Relationship Diversity Podcast

Send us a textEpisode 069:Lived Experiences SeriesGoing Beyond Labels: A Deep Dive into Identity and Diverse Relationships with My Guest, LPicture yourself, an only child growing up in Southern California in the late 80s and 90s, with divorced parents and an evolving understanding of your sexual identity. This is the backdrop to a deeply enlightening conversation with L, an eclectic artist, fitness instructor, intuitive reader, and home decluttering specialist. L opens up about their fascinating journey of non-monogamy, starting from their teenage years, and the unique dynamics of being both bi and pan in their relationships.We also discuss the less-trodden paths of the LGBTQ+ community's experiences in the early 2000s and draw parallels with the social scrutiny non-monogamous relationships currently confront. L and I unmask the fears and consequences of coming out, challenge the suffocating pressure exerted by heteronormativity, and dissect the tokenization faced by the LGBTQ+ community. In the latter part of our discussion, we plunge into the complex world of identity labels and their potential implications. Is it plausible to test different labels like trying on clothes? Can we freeze in the face of infinite label choices? We share our personal experiences and the sense of relief when finding a label that feels right to who we are at any given stage of life. L also shares the idea of a "1 Penis Policy" and how this can be damaging in the consenual non-monogamous structure. So, if you're ready for a deep dive into unique relationship dynamics, tune in and stay curious.This is Relationships Reimagined.Join us to be a part of a new paradigm of conscious, intentional and diverse relationships.✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guidewww.relationshipdiversitypodcast.comInstagramTikTokWebsite Get my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Guide to Overcome Heartbreak for Good”Podcast Music by Zachariah HickmanSupport the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Send us a textEpisode 068:Don't Freak Out! It's Time To Launch Your New Structure~Here's How to Be IntentionalYou want to shift your relationship structure to a new form.You've done all the self-reflection.You've talked to your partner and developed agreements and boundaries.You've done all the preparation you know to do.And it's time to make a move.It feels big.It will shift your experience in life but in an unknown way.It's scary.It's exciting.And it all lies before you.This episode talks about the moments right before launching into a new relationship dynamic, the launch, and the time following the launch. Whether going from soloamory into monogamy, monogamy into polyamory, or any combination, I will give you some thoughts to help you have the best experience possible. The more intentional and conscious we are about this time could determine how this experience goes.  This is Relationships Reimagined.Join me for a new paradigm of conscious and diverse relationships.✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guidewww.relationshipdiversitypodcast.comInstagramTikTokWebsite Get my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Guide to Overcome Heartbreak for Good”Podcast Music by Zachariah HickmanAd Music by Playsound from PixabySupport the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Send us a textEpisode 067:Exploring Relationship Diversity, Fat Justice, and Self-Acceptance with Tamara In today's episode, I have the honor of talking with Tamara Pincus, a licensed clinical social worker, certified sex therapist, and a fierce advocate for racial justice, fat justice, and LGBTQ rights. Our enlightening conversation journeys into the heart of relationship diversity, discussing Tamara's work with LGBTQ and non-monogamous individuals and the intriguing convergence of fat liberation and relationship variations. Prepare to broaden your understanding of relationship diversity, and learn how to appreciate and love yourself as you are.Ever wondered about the rise of polyamory and diverse relationships? Tamara discusses the importance of open conversations about ethical non-monogamy and the necessity for personal growth and creative problem-solving in meeting our needs. We delve into how societal perceptions on relationships are evolving, particularly among the younger generations, and the potential benefits of exploring non-monogamous relationships. Finally, we tackle the critical topic of body acceptance, discussing the power of reclaiming the term 'fat'. Tamara sheds light on how fat justice is tied with releasing shame and promoting self-love, reinforcing the need to make peace with our bodies. We underline the significance of self-acceptance and love in fostering deeper connections with others, a crucial aspect of relationship diversity. This is Relationships Reimagined.Connect with Tamara | Buy Her Book Pleasure Activism by Adrienne Maree Brown✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guidewww.relationshipdiversitypodcast.comInstagramTikTokWebsite Get my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Guide to Overcome Heartbreak for Good”Podcast Music by Zachariah HickmanSupport the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Send us a textEpisode 066:Default vs. Intentional MonogamyWhat if the societal norms you've always followed are stifling your happiness and growth? In today's episode, I'll question the accepted narrative around monogamy and delve into embracing intentionality in relationships. I'll unpack the pitfalls of default monogamy which can often feel like a trap, and explore the freedom and fulfillment that can come from choosing monogamy intentionally, after careful consideration and self-reflection.This shift can help you take ownership of your relationships empowering you to design a relationship that is the best expression of your authentic self. ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guidewww.relationshipdiversitypodcast.comInstagramTikTokWebsite Get my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Guide to Overcome Heartbreak for Good”Podcast Music by Zachariah HickmanAd Music by Playsound from PixabySupport the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Send us a textEpisode 65:Storytelling, Self-Discovery, and Sex Cults: Lived Experiences with LL KirchnerOur stories are powerful. What better way to learn about the impact of stories than from a storyteller, herself?   Prepare to have your eyes opened, as I engage in a fascinating discussion with L L Kirchner, an award-winning screenwriter, author, and relationship diversity explorer. L L shares her personal journey of self-discovery following an unexpected breakup, a foray into a sex cult, and her discovery of polyamory.This episode will tap into your deepest emotions as we unravel L L's transition from the corporate world to teaching yoga and the consequential student encounter that sparked her interest in expansive love. She explores her struggle with the fundamental question: 'What's wrong with me?'. We'll delve into her books and how the power of storytelling helped LL and countless others on their path to self-discovery. Finally, we touch on her experience in radical honesty and sex cults. You'll hear from L L as she reflects on her journey, multiple relationships, and the importance of self-care in this transformation. Connect with LL:Preorder Book and Free Creativity Masterclass | Free Storytelling CourseMeditation Quiz | Website✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guidewww.relationshipdiversitypodcast.comTo schedule a 30-minute clarity call and to get more information about working privately with me, click here. Connect with me:InstagramTikTokWebsite Get my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Guide to Overcome Heartbreak for Good”Podcast Music by Zachariah HickmanSupport the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Send us a textEpisode 64:Intimacy is SO Much More Than Sex!Intimacy is so much more than just physical or sexual but many times it can be confused to mean only a sexual experience. In today's episode, I take a deep dive "into me see" or better known as Intimacy.  I'll talk about what intimacy is, and the barriers that could get in the way of exploring deeper intimacy with yourself or another.The ability to understand this, explore it and what might be keeping you from having deeper, intimate connections can be the difference between having a mediocre relationship and having a soul-nourishing, fulfilling relationship.I'll help you find ways to cultivate deeper intimacy with your partner while also exploring it within yourself. For more tips on how to get to know yourself, have a listen to Episode 6 of this podcast.If you want to improve your communication skills, run don't walk to get Multiamory's newest book, "Essential Tools for Modern Relationships." You can find it here.This is Relationships Reimagined.✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guidewww.relationshipdiversitypodcast.comInstagramTikTokWebsite Get my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Guide to Overcome Heartbreak for Good”Podcast Music by Zachariah HickmanAd Music by Playsound from PixabySupport the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Send us a textEpisode 63Is It Possible to Move From Triggered to Trigger-Free?  A Conversation with Rino MurataIs it possible to move from triggered to trigger-free?Join my guest, Rino Murata and me as we explore this very topic.  Reno bravely shares her personal story, from her early years of identifying triggers to her experiences as a mom of three, demonstrating the power and growth that comes from understanding our triggers.Together with Rino, we look at what triggers are, healing from past trauma, and the critical role of boundaries. Ever felt worthless or out of place when triggered?  We dive into those feelings and the path to getting past them. We also stress the importance of trusting ourselves, expressing our needs, and leaving when boundaries are crossed. Furthermore, we explore how working with our triggers can lead to cultivating trust and worthiness in our relationships with ourselves, children, and intimate partners.Reno shares tips for self-compassion and self-care practices and how important both are for our healing journey.This is Relationships Reimagined.Join the conversation.Connect with Rino:Website | InstagramEmail: rino@rinomurata.com✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guidewww.relationshipdiversitypodcast.comTo schedule a 30-minute clarity call and to get more information about working privately with me, click here.Connect with me:InstagramTikTokWebsite Get my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Guide to Overcome Heartbreak for Good”Podcast Music by Zachariah HickmanSupport the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Send us a textEpisode 62:Navigating Stress and its Impact on Our Relationships - A Very Personal ShareWhat happens when life's stressors, both minor and major, infiltrate our most intimate relationships? This episode peels back the effects of stress, using my personal journey of losing my mother, and the ensuing grief. I unravel the common manifestations of stress such as communication breakdowns, emotional distancing, reduced quality time, conflicts and harmful coping mechanisms, and their implications for our connections with our loved ones.I discuss how to identify and understand our own habitual responses to stress and its unique manifestations in our relationships. We explore ways to foster self-awareness, give ourselves compassion, and muster the courage to seek healthier stress-coping strategies. Join me on this journey to reimagine and reshape our relationships even in the face of life's toughest challenges.This is Relationships Reimagined.✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guidewww.relationshipdiversitypodcast.comInstagramTikTokWebsite Get my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Guide to Overcome Heartbreak for Good”Podcast Music by Zachariah HickmanAd Music by Playsound from PixabySupport the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Send us a textEpisode 061:An Open Conversation about Swinging with Jo LeavittEver wondered about the swinging lifestyle? Together with Lifestyle and Confidence Coach Jo Leavitt, we share a no-holds-barred discussion on this often misunderstood world. With Jo bringing her 17 years of personal experience and her expertise as the host of the Confidence Swinger Podcast, we shed light on the myths and misconceptions, and highlight the pillars of communication, trust, and respect in this lifestyle.Our conversation doesn't stop at swinging but expands to the broader topic of non-monogamy. We explore ways to introduce the subject into a relationship and finding like-minded communities. Hear Jo's personal journey with her husband into this lifestyle, the changes they've gone through, and how she uses her experiences to help others navigate this path. This is a rare chance to listen to an open and honest discussion on a topic that's often kept in the shadows.You can find her at Home | The Confident Swinger Email her at jo@theconfidentswinger.com | FacebookDownload the free ice breakers guide to make meeting new people easyThe Confident Swinger | Build Your Confidence & Embrace Your Badassery | PatreonThis is Relationships Reimagined.Join in the conversation.✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guidewww.relationshipdiversitypodcast.comConnect with me:Instagram Podcast Music by Support the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Discover how shifting your focus from finding the perfect partner to nurturing yourself can transform your relationships. The discussion delves into how personal priorities influence various relationship structures like soloamory and non-monogamy. It unpacks the meaningful distinctions between needs, desires, and priorities. The conversation also highlights a five-step process to clarify your evolving priorities, promoting strong self-relationships as the foundation for healthier connections. Challenge societal norms and explore the potential of diverse relationships!