Feminine as F*ck

The podcast discusses sisterhood wounding and its impact on personal growth. It explores behaviors like backstabbing and bullying in female friendships, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and not letting fear of rejection hinder growth. The influence of trauma and biology on women's behavior is also explored, highlighting the need for recognition and support. The chapter touches on setting boundaries, making like-minded friends, and expanding networks. It concludes with an upcoming podcast announcement and a call for Q&A suggestions about setting boundaries.

Today's episode is all about how as a woman you need to understand that if you want to feel safe, you need to feel safe around men. This is also a good episode for men to listening to, as a great permission slip to be in their grounded masculine. I chat about: ☽ The MeToo movement, feminism and how the intention of these movements have shifted, been taken out of context and blown out of proportion, thus creating a manhunt which is causing the opposite of what we want. ☽ How biologically, men will make women feel safer  ☽ How the answer to women feeling 'unsafe' is actually in MEN  ☽ Understanding that as women we want to feel ravished, loved, cherished and wanted by men.  ☽ How society has made men's good dominance to become an unhealthy, toxic, masculine trait when actually it the thing that makes women feel grounded and safe. ☽ Why biologically and energetically, the feminine wants to be devoured by the masculine. ☽ Why we need to give permission for men to be their masculine Want more? ⇢ Here is the survey I mention (share this with the men in your life!): https://forms.gle/Tj7pgXjhNzu2zdkr5 ⇢ Read the blog version of this ep: https://monicayates.com.au/197-how-masculine-men-actually-make-society-safer-and-feminine-men-make-it-unsafe/ ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ Men's Survey: https://forms.gle/D8A3nBb7prHN4R4j8  ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

This is going to be a good episode for my male listeners and also my female listeners, so that you can have more compassion towards men (cc: Be A Lover, Not A Mother) and understand that they have struggles too. I chat about: - The stress of not being 'enough of a man' - External factors and what your partner actually deems as being 'a man' - Looking at the root of feeling not 'enough' - You saying "I want to be a better man" isn't admitting fault. It's saying that you want more for yourself, which is an attractive trait. Want more? ⇢ Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/196-how-to-heal-your-stress-of-not-being-enough-of-a-man/ ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event are available: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

I haven't been drinking for about three months now. I didn't start for any particular reason and I didn't intend on keeping it up for a particular length of time either. Until I felt the benefits of not drinking, I wasn't fully aware of how much drinking alcohol was affecting me. In this episode I chat about the benefits I experienced by abstaining from alcohol, including: ☽ Clarity ☽ See things in people and their behaviours ☽ Have higher levels of motivation ☽ Clear skin ☽ Wake up earlier and be less stressed because I have more time ☽ Have less attachment to things and more surrender Want more? ⇢ Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/195-i-stopped-drinking-alcohol-for-three-months-and-this-is-what-happened/ ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event are available: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

This is a juicy episode I recorded with Lee Noto. We chat about: ☽ The breakdown of what masculine armour and emasculation is, and the impact of both ☽ How to dance between the masculine and feminine ☽ Understanding biology and the nervous system to receive freedom and grace in your life ☽ Permission to stop being a fucking man and let men be men Want more? ⇢ Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/194-where-are-all-the-good-men-btch-theyre-around-me-quit-emasculating/ ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event are available: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/

This is something I haven't actually properly touched on in any of my episodes before. This episode is all about how understanding the opposite sex will help you get further in your career. I chat about: ☽ Feeling safe in your workplace and creating a supportive environment ☽ Learning how to change your communication slightly for men, and vice versus ☽ What drives the opposite sex, including purpose, power, leadership, support, validation, attention and communication Want more? ⇢ Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/193-how-understanding-the-opposite-sex-will-help-you-get-further-in-your-career/ ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event are released on the 16th November: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/

Welcome to part two of the YOU series (...so if you haven’t listened to part one obviously make sure you do first!) In this episode I cover: ☽ Blackout rage attacks ☽ Sociopaths, psychopaths and narcissists ☽ Abandonment wounds ☽ Love languages ☽ The importance of keeping things spicy in a long term relationship Also mentioned in this ep: ⇢ Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/192-breakdown-of-the-netflix-show-you-part-2/ ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Join the waitlist for my NYC event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/

You guys all loved my SexLife series and asked for more podcasts in this style! So you asked and I've delivered ;) This time I'm going to be chatting about You season 3 (if you haven't watched it yet, this will include spoilers!) In this ep I dive into:  ☽ The exacerbation of violence towards women, that "men aren't safe" and that women are afraid of trusting men ☽ The proliferation of the societal norm that "women are crazy" ☽ Why these shows can be damaging to your subconscious  ☽ The measles storyline ☽ Childhood wounding, control and feeling safe ☽ What made me really fucking angry ☽ Trauma bonds and the search for 'the one' ☽ Rage and the ability to express healthy anger Also mentioned in this episode: ⇢ Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/191-breakdown-of-the-netflix-show-you-part-1-whats-fucked-up-about-this-show/ ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Join the waitlist for my NYC event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/

In this juicy ep I cover: ☽ Examples of emasculation ☽ How men can also emasculate the masculine part of a women ☽ Emasculation in the workplace ☽ When you are actually empowered, you empower others ☽ How emasculation actually stems from insecurity Want more?... ⇢ Here is the episode Monica mentions about 'what is emasculation?': https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/136-what-is-emasculation-and-how-does-it-affect-men-and-women/id1449633522?i=1000501684886 ⇢ Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/190-how-emasculation-hurts-both-men-and-women/ ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Join the waitlist for my NYC event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/

This is the story of how I developed my intuition. In this ep, I chat about: ☽ Past life regression  ☽ The memory of when I think my intuition shut down (because I was too scared of how on point it was!) ☽ How I started to bring my intuition back up ☽ Examples of how I know that it's really strong now ☽ The importance of listening to your intuitive nudges, even if you don't know the reason behind the 'why'... ☽ Plus, I answer a bunch of questions that all. my ladies in the BTS bubble group asked me about developing intuition, feeling comfortable with it and whether everyone is psychic or not. Want more?... ⇢The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ ⇢BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/189-the-story-of-how-i-developed-my-intuition/ ⇢Witch Womb Wisdom: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/witch-womb-wisdom-program/ ⇢Join the waitlist for my NYC event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2