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Psychologist Dr. Michael Reichert talks about his book, "How to Raise a Boy: The Power of Connection to Raise Good Men". He's the Founding Director of The Center for the Study of Boys’ and Girls’ Lives at the University of Pennsylvania and has been described as a leading researcher on the journey from boyhood to manhood. In this interview, we talk about how good relationships between parents and their sons can lead to a boy turning into a kind, respectful man rather than an abusive and violent one. Note: This episode was previously aired. Thanks to our sponsors of this episode! CASTUS is a team of business development experts that enables B2B e-commerce to streamline the relationship between wholesalers and resellers. They create custom digital storefronts that cater to both your products and buyers to drive online orders and strengthen brand loyalty. Their in-depth expertise working in back-end logistics to front-end consumer experiences, and everything in between makes them the perfect full-cycle partner for your business growth. Visit their website, castusglobal.com/nobodytoldme to set up a no-obligation, one-on-one consultation with one of their experts and learn more.  FEALS is a premium CBD delivered directly to your doorstep. CBD is one of the active compounds found in the hemp plant and it works without any mind altering effects or "high" for the person using it. CBD naturally helps reduce stress, anxiety, pain, and sleeplessness. Finding your right dose of CBD is important and Feals offers a free CBD hotline to help guide your personal experience so that you find your perfect dose. Joining the FEALS monthly membership makes your self-care easy. You’ll save money on every order and you can pause or cancel any time. Become a member today by going to Feals.com/NOBODYTOLDME and you'll get 50% off your first order with free shipping.  Ora Organic’s Trust Your Gut probiotic and prebiotic supplement contains some of the world’s most powerful probiotic strains, along with prebiotics to help the good bacteria thrive in your gut so your probiotics work smarter, not harder. Trust Your Gut helps optimize your digestion and support common gut health issues like constipation and bloating. A healthy mix of probiotics in your gut has also been linked to having a strong immune system and can even impact your mood! Trust Your Gut is available in a capsule or powder format. With its variety of products, Ora is your one stop shop for clean, quality, plant-based nutrition that works! You have nothing to lose. Try Ora’s products and if you’re not happy for any reason within 60 days, get a full refund. No questions asked. Get 30% off your first subscription when you text TOLD to 64000. (sixty-four thousand) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever been part of a team or an organization that accomplished amazing things? Or have you been part of a team or group that just couldn't get its act together? What is it about the culture in some organizations that makes them toxic and why does the culture in other groups lead to happiness and success? For the answers to those questions, we turn to bestselling author Daniel Coyle, whose latest book is called,  "The Culture Code: The Secrets of Highly Successful Groups". Daniel previously wrote bestsellers, "The Talent Code" and "The Little Book of Talent", among others. His website is http://danielcoyle.com/ Note: This episode was previously aired. BetterHelp BetterHelp online therapy is a great way to invest in yourself. It’s more affordable than traditional offline therapy and financial aid is available. This is professional therapy, done securely online, available to people around the world. BetterHelp online therapy will assess your needs and can match you with your own licensed professional therapist in less than 48 hours. You can schedule weekly video or phone sessions, so you don’t have to be on camera if you don’t want to, and getting therapy every week is as easy as a few clicks on your laptop or phone. Visit their website and read the testimonials that are posted daily. In fact, so many people have been using BetterHelp that they’re recruiting additional therapists in all 50 states. And they have a special offer for our listeners: get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/NOBODY. That’s 10% off your first month of online therapy at BetterHelp.com/NOBODY Ora Organic's Trust Your Gut Ora Organic’s Trust Your Gut probiotic and prebiotic supplement contains some of the world’s most powerful probiotic strains, along with prebiotics to help the good bacteria thrive in your gut so your probiotics work smarter, not harder. Trust Your Gut helps optimize your digestion and support common gut health issues like constipation and bloating with 20 billion CFUs of dairy-free probiotics and organic prebiotics. Trust Your Gut is available in a capsule or powder format. With its variety of products, Ora is your one stop shop for clean, quality, plant-based nutrition that works! Try Ora’s products and if you’re not happy for any reason within 60 days, get a full refund. No questions asked. Get 30% off your first subscription when you text T-O-L-D to sixty-four thousand. Text TOLD to sixty-four thousand and get 30% off your first subscription. Message and data rates may apply. Terms apply, available at OraOrganic/terms. