coates, author of "Be Less Dickish," as he delves into the intricacies of men's relational patterns through Internal Family Systems. David explains the chaotic mind as a family of parts and how unblending them can transform relationships. He outlines four male archetypes—asshole, pussy, douchebag, and dick—shedding light on their protective mechanisms. Learn why understanding these dynamics is crucial to maintaining personal sovereignty and fostering healthier connections.

Ask Kelly your burning questions in our monthly Vital Life Project membership here.What if your body knows who to trust before your mind does?In this episode, I explore the distinction between discernment and being inflexible or judgmental, and why nervous-system safety matters. I look at how surrounding myself with people who share my values gave my system the signal it needed to read truth. I point to embodied examples of leadership where trust and betrayal are felt, not computed.The real shift is letting your body tell you who feels like an ally and where something feels off. Not everyone has to be everything to you. Some relationships are for deep safety, others are for a hike or a dance, and that’s healthy. When judgment shows up, it’s a mirror inviting you to own the part you’ve pushed into the shadows.Sometimes the smartest move is giving your body what it already needs.You’ll Learn:[00:00] Introduction[01:15] Why discernment isn’t about judgment but about nervous system safety[02:20] What binge-watching warrior shows taught me about embodied leadership[03:05] How to sense betrayal and trust through your body instead of logic[03:50] The real reason some people can’t engage in truth conversations[04:45] How to tell when someone’s nervous system can’t handle reality[05:10] Why different relationships serve different energetic purposes in your life[05:50] The healthy way to view relationships as conscious, reciprocal exchanges[06:05] How judgment reveals the parts of yourself still waiting to be lovedWant to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Find more from Kelly:Instagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.

Go deeper on this topic with Kelly's Breakup Breakthrough masterclass here.What if every breakup is really a practice in facing death?In this episode, a breakup practice adapted from family constellation work shows how to reclaim energy after a romantic ending. Responsibility comes first, along with the willingness to wear the villain crown. The process opens space to see the good inside painful relationships and drop the need to be right. Prompts guide you to return what was never yours, take back what you abandoned, and finally walk away free.You’ll Learn:The reason unresolved endings drain your energy for years if you don’t reclaim yourselfWhat happens when you say yes to a partner’s potential instead of who they really areThe three “yeses” that define healthy romantic love and why anything less is something else entirelyThe damage of clinging to innocence and refusing responsibility after a breakupWhat it feels like to wear the villain crown and drop superiority in relationshipsHow recognizing the good in painful experiences shifts you out of blame and into reclamationThe link between breakups and encountering our deepest fears about death and lossWhy releasing projections and returning responsibility frees both you and your former partnerA practical ritual to cut energetic ties and step back into your own lifeThe power of guarding your energy fiercely instead of giving it away through blame or self-defenseTimestamps:[00:00] Introduction[05:02] The three yeses of healthy romantic love[07:13] Taking responsibility after a breakup[09:46] Wearing the villain crown and dropping superiority[11:55] Recognizing the good in painful relationships[13:35] What you’ll never accept again and reclaiming yourself[14:41] Step-by-step breakup practice to cut energetic ties[17:41] Guarding your energy and final reflections👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources Mentioned:Art Therapy Institute | WebsiteFind more from Kelly:Instagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.This episode is sponsored by Samadhi Moss. Use code KELLY10 for 10% off your sea moss!

Learn more about Kelly's Reclaimed program here.What if your past doesn’t have to decide your future in love?In this episode, I sit down with Elitsa Velikova, a family constellation practitioner and therapist to discuss the hot topic of relationships, both moving beyond past relationships and readying yourself for healthy love.The conversation goes deep into the ways our family of origin and past partners shape how we love today. We talk about what it takes to truly complete old relationships, how mother and father dynamics play out in intimacy, and what it means to turn toward healthy connection as an adult.You’ll Learn:The reason your past relationships and family dynamics don’t have to dictate your future in loveWhat happens when you carry unresolved loyalty to your parents into adult partnershipsThe three movements needed to go beyond your mother and stand in your own lifeThe link between unfinished endings with ex-partners and struggles in new relationshipsWhat a good ending with a past partner actually looks like in practiceThe damage of staying entangled with your father and how it shapes intimacy as a womanWhy gratitude, not forgiveness, is the key to closing old relationship chaptersWhat it feels like to embody another’s role in a family constellation and gain unexpected insightHow unresolved trauma from your lineage can silently repeat in your own relationshipsThe shift that happens when you see your parents as resources rather than burdensTimestamps:[00:00] Introduction[06:59] What actually happens in a family constellation field[16:02] Why your past patterns with parents and partners don’t define your future[23:13] The three conditions needed to build healthy relationships[31:01] Saying yes to love means saying yes to endings and death[36:42] Going beyond the mother and reclaiming her as a resource[42:18] What completion with an ex-partner really looks like[52:01] The impact of enmeshment with the father on adult relationships[57:56] Family constellation as a path to secure love and acceptance👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.You can connect with Elitsa and her work on her website.Find more from Kelly:Instagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.This episode is sponsored by Samadhi Moss. Use code KELLY10 for 10% off your sea moss!

Check out these related podcast episodes here and here.What if the secret to finding love is letting go, not holding tighter?In this episode, I sit down with Amy Loftus, a singer-songwriter and actress turned coach who helps women break free from cultural programming and embrace their desire for marriage. She shares her own path from chasing achievement and validation to finding fulfillment in partnership and writing her book, Eve’s Second Chance.We talk about what it means to soften, slow down, and restore receptivity. Amy opens up about praying for her husband before she met him, the role of faith and surrender in her journey, and the practical shifts that helped her move from independence to connection.You’ll Learn:The hidden cost of chasing achievement, independence, and external validationWhy shame around wanting marriage keeps so many women feeling isolatedHow prayer and surrender shifted Amy’s approach to love and partnershipThe difference between manifestation and devotion to a higher powerPractical ways to shift from control and strategy into receptivityThe power of language in masculine and feminine communicationWhy signaling, not pursuing, can transform the dating experienceHow equity, not equality, keeps relationships alive and balancedThe role of seasons in aligning priorities around career, marriage, and familyTimestamps:[00:00] Introduction[10:07] Learning to let go of control and receive in marriage[16:32] Shifting from new age manifestation to prayer and faith[24:20] Submission, surrender, and restoring balance in relationships[31:47] Communication differences between men and women[39:01] Praying for her husband and recognizing synchronicities[47:13] The four energies in relationships and the role of equity[54:49] Feminism, culture capture, and what has been stolen from women[01:00:57] The lost art of signaling and courtship in dating[01:06:23] Career, seasons of life, and redefining priorities in marriage👉🏻 Want to start a podcast like this one? Book your free podcast planning call here.Resources Mentioned:Eve’s Second Chance by Amy Loftus | BookEve’s Second Chance Podcast with Amy Loftus | Spotify or AppleDr. Pat Allen | WebsiteGabby Reece | WebsiteGetting to “I Do” by Dr. Pat Allen and Sandra Harmon | Book or AudiobookThem Before Us by Katy Faust and Stacy Manning | Book or AudiobookYou can connect with Amy on her website and her TikTok.Find more from Kelly:Instagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comJoin Kelly's monthly membership, Vital Life Project here.Get Kelly’s new book The Reclaimed Woman here.This episode is sponsored by Samadhi Moss. Use code KELLY10 for 10% off your sea moss!