

The Real Marriage Podcast
Mark Driscoll
Real Marriage is a ministry of Pastor Mark Driscoll and Grace Driscoll to help your marriage at any stage, from newlyweds to seasoned marriages.
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Nov 18, 2025 • 29min
Does Your Marriage Need Help?
When should couples seek help for their marriage? Discover the surprising reasons many avoid counseling, even when in crisis. The importance of finding Christian counselors is emphasized, as is the necessity of mutual agreement among partners. Learn how repentance and forgiveness can restore oneness. The hosts highlight the value of multiple mentors and the need for ongoing self-care to maintain a healthy relationship. Serving together is also suggested as a way to strengthen bonds. Seeking help is normalized, proving that even leaders benefit from guidance.

Nov 16, 2025 • 32min
Is Your Marriage in Crisis?
Discover the signs that indicate your marriage may be in crisis, such as troubling thoughts about separation. Learn the five key factors that can strengthen a relationship, including trust and respect. The discussion unveils why trust is essential and how to rebuild it after betrayal. Delve into practical habits to reignite love and preserve friendships, alongside tips for navigating tough conversations. Lastly, understand how sexual intimacy reflects overall relationship health, tying it all together with insights from both hosts.

Nov 4, 2025 • 38min
Why Most Christian Marriages Fail (it’s Not What You Think)
Explore the hidden dangers in marriages as bitterness is unveiled as a leading cause of infidelity. Discover how men’s feelings of loneliness and women’s emotional neglect contribute to this toxic root. Learn the importance of repentance and forgiveness in uprooting bitterness and rekindling love. Delve into the contrast between covenantal love and a transactional mindset that can poison relationships. Practical steps offer a pathway to marital renewal, emphasizing gratitude and open communication.

Oct 28, 2025 • 30min
The #1 Mistake That DESTROYS Marriages
Explore the hidden dangers that can destroy even the strongest marriages. Learn how bitterness and unresolved issues can lead to emotional and physical betrayal. Discover the importance of addressing small irritations before they worsen. Gain insights on the roots of resentment, including unmet expectations and the fear of man. Understand how these issues not only affect couples but also impact future generations. Together, couples are encouraged to confront challenges with grace and offer mutual support for healing.

Oct 21, 2025 • 28min
How To Make Your Marriage Last
Explore the essential ingredients for a lasting marriage, focusing on peace, grace, and holiness. Discover how effective communication can transform relationships, starting with gentle conversations. Learn about the hidden roots of bitterness and the vital role of forgiveness in uprooting discontent. The hosts candidly share personal struggles and stress the importance of connection before correction. Ultimately, they highlight how unresolved wounds threaten marital harmony and invite emotional disconnection, making grace and healing essential.

Oct 13, 2025 • 31min
Can Your Marriage Survive Adultery?
Can a marriage survive infidelity? This podcast explores the journey of healing through bitterness, forgiveness, and the importance of commitment. The hosts share their own marital history and how resolving anxiety can strengthen relationships. They emphasize the biblical covenant of marriage and the need for accountability and community support. Practical advice is offered on nurturing peace, grace, and holiness to prevent infidelity while discussing how anxiety impacts family dynamics. A heartfelt prayer seeks healing for struggling marriages.

Sep 17, 2025 • 33min
The Perfect Example of a Godly Marriage
Explore the powerful lessons from Charlie and Erika Kirk's marriage, exemplifying a godly union. Discover how their shared mission strengthened their bond and supported their family during tragedy. Engage with themes of daily devotion, faith amidst loss, and the importance of resolving conflicts quickly. Hear insights on empowering women within biblical marriage and the blend of humility and strength that shaped Erika's character. Join the discussion on how to make every day in marriage count.

Jul 28, 2025 • 57min
How To Know if You’re Married to a Jezebel
Discover how to identify and confront toxic dynamics in relationships through the lens of biblical figures like Jezebel and Ahab. Explore the layers of spiritual influence and learn to navigate personal responsibility while addressing harmful behaviors. Gain insights into the power of prayer and divine guidance when making life choices. The discussion also highlights the interplay between personality traits and spiritual warfare, urging listeners to set healthy boundaries and foster integrity in their interactions.

Jul 21, 2025 • 59min
29 Signs of the Jezebel Spirit
Discover the telltale signs of the Jezebel spirit and its impacts on relationships and leadership. The discussion dives into how this manipulative spirit operates, using seduction and flattery. Learn about Jezebel's tactics to control narratives, dominate conversations, and influence decision-making. The warning extends to both genders, examining how these traits can manifest across different personalities. Pastor Mark also offers empowering advice for men on identifying aggressive partners and leading with love and boundaries.

Jul 14, 2025 • 56min
How Controlling Women Trap Men
The podcast delves into the dynamics of control in relationships, featuring the story of a passive husband and his controlling wife, exploring the emotional manipulation they face. It highlights the historical context of the Jezebel and Ahab archetypes, illustrating their impact on personal identity. The discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing toxic patterns and fostering healthy, spirit-filled relationships. Listeners are encouraged to adopt assertive roles in their relationships, culminating in a prayer for empowerment through the Holy Spirit.