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Find out how so many aspects of your life are greatly impacted by the way you think about yourself. Our guest is Dr. Catherine Sanderson, Amherst College psychology professor and author of the book, "The Positive Shift: Mastering Mindset to Improve Happiness, Health and Longevity".  Her website is https://sandersonspeaking.com/ Note: This episode was previously aired. BetterHelp BetterHelp online therapy is a great way to invest in yourself. It’s more affordable than traditional offline therapy and financial aid is available. This is professional therapy, done securely online, available to people around the world. BetterHelp online therapy will assess your needs and can match you with your own licensed professional therapist in less than 48 hours. You can schedule weekly video or phone sessions, so you don’t have to be on camera if you don’t want to, and getting therapy every week is as easy as a few clicks on your laptop or phone. Visit their website and read the testimonials that are posted daily. In fact, so many people have been using BetterHelp that they’re recruiting additional therapists in all 50 states. And they have a special offer for our listeners: get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/NOBODY. That’s 10% off your first month of online therapy at BetterHelp.com/NOBODY Ora Organic's Trust Your Gut Ora Organic’s Trust Your Gut probiotic and prebiotic supplement contains some of the world’s most powerful probiotic strains, along with prebiotics to help the good bacteria thrive in your gut so your probiotics work smarter, not harder. Trust Your Gut helps optimize your digestion and support common gut health issues like constipation and bloating with 20 billion CFUs of dairy-free probiotics and organic prebiotics. Trust Your Gut is available in a capsule or powder format. With its variety of products, Ora is your one stop shop for clean, quality, plant-based nutrition that works! Try Ora’s products and if you’re not happy for any reason within 60 days, get a full refund. No questions asked. Get 30% off your first subscription when you text T-O-L-D to sixty-four thousand. Text TOLD to sixty-four thousand and get 30% off your first subscription. Message and data rates may apply. Terms apply, available at OraOrganic/terms. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We always like to offer good advice, but on this episode, we're going to explore bad advice...and the difference between good advice and bad advice! Our guest is Dr. Venus Nicolino, a clinical psychologist and relationship expert who you may know as the host of "Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars". She's the author of the bestselling book, "Bad Advice: How to Survive and Thrive in an Age of Bullshit".   Her website is https://www.talk2drv.com/ Thanks to our sponsors of this episode! BetterHelp BetterHelp online therapy is a great way to invest in yourself. It’s more affordable than traditional offline therapy and financial aid is available. This is professional therapy, done securely online, available to people around the world. BetterHelp online therapy will assess your needs and can match you with your own licensed professional therapist in less than 48 hours. You can schedule weekly video or phone sessions, so you don’t have to be on camera if you don’t want to, and getting therapy every week is as easy as a few clicks on your laptop or phone. Visit their website and read the testimonials that are posted daily. In fact, so many people have been using BetterHelp that they’re recruiting additional therapists in all 50 states. And they have a special offer for our listeners: get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/NOBODY. That’s 10% off your first month of online therapy at BetterHelp.com/NOBODY Ora Organic's Trust Your Gut Ora Organic’s Trust Your Gut probiotic and prebiotic supplement contains some of the world’s most powerful probiotic strains, along with prebiotics to help the good bacteria thrive in your gut so your probiotics work smarter, not harder. Trust Your Gut helps optimize your digestion and support common gut health issues like constipation and bloating with 20 billion CFUs of dairy-free probiotics and organic prebiotics. Trust Your Gut is available in a capsule or powder format. With its variety of products, Ora is your one stop shop for clean, quality, plant-based nutrition that works! Try Ora’s products and if you’re not happy for any reason within 60 days, get a full refund. No questions asked. Get 30% off your first subscription when you text T-O-L-D to sixty-four thousand. Text TOLD to sixty-four thousand and get 30% off your first subscription. Message and data rates may apply. Terms apply, available at OraOrganic/terms. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What’s the secret to success? What’s the formula for achieving your biggest goals in life? Our guest on this episode, the inspirational Hal Elrod, says the answer to those questions is simple! Hal is the author of the international bestseller, "The Miracle Morning", which he wrote after being hit by a drunk driver and being declared clinically dead for six minutes. When he miraculously woke up, he was told he would never walk again. Yet he has defied the odds, becoming an ultra marathon runner and a top keynote speaker. His latest book is called, "The Miracle Equation: The Two Decisions that Move Your Biggest Goals from Possible, to Probable, to Inevitable". His website is https://halelrod.com/ Note: This episode has previously aired. BetterHelp BetterHelp online therapy is a great way to invest in yourself. It’s more affordable than traditional offline therapy and financial aid is available. This is professional therapy, done securely online, available to people around the world. BetterHelp online therapy will assess your needs and can match you with your own licensed professional therapist in less than 48 hours. You can schedule weekly video or phone sessions, so you don’t have to be on camera if you don’t want to, and getting therapy every week is as easy as a few clicks on your laptop or phone. Visit their website and read the testimonials that are posted daily. In fact, so many people have been using BetterHelp that they’re recruiting additional therapists in all 50 states. And they have a special offer for our listeners: get 10% off your first month at better help dot com slash NOBODY. That’s 10% off your first month of online therapy at Better H-E-L-P dot com slash NOBODY Ora Organic's Trust Your Gut Ora Organic’s Trust Your Gut probiotic and prebiotic supplement contains some of the world’s most powerful probiotic strains, along with prebiotics to help the good bacteria thrive in your gut so your probiotics work smarter, not harder. Trust Your Gut helps optimize your digestion and support common gut health issues like constipation and bloating with 20 billion CFUs of dairy-free probiotics and organic prebiotics. Trust Your Gut is available in a capsule or powder format. With its variety of products, Ora is your one stop shop for clean, quality, plant-based nutrition that works! Try Ora’s products and if you’re not happy for any reason within 60 days, get a full refund. No questions asked. Get 30% off your first subscription when you text T-O-L-D to sixty-four thousand. (64-000). Text TOLD to sixty-four thousand and get 30% off your first subscription. Message and data rates may apply. Terms apply, available at OraOrganic slash terms. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Would you like to become a better person or a better leader? Do you have psychological habits and behavioral patterns that have helped you succeed, but may be detrimental to your relationships, well-being and ability to lead? Then pay close attention to what our guest, Jerry Colonna has to say! Jerry is the author of the book, "Reboot: Leadership and the Art of Growing Up". He’s a venture capitalist–turned-executive coach and his new book is aimed at millennials seeking purpose or personal growth, or anyone facing a turning point in their career. His website is https://www.rebootbyjerry.com/ Note: This episode was previously aired. Thanks to our sponsors of this episode! BetterHelp BetterHelp online therapy is a great way to invest in yourself. It’s more affordable than traditional offline therapy and financial aid is available. This is professional therapy, done securely online, available to people around the world. BetterHelp online therapy will assess your needs and can match you with your own licensed professional therapist in less than 48 hours. You can schedule weekly video or phone sessions, so you don’t have to be on camera if you don’t want to, and getting therapy every week is as easy as a few clicks on your laptop or phone. Visit their website and read the testimonials that are posted daily. In fact, so many people have been using BetterHelp that they’re recruiting additional therapists in all 50 states. And they have a special offer for our listeners: get 10% off your first month at better help dot com slash NOBODY. That’s 10% off your first month of online therapy at Better H-E-L-P dot com slash NOBODY Ora Organic's Trust Your Gut Ora Organic’s Trust Your Gut probiotic and prebiotic supplement contains some of the world’s most powerful probiotic strains, along with prebiotics to help the good bacteria thrive in your gut so your probiotics work smarter, not harder. Trust Your Gut helps optimize your digestion and support common gut health issues like constipation and bloating with 20 billion CFUs of dairy-free probiotics and organic prebiotics. Trust Your Gut is available in a capsule or powder format. With its variety of products, Ora is your one stop shop for clean, quality, plant-based nutrition that works! Try Ora’s products and if you’re not happy for any reason within 60 days, get a full refund. No questions asked. Get 30% off your first subscription when you text T-O-L-D to sixty-four thousand. (64-000). Text TOLD to sixty-four thousand and get 30% off your first subscription. Message and data rates may apply. Terms apply, available at OraOrganic slash terms. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Popularity is the topic as we talk with Mitch Prinstein, author of "Popular: The Power of Likability in a Status-Obsessed World".  Mitch and his research have been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNN, Time magazine, New York magazine, Newsweek, and many others. Note: This episode was previously aired. Thanks to our sponsors of this episode! Policygenius Policygenius is your one-stop shop to find and buy the insurance you need! Here’s how it works: Head to policygenius.com and answer a few questions. In minutes you can compare personalized quotes from top companies to find your lowest price. You could save 50% or more on life insurance by comparing quotes with Policygenius. The team of licensed experts at Policygenius will help you understand your options and apply for the policy you choose. The Policygenius team works for you, not the insurance companies. You can trust them to offer unbiased help and advocate for you at every step until you're covered. Policygenius doesn't add on extra fees and doesn't sell your information to third parties. Policygenius has thousands of five-star reviews across Google and Trustpilot and they’ve helped more than 30 million people shop for insurance since 2014. Head to policygenius.com to get your free life insurance quotes and see how much you could save. BetterHelp BetterHelp online therapy is a great way to invest in yourself. It’s more affordable than traditional offline therapy and financial aid is available. This is professional therapy, done securely online, available to people around the world. BetterHelp online therapy will assess your needs and can match you with your own licensed professional therapist in less than 48 hours. You can schedule weekly video or phone sessions, so you don’t have to be on camera if you don’t want to, and getting therapy every week is as easy as a few clicks on your laptop or phone. Visit their website and read the testimonials that are posted daily. In fact, so many people have been using BetterHelp that they’re recruiting additional therapists in all 50 states. And they have a special offer for our listeners: get 10% off your first month at better help dot com slash NOBODY. That’s 10% off your first month of online therapy at Better H-E-L-P dot com slash NOBODY Coda.io With teams working all across the country, if your best work is spread out across documents and spreadsheets, and a stack of workflow tools you have to jump in and out of all day, you need Coda, the doc that brings it all together. Coda is endlessly customizable AND connected. There are templates for anything and everything. Product roadmap, remote onboarding, OKR tracker, meeting notes...You name it, Coda has it. Coda adapts to growing teams and changing strategies. And perhaps most importantly Coda seamlessly integrates with the tools you need. Everything in Coda is synched. Make an update in a table, and it automatically shows up everywhere. No more relying on copy & paste to keep lynchpin projects current! Your team can operate on the same information and collaborate the way we all want to, quickly and efficiently. With Coda, you can solve just about anything. And right now you can get started having your team all working together on the same page for FREE. Head over to Coda.IO/nobodytoldme to get started for FREE.  Coda.IO/nobodytoldme Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You may need to break out of your social comfort zone in order to find new opportunities in life! Hear more about that from Tanya Menon,  an organizational researcher who studies how people think about relationships, and how this affects the way they make decisions, collaborate, and lead at work.  