The Adversity Advantage with Doug Bopst

Today, we welcome AnnaLynne McCord to talk about her personal journey, from the misdiagnosis of being bipolar and being open about her Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) to her process of healing, acceptance, and self-awareness. AnnaLynne is an American actress, writer, director and producer. Known for playing the vixen, vamp and roles of a darker nature, McCord first gained prominence in 2007 as the scheming Eden Lord on the FX television series Nip/Tuck. She is the President of "Together1Heart" which empowers women and children victimized by human-trafficking and sexualized violence. In 2009, McCord was awarded a U.S. Congressional Honor by Connecticut Congresswoman Rosa De Lauro for her anti-trafficking work. Thanks to this episode's sponsor: Organifi: Receive 20% off your order by going to www.organifi.com/doug  What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 03:06 Being defined by something you can’t remember 06:53 The brain protects its ability to survive 11:56 The DID journey 18:16 Misconceptions about DID 24:46 The need for a split when portraying a character 32:14 Not acknowledging your trauma will make you sick 39:57 Inner child work first and then work on those boundaries 47:45 Toxic patterns to unlearn and how to heal from them 53:59 Living in a body with a powerful mind 01:05:27 The story that you have to uphold is always exhausting 01:09:50 Don’t focus on someone else’s journey 01:14:41 Best practices for self-awareness 01:19:55 Love is the complete acceptance of what is Episode Resources: AnnaLynne McCord | Website, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook  Unzipped Podcast Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we welcome Dr. Nate Zinsser to talk about becoming confident in life, at work, and with different relationships. From having an open mind, an optimistic outlook, and having a balanced mindset to training yourself to develop self confidence, the work needed to stay confident, and the common misconceptions of confidence and the helpful ways to sustain it.   Dr. Zinsser is an expert in the psychology of human performance who consults with individuals and organizations seeking a competitive edge. He has been at the forefront of applied sport psychology for over thirty years. With a PhD in sport psychology from the University of Virginia, Dr Zinsser has taught at William Patterson College, East Stroudsburg University, and in the University of Virginia’s Continuing Education Division.   Thanks to this episode's sponsor: BiOptimizers/Magnesium Breakthrough: Go to www.magbreakthrough.com/doug and use the code DOUG10 to save 10 percent when you try Magnesium Breakthrough. Earth Echo Foods/Cacao Bliss: www.earthechofoods.com/dougbopst  Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 15% off your order  What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 01:13 Maintaining a very open and optimistic outlook 03:42 People taking control of their situation 07:27 The mentally tough people maintains a balance 10:52 Practice to make yourself your best friend 17:32 How do you encourage somebody to build self-confidence? 20:20 Steady progress will not be a linear progression 23:36 When we’re putting it on ourselves for the wrong reason 28:05 Be a little tougher on oneself after every victory 31:25 3 misconceptions about confidence   35:18 Helpful tips when you’re struggling to build confidence Episode Resources: Dr. Nate Zinsser | Website, Twitter The Confident Mind: A Battle-Tested Guide to Unshakable Performance Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we welcome Jason Tartick to talk about relationships, entrepreneurship, and celebrity life. From identifying how you can reach your goals, fake confidence, and expressing yourself freely to living with anxiety, figuring out the drive that motivates you, and how to make the best first impression.  Jason is an entrepreneur, investor, speaker and the host of Apple’s Top Charting Business Podcast “Trading Secrets”.  After 10 years of working in Corporate Banking he took a detour into reality television to be a contestant on Season 14 of ABC’s, The Bachelorette. Jason is also a renowned professional business speaker. In April 2022, Jason will be launching his first book of his series centered around the roadmap to restarting your career.  