The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

Discover how your inner circle shapes your communication style and the words you use. Personal anecdotes reveal the deep influence of family and environment on our speech patterns. Learn to conduct a communication audit to identify and break old habits. Embrace empowering vocabulary by surrounding yourself with uplifting individuals. This insightful discussion encourages self-reflection to enhance your voice and purpose in the world.

If somebody came and wiped out my entire reputation and communication history — gone, erased — this is exactly how I’d rebuild it. In today’s episode, I’m sharing the three rules I would live by if I had to start over from scratch. We’re talking about how every word matters, why consistency is non-negotiable, and how welcoming the hard conversations can completely change the game. If you want to be known as someone who leaves a lasting, positive impact — at work, at home, everywhere — this is where it starts. This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 40% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. Special Offer! To celebrate Moms everywhere, this weekend only, May 2-4, Cozy Earth is giving my listeners a special promo: Buy One, Get One Free bamboo pajamas!! Use code JEFFERSONBOGO to take advantage of this! She deserves the best! Order my new book, The Next Conversation, or listen to the full audiobook today. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show!  Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter.  Join My School of Communication Watch my podcast on YouTube  Follow me on Instagram  Follow me on TikTok Follow me on LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover key parenting skills that help shape future communicators. Learn how teaching kids to handle 'no' gracefully fosters resilience. Dive into the art of disagreeing respectfully and the importance of kindness in challenging situations. Real-life stories illustrate effective communication strategies within families. Unlock the secrets to encouraging healthy debates and interactions among siblings for stronger bonds and better understanding. Perfect for parents seeking to equip their children with vital communication tools!

Ever felt stuck in a conversation with a narcissist? Discover practical strategies to maintain your integrity while setting boundaries. Learn how to manage emotional distance and not let manipulative tactics drag you down. Embrace personal growth and nurture meaningful relationships, all while navigating these tricky dynamics. Plus, get updates on exciting book signings and a new communication skills program!

Feeling nervous before a big conversation is totally normal and even beneficial. This discussion shares three practical techniques to manage anxiety and boost confidence. Tips on expressing emotions openly and embracing vulnerability are highlighted. Transforming nerves into a strength can lead to more authentic and meaningful connections. Whether preparing for a pivotal talk or seeking to enhance everyday communication, these insights provide valuable tools for success.

In a whirlwind of book tour reflections, the discussion revolves around empowering self-control when faced with disrespect. The speaker shares a transformative mindset shift that promotes peace and confidence. Listeners learn techniques to regulate their fight-or-flight responses and effectively utilize breath as a calming tool. The emphasis is on not being a receptacle for others' emotional baggage, encouraging a proactive approach to challenging interactions. It’s all about maintaining composure and navigating conflicts with grace.

Charles Duhigg, a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and author of "Supercommunicators," dives into the art of effective communication. He discusses the three types of conversations we engage in and the transformative power of asking insightful questions. Duhigg emphasizes that genuine connections stem from emotional engagement, highlighting techniques like 'looping for understanding.' Through personal anecdotes, he illustrates how meaningful questions can enhance interactions, leading to deeper relationships and better communication skills.

Explore the intense dynamics of high-pressure communication through a gripping deposition story. Discover the hidden emotions that shape our interactions and the power of empathy. Redefine success by shifting focus from winning arguments to fostering understanding. Transform disagreements into opportunities for connection, seeking deeper conversations rather than quick dismissals. Learn to view communication failures as stepping stones to stronger relationships, prioritizing meaningful connections over mere victories.

It's a big day as a new book has officially launched, focusing on enhancing communication skills. The speaker shares their unexpected journey into the world of book publishing, highlighting the surprises along the way. Personal anecdotes reveal the importance of finding one's voice and the power of effective communication in tough conversations. Insights into navigating the complexities of the publishing industry and hints at intriguing content on challenging topics contribute to an engaging discussion.

Chris Voss, a former FBI hostage negotiator and CEO of The Black Swan Group, shares his expertise in negotiation and communication. He emphasizes the power of tactical empathy to overcome psychological barriers in discussions. Listeners learn how asking for 'no' can create a safer conversation environment. Voss also introduces the 'accusation audit' technique, which uses negative phrasing to foster engagement. He addresses navigating passive-aggressive interactions with strategic communication approaches, providing practical tips for enhancing personal and professional dialogues.