

Connection Codes
Connection Codes
We often find ourselves stuck in a cycle of miscommunication and frustration. We don't know how to convey how we feel OR we burst out and create even more pain. Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill have spent years researching human connection and how to break that cycle. The Connection Codes is the guide to helping couples conquer conflict and it is the tool to break the cycle of pain and live in peace together.
Hosted by Tera Wages of the I Get It podcast.
For free resources to a better marriage go to https://www.connectioncodes.co/
Hosted by Tera Wages of the I Get It podcast.
For free resources to a better marriage go to https://www.connectioncodes.co/
Episodes
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Nov 8, 2022 • 53min
033: How to help someone grieving
What is the right thing to do for grief? What do we say?
How do we support someone the best way?
Phyllis shared on an episode a few weeks ago about the sadness she was feeling about her mother's passing 8 years ago. She shared how it affected her then & how it affects her today.
Today she shares how those closest to her did & can show up... and what you can do too.

Nov 1, 2022 • 52min
032: Sex questions answered
Emotional connection? Sex Toys? Masturbation? Setting boundaries? Today, we cover some of the top questions we have been asked.
Late Night: https://www.connectioncodes.co/latenight

Oct 25, 2022 • 44min
031: Kleptomania, building community, and processing loss
Many of us have something that we experience that isn't deemed acceptable-- it is sinful or unlawful. But, we still experience it. The problem comes when we don't process the emotion driving the action. It leads us to further want to participate in the potentially harmful activity. We talk about why the power of community is so important here and Phyllis vulnerably shares as she processes the grief from her late mother.
To learn more go to: www.connectioncodes.co

Oct 18, 2022 • 56min
030: Should I do individual therapy or couples therapy?
"Relational issues are dealt with in relationship."
Today Dr Glenn & Phyllis share their views on when it is right for individual help or help as a couple. Tera shares her past trauma that she thought was no longer affecting her relationship - but realizes it is.
To book an in person or zoom session with Dr Glenn & Phyllis: https://www.connectioncodes.co/private-session
To learn more about the Connection Codes: https://www.connectioncodes.co/

Oct 11, 2022 • 56min
029: Being defensive, pointing the finger, and growing pains
There are growing pains in your relationship journey. From the moment you learn new tools until the moment your relationship becomes safe and secure. Today, we are answering a question from a listener on what those in between moments look like. And the small shifts to make that will make a big impact.
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Oct 4, 2022 • 59min
028: What is a low libido?
Do you or your partner finding yourself not desiring sex very often... or not at all? Well, you aren't alone. We have been hearing about the low libido diagnosis for years & the array of medication you can take to mask the problem But what if it isn't caused by what you think? Get to the root cause & find the desire you are looking for.
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Sep 27, 2022 • 52min
027: When you operate at different speeds than your partner
It is common for one partner to process their feelings much faster than the other. The fast process partner can feel unloved because they aren't getting the response they are needing. And the slower process partner can feel overwhelmed by the intensity coming at them. Dr Glenn & Phyllis share about a recent moment that Phyllis needed time to sort through what was happening for her. And how getting that time made at the difference in moving forward.

Sep 20, 2022 • 55min
026: Wanting to change your partner
There are moments in marriage we that we wish our partner would change. We even subconsciously (and sometimes consciously) try to change them. Today's episode is about learning to connect with each other while accepting each other's differences. It is also about how to recognize when something actually does need to shift & how to approach it.
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Sep 13, 2022 • 52min
025: Sex for connection... not just for pleasure
It is a myth that men only want sex for a few seconds of pleasure. There is actually something much deeper they are craving. We answer a question from a listener about what he is wanting from his wife. She is exhausted & is tired of having sex out of duty. Listen as Dr Glenn & Phyllis share their perspective & Tera shares her experience.
To find out more go to www.connectioncodes.co
To send in your question email: info@connectioncodes.co
Book a session with Dr Glenn & Phyllis: https://www.connectioncodes.co/private-session
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Sep 7, 2022 • 53min
024: How to gain more energy in your day
There are obvious things depleting us from energy: stressful job, parenthood, bills... but there are also the less than obvious moments that chip away at us each day. Today, we reveal what those look like for us & challenge you to find it in your own life. We also flip the script and give a tip on how to gain energy in a fun & easy way.
Learn more: www.connectioncodes.co