Thanks to this episode's sponsor: Organifi: Receive 20% off your order by going to www.organifi.com/doug What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 01:13 When you’re setting goals without understanding what it would take to get there 05:28 The things that you can continuously work on 09:38 Use the people you’re envious of as motivation 12:09 When your confidence is built on glass 15:14 Get comfortable with expressing yourself openly 19:12 Simplifying things to make it more digestible for the masses    22:49 Situational anxiety turns into a generalized anxiety 26:41 What you can do to control your anxiety 35:25 When you're in a relationship, you're in a partnership 40:21 Benchmarking yourself to others 43:52 How to make the best first impression 52:16 You need to figure what’s going to drive you 54:32 First, start with identifying what the issue is Episode Resources: Jason Tartick | Website, Instagram, Twitter, TikTok Restart Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we welcome Alice Johnson to talk about her remarkable story as a former federal prisoner. From using her writing skills to change the lives of women inmates to being denied clemency multiple times and using faith to surpass her dark days. Now a free woman, she continues to advocate for the freedom of other women who share similar stories.  Alice Marie Johnson is an American criminal justice reform advocate and former federal prisoner. She was convicted in 1996 for her involvement in a Memphis cocaine trafficking organization and sentenced to life imprisonment. In June 2018, After serving 21 years in prison, she was released from the Federal Correctional Institution, Aliceville, in June 2018 after U.S. President Donald Trump exercised executive powers to grant clemency. And in August 2020, Trump granted Alice a full and unconditional pardon. Thanks to this episode's sponsor: BiOptimizers/Magnesium Breakthrough: Go to www.magbreakthrough.com/doug and use the code DOUG10 to save 10 percent when you try Magnesium Breakthrough. Earth Echo Foods/Cacao Bliss: www.earthechofoods.com/dougbopst  Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 15% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 01:19 Growing up in a very close-knit community 05:35 A time of extreme segregation 11:56 The gift of writing 16:16 Getting addicted to gambling 24:06 The estimated amount that triggered a life sentence 30:27 To live a life of service and in service 34:50 Creating an impact in this dark place 42:09 Being denied clemency multiple times 47:55 October became a huge blessing 54:00 When it’s time to leave prison 01:02:49 What is the First Step Act?  01:09:14 Forgiving someone is freeing Episode Resources: Alice Johnson | Book Alice Johnson | Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn Taking Action for Good Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we welcome Dr. Julie Smith to talk about how the root of anxiety is different for everybody and why it affects how we respond to it, different ways to deal with our “dark” space, and why managing stress is work in progress. Dr. Julie is a Clinical Psychologist chartered by the British Psychological Society (BPS) and registered with the Health Care Professions Council (HCPC). She is also an online educator, blogger, and owner of a private practice in Hampshire, England. She devoted her career to learning everything she can about adult mental health and the intricacies of the human mind. Thanks to this episode's sponsor: Organifi: Receive 20% off your order by going to www.organifi.com/doug What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:54 “Why has nobody told me this before?” 04:06 How to get better at getting out of your “dark” place 09:53 Accept that some days aren’t going to be good days 13:56 Juggling through a busy day 17:56 The misconception about stress 22:48 What you can do to manage stress 28:09 The root of anxiety is different for everybody 30:40 We all experience anxiety 33:12 The anxious feeling is normal but not always an accurate reflection of what’s best for you 37:09 How we conceptualize fear and anxiety makes a difference 38:58 Anything that says will eliminate anxiety probably won’t work 40:48 Top ways to face your fears 46:52 Why it’s okay to welcome all types of emotions Episode Resources: Dr. Julie Smith’s Website | Instagram Dr. Julie’s Latest Book Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today’s guest is Mike Posner where we talk about his climb to the tallest mountain in the world, Mount Everest, how to not let fame get into his head, & how he practices self care. Mike Posner is an American Grammy-nominated singer-songwriter, poet, and record producer. His debut album which was released in 2010 is called, 31 Minutes to Takeoff that includes the US Billboard Hot 100 top 10 single “Cooler than Me” as well as the top 20 single “Please Don’t Go”. In March 2017, he released his first book of poetry, Tear Drops & Balloons.  What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:24 Mike on climbing Mount Everest 03:18 Lessons he shared to the Ohio kids 07:40 Overcoming mental blocks 12:26 Taming ego & using fame to fill it up 16:40 Spirituality  19:40 Mike’s self care routine 22:30 How to not get addicted to fame 26:46 What made the climb to Mount Everest worth it? 34:08 What’s next for Mike Posner? 35:32 Effects of going all-in on his health 42:45 Struggling with normalcy 48:40 Paying attention to the thoughts inside your head 50:35 Mike’s favorite song Episode Resources: ​@Mike Posner on his WHM training for Mt. Everest | The Wim Hof Podcast The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment by Eckhart Tolle Mike Posner - A Real Good Kid Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, we welcome Mel Robbins to talk about how the mind always defaults back to past trauma when dealing with emotions, defining motivation to effectively change our habits, and the amount of self work needed to develop skills for self empowerment. Mel is one of the leading voices in personal development and transformation and a New York Times Bestselling author. Her work includes The High 5 Habit, The 5 Second Rule, six #1 bestselling audiobooks, the #1 podcast on Audible, as well as signature online courses that have changed the lives of more than half a million students worldwide.  Thanks to this episode's sponsor: Organifi: Receive 20% off your order by going to www.organifi.com/doug What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:44 Motivation alone doesn't change a habit 06:51 Getting control over your negative self talk 09:23 What you say to yourself matters the most 13:44 Your mind presents a world that matches your negative dialogue 21:18 Every "WHY" answers to the thing that you want the most 26:32 Build the skill of self empowerment 28:38 Manifestation is not a one-step process 40:06 Patterns are familiar and they just repeat automatically 46:24 When your stored tension and trauma activates 50:23 Every single day, develop and practice your skills 56:47 Top tools you can use in moments of stress 01:01:54 Stop being too hard on yourself Episode Resources: Mel Robbins | Website Mel Robbins on Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | Twitter | YouTube  The High 5 Habit The 5 Second Rule Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today’s guest is Dr. Gabrielle Lyon where we talk about how to build muscle mass the right way, common misconceptions about protein, and tips on how you can start your muscle building journey. Dr. Lyon received her doctorate in osteopathic medicine from the Arizona College of Osteopathic Medicine and is board-certified in family medicine. She earned her undergraduate degree in Human Nutrition from the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign where she studied vitamin and mineral metabolism, chronic disease prevention and management and the physiological effects of diet composition. Thanks to this episode's sponsors: Earth Echo Foods/Cacao Bliss: www.earthechofoods.com/dougbopst  Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 15% off your order BiOptimizers/Magnesium Breakthrough: Go to www.magbreakthrough.com/doug and use the code DOUG10 to save 10 percent when you try Magnesium Breakthrough. What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 01:04 Why it’s important to build muscle 04:38 How to build muscle the right way 07:06 Recommended resistance training exercises 08:23 Why people think that lifting weights equate to injury 10:10 Common mistakes people make in the gym 11:11 Biggest markers to know if it’s a good workout 13:30 How to optimize protein intake 15:52 Some easy ways to get more protein in your diet 17:29 Why is protein so important when it comes to building muscle? 20:20 The wider the waistline, the lower the brain volume 22:41 Other things that could happen if you let muscles atrophy too much 24:50 Types of protein to eat 28:12 Locally raised vs. basic store based quality meat 35:16 How to implement carbohydrates in an effective muscle building plan 39:35 Starting midlife to benefit in the future 40:59 The right protocol to get started in lifting weights for overweight people 41:48 Getting over the fear of judgement in exercising & going to the gym 43:47 Having a healthy life despite of a busy schedule 45:19 Dr. Gabrielle’s top five food picks Episode Resources: Meet My Mentor - Dr Donald K. Layman Dr Gabrielle Lyon Youtube Dr. Gabrielle Lyon website Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today’s guest is Rachel Hollis where we talk about how you can learn from mistakes, finding the support system you need during hard times, and what are the things you can do so you can rebuild your life. Rachel is a #1 New York Times Best-Selling Author and a motivational speaker. She authored three self-help books including Girl, Wash Your Face and Girl, Stop Apologizing. Aside from keeping herself busy with her podcast, The Rachel Hollis Podcast, she's also founded The Hollis Company, a media company that exists to arm people with the tools to make positive and lasting change.  What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 01:01 Why it’s been important for her to understand her mental health 03:42 Intent vs. impact 05:37 Rebuilding her confidence & learning from mistakes 08:07 Effects of putting stuff out into the world when you’re angry 11:14 Learning from people who also makes mistakes 14:01 What inspired her to make this comeback? 18:10 Having your real friends during hard times is important 20:33 You don’t always need to make people understand you 24:12 You will always remember who you really are 30:36 Learning how to handle fear about finances 34:22 How she got declined in getting her first credit card 38:35 Understanding what’s going on in your cycle so you can build your life 43:03 What will change in terms of her work & message 44:40 Manifestation & law of attraction 47:46 What to do if you’re having a bad day Episode Resources: Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are So You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be by Rachel Hollis Girl, Stop Apologizing: A Shame-Free Plan for Embracing and Achieving Your Goals by Rachel Hollis The Rachel Hollis Podcast Can You See Trauma in the Brain? with Bestselling Author Rachel Hollis | Scan My Brain Why the Inside Matters by Dr. Wayne Dyer “Defend is the first act of war.” by Byron Katie Kenny Rogers: Career Reflections and Advice to New Musicians Morning Pages by Julia Cameron Follow me on Social Media: LinkedIn Instagram Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For this last week of 2021 (12/27-12/31) we have something special for you. Each day we will re-release one of the top 5 most popular episodes of the past year. We will resume our regular schedule with a new episode on 1/3/2021. Have a Happy Holiday and Happy New Year! Best of 2021 #1: The Holistic Psychologist (Dr. Nicole LePera) - A Masterclass on How to Heal Your Past and Do the Inner Work (Originally released 2/1/21)   I bet many of you reading this are feeling stuck in some way. Whether it’s in your business, in your personal life or your relationships I am sure you’ve been wanting to finally break free from your past and heal. I am going to share a little secret with you. Even though your life isn’t “chaotic” it doesn’t mean that unhealthy behaviors aren’t holding you back from living your best life.   Struggling to make change, self-sabotage, people-pleasing, addictions, constant feelings of anxiety/fear/stress, toxic relationships, feeling unfulfilled…. These are all signs that you are stuck and living in the past.   I got you thinking now, didn’t I?   I have been tracking down this person to get this interview for quite some time and after hearing who it is you will understand why. Her approach to healing is extraordinarily popular because of the way that it empowers people to have control over their thoughts, emotions, and actions.  Remember, healing and doing the work is a daily practice.  It certainly isn’t easy and takes time. There are many tools that can help you on your journey and she and I will discuss them all.   But please, remember that the goal isn’t to implement these all at once.   It’s simply to start small and begin to build new healthy habits one by one that will allow you to become your best self. Doing this will help you finally escape from the prison of your past so that you can be free to become the person you aspire. Many of you will recognize today's guest from her highly popular social media platform. Some of you have may have participated in her selfhealers circle or have reposted or have seen some of her viral content. I am very excited that Dr. Nicole LePera or as many of you know her The Holistic Psychologist is joining me on the show today. She is here to provide a masterclass on all things healing, including doing the inner work and holistic psychology.  As a clinical psychologist in private practice, she often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy.  Wanting more for her patients— and for self— she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical, and spiritual health that equips people with the tools necessary to heal themselves.  Her book “How to do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal From Your Past, and Create Your Self" is set to be released on March 9th but is available now for presale.  Her book should undoubtedly be on your must read list for the spring.    We discuss why fitness can be a catalyst for change, why therapy alone won’t heal you, how to stop feeling stressed and anxious when you have nothing to be stressed about, how to know if you have experienced trauma and how to develop self awareness and belief in yourself so that you can feel worthy and stop repeating old patterns, heal and thrive and more!      Connect with Nicole:   Website: https://yourholisticpsychologist.com    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist   More on BiOptimizers/Magnesium Breakthrough:   Go to www.magbreakthrough.com/doug and use the code DOUG10 to save 10 percent when you try Magnesium Breakthrough.     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices