
We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
When someone says to you 'we need to talk', how does that make you feel?The hardest conversations to have are also the most important. Paul C Brunson, the world’s most influential matchmaker and TV star, brings his insightful commentary on how to create and sustain successful relationships through vulnerability, connection and understanding.From weekly conversations with industry experts and familiar faces, Paul promises to support your personal growth, provide practical insights, and deliver actionable advice that will add value to your relationships.Ready to deepen those connections? Then you’re in the right place.Instagram: @paulcbrunsonLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulcbrunson
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Jul 1, 2025 • 1h 54min
I Said You'll Go To Prison For This! Georgia Harrison On Ex Stephen Bear, Justice & Receiving MBE
Georgia Harrison MBE joins Paul for a conversation about survival, justice, and rising above public betrayal. From her early days on TOWIE and Love Island to becoming a victim of revenge p*rn and receiving an MBE for her activism, Georgia reflects on the moments that have shaped her.
For the first time, Georgia describes a toxic relationship she escaped, sharing what she learned and offering advice for others in similar situations.
Georgia also tells the full story about her relationship with Stephen Bear - beyond the headlines. She reveals how she discovered he had secretly filmed and shared intimate footage of her without consent, the emotional toll of the court battle and the moment justice was finally served.
Now in a new relationship and expecting her first child, Georgia reflects on healing, growth, and what it truly means to reclaim your power.
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(00:00) Intro
(03:36) Georgia's Relationship with Essex and Essex Culture
(06:31) How Georgia Was Cast on TOWIE
(09:48) Georgia's Experience of Love Island
(15:27) Paul Shows Georgia a Message From...
(16:46) The Dark Side of Love Island and the Loss of Muggy Mike
(20:57) Georgia's Early Toxic Relationship
(25:46) Paul and Georgia's Thoughts on How to Prevent Domestic Violence
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(32:14) Georgia's Experience of 'The Challenge' and Meeting Stephen Bear
(44:22) Georgia's Account of Her Fateful Reunion with Stephen Bear
(55:21) How Georgia Found Out About the Leaked Video
(1:01:06) The Rulings Around Revenge P*rn
(1:05:34) Georgia's Experience of Her Court Case Against Stephen Bear
(1:19:05) How Georgia Helped Change the Laws Around Revenge P*rn in the UK
(1:22:12) The Prevalence of Deepfakes on Social Media
(1:28:26) Georgia's MBE
(1:30:20) Georgia's Current Relationship
(1:34:38) A Message From Georgia's Partner Jack
(1:38:40) Georgia's Pregnancy and Thoughts on Motherhood
(1:40:37) Paul Has a Present for Georgia...
(1:42:14) One Final Message From Georgia's Mum
(1:44:14) Most Memorable Conversation
(1:46:59) Paul's Takeaways
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Jun 24, 2025 • 1h 47min
He Hit Me Then Took My Car! Safiyya Vorajee Opens Up About Toxic Ex, Losing Azaylia & Truth About Relationship With Ashley Cain
In this deeply moving conversation, we hear the unimaginable grief of losing a child and how it reshapes every part of your life. In this episode of We Need To Talk, Safiyya Vorajee sits down with Paul for a powerful conversation about love, loss, and survival.
She shares the moment everything changed - when she and Ashley Cain were told their daughter Azaylia had leukemia. From the hospital diagnosis to the months that followed in survival mode, Safiyya speaks with raw honesty about watching her child fight for her life, the strength it took to carry on, and the identity loss that followed.
Safiyya also opens up about a past toxic relationship. From love bombing to being physically assaulted, she reveals the manipulation she endured, the moment she walked away, and how she found her power again.
This is a story of heartbreak, healing, and the fierce resilience of a mother.
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(00:00) Intro
(02:15) Safiyya's Family Growing Up
(05:04) Safiyya's Early Problematic Relationship
(17:31) Safiyya's Transition from Owning a Salon to Aesthetics
(19:19) How Safiyya and Ashley Cain Got Together
(27:08) Safiyya on Parenting and Having Azaylia with Ashley
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(39:04) Azaylia's Illness
(1:06:24) How Safiyya Dealt with the Grief of Azaylia's Death
(1:10:51) How Safiyya and Ashley's Relationship Ended
(1:22:48) Safiyya's Current Love Life
(1:31:50) Would Safiyya Go on MAFS?
(1:33:03) Safiyya's Current Projects
(1:34:22) Most Memorable Conversation
(1:41:15) Paul's Takeaways
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Jun 17, 2025 • 1h 56min
The No.1 Communication Expert: Never Argue With a Narcissist! The One Word All Liars Use. This Mistake Leads to Divorce!
Jefferson Fisher sits down with Paul to unpack the communication habits that can quietly make or break relationships, from texts we should never send to arguments we should never try to win.
As a trial lawyer turned viral speaking coach, Jefferson has built a following of millions by teaching one thing: how to have hard conversations without losing yourself. He reveals the one word all liars use, how to spot a narcissist in an argument, and the subtle cues that signal whether a relationship will survive or silently collapse.
He also explains how to master confrontation without creating conflict, and the powerful eye contact trick that can change the way we connect. This is a conversation about how to show up with confidence and strength, even when the stakes are high.
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(00:00) Intro
(01:46) Self Esteem and Communication
(07:07) Preparing to Spot the Lie
(08:47) Let Your Breath Be the First Word You Say
(12:28) How Important Is Context to Communication?
(14:06) How Do We Best Connect Through Conversation?
(18:42) Never Win an Argument
(22:34) Active Listening
(26:47) Don't Step on Their Cry
(29:06) The Importance of Smiling
(33:41) Body Language and Pacing
(38:24) How Do We Spot a Liar?
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(47:25) Temperature Checks
(49:53) Emotional Availability in Men
(58:52) Toxicity in Relationships
(1:18:15) Dealing with Narcissists
(1:24:16) Dealing with Gaslighting
(1:29:47) How to Have Difficult Conversations
(1:40:09) Jefferson's Conversation Demonstration
(1:43:58) Jefferson's Parting Advice
(1:45:26) Jefferson's Most Profound Conversation
(1:48:50) Paul's Takeaways
(1:50:56) Love Journal Ad
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Jun 10, 2025 • 1h 45min
I'm Not Always The Best Muslim: Why My Marriage Failed & What Really Went Down at the BAFTAs! Big Zuu EXCLUSIVE!
In this unfiltered episode of We Need To Talk, rapper and BAFTA-winning TV chef Big Zuu opens up like never before.
Zuu reflects on his childhood, sharing the sacrifices his mother made to give him a better life. For the first time, he reveals the truth about his past relationships and whether he’s truly moved on from his ex. He talks about the explosive highs and crushing lows of his career - from his rapid rise to grime MC to the face of Big Zuu’s Big Eats, and the burnout that followed after winning two BAFTAs.
Paul and Zuu dive deep into the challenges of representation in the TV industry, the musical influences that shaped him, and how food became a powerful vehicle for connection.
This is Big Zuu like you’ve never seen before.
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(00:00) Intro(01:54) Big Zuu's Real Name(04:42) Big Zuu's Musical Influences Growing Up(05:46) Where Did Zuu Feel Most Safe as a Child?(08:05) When Zuu First Visited Sierra Leone as a Child(11:54) How Zuu Became an MC(21:50) A Message for Zuu from AJ Tracey(24:55) Zuu's Transition from MC to TV Presenter(29:01) Zuu's Marriage(42:20) Zuu's Experience of the BAFTA Awards Ceremony(49:21) The State of Diversity in the UK TV Industry(54:48) Zuu Addresses the Perception of British Muslims Today(59:30) Diversity Behind the Camera in UK TV(1:05:01) Tinder Ad(1:06:14) The History of Sierra Leone and Zuu's Family Connection(1:09:25) Zuu's Mum's Story of Emigration(1:11:23) Zuu's Perception of His Own Masculinity(1:14:44) Zuu's Advice on How to Create Connections with Others(1:18:02) Zuu's Mental Health Struggles(1:22:31) Zuu's Current Love Life(1:26:04) Zuu's Other Business Ventures(1:29:38) Paul Uses AI To Roast Big Zuu Tracks(1:32:06) Most Memorable Conversation(1:35:28) Paul Surprises Zuu with His Favourite Cuisine(1:39:24) Paul's Takeaways
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Jun 3, 2025 • 1h 44min
“I Don’t Define My Sexuality!” Lorna Luxe EXCLUSIVELY Shares The Truth About Her Marriage
Fashion influencer and entrepreneur Lorna Luxe sits down with Paul for her most revealing interview yet.
In this episode of We Need To Talk, Lorna opens up about the battles that shaped her - from growing up in Manchester with a fractured relationship with her father, to her struggle with food that cost her her dream job as cabin crew.
She reflects on how she built from the ground up - finding connections through Instagram, building a community of over 1.5 million, launching global fashion partnerships, and creating her own successful brands.
For the first time, Lorna also speaks candidly about her first relationship - with a woman she felt too ashamed to tell anyone about - and the life she’s built since with her husband John. She shares the reality of navigating a 21-year age gap and the quiet strength holding them together as John continues his battle with cancer.
This is a story of survival, self-worth, and what it really means to take control of your own narrative.
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(2:47) Lorna's First Childhood Memory
(8:51) Paul Shows Lorna a Picture of When She Was 6 Years Old
(10:04) Lorna's Childhood
(11:05) Lorna's Early Relationships and Sexuality
(14:37) Why Lorna Decided to Work in Cabin Crew
(16:33) Dating in Brighton Post-University
(19:25) Lorna's Time as a Flight Attendant
(22:16) Lorna's Struggles with Eating Disorders
(39:31) Lorna's Marriage to Her Husband John
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(1:01:07) Lorna's Thoughts on Having Children
(1:03:19) John's Current Health
(1:19:12) How Lorna Got Into Her Influencing Career
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May 27, 2025 • 1h 35min
EXCLUSIVE: Karen Hauer Breaks Silence On Marriage “I Was Bankrolling Everything...I Wish Someone Had Forced Me Out!"
In this episode of We Need To Talk, Strictly Come Dancing’s Karen Hauer sits down with Paul for a conversation that goes far beyond the ballroom.
Karen reflects on the defining moments that have shaped her life. From Venezuela to New York to the UK, Karen shares the ambition that drove her, the heartbreak that nearly broke her, and how dance became her language of survival.
In her most vulnerable interview yet, Karen opens up about one of her most public relationships - the breakdown of a marriage that played out in the public eye. She reveals what really happened behind the headlines.
For the first time, Karen speaks candidly about one of the most painful chapters of her life, the lessons she’s learnt about love, and how she’s finally putting herself first.
Karen also lifts the curtain on Strictly - sharing what the audience doesn’t see, her thoughts on the infamous “Strictly curse,” and just how competitive the show really gets.
This is a story of resilience, self-discovery, and the power of choosing yourself.
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(0:00) Intro
(1:55) Karen's Childhood Experience of Moving from Venezuela to New York
(3:35) How Karen Discovered Her Love of Dancing
(5:02) How Karen's Parents Split Up
(9:04) Karen's Early Love-Life
(11:55) The Beginnings of Karen's Career as a Dancer and 'So You Think You Can Dance?'
(14:38) Karen's First Marriage
(16:02) 'Repetition Compulsion'
(18:07) Karen's Most High Profile Marriage
(23:15) Karen's Audition for 'Strictly Come Dancing'
(24:22) Karen's Experience of Moving to the UK and Starting on Strictly
(25:26) How Karen's Marriage Was Affected by Being on Strictly
(27:08) How Karen's Second Marriage Ended
(36:02) Karen Addresses the Strictly 'Curse'
(41:33) What Keeps Karen Coming Back for Strictly?
(43:46) How Competitive Is Strictly?
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(50:38) Karen Opens Up On Traumatic Relationship
(1:21:34) Karen's Future
(1:25:18) Most Memorable Conversation
(1:28:54) Paul's Takeaways
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May 20, 2025 • 1h 51min
“I’ve Never Spoken About This!” YUNGBLUD Breaks Silence On Bankruptcy, Dating & Toxic Masculinity
YUNGBLUD, the dynamic musician behind hits like 'I Think I’m OKAY,' shares his journey of resilience and self-discovery. He opens up about facing childhood trauma and the emotional toll of online hate. The discussion touches on modern masculinity and the pressure young men feel around vulnerability. YUNGBLUD also delves into his relationships, including insights on dating and personal growth. With a sneak peek of his upcoming single 'Zombie,' he emphasizes the importance of authenticity and self-expression in both life and art.

May 13, 2025 • 1h 52min
EXCLUSIVE Katie Price Speaks Out On Cheating Rumours, Peter Andre And JJ Slater “I Didn’t Want To Break Up With Him!”
In the most raw and revealing conversation of her career, Katie Price joins Paul to share the truth behind the headlines.
Katie opens up about the defining moments that have shaped her - from childhood trauma and toxic relationships to the real cost of fame, the loss of self-worth, and what healing really looks like after decades in survival mode.
For the first time, Katie addresses her split from Peter Andre and the cheating rumours that followed - and speaks candidly about her current relationship with JJ.
This isn’t the Katie the tabloids write about - this is the real story, in her own words.
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(1:40) Katie's Birth Name
(2:17) Katie's Upbringing in Brighton
(3:25) Katie's Parents' Dynamic
(8:59) Katie's Experience of Sexual Abuse When She Was a Child
(12:10) Katie's Turbulent First Romantic Relationship
(17:05) How Katie Got Into Modelling
(21:47) The Popularity of Jordan vs. Katie Price
(24:20) Katie Breaks Down Why She Gets Cosmetic Surgery
(26:18) Katie Explains the Dynamic of Her Previous Relationships
(31:07) Paul Breaks Down What He Thinks Is Wrong with Katie's Love Life
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(50:35) Katie on Motherhood and Wanting More Children
(53:31) Katie's Story About Hugh Hefner
(55:03) Katie on Celebs Go Dating
(57:32) Katie's Lowest Moment
(58:53) Katie's Time at The Priory
(1:00:42) Katie's Likeability with the General Public
(1:02:46) How Katie Deals with Trauma
(1:04:27) Katie's Experience of Hijacking in South Africa
(1:10:50) Kidnap Threats Aimed at Katie
(1:12:46) How Katie Deals with Traumatic Events and How Therapy Helped
(1:14:54) Katie Unpacks Traumatic Relationships She's Had
(1:26:03) Katie's ADHD Diagnosis
(1:31:40) Katie's Thoughts on Cheating in Light of Paul's *Cheat* on Netflix
(1:35:48) Katie's Split with Peter Andre
(1:39:56) A Video Message for Katie
(1:40:50) Most Memorable Conversation
(1:45:35) Paul's Takeaways
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May 8, 2025 • 1h 52min
EXCLUSIVE: Netflix's 'Cheat' Reunion: Unfinished Business! Can You EVER Trust a Cheat?
The cast of Netflix’s Cheat: Unfinished Business are back together for the first time - and they’re not holding back!
The Netflix series brought together eight ex-couples torn apart by infidelity, to give them one last chance to confront the past and decide if they had a future.
Now, in this reunion episode of We Need To Talk, Paul turns up the heat as the cast reunite to reflect on what really happened - and what’s happened since.
From confessions and regrets to apologies and unexpected twists, this is the conversation they’ve been waiting 10 months to get off their chests.
Who’s moved on? Who hasn’t let go? And who’s still not telling the truth?
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(0:00) Intro
(0:43) Crossed Wires Ad
(1:58) Rebecca G Joins Paul
(2:47) Why Rebecca Decided to Join the Show with Biggs
(4:21) How Rebecca Felt When She Found Out About Biggs Cheating
(6:36) Rebecca's Thoughts on Craig
(8:35) Does Rebecca Think She Cheated in the Retreat?
