
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone breaks down the centuries of sexist socialization that causes us to struggle with self-doubt, burnout, and anxiety.
Hosted by Master Feminist Coach Kara Loewentheil, J.D., founder of The School of New Feminist Thought and author of Take Back Your Brain (Penguin 2024), each episode teaches you how to turn down the noise of societal expectations, turn up the volume on what YOU really want in life, and change your thinking to make sure you go get it.
This podcast is an essential resource for anyone eager to embrace a life free from limiting beliefs and societal constraints.
If you ever find yourself asking questions like…
*Why am I so anxious about stuff that isn’t a big deal?
*How can I stop overthinking everything?
*Am I selfish for wanting my life to look different?
*Will I ever feel comfortable in my body?
*Am I a bad parent?
*How can I ask for more money at work?
*Can I stop people-pleasing?
*How can my partner and I communicate better?
… then you won’t want to miss an episode.
Visit schoolofnewfeministthought.com to learn more about The School of New Feminist Thought and more.
Latest episodes

Aug 8, 2024 • 50min
354. Greatest Hits with Mary's Cup of Tea: The Virgin/Mother/Whore Paradigm & How to Stop Giving a Shit
Mary Jelkovsky, a top-rated self-love podcaster and author, delves into the restrictive roles imposed on women by the virgin/mother/whore paradigm. She shares personal insights on self-acceptance, the pressures of societal beauty standards, and the impact of cosmetic procedures. The conversation navigates the importance of thought work in redefining self-worth, emphasizing self-compassion, especially in today's social media landscape. They challenge conventional milestones for women, promoting the freedom to live authentically without societal judgment.

Aug 1, 2024 • 21min
353. Is Anxiety Ever Useful?
Is anxiety really an enemy? This discussion reveals how anxiety can actually serve as a powerful motivator. It dives into the distinction between fear and anxiety, encouraging a shift towards resilience and self-belief. The conversation also tackles the roots of anxiety tied to a desire for control, advocating for self-compassion and personal agency. Learn to harness anxiety's energy and navigate life's uncertainties with a fresh perspective!

Jul 25, 2024 • 21min
352. Greatest Hits: Is It All My Fault? & Other Questions
Explore the complexities of thought work and personal responsibility, debunk the idea that every feeling stems from our own thoughts, learn about managing anger and the relationship between external circumstances and personal reactions, and discover the importance of community support for habit change and self-reflection on relationships and parenthood.

Jul 18, 2024 • 18min
351. From the Horse’s Mouth - Real Stories
Discover inspiring real-life stories from students in The Feminist Self-Help Society who have transformed their lives. Learn how to take control, change your thoughts, and overcome challenges with empowerment and support from the community.

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Jul 11, 2024 • 24min
350. Greatest Hits: How to Know When Emotional Difficulty Is Worth It
Discover how facing emotional difficulty can lead to growth and opportunities. Learn about the value of self-development and discernment. Explore the importance of navigating through challenges for personal growth and aligning with values.

Jul 4, 2024 • 14min
349. How to Stop Giving a F*ck What Other People Think
Learn how women struggle with caring about others' opinions and how to break free from this mental burden. Explore the impact of societal pressure, prioritize self-confidence, and build strong belief systems. Discover actionable steps to live unapologetically and liberate yourself from external validation.

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Jun 27, 2024 • 21min
348. Greatest Hits: How to Know What You Want
In this podcast, the host breaks down the concept of wanting something and why women may struggle to identify their desires. The discussion focuses on navigating genuine desires amidst societal expectations, exploring true motivations, and the importance of self-acceptance in pursuing personal aspirations.

Jun 20, 2024 • 12min
347. Confidence, Happiness & Self-Safety
Explore the concept of long-term happiness and personal fulfillment, beyond fleeting emotions. Discover the importance of confidence and self-safety in taking risks and pursuing your dreams fearlessly.

Jun 13, 2024 • 17min
346. Why Rest & Pleasure Can Be Hard - But Are Keys to Being Happy
Discover why many find it hard to relax and enjoy pleasure, especially women. Explore how societal norms impact our ability to rest and find happiness. Learn the importance of being present in order to cultivate true happiness and well-being.

Jun 11, 2024 • 44min
Feminist Dating Advice with Lily Womble
Can you be a feminist and still participate in finding a partner in today’s dating landscape? How can you allow yourself to want a partner while maintaining your independence and autonomy? These are some of the questions we address in this bonus episode with one of my favorite people ever, Lily Womble. Lily is a feminist dating coach and the founder and creator of Date Brazen, a feminist dating coaching program and movement that I really wish was around when I was dating. We discuss dating apps and why they are both useful tools and addiction-creating slot machines, how to navigate the dating world with your values and true desires at the forefront, and how to give yourself the radical permission you crave to go after what you want. Her new book "Thank you, More Please!: A feminist guide to breaking dumb dating rules and finding love" is out today!Get full show notes, transcript, and links to Lily's work here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/bonus-lily-womble
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