
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone breaks down the centuries of sexist socialization that causes us to struggle with self-doubt, burnout, and anxiety.
Hosted by Master Feminist Coach Kara Loewentheil, J.D., founder of The School of New Feminist Thought and author of Take Back Your Brain (Penguin 2024), each episode teaches you how to turn down the noise of societal expectations, turn up the volume on what YOU really want in life, and change your thinking to make sure you go get it.
This podcast is an essential resource for anyone eager to embrace a life free from limiting beliefs and societal constraints.
If you ever find yourself asking questions like…
*Why am I so anxious about stuff that isn’t a big deal?
*How can I stop overthinking everything?
*Am I selfish for wanting my life to look different?
*Will I ever feel comfortable in my body?
*Am I a bad parent?
*How can I ask for more money at work?
*Can I stop people-pleasing?
*How can my partner and I communicate better?
… then you won’t want to miss an episode.
Visit schoolofnewfeministthought.com to learn more about The School of New Feminist Thought and more.
Latest episodes

Nov 21, 2024 • 24min
369. Marriage & Money: A Conversation with Megan Gorman
Megan Gorman, a tax attorney and wealth expert, discusses the critical intersection of marriage and finances. She shares insights on maintaining financial independence while navigating marital partnerships. Megan emphasizes the importance of having open financial discussions with partners and creating monthly money rituals. She addresses common pitfalls where women may lose their financial power and provides strategies to reclaim it. Listeners are encouraged to view marriage as a collaborative effort, fostering equal financial participation.

Nov 15, 2024 • 27min
Bonus: Election Mindset Shifts You Can Make Right Now
Are you catastrophizing about current events and feeling paralyzed by fear and uncertainty? It’s easy to get caught up in the echo chamber of social media and the news, leaving you feeling disempowered and overwhelmed. But what if you could learn to hold belief in the world you want to see, even when the evidence isn’t there yet?In this bonus episode, I explore some of the common thought errors that arise during challenging times. From the idea that we have to be freaking out to prove we care, to the belief that self-coaching isn’t relevant to larger societal issues, these thought patterns can keep you stuck and unable to take meaningful action. I offer shifts that I have seen to be helpful for both myself and my students in cultivating the mental fortitude we need to keep showing up for the world we believe in.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/election-mindset-shifts/

Nov 14, 2024 • 22min
368. How to Stop Avoiding Your Problems
Delve into the tempting trap of problem avoidance and discover its escalating costs. Listen to a gripping personal story illustrating the fallout from neglecting issues. Explore the emotional barriers of anxiety and shame that often keep us from addressing our problems. Gain practical strategies to confront challenges with courage and resilience. Transform your approach to problem-solving for genuine personal growth!

Nov 8, 2024 • 30min
Bonus: How to Calm Your Brain Right Now
Given the events in the United States this week, many of us have brains that are running wild. You might be feeling scared, angry, disappointed, and a whole slew of other emotions. You're not alone-- and this bonus episode is here to help. Join me to hear why catastrophizing isn’t useful or accurate (even if it seems like everyone else is doing it), my own experience of anxiety and fear the last time we had the same results in 2016, and my top 5 tips for what you can do right now to keep yourself grounded and your head clear. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/bonus-calm-brain/

Nov 7, 2024 • 38min
367. Leadership & Self Compassion: An Interview with Jerry Colonna
Do you ever feel like the more successful you become ... the worse you feel? Jerry Colonna, a venture-capital-guy-turned-Buddhist-executive-coach, found himself in that exact position - until he decided to do the hard work of confronting himself.In this episode, we discuss how practicing radical self-inquiry with compassion is essential for anyone who wants to lead - whether they're leading a company, a family, or just their own life. You'll learn why resolving conflicts mindfully is a critical skill -- as is embracing the messiness of being human.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/367

Oct 31, 2024 • 23min
366. The Costs and Benefits of Standing Out: A Conversation with Deesha Dyer
Deesha Dyer, former White House Social Secretary and author of "Undiplomatic," shares her inspiring journey from community college to the Obama administration. She discusses the challenges of embracing authenticity in tough settings and the balance between self-expression and societal norms. Deesha highlights the importance of inclusive leadership that encourages vulnerability and addressing biases in the workplace. The conversation also delves into how conflict can foster growth, especially for women leaders, emphasizing the power of constructive disagreement.

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Oct 24, 2024 • 28min
365. When to Choose Therapy v. Coaching
Struggling to choose between therapy and coaching? This discussion breaks down their differences, clearing up misconceptions and highlighting how both can coexist. Learn crucial questions to guide your decision-making process. Discover when therapy is essential for mental health crises and how coaching can bolster self-improvement and resilience. With insights into personal growth, this exploration empowers you to find the right support tailored to your needs.

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Oct 22, 2024 • 34min
Seth Godin: How to Be Strategic In Your Life
Seth Godin, a badass entrepreneur and marketing genius, dives into how anyone can embrace strategic thinking. He challenges societal norms that make women feel less capable of strategy. Seth emphasizes the importance of long-term perspectives over short-term comforts. He discusses navigating the disconnect between modern society and traditional education, particularly the role of social media in self-perception. By emphasizing authenticity and empathy, Seth advocates for aligning careers with personal values and finding supportive communities.

Oct 17, 2024 • 15min
364. The Efficiency Trap - And What to Aim For Instead
Explore the concept of the Efficiency Trap and why feeling overwhelmed isn't a sign of disorganization. Discover how pursuing mere efficiency can lead to burnout rather than fulfillment. Challenge societal pressures that equate responsibility with productivity, and learn how to differentiate between tasks that matter and those that don’t. A free workshop is introduced to help realign personal goals with your sense of responsibility, encouraging a more meaningful approach to productivity.

Oct 10, 2024 • 29min
363. Raising Feminist Kids (and Raising Yourself!): A Conversation with Jo-Ann Finkelstein
Join Jo-Ann Finkelstein, a clinical psychologist and author of "Sexism & Sensibility," as she dives into the nuances of feminist parenting. She discusses how childhood messages shape parenting styles and highlights the importance of validating girls' experiences. Jo-Ann emphasizes empowering daughters to navigate societal challenges while addressing the biases parents may unconsciously transmit. Gain insights into fostering resilience in children and learn how to have meaningful conversations about sexism and emotional intelligence for a more balanced upbringing.