

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Civility Media
Communicate with confidence so you can argue less and talk more.Every episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast is packed with actionable strategies you can implement today to improve the way you communicate.Make your next conversation the one that changes everything.New episodes every Tuesday.The Jefferson Fisher Podcast on YoutubeListen on Apple PodcastsListen or watch on SpotifyOrder my book The Next ConversationJoin my School of CommunicationSubscribe to my NewsletterFollow me on InstagramFollow me on TikTokFollow me on LinkedIn
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Aug 5, 2025 • 15min
How to Talk to Someone Who Doesn’t Like You
Navigating conversations with people who don't like you can be tough, but there are strategies to make it easier. Discover the power of authentic engagement to reshape these interactions. Learn how to keep your cool, maintain a neutral demeanor, and communicate without escalating tensions. It's emphasized that others' perceptions often reflect their own issues, not yours. Plus, shifting negativity into constructive dialogue could even change their opinions over time.

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Jul 29, 2025 • 16min
What to Say to Someone Who’s Grieving
Navigating grief can be challenging, especially when choosing the right words. The discussion emphasizes compassionate communication strategies, focusing on genuine support rather than clichéd phrases. Personal anecdotes illustrate the importance of patience and unconditional love. Listeners learn to avoid overwhelming questions, instead offering actionable help. The episode uniquely addresses the delicate balance between empathy and positivity, urging a sincere acknowledgment of loss while providing comfort.

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Jul 22, 2025 • 43min
Happiness Expert: Communication Hacks That Instantly Boost Your Mood
Gretchen Rubin, bestselling author of The Happiness Project and host of the Happier podcast, shares her insights on boosting happiness through communication. She explores the power of language, emphasizing how small changes in our words can enhance relationships and well-being. Rubin discusses the cultural influences of color and smell on mood and offers practical strategies like the one-minute rule for decluttering. With humor and positivity, she highlights the significance of personal connections and self-acceptance for a happier life.

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Jul 15, 2025 • 15min
One Phrase That Instantly Ends Arguments
Discover the power of kind words in resolving conflicts. Learn a simple phrase that can defuse tense situations instantly. Transform your communication approach to avoid regrets and enhance clarity. Embrace a mindset shift that empowers you to engage meaningfully in every conversation. Tune in for practical tips that promise to elevate your interactions!

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Jul 8, 2025 • 16min
How to Speak with Confidence at Work
Feeling overlooked at work? Discover three transformative tools to boost your confidence in meetings. Learn how confident communication can elevate your professional credibility and strategies for setting clear boundaries. By mastering these skills, you can ensure that your voice is heard and respected, all while staying true to yourself. Tune in to unlock the secrets of commanding respect and transforming your workplace interactions!

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Jul 1, 2025 • 14min
What to do When Someone Talks Over You
Ever found yourself interrupted mid-sentence? Discover practical strategies to handle those overbearing conversationalists. Learn the power of addressing someone by name to change the mood. Gain insight on how to maintain your ground and assert your voice without escalating tensions. Plus, explore effective techniques to promote balanced dialogue and reclaim your space in discussions, ensuring you’re heard loud and clear!

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Jun 24, 2025 • 48min
What Serving 7 Years in Prison Taught Damon West About Communication
Damon West, an author and motivational speaker, shares his incredible journey from serving 65 years in prison to becoming a beacon of hope for others. He discusses the profound impact of self-talk and the idea of being a 'coffee bean'—transforming your environment rather than letting it change you. Damon highlights the importance of servant leadership and how one powerful conversation can alter life trajectories. He also delves into mastering communication in challenging situations, emphasizing the role of positive affirmations in personal growth.

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Jun 17, 2025 • 14min
3 Keys to Shut Down the Silent Treatment
Explore the silent treatment, a manipulative form of control that disrupts communication. Learn to recognize its signs and stop chasing after silence. Discover effective strategies to reclaim your power without mirroring negative behaviors. The discussion emphasizes emotional maturity, personal well-being, and setting healthy boundaries in relationships. Equip yourself with practical tips to handle these situations confidently, transforming silence into a pathway for better communication.

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Jun 10, 2025 • 16min
How to De-Escalate a Shouting Match
Navigating heated conversations can feel like dodging verbal projectiles. Discover three practical strategies to stay calm and maintain control when tempers flare. Learn how using pauses and strategic questions can transform a shouting match into a constructive dialogue. Plus, find out how to handle conflicts without losing your cool!

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Jun 3, 2025 • 22min
Outsmarting Narcissists: The Praise or Provoke Trap
Ever felt like you're talking to a wall? This discussion dives into how to handle interactions with narcissistic personalities without losing your cool. It reveals the cyclical nature of their manipulative behavior and introduces practical strategies for effective communication. Learn about the 'praise or provoke' dynamic, and discover how to respond calmly while involving others in conversations. By understanding these tactics, you'll protect your peace and navigate the challenges of dealing with difficult individuals more effectively.