
The Self Love Fix
Welcome to The Self Love Fix Podcast. I’m your host, Beatrice -an embodiment coach, teacher, and mentor, and founder of The Self Love Over Codependency Program.
Are you ready to finally step into your worthiness and magnetism? Are you tired of your limiting beliefs and self-doubt affecting every aspect of your life? You deserve to live an abundant life, you deserve to desire and achieve all of your dreams, and most importantly, you deserve to embody unshakable self-confidence.
Believe it or not, I didn’t always embody self-trust. Most of my life, I lived at the mercy of what other people thought of me. It was only during a very low point I experienced during grad school where I asked myself, “Where does your need for perfectionism come from?”
This was a game-changing moment for me. For the first time in my life, I asked myself about the origins of my behavior instead of blaming myself for them.
From then on, I promised to live out my passion and mission for embodying my true essence and to teach others to do the same.
That’s exactly why I created this podcast. This podcast is all about helping you shift from shame, people-pleasing, codependency, low self-esteem, and self-doubt and into alignment, expansion, and unapologetic self-trust through spirituality and healing the inner-child.
For more information about the podcast, or other ways you can work with me, visit: www.beatricekamau.com
I would love to connect with you more on social media! You can find me at:
IG: @theselflovefix
Website: beatricekamau.com
Latest episodes

Jun 11, 2020 • 22min
59. Emotional labor & Self Care
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about emotional labor. What is emotional labor? What does it look like in the context codependency, race, and our everyday experiences. You are not going to want to miss the nuggets in this episode :). Book of the month: All about love by Bell Hooks Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com Some links may be affiliate

Jun 4, 2020 • 24min
58. Racism, Trauma, & Spirituality
Speaking from my truth & my heart. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

May 28, 2020 • 15min
57. Ways Our Ego Tells Us Lies About Ourselves
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about some of the ways our ego tells us lies about who we are. We discuss how some of these lies develop from our childhood. Often times, we feel as though we are broken, as though something is inherently wrong with us, and as though nothing good will ever come our way. We think these lies are our truth when in reality, they are actually lies that come from our ego. Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

May 21, 2020 • 19min
6 Sneaky Ways Codependency Shows Up as Perfectionism
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about the 6 sneaky ways codependency can show up as perfectionism. Perfectionism is a coping mechanism often developed from childhood that helps us feel a sense of control and a sense of worth. The truth is our worth is not in what we can produce or how we can produce it. Listen to this episode to discover more about perfectionism and how to release it as a form of self-love and inner child healing Check out https://trybetterhelp.com/selflovefix to save 10% on your first month of online therapy/counseling through better help professional counseling (Sponsored by Betterhelp). Click here to get your FREE ticket to the Choose Yourself Summit (it's virtual!) May 18-22 (or visit https://www.ashleybeaudin.com/summit?via=beatrice) Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

May 14, 2020 • 17min
55. 7 Signs You May Have A Mother Wound
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about the 7 Signs You May Have A Mother Wound. A "mother wound", in this episode, refers to the emotional damage that you may experience as an adult as a result of having had a relationship with an emotionally abusive, narcissistic, and/or emotionally unavailable parent. We talk about the signs and as always, we talk about how important it is to validate, love, & affirm yourself & your truth, despite it all. Click here to get your FREE ticket to the Choose Yourself Summit (it's virtual!) May 18-22 (or visit https://www.ashleybeaudin.com/summit?via=beatrice) Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

May 7, 2020 • 18min
54. How to let go of Negative & Self Critical Thoughts
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk negative and self-critical thoughts! We talk about how childhood trauma & narcissistic trauma can influence our thought patterns and how most of our thoughts are just that- patterns. We an AMAZING way to let go of negative & self critical thoughts and we discuss how you are not alone & you are not crazy, there's totally a way to break free from this! Can't wait to see you on the other side! Click here to pre-order my new masterclass: How to Stop Negative & Self-Critical Thoughts (Available May 10th, 2020!) (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Book of the Month: Loving The Self Affirmations: Breaking the Cycles of Codependent Unconscious Belief Systems by Lisa A. Romano Please don't forget to rate & review! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Apr 30, 2020 • 32min
53. 10 Signs You Grew Up with A Narcissistic Mother
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about the 10 signs you grew up with a narcissistic mother. This is not a complete list as there are many other signs but, these are some of the most common signs you may come across. You're not going to want to miss this eye-opening episode! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Apr 23, 2020 • 25min
52. Quarantine Special: "Why Do I feel so Obsessed and Attached to Them?"
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about feeling "obsessed" with that potential partner, or that person you are "talking to", or even that person you have been ghosted to (hey what happened to them and why are they ignoring me?) we go into DETAIL about why we panic, why we get obsessed, and why we want more from those that give us less. Hint: it's not you, it's the pattern of thinking you were raised with. Are you ready to dive deep into this topic? I'll see you on the other side! xx Beatrice Please don't forget to rate & review! Check out https://trybetterhelp.com/selflovefix to save 10% on your first month of online therapy/counseling through better help professional counseling (Sponsored by Betterhelp). Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Apr 16, 2020 • 31min
51.Inner Child Healing with Alyssa Lia Mancao
Hey girl! In this episode, we have a special guest, licensed psychotherapist Alyssa Lia Mancao. During this episode, Alyssa and I chat about inner child healing work, trauma, and how to deal with it all especially, during the quarantine. You are not going to want to miss the gems she drops in this episode! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com Special guest: Alyssa Lia Mancao, licensed psychotherapist Alyssa's IG: @alyssamariewellness Alyssa's email: info@alyssamariewellness.com

Apr 9, 2020 • 16min
50. "Over it" How to Deal with Anger & Confrontational People
Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about dealing with angry and confrontational people, how to deal with our own anger when we feel offended and/or attacked, and how to respond to the narcissists in our lives who try to elicit reactions out of us. In this episode, we also explore the ego and how our ego relates to our reactions and responses to the situations and things that upset and frustrate us. Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
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