(11:06) How Does Rebecca Feel About Seeing Her Castmates from the Show?
(12:56) Audience Questions for Rebecca
(14:51) Biggs Joins the Conversation
(15:49) Biggs' Memories of His Relationship with Rebecca
(18:02) Biggs and Rebecca's Break-Up
(18:59) Why Did Biggs Want to Go on the Show?
(22:29) Biggs and Rebecca Address What Happened on the Retreat
(25:05) Biggs and Rebecca Doing the Group Exercise at the Retreat
(29:35) Why Biggs and Rebecca's Relationship Broke Down
(35:49) Audience Questions for Biggs
(37:23) Rebecca's Flirting Being Exposed in the Reckoning Room
(39:09) Are Biggs and Rebecca Still in Touch with Their Fellow Castmates?
(40:36) Jazz Joins the Conversation
(41:32) Jazz's Relationship with Craig
(44:01) How Did Jazz and Craig End Up on the Show?
(46:59) Rebecca and Biggs Flirting Once the Two Sides of the Villa Had Merged
(48:11) Thoughts on Craig and His Actions in the Villa
(52:23) When Jazz Confronted Craig About the Flirting
(55:58) The Final Reckoning Room
(1:05:40) Dan's Bombshell for the Group
(1:07:59) Final Thoughts on Craig and His Impact on the Show
(1:09:37) Rebecca's Apology
(1:10:53) What Do the Group Want People to Take Away from the Show?
(1:13:17) Rebecca and Jazz Talk the Gendered Double-Standard of Cheating
(1:14:42) The Impact of Social Media on Cheating
(1:18:45) Why Did Rebecca Change Her Mind on Craig on the Date Post-Retreat?
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(1:26:25) Olivia Joins Jazz and Paul
(1:27:21) Olivia's Relationship with Liam and Why They Decided to Go on the Show
(1:28:35) Olivia Confronts Liam Over Cheating Allegations at the Retreat
(1:30:30) Paul Explains Gaslighting in Relationships
(1:31:46) Can Olivia Trust Liam Now?
(1:34:46) Liam Joins the Conversation
(1:36:05) Liam Responds to the Audience Reaction to Him
(1:37:51) Liam Finally Tells the Truth at the Retreat
(1:38:35) Liam Provides Context to Why He Cheated
(1:43:15) A Message from Olivia's Ex-Best Friend Celine
(1:45:57) Did Olivia Come Over for Christmas?
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Apr 29, 2025 • 1h 49min
“It’s An Epidemic!” Drag Race Star Bimini on The Dark Side of Drag, Addiction And Queer Shame
In this episode of We Need To Talk, Drag Race UK star Bimini shares the defining moments that shaped them - from losing their best friend in a tragic car accident to surviving the dark side of fame.
Bimini opens up about battling shame and addiction, reflects on the highs and lows of their Drag Race journey, why they spoke out about the darker side of the industry, and how they rebuilt their life on their own terms.
This is an empowering conversation about grief, identity, survival – and finding strength in living beyond the binary.
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(0:00) Intro
(1:57) Bimini Talks About Their Pronouns
(5:05) Bimini and Great Yarmouth
(6:07) Bimini's Childhood
(10:00) What Was the Reaction to Bimini's Personality as a Child?
(12:42) How Did Bimini Conform When They Were a Teenager?
(14:26) Who Was Bimini's Support System as a Teenager?
(16:29) Bimini's Friend Ellie and Their Experience of Her Tragic Death
(23:01) How Did Bimini Identify Sexually at 18?
(24:56) Shame and Societal Scripts Around Sexual Identity
(32:58) Bimini's Experience of Drug Abuse
(35:24) The Epidemic Facing The Queer Community
(40:22) How Can LGBTQ+ Allies Provide Meaningful Support?
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(46:17) Bimini's Academic Credentials
(46:53) Bimini's Thoughts on Drag as an Art Form and Way of Life
(59:17) Bimini's First Drag Competition in 2017
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