Enneagram and Marriage

Christa Hardin, MA
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Apr 12, 2023 • 57min

Life & Marriage with an Enneagram Type Two, Kirsten Barker

In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about relationships with each of the Enneagram types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and open person of each personality type in a very down-to-earth fashion, too. Join us for another fascinating chat as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series with this week's guest Kirsten Barker, who is not only an E + M Certified Coach, but also a 2 who has been doing her work for a long time! Kirsten is also a wife, mom, and an Enneagram teacher as well. Most of all, she's willing to dive deep with us about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask or help a Two with and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a Two as well! Specifically, you will hear about: Marriage and family with a 2 The Compliant/Dependent Stance Present Orientation from the Two perspective When you feel like your Two is thought-inhibited (thinking only about relationships) When a Two is attention seeking And more! Show links: Give Kirsten's website links a browse and check out her coaching! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Apr 10, 2023 • 39min

Allowing In Your Grief & Faith Questions w/Dr. Mekel Harris, Enneagram 4w3

Grief hits us all at times - as a world, as a community, and yes, even as leaders, helpers, pastors, parents, or spouses. When grief and the ensuing life-changing rhythms and questions move us to new spaces that our friends, families, and often spouses, cannot fully navigate, what can do we do? And when faith questions arise, where can we go? In other words, you must give your loss and sadness a healthy space to process so you can both honor your story as well as emerge when the time is right for new life and hope again and again. Join us for this very special episode together as we do this very thing with psychologist and Tedx speaker Dr. Mekel Harrish, PhD, Enneagram 4w3 as she shares from both the space of personal loss and her own expertise as a grief therapist with tools for us as well. Show Links: Get Dr. Mekel's book Get it here on Amazon! Dr. Mekel's offerings on her website Dr. Mekel's Instagram Account Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Apr 5, 2023 • 45min

Life & Marriage with an Enneagram Type 3, Abigail Perry

In this "Life" series, you're doing more than learning about relationships with each of the Enneagram types but it's a time for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type in a very real fashion, too. Join us for an authentic chat as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type with Christa's sister Abbie today, who is an SX 3! Abigail is the COO of the Detroit Area Agency on Aging, a mom of five children, and a full-on go-getting 3. Most of all, she's willing to dive deep with us about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a Three and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a Three as well! Specifically, you will hear about: Marriage and family with a 3 The Aggressive Stance Future Orientation from the Three perspective When you feel like your Three is working too har When a Three is attention seeking And more!  For a Deep Dive on Type Three, share here! Sign up for the Gospel for Enneagram Conference Free Registration here! Sign up for the All-Access Pass to the conference with speaker bonuses and recordings here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Apr 3, 2023 • 54min

Overcoming Father Wounds w/Kia Stephens

Whenever we approach spiritual growth, we look for roots in hurt or pain. Where have we gone off track with God and how does this distance or these wounds affect our relationships? In this new series on digging deep for faith individually and/or as couples, we ask hard questions - questions everyone has asked at some point but may not always feel are heard. Today we welcome powerful speaker, writer, and influencer at Proverbs 31 Ministries, author Kia Stephens as we discuss one of the key questions surrounding faith - what to do when there’s a father wound. Though Kia’s book has a special sensitivity around the huge amount of research detailing that many women have a father wound, this is a conversation all will want to take in if they have a father wound or they have a spouse who has one! Show Links: Get Kia's book  Overcoming Father Wounds here on Amazon!  Get it here on her website! Kia's offerings on her website Kia's Instagram Account Sign up for the Gospel for Enneagram Conference Free Registration  here! Sign up for the All-Access Pass to the conference with speaker bonuses and recordings here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Mar 29, 2023 • 54min

Life with Enneagram 4s + Sleep Tips for Each Type, Jentry Courter, Enneagram 4

Guest Jentry Courter, an ICU Nurse and Enneagram 4, shares tips for improving sleep for each Enneagram type. Topics include embracing Enneagram identity, growing together, struggles with sleep and emotional health, and tailored sleep tips for types 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9. Learn about the importance of restfulness and connecting with the guest.
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Mar 27, 2023 • 54min

Strong Like Water with Aundi Kolber, Enneagram 4

Acclaimed trauma specialist Aundi Kolber discusses trauma processing, resilience, and becoming strong like water. She explores balancing authenticity vs. belonging, redefining strength through the Enneagram, and recognizing safety cues to prevent trauma responses. The podcast delves into the art of attuning, responding, and tending for self-care, highlighting the impact of presence and reflection on personal growth.
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Mar 22, 2023 • 58min

Life and Marriage with a 5, Jennifer Passmore

In this insightful conversation, Jennifer Passmore, a school principal, pastor's wife, and mom of four, shares her experiences as an Enneagram Five. She delves into the complexities of marriage and family life from a Five's perspective. Discover how Fives navigate emotional connections and their tendency to withdraw. Jennifer provides candid advice on overcoming scarcity mentality and highlights the importance of personal space in relationships. Her reflections offer valuable insights for anyone looking to understand and support their Five partners better.
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Mar 20, 2023 • 40min

The Enneagram & Your Marriage with Jackie Brewster, 7-3 Marriage Pairing

When we don’t have a healthy foundation or direction for exploring conflict well together, things tend to fall apart and keep falling apart - conflict management is essential as we have been discussing all month. Today on this deeper dive into conflict, we are joined by author Jackie Brewster as she walks us through her practical, hands-on brand new 7-week workbook on using extremely practical and organized Enneagram tools and tips to help you grow personally and heal these threads of discord between you. Our E + M audience also gets a special 30% off of Jackie's book, The Enneagram & Your Marriage, right here! You can also find her book at Amazon.com here! You can learn more about Jackie at her website here or her popular IG account here! Along with many others, Jackie and Christa will also be speaking at the Gospel for Enneagram Conference coming up this April. Get your free ticket here! Want to watch the conference on your own time versus live + get access to bonuses? Get your all-access pass right here and get more fun, freebies, and extras! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Mar 15, 2023 • 57min

Life and Marriage with an Enneagram 6, Heather Richmond

Join us for a cup of matcha and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type as well who has been journeying for awhile, too. Today we are interviewing singer, dietician, momma, and wife, Heather Richmond, Enneagram Type 6 on all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a 6! Specifically, you will hear about: Marriage and family with a 6 The Compliant/Dependent Stance (and the Counterphobic side of a 6 also!) Present Orientation of a 6 from a 6 What a 6 appreciates in marriage When a 6  is spinning with anxiety and self-doubt And more! Grab the Deep Dive on Type 6 Here! Visit Heather's page >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Mar 13, 2023 • 38min

A Powerful Conflict Tool w/Psychologist Dr. Wyatt Fisher, PsyD

Psychologist Dr. Wyatt has an important mission: to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a time and today on the Enneagram and Marriage podcast, he does just that. As one of the leading marriage and relationships podcasters, today we are in for a treat as he vulnerably shares not only from an objective clinical lens but from a visceral empathy from his own marriage trauma healing over seasons as well. As we study conflict together all month, this episode gives you a very practical look at shaping your marriage healthily through one of Dr. Wyatt's nine tools - the five-minute, small but mighty "Bullseye" tool so you can get moving in a healthy direction right away! Show links: Find Dr. Wyatt Fisher's clinical marriage podcast here, and more about his practice, app, and website >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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