

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
Kara Loewentheil
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone breaks down the centuries of sexist socialization that causes us to struggle with self-doubt, burnout, and anxiety.
Hosted by Master Feminist Coach Kara Loewentheil, J.D., founder of The School of New Feminist Thought and author of Take Back Your Brain (Penguin 2024), each episode teaches you how to turn down the noise of societal expectations, turn up the volume on what YOU really want in life, and change your thinking to make sure you go get it.
This podcast is an essential resource for anyone eager to embrace a life free from limiting beliefs and societal constraints.
If you ever find yourself asking questions like…
*Why am I so anxious about stuff that isn’t a big deal?
*How can I stop overthinking everything?
*Am I selfish for wanting my life to look different?
*Will I ever feel comfortable in my body?
*Am I a bad parent?
*How can I ask for more money at work?
*Can I stop people-pleasing?
*How can my partner and I communicate better?
… then you won’t want to miss an episode.
Visit schoolofnewfeministthought.com to learn more about The School of New Feminist Thought and more.
Hosted by Master Feminist Coach Kara Loewentheil, J.D., founder of The School of New Feminist Thought and author of Take Back Your Brain (Penguin 2024), each episode teaches you how to turn down the noise of societal expectations, turn up the volume on what YOU really want in life, and change your thinking to make sure you go get it.
This podcast is an essential resource for anyone eager to embrace a life free from limiting beliefs and societal constraints.
If you ever find yourself asking questions like…
*Why am I so anxious about stuff that isn’t a big deal?
*How can I stop overthinking everything?
*Am I selfish for wanting my life to look different?
*Will I ever feel comfortable in my body?
*Am I a bad parent?
*How can I ask for more money at work?
*Can I stop people-pleasing?
*How can my partner and I communicate better?
… then you won’t want to miss an episode.
Visit schoolofnewfeministthought.com to learn more about The School of New Feminist Thought and more.
Episodes
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Jan 1, 2025 • 14min
375. How to Improve Instead of Give Up
Discover what holds you back from making lasting changes in your life! Learn how your brain reacts to failure and why it’s essential for growth. Embrace the emotions of shame and guilt without letting them define you. Get practical strategies to achieve your personal goals while cultivating self-compassion. Plus, gain insight into a three-step approach that turns setbacks into stepping stones for success!

Dec 26, 2024 • 33min
374. Budgeting, Diet Culture & Spending Well - A Conversation with the Frugal Friends Podcast
Jen Smith and Jill Sirianni, co-hosts of the Frugal Friends podcast, provide valuable insights into financial empowerment and the psychological triggers behind impulse spending. They discuss how diet culture parallels spending behaviors and emphasize the importance of aligning purchases with personal values. The conversation also introduces a '30-day no-spend challenge' to help listeners reflect on their habits and foster healthier financial choices. Their upcoming book encourages guilt-free spending, promoting confidence and self-awareness in financial decisions.

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Dec 19, 2024 • 20min
373. Most Habit Change Advice is Wrong - Inconsistency Is the Key to Success
Struggling with habit formation? The key might be embracing inconsistency instead of striving for perfection. This fresh perspective challenges the conventional wisdom that rigid routines are essential for success. Discover how letting go of the all-or-nothing mentality can lead to sustainable progress, even if it's messy. Plus, learn the vital role community support plays in personal growth, offering resources and collective learning to help you achieve your goals.

Dec 12, 2024 • 22min
372. Patriarchy-Proof Your Resolutions (Greatest Hits)
Frustrated with resolutions that fade quickly? Discover how societal conditioning may shape your goals and learn to 'patriarchy-proof' them to reflect your true values. Shift focus from shame-driven ambitions to ones rooted in authenticity. Embrace autonomy while pursuing pleasure and beauty in life. Plus, find out how aligning your aspirations with personal values leads to more fulfillment. Join a community that supports your journey toward meaningful change!

