Connection Codes

Connection Codes
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Oct 25, 2022 • 44min

031: Kleptomania, building community, and processing loss

Many of us have something that we experience that isn't deemed acceptable-- it is sinful or unlawful. But, we still experience it. The problem comes when we don't process the emotion driving the action. It leads us to further want to participate in the potentially harmful activity. We talk about why the power of community is so important here and Phyllis vulnerably shares as she processes the grief from her late mother.  To learn more go to: www.connectioncodes.co
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Oct 18, 2022 • 56min

030: Should I do individual therapy or couples therapy?

"Relational issues are dealt with in relationship."  Today Dr Glenn & Phyllis share their views on when it is right for individual help or help as a couple. Tera shares her past trauma that she thought was no longer affecting her relationship - but realizes it is.  To book an in person or zoom session with Dr Glenn & Phyllis: https://www.connectioncodes.co/private-session To learn more about the Connection Codes: https://www.connectioncodes.co/
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Oct 11, 2022 • 56min

029: Being defensive, pointing the finger, and growing pains

There are growing pains in your relationship journey. From the moment you learn new tools until the moment your relationship becomes safe and secure. Today, we are answering a question from a listener on what those in between moments look like. And the small shifts to make that will make a big impact. To learn more: www.connectioncodes.co  To download the core emotion wheel: https://www.connectioncodes.co/wheel To follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/connectioncodes/
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Oct 4, 2022 • 59min

028: What is a low libido?

Do you or your partner finding yourself not desiring sex very often... or not at all? Well, you aren't alone. We have been hearing about the low libido diagnosis for years & the array of medication you can take to mask the problem But what if it isn't caused by what you think? Get to the root cause & find the desire you are looking for. To find out more go to connectioncodes.co
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Sep 27, 2022 • 52min

027: When you operate at different speeds than your partner

It is common for one partner to process their feelings much faster than the other. The fast process partner can feel unloved because they aren't getting the response they are needing. And the slower process partner can feel overwhelmed by the intensity coming at them. Dr Glenn & Phyllis share about a recent moment that Phyllis needed time to sort through what was happening for her. And how getting that time made at the difference in moving forward. 
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Sep 20, 2022 • 55min

026: Wanting to change your partner

There are moments in marriage we that we wish our partner would change. We even subconsciously (and sometimes consciously) try to change them. Today's episode is about learning to connect with each other while accepting each other's differences. It is also about how to recognize when something actually does need to shift & how to approach it. To find out more about us go to connectioncodes.co   
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Sep 13, 2022 • 52min

025: Sex for connection... not just for pleasure

It is a myth that men only want sex for a few seconds of pleasure. There is actually something much deeper they are craving. We answer a question from a listener about what he is wanting from his wife. She is exhausted & is tired of having sex out of duty. Listen as Dr Glenn & Phyllis share their perspective & Tera shares her experience. To find out more go to www.connectioncodes.co To send in your question email: info@connectioncodes.co Book a session with Dr Glenn & Phyllis: https://www.connectioncodes.co/private-session Connection Codes Instagram
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Sep 7, 2022 • 53min

024: How to gain more energy in your day

There are obvious things depleting us from energy: stressful job, parenthood, bills... but there are also the less than obvious moments that chip away at us each day. Today, we reveal what those look like for us & challenge you to find it in your own life. We also flip the script and give a tip on how to gain energy in a fun & easy way.  Learn more: www.connectioncodes.co
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Sep 2, 2022 • 15min

Mini 002: How to rebuild a relationship with your child

From the time our kids are small, we take actions that unintentionally break their trust. This episode answers the question, "How do we rebuild trust with our child?"  Featuring: Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill, Echo Hill Vetter, & Tera Wages Go to connectioncodes.co/connectedparenting  for more information on our parenting masterclass
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Aug 30, 2022 • 58min

023: What safety in a relationship looks like-- and how to get it

Dr Glenn & Phyllis dive into a moment where they were both filled with emotion. They break down how they kept it from becoming a disconnect & share how they worked through it without causing any more damage. A painful moment connected them further. Listen to learn how to build the safety in your relationship that your partner craves.

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