

Connection Codes
Connection Codes
We often find ourselves stuck in a cycle of miscommunication and frustration. We don't know how to convey how we feel OR we burst out and create even more pain. Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill have spent years researching human connection and how to break that cycle. The Connection Codes is the guide to helping couples conquer conflict and it is the tool to break the cycle of pain and live in peace together.
Hosted by Tera Wages of the I Get It podcast.
For free resources to a better marriage go to https://www.connectioncodes.co/
Hosted by Tera Wages of the I Get It podcast.
For free resources to a better marriage go to https://www.connectioncodes.co/
Episodes
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Jan 3, 2023 • 54min
041: How to create habits that will change your life
We set our goals- but we fail to reach them because we don’t create the habits it takes to succeed. We break down why habits are important, where people fail, and tips on how to make them.

Dec 27, 2022 • 55min
040: Goal setting for 2024
Ever wonder how to set goals? What mindset helps you actually achieve your goals? We are diving into the emotions involved in goal setting and how to set yourself up for success.

Dec 20, 2022 • 54min
039: My partner doesn't want to talk about emotions...
Do you ever find that you are trying to process your emotions but your partner isn't on board to participate? They may say that they don't feel certain emotions... or emotions at all. It can be hard to navigate improving your relationship when it feels one sided. Today, we answering a question from a listener who is wanting her husband to go all in with her on this journey.
Download the Core Emotion Wheel: www.connectioncodes.co

Dec 13, 2022 • 60min
038: When your marriage hits a wall
Why do people fight after they leave therapy? Why aren't date nights helping your marriage? Do you ever feel like you are trying things but getting no where? Today, we are talking about the processes of breaking down the dams that have been built in your relationship. We share what that can look and feel like.
We often say these tools are simple-- but they aren't always easy. Today, we share the not so easy part of the journey and how to make it to the other side.
Book a private coaching session: https://www.connectioncodes.co/marriage-help
Foundations Course: https://www.connectioncodes.co/marriage-course-online
Learn more: https://www.connectioncodes.co/

Dec 5, 2022 • 1h 1min
037: How to help someone struggling with depression... even if that someone is you.
Dr Glenn says, we know the exact number of humans who need help in the world. And that number is 100%. All humans need help... because they are human. Today, we answer a question from a listener who writes in seeking help for her husband who is struggling with depression. We share our stories & give insight to how she can walk with him through this season and give the support that he needs.
If you or someone you know is struggling with depression & needs to speak with someone, schedule an in person or zoom session with Dr Glenn here: https://www.connectioncodes.co/marriage-help
Or reach out to a counselor. We encourage you to reach out for help.
Take the course that helps you process emotions to live a healthier marriage & life: https://www.connectioncodes.co/marriage-course-online
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Nov 29, 2022 • 1h 8min
036: "I felt like I was too much for people"
In session with Elijah & Christina as they share the tools that have transformed how the communicate with each other & how it has helped them individually grow. While we do talk a lot about marriage & relationships-- these tools are for people.... individuals.... you. And Elijah & Christina share all about how they have changed their individual lives for the better, thus creating a massive impact on their home.
Oh, and leave it to Dr Glenn to dive deep and ask about how it is impacting their sex life 🥳. Yes, there is a bit of everything in this episode.
To find out more go to https://www.connectioncodes.co/
For Foundations: https://www.connectioncodes.co/marriage-course-online

Nov 22, 2022 • 53min
035: How to make it through the holidays without a fight
Lots of emotions come up around family-- your family, your partner's family, the absence of family, the stress of all the tasks to be done. It can be a lot. We are going to talk about communicating expectations, staying connected, and how to partner with each other to not just survive it-- but come out feeling unified.
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Foundations Course

Nov 15, 2022 • 56min
034: This action is damaging your relationship-- and you don't even know it
Feel alone at times in your relationship? Have you ever thought it felt like you were talking to a wall? Do you ever freeze up and feel unable to respond? Today, we break down what a still face is-- and how it is creating damage in our relationships and we don't even know it.
Foundations Masterclass: www.connectioncodes.co/foundationscourse
Watch the Still face experiment: https://youtu.be/YTTSXc6sARg

Nov 8, 2022 • 53min
033: How to help someone grieving
What is the right thing to do for grief? What do we say?
How do we support someone the best way?
Phyllis shared on an episode a few weeks ago about the sadness she was feeling about her mother's passing 8 years ago. She shared how it affected her then & how it affects her today.
Today she shares how those closest to her did & can show up... and what you can do too.

Nov 1, 2022 • 52min
032: Sex questions answered
Emotional connection? Sex Toys? Masturbation? Setting boundaries? Today, we cover some of the top questions we have been asked.
Late Night: https://www.connectioncodes.co/latenight