Dec 5, 2024 • 14min
371. Stop Fetishizing Systemic Change or Your Brain in Denmark
Have you ever caught yourself daydreaming about how much better your life would be if you lived in a country with more progressive policies? Universal healthcare, affordable childcare, endless vacation days—it sounds like paradise, right? I know I’ve been there. But is the grass really greener, or is this just another sneaky way our brains trick us into thinking the solution is somewhere “out there”? In this episode, I’ll show you why fantasizing about a “better” life elsewhere might actually be holding you back—and how you can start rewiring your brain to create change wherever you are, no passport required.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/371Mentioned in this episode:Have you been secretly dreaming of becoming a coach?I've got something for you. It's absolutely free and it's called The 3 Things I Wish I'd Known Before Becoming a Life Coach.
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Nov 28, 2024 • 18min
370. How to Handle Disagreement Better
Have you ever found yourself stuck in a disagreement that feels like it’s going nowhere, just looping around the same points? Maybe it’s because deep down, you believe the only way to "resolve" it is if the other person totally agrees with you—or you have to surrender and agree with them. Sound familiar?Tune in as I break down a game-changing reframe for navigating conflict. You’ll get practical tools for spotting your own thought patterns, speaking your truth without needing validation, and finding peace—yes, even if the other person still doesn’t see it your way. Because here’s the truth: resolution doesn’t mean agreement, and it’s time we all start living like it.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/370Mentioned in this episode:Have you been secretly dreaming of becoming a coach?I've got something for you. It's absolutely free and it's called The 3 Things I Wish I'd Known Before Becoming a Life Coach.
This is the exact resource I wish I'd had a decade ago when I got my start.
To download it, go to: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/threeCoach Training Lead Magnet- 3 Things

Nov 21, 2024 • 24min
369. Marriage & Money: A Conversation with Megan Gorman
Megan Gorman, a tax attorney and wealth expert, discusses the critical intersection of marriage and finances. She shares insights on maintaining financial independence while navigating marital partnerships. Megan emphasizes the importance of having open financial discussions with partners and creating monthly money rituals. She addresses common pitfalls where women may lose their financial power and provides strategies to reclaim it. Listeners are encouraged to view marriage as a collaborative effort, fostering equal financial participation.

Nov 15, 2024 • 27min
Bonus: Election Mindset Shifts You Can Make Right Now
Are you catastrophizing about current events and feeling paralyzed by fear and uncertainty? It’s easy to get caught up in the echo chamber of social media and the news, leaving you feeling disempowered and overwhelmed. But what if you could learn to hold belief in the world you want to see, even when the evidence isn’t there yet?In this bonus episode, I explore some of the common thought errors that arise during challenging times. From the idea that we have to be freaking out to prove we care, to the belief that self-coaching isn’t relevant to larger societal issues, these thought patterns can keep you stuck and unable to take meaningful action. I offer shifts that I have seen to be helpful for both myself and my students in cultivating the mental fortitude we need to keep showing up for the world we believe in.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/election-mindset-shifts/Mentioned in this episode:Have you been secretly dreaming of becoming a coach?I've got something for you. It's absolutely free and it's called The 3 Things I Wish I'd Known Before Becoming a Life Coach.
This is the exact resource I wish I'd had a decade ago when I got my start.
To download it, go to: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/threeCoach Training Lead Magnet- 3 Things

Nov 14, 2024 • 22min
368. How to Stop Avoiding Your Problems
Delve into the tempting trap of problem avoidance and discover its escalating costs. Listen to a gripping personal story illustrating the fallout from neglecting issues. Explore the emotional barriers of anxiety and shame that often keep us from addressing our problems. Gain practical strategies to confront challenges with courage and resilience. Transform your approach to problem-solving for genuine personal growth!

Nov 8, 2024 • 31min
Bonus: How to Calm Your Brain Right Now
Given the events in the United States this week, many of us have brains that are running wild. You might be feeling scared, angry, disappointed, and a whole slew of other emotions. You're not alone-- and this bonus episode is here to help. Join me to hear why catastrophizing isn’t useful or accurate (even if it seems like everyone else is doing it), my own experience of anxiety and fear the last time we had the same results in 2016, and my top 5 tips for what you can do right now to keep yourself grounded and your head clear. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/bonus-calm-brain/Mentioned in this episode:Have you been secretly dreaming of becoming a coach?I've got something for you. It's absolutely free and it's called The 3 Things I Wish I'd Known Before Becoming a Life Coach.
This is the exact resource I wish I'd had a decade ago when I got my start.
To download it, go to: https://the-school-of-new-feminist-thought.captivate.fm/threeCoach Training Lead Magnet- 3 Things