Relationship Diversity Podcast

Understanding Autism and Mixed Neurotype Relationships with Angela Lauria

Nov 9, 2023
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Angela Lauria
Angela Lauria, host of the Autistic Culture Podcast and founder of Difference Press, shares her insights on neurodiversity as a late-diagnosed autistic individual. She likens neurodivergence to being an orchid in a tulip garden, emphasizing the need for accommodations in relationships. Angela reveals the communication challenges in mixed neurotype couples and discusses misconceptions like narcissism versus autism. She highlights the importance of recognizing special interests and embracing uniqueness for deeper connections.
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INSIGHT

Neurodiversity as a Flower Garden

  • Neurodiversity can be visualized as a flower garden with neurotypical as tulips and neurodivergent as orchids.
  • Orchids need different care, explaining why neurodivergent people require special accommodations.
ANECDOTE

Autism Diagnosis Changed Perspective

  • Angela felt like an ugly duckling with a "bad personality" until her autism diagnosis at 39.
  • Understanding her neurodivergence improved her relationships by identifying the accommodations she needs.
ANECDOTE

Planning Differences in Mixed Couples

  • Angela's husband sticks to plans strictly, which reflects his autistic traits like literal communication.
  • This contrasts with neurotypical flexibility causing misunderstandings in mixed neurotype couples.
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