

Connection Codes
Connection Codes
We often find ourselves stuck in a cycle of miscommunication and frustration. We don't know how to convey how we feel OR we burst out and create even more pain. Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill have spent years researching human connection and how to break that cycle. The Connection Codes is the guide to helping couples conquer conflict and it is the tool to break the cycle of pain and live in peace together.
Hosted by Tera Wages of the I Get It podcast.
For free resources to a better marriage go to https://www.connectioncodes.co/
Hosted by Tera Wages of the I Get It podcast.
For free resources to a better marriage go to https://www.connectioncodes.co/
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Aug 26, 2022 • 14min
022: {Mini} Managing the before-school breakdowns with your kids
With kids going back to school, we wanted to address the issue on many parents minds--- getting our kids out the door and to the school while managing emotions.
This episode features Dr. Glenn Hill, Phyllis Hill & Echo Hill Vetter
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Aug 23, 2022 • 1h 1min
021: Raising a passionate child, managing logistics, and building connection with your kids
Hey parents who are raising those strong willed children! This one is for you. We talk all about connecting with our kids, setting goals as parents, and how we battle those tough moments. Today's episode features Dr Glenn & Phyllis' son, Sky Hill and his wife, Meg. They are sharing their personal parenting journey & what it was like to grow up in the Hill home. This episode is full of incredible hot tips... grab your notebooks!
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Aug 16, 2022 • 38min
020: Anxiety and depression in kids
Parents often don't know what to look for when their kids are struggling. What could be anxiety or depression can easily look like defiance or a bad attitude. In this episode, we talk about some signs and symptoms as well as the importance of getting to the root cause.
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Aug 9, 2022 • 1h 3min
019: Pressure from sex (Part 2)
Part 1 Pressure from sex had such a big reaction that we decided we needed a part 2. In this episode, we talk about where the pressure comes from. We share what it has looked like and how we have overcome feeling like it is pressure.
We want to be clear: We don't believe anyone should ever have sex due to pressure. This episode is about discovering where the pressure comes from within yourself and how to overcome it. It is our goal for couples to experience nothing but fireworks and deep sexual connection 🎆

Aug 2, 2022 • 54min
018: In Session- Unspoken emotions causing years of pain
Sam & Lindsey came into their marriage with years of unprocessed emotion (like most of us) but it created cycles of deep pain that they are now working to undo. Their honesty in today's episode is raw and vulnerable. Dr Glenn and Phyllis reveal how they can create safety in their relationship.

Jul 26, 2022 • 49min
017: I am tired of pressure from sex
Are you ever in conversation then next thing you know you are disconnecting over sex? How did we get here? Tera walks through a recent conflict when she was caught off guard and felt pressured sexually. This episode is very eye opening for couples who experience different arousal levels often leaving them fighting.
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Jul 18, 2022 • 47min
016: "That happened 20 years ago." Fights from the past causing fights today.
So often, couples fight today because of conflict that happened in their past. It can be frustrating for one partner because you feel like it happened so long ago. But, emotions sometimes need to be processed even years later.
Dr Glenn & Phyllis experienced a rare disconnect (fight) the night before recording podcasts. They are going to work through their argument in real time and we get to see how the go from being disconnected to listening to each other to become connected again. This is the most powerful episode so far in our journey- you don't want to miss it.

Jul 11, 2022 • 51min
015: "I didn't know he deals with OCD"
Psychological disorders affect around 1 in 7 people globally & often go undiagnosed. In today's episode, Dr Glenn opens up about his disorders of the psyche and how it affected he and Phyllis in their marriage early on. He also reveals what has helped him manage his symptoms so he is now functional.

Jun 21, 2022 • 55min
014: In Session- I thought I was a good husband because I didn't yell at my wife
Today's episode shows the transformation of how Xiomara & Hubert went from experiencing a lasting silent treatment to being consistently connected. They also share about how they had to go against their cultural norm and learn how to share emotion in a way that is connecting. This episode is truly the picture of how the Connection Codes works.

Jun 14, 2022 • 50min
013: Her husband wants more sex. She wants more connection.
In response to an email from a listener- we are diving into the standoff many couples find themselves in. One partner wants sex. The other partner wants connection. And both struggle giving into the other person's needs because they are feeling unseen themselves. Such a tough cycle that we break down & share what to do next.