Men Talking Mindfulness: Mental, Physical, and Emotional Health for Leaders Under Pressure

What if fear isn’t the enemy?Jon and Will sit down with Kristen Ulmer, former world-class extreme skier and author of The Art of Fear, to rethink everything we believe about fear, anxiety, and performance. Kristen shares how embracing fear—not conquering or ignoring it—can unlock personal growth, peak performance, and even joy. From her experiences dominating the slopes for 12 years to her groundbreaking insights on mindset, she offers practical strategies to turn fear into a powerful ally.Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction 03:30 - Understanding Our Relationship with Fear12:35 - Connecting with Fear for Better Performance20:24 - Mathematics of Fear and Intimacy: Understanding Suffering and Flow28:18 - Understanding Resistance in Managing Fear and Anxiety32:19 - Navigating Emotional Intelligence: Levels of Feeling and Fear38:24 - Confronting Fear: The Cycle of Control and Resistance41:08 - Emotional Awareness and Resilience44:37 - Navigating Anger and Emotional Expression46:28 - Understanding and Reframing Children's Fear51:11 - Embracing Fear: A Love Affair with Risk53:23 - Navigating Fear and Growth in Skiing56:26 - Expanding Your Comfort Zone01:01:32 - Visualization and Overcoming Fear01:05:14 - Exploring Mindfulness01:11:24 - Insights on Meditation and Emotional HealthHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Jon is really making some changes through all his dedication, consistency, and hard work. He is definitely experiencing some struggles along the way too. Enjoy this monthly check-in. Do you want to make some changes too? Perhaps signing up and joining Team MTM for our 5k Spartan race in Dallas on October 19th would motivate you to make the desired changes. Here is the info to sign up and join our team:https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/spartan-race-2025Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What if the key to men’s strength lies in embracing vulnerability?This conversation with Dr. Audra Horney dives into the often-overlooked topic of men's mental health, exploring barriers to therapy, societal pressures, and the stigma that discourages men from seeking help. Dr. Horney emphasizes the importance of creating safe, inclusive spaces where men feel seen and understood, advocating for a redefined masculinity that embraces vulnerability and emotional intelligence. She shares insights on building trust, addressing shame, and helping men articulate their emotions to foster personal growth and deeper connections in relationships. The discussion highlights practical steps for improving mental health, the transformative role of therapy, and the unique power of music as an emotional outlet. Through authenticity and mindfulness, Dr. Horney advocates for therapy as a collaborative, empowering process tailored to men’s needs.Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction03:18 - Men's Mental Health and the Stigma of Therapy06:37 - The Farmer in the ER Metaphor07:30 - Redefining Therapy's Appeal10:57 - Encouraging Men to Seek Therapy13:23 - Exploring Men's Mental Health Through Social Media 16:14 - The Role of Social Media in Therapy for Men19:34 - Men's Therapy Preferences and Challenges21:51 - Understanding Men's Unique Needs in Therapy23:47 - Collaborative Healing: Understanding Client Struggles25:48 - Embracing Vulnerability in Therapy28:31 - Embracing Authenticity Through Mindfulness30:44 - Mindfulness and Emotional Awareness35:21 - Healthy Masculinity and Emotional Sensitivity40:32 - Mental Health Conversations for Men45:29 - Debunking Myths About Therapy and Gender49:48 - Music as Emotional Therapy54:16 - Therapy's Impact on Relationship Communication 59:30 - The Transformative Power of Vulnerability in Therapy01:06:23 - Embracing Authenticity and ConnectionHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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What if patience is the ultimate superpower for effective leadership and personal growth?In this conversation, Will Schneider and Jon Macaskill dive deep into the transformative impact of patience on decision-making, emotional regulation, and team dynamics. Through practical strategies like the STOP method and personal anecdotes, they explore how slowing down can lead to better outcomes, stronger relationships, and long-term success. They tackle common misconceptions about patience, share insights from historical leaders like Nelson Mandela and Abraham Lincoln, and reveal how cultivating patience can reduce anxiety, improve communication, and reframe challenges as opportunities for growth. Discover why patience isn’t a weakness—it’s a strength that every leader should master.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What can you do to transform your inner critic from a source of self-sabotage into a tool for personal growth? In this empowering episode of Men Talking Mindfulness, Dr. Frank Anderson, an expert in internal family systems, joins us to share practical strategies for overcoming self-doubt and building self-discipline. We dive into how to recognize and manage that negative voice in your head, turning it into a powerful tool for personal growth. Plus, the hosts share updates on their personal fitness challenges, including an upcoming Spartan race in Dallas on October 19th, and invite listeners to join. Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What if you could rewire your mind to transform stress into peace? We sit down with Kathleen Riley, founder of the Presencing Peace Method, to explore how neuroplasticity and meditation can help men break free from chronic stress. Kathleen shares practical strategies for rewiring your brain, balancing your nervous system, and achieving emotional well-being in the face of societal pressures. We also dive deep into the biology of change, the role of mindfulness in redefining masculinity, and the small, actionable steps you can take daily to create lasting inner peace. Timestamps: 00:00 - Redefining Modern Masculinity 04:17 -  Understanding Masculinity Without a Father Figure 07:58 - Success Through Small Achievements: A Personal Journey 08:43 - The Impact of Athletic Success on Confidence and Social Connections 14:35 - The Impact of Gender Dynamics in the Workforce and Education 16:35 - Understanding Perspectives Across Socioeconomic Strata 18:38 - Men, Mindfulness, and Societal Perceptions 23:00 - Navigating the Tightrope of Masculinity and Its Psychological Impact 27:45 - Effortlessly Yourself: The Key to Authentic Conversations 34:51 - Overcoming Injury and the Power of Mindful Detachment 36:40 - Understanding Selfhood and the Precariousness of Manhood 46:37 - Teaching Vigilance and Critical Thinking to Daughters 52:47 - Navigating Romantic Interest and Cues: Advice for Young Men 58:19 - Navigating Emotions and Relationships 01:01:33 - Creating Psychological Safety at Home 01:03:15 - Understanding Emotional Miscommunication with ChildrenHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Why do so many men feel trapped by the need to please others, avoid conflict, and seek constant validation—and how can they break free? Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, unpacks the roots of "Nice Guy Syndrome," revealing how covert contracts, suppressed needs, and the fear of rejection keep men stuck in unfulfilling cycles. We explore the path to healthy masculinity through self-acceptance, authenticity, and connecting with others, as Dr. Glover shares practical insights and his own journey to embracing a more empowered, purposeful life. Buy Dr. Robert Glover’s book here: https://www.drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy/the-book.html Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction02:14 - Healthy Masculinity Defined05:35 - Importance of Healthy Masculinity06:50 - The Inner Turmoil of Nice Guys10:37 - Living with Purpose in Daily Life12:01 - Attraction and Masculine Energy13:27 - The Challenge of Modern Dating15:04 - The Black Pill Phenomenon18:06 - The Impact of Shame on Men19:10 - The Nice Guy Syndrome Explained24:45 - The Roots of Nice Guy Behavior28:15 - The Cycle of Nice Guy Behavior32:09 - The Importance of Authenticity34:20 - The Paradox of Being Nice38:44 - Exploring Sexuality and Authenticity40:41 - The Manipulation in Modern DatingHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Jon has officially declared war on his "Dad Bod" and is leveling up big time this year. Not just any shape—he’s going full-on chiseled, ripped, shredded, and cut. Why, you ask? Because this isn’t just about getting healthier—it’s about stepping onto the stage at a Physique Competition in Denver on August 9th. Stay tuned! We’ll be here every step of the way, documenting the sweat, struggles, and triumphs with monthly bonus episodes. Get ready to witness Jon’s transformation into a full-blown Chiseled Champ—it will be epic! You can also catch this journey on our IG @mentalkingmindfulnessHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What makes kindness so transformative, and why do small acts hold such power? Will explores the science behind being kind, revealing its profound biological effects—from reducing stress hormones to fostering deeper connections. He uncovers the hidden obstacles, like stress and self-doubt, that hold us back from kindness and shares practical ways to integrate it into daily life. Will also discusses how small, intentional acts of kindness can ripple outward, creating meaningful change for both yourself and others. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:30 - The Power of Kindness 04:56 - Biological Benefits of Kindness 10:06 - Obstacles to Kindness: The Jackass Within 18:06 - Practicing Kindness in Daily Life 30:04 - The Ripple Effect of KindnessHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.