She is Professor of Management and Human Resources at Fisher College of Business, Ohio State University. Her research on decision making, influence, culture, teams, and networks has been cited in various media outlets including the Wall Street Journal, Boston Globe, and the Financial Times. Her TEDx Talk:  https://www.ted.com/talks/tanya_menon_the_secret_to_great_opportunities_the_person_you_haven_t_met_yet Note: This episode was previously aired. Thanks to our sponsors of this episode! Policygenius Policygenius is your one-stop shop to find and buy the insurance you need! Here’s how it works: Head to policygenius.com and answer a few questions. In minutes you can compare personalized quotes from top companies to find your lowest price. You could save 50% or more on life insurance by comparing quotes with Policygenius. The team of licensed experts at Policygenius will help you understand your options and apply for the policy you choose. The Policygenius team works for you, not the insurance companies. You can trust them to offer unbiased help and advocate for you at every step until you're covered. Policygenius doesn't add on extra fees and doesn't sell your information to third parties. Policygenius has thousands of five-star reviews across Google and Trustpilot and they’ve helped more than 30 million people shop for insurance since 2014. Head to policygenius.com to get your free life insurance quotes and see how much you could save. BetterHelp BetterHelp online therapy is a great way to invest in yourself. It’s more affordable than traditional offline therapy and financial aid is available. This is professional therapy, done securely online, available to people around the world. BetterHelp online therapy will assess your needs and can match you with your own licensed professional therapist in less than 48 hours. You can schedule weekly video or phone sessions, so you don’t have to be on camera if you don’t want to, and getting therapy every week is as easy as a few clicks on your laptop or phone. Visit their website and read the testimonials that are posted daily. In fact, so many people have been using BetterHelp that they’re recruiting additional therapists in all 50 states. And they have a special offer for our listeners: get 10% off your first month at better help dot com slash NOBODY. That’s 10% off your first month of online therapy at Better H-E-L-P dot com slash NOBODY Coda.io With teams working all across the country, if your best work is spread out across documents and spreadsheets, and a stack of workflow tools you have to jump in and out of all day, you need Coda, the doc that brings it all together. Coda is endlessly customizable AND connected. There are templates for anything and everything. Product roadmap, remote onboarding, OKR tracker, meeting notes...You name it, Coda has it. Coda adapts to growing teams and changing strategies. And perhaps most importantly Coda seamlessly integrates with the tools you need. Everything in Coda is synched. Make an update in a table, and it automatically shows up everywhere. No more relying on copy & paste to keep lynchpin projects current! Your team can operate on the same information and collaborate the way we all want to, quickly and efficiently. With Coda, you can solve just about anything. And right now you can get started having your team all working together on the same page for FREE. Head over to Coda.IO/nobodytoldme to get started for FREE.  Coda.IO/nobodytoldme Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Looking for a new way to solve problems? Join us as we talk with Hal Gregersen, author of the book, "Questions Are the Answer: A Breakthrough Approach to Your Most Vexing Problems at Work and in Life".  It's based on interviews with leaders like Pixar founder Ed Catmull and Salesforce CEO Marc Benioff. Hal is well-known as an innovation and leadership guru who is a Senior Lecturer at the MIT Sloan School of Management. His website is https://halgregersen.com/ Note: This show was previously aired. Policygenius Policygenius is your one-stop shop to find and buy the insurance you need! Here’s how it works: Head to policygenius.com and answer a few questions. In minutes you can compare personalized quotes from top companies to find your lowest price. You could save 50% or more on life insurance by comparing quotes with Policygenius. The team of licensed experts at Policygenius will help you understand your options and apply for the policy you choose. The Policygenius team works for you, not the insurance companies. You can trust them to offer unbiased help and advocate for you at every step until you're covered. Policygenius doesn't add on extra fees and doesn't sell your information to third parties. Policygenius has thousands of five-star reviews across Google and Trustpilot and they’ve helped more than 30 million people shop for insurance since 2014. Head to policygenius.com to get your free life insurance quotes and see how much you could save. BetterHelp BetterHelp online therapy is a great way to invest in yourself. It’s more affordable than traditional offline therapy and financial aid is available. This is professional therapy, done securely online, available to people around the world. BetterHelp online therapy will assess your needs and can match you with your own licensed professional therapist in less than 48 hours. You can schedule weekly video or phone sessions, so you don’t have to be on camera if you don’t want to, and getting therapy every week is as easy as a few clicks on your laptop or phone. Visit their website and read the testimonials that are posted daily. In fact, so many people have been using BetterHelp that they’re recruiting additional therapists in all 50 states. And they have a special offer for our listeners: get 10% off your first month at better help dot com slash NOBODY. That’s 10% off your first month of online therapy at Better H-E-L-P dot com slash NOBODY Coda.io With teams working all across the country, if your best work is spread out across documents and spreadsheets, and a stack of workflow tools you have to jump in and out of all day, you need Coda, the doc that brings it all together. Coda is endlessly customizable AND connected. There are templates for anything and everything. Product roadmap, remote onboarding, OKR tracker, meeting notes...You name it, Coda has it. Coda adapts to growing teams and changing strategies. And perhaps most importantly Coda seamlessly integrates with the tools you need. Everything in Coda is synched. Make an update in a table, and it automatically shows up everywhere. No more relying on copy & paste to keep lynchpin projects current! Your team can operate on the same information and collaborate the way we all want to, quickly and efficiently. With Coda, you can solve just about anything. And right now you can get started having your team all working together on the same page for FREE. Head over to Coda.IO/nobodytoldme to get started for FREE.  Coda.IO/nobodytoldme Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Girls are under a lot of pressure these days due to social media, peer pressure, grades, popularity and other factors.  Join us as we talk with Psychologist Lisa Damour, Ph.D., author of "Under Pressure: Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls".  Here's her website:  https://drlisadamour.com/ Note: This is a episode was previously posted in 2019. Thanks to our sponsors of this episode! Policygenius Policygenius is your one-stop shop to find and buy the insurance you need! Here’s how it works: Head to policygenius.com and answer a few questions. In minutes you can compare personalized quotes from top companies to find your lowest price. You could save 50% or more on life insurance by comparing quotes with Policygenius. The team of licensed experts at Policygenius will help you understand your options and apply for the policy you choose. The Policygenius team works for you, not the insurance companies. You can trust them to offer unbiased help and advocate for you at every step until you're covered. Policygenius doesn't add on extra fees and doesn't sell your information to third parties. Policygenius has thousands of five-star reviews across Google and Trustpilot and they’ve helped more than 30 million people shop for insurance since 2014. Head to policygenius.com to get your free life insurance quotes and see how much you could save. BetterHelp BetterHelp online therapy is a great way to invest in yourself. It’s more affordable than traditional offline therapy and financial aid is available. This is professional therapy, done securely online, available to people around the world. BetterHelp online therapy will assess your needs and can match you with your own licensed professional therapist in less than 48 hours. You can schedule weekly video or phone sessions, so you don’t have to be on camera if you don’t want to, and getting therapy every week is as easy as a few clicks on your laptop or phone. Visit their website and read the testimonials that are posted daily. In fact, so many people have been using BetterHelp that they’re recruiting additional therapists in all 50 states. And they have a special offer for our listeners: get 10% off your first month at better help dot com slash NOBODY. That’s 10% off your first month of online therapy at Better H-E-L-P dot com slash NOBODY Coda.io With teams working all across the country, if your best work is spread out across documents and spreadsheets, and a stack of workflow tools you have to jump in and out of all day, you need Coda, the doc that brings it all together. Coda is endlessly customizable AND connected. There are templates for anything and everything. Product roadmap, remote onboarding, OKR tracker, meeting notes...You name it, Coda has it. Coda adapts to growing teams and changing strategies. And perhaps most importantly Coda seamlessly integrates with the tools you need. Everything in Coda is synched. Make an update in a table, and it automatically shows up everywhere. No more relying on copy & paste to keep lynchpin projects current! Your team can operate on the same information and collaborate the way we all want to, quickly and efficiently. With Coda, you can solve just about anything. And right now you can get started having your team all working together on the same page for FREE. Head over to Coda.IO/nobodytoldme to get started for FREE.  Coda.IO/nobodytoldme Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices