
 The Real Marriage Podcast
 The Real Marriage Podcast The #1 Mistake That DESTROYS Marriages
 Oct 28, 2025 
 Explore the hidden dangers that can destroy even the strongest marriages. Learn how bitterness and unresolved issues can lead to emotional and physical betrayal. Discover the importance of addressing small irritations before they worsen. Gain insights on the roots of resentment, including unmet expectations and the fear of man. Understand how these issues not only affect couples but also impact future generations. Together, couples are encouraged to confront challenges with grace and offer mutual support for healing. 
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Bitterness Precedes Adultery
- Bitterness often precedes adultery because it is an adultery of the heart before the hands act.
- Unforgiveness against God or people plants a root that later produces sexual immorality and unholiness.
Proximity Multiplies Hurt
- The size of an offense matters less than the proximity of the offender; loved ones wound deeper.
- Spouses carry high expectations, so small repeated hurts can create deep bitterness over time.
Nip Small Issues Early
- Notice and address small recurring annoyances (the "foxes in the vineyard") before they erode unity.
- Either let minor issues go or have a calm conversation if they truly matter.










