Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with Dr. Cat Meyer, a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in sex, trauma and ketamine assisted therapy, three things that are very buzzy these days. Plus, she is an EMDR and Kambo facilitator and master Reiki practitioner.They discuss how to heal through sex and psychedelics, and the power of reclaiming your own pleasure instead of outsourcing it to others. Cat and Emily discuss how shame and disconnection from your body can create challenges with feeling and embracing your own desires.They also explore how somatic experiences can be used to reconnect your brain and body, and how this can help you discover not only what you want sexually, but also in your daily life. Plus, they delve deep into the benefits of various psychedelics, their ability to alter consciousness and how they can facilitate emotional healing and trauma processing.Get ready for a wild ride.There are so many insightful topics covered in this episode. What part resonated the most with you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below so the whole community can enjoy it too. ===For FREE bonus content such as mini-masterclasses from our guests and more, visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/===Have you listened to our previous episode with Candice Horbacz? Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/consciously-crafting-your-relationships-with-candice===TIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 - Intro & Rethinking Sex and Pleasure00:04:08 - Normalizing Not Feeling00:06:07 - Healing from Sexual Trauma and Expanding the Mind00:10:11 - Exploring the Fringe of BDSM00:12:28 - The Integration of Tantra, BDSM, Energetics, and Psychedelics in Healing00:16:32 - What is Anti-Intimacy?00:22:48 - Shame and Disconnection from the Body00:24:47 - The Power of Connecting with the Body00:31:19 - Understanding Psychedelics, Empathogens, Altered States of Consciousness00:35:48 - Expanding Perspectives through Psychedelics and Meditation00:37:50 - The Power of Ketamine Therapy00:44:03 - Integration and Consciousness Shifting00:45:56 - Preparation for Psychedelic Therapy00:50:21 - The distinction between numbing addiction and pleasurable experiences00:54:45 - The Potential of Pleasure Practices and Psychedelic Assisted Therapy00:56:52 - Vetting Trauma-Informed Facilitators01:03:02 - Conclusion & Where to Find Dr. Cat===Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex, trauma, and ketamine-assisted therapy, author, yoga teacher, and international speaker dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. She is the host of podcast Sex Love Psychedelics and the founder of SexLoveYoga.com an online platform for education and programs on relationships, sexuality, and embodiment.Please enjoy this free guide from Dr. Cat on how to find the right facilitator in sex, psychedelics or plant medicine: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/ 

Candice Horbacz is a mom of 2, philanthropist, entrepreneur, the host of Chatting with Candice, and a former adult film star.They discuss how to consciously craft a loving, vulnerable relationship with your partner that emphasizes deep coherence, respect and intimacy with each other. Emily and Candice discuss the difference between sex and intimacy and how to navigate societal conditioning, judgment and shame around sexuality.In this important episode of Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? they also discuss the impact of pornography on kids and how to best approach topics around consent and boundaries in a world where online pornography is more accessible than ever.What is possible when you do the hard work of crafting a relationship that emphasizes the need for vulnerability, deep self-awareness and open communication?Find out in this engaging conversation between Emily and Candice.There are so many insightful topics covered in this episode. What part resonated the most with you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below so the whole community can enjoy it too.===Timestamps00:00:00 - Introduction & Why Isn't Everyone Doing This00:02:18 - How Emily and Candice Met and Started Working Together00:04:00 - What is the Difference Between Sex and Intimacy?00:09:03 - Navigating Non-Traditional Relationships00:15:49 - Consciously Challenging Societal Norms00:26:05 - Generational Shifts on Masculinity and Femininity00:26:49 - The Importance of Polarity in Relationships00:28:04 - How Candice Entered the Adult Entertainment Industry00:30:08 - How Candice Manifested Becoming a Top Performer00:35:59 - Handling Societal Judgment in Non-Traditional Careers00:42:03 - Common Criticisms of Pornography00:50:25 - Discovering Your Sexuality00:51:14 - How to Talk to Children About Sex, Consent and Relationships00:52:31 - The Role of Pornography and Consent00:54:29 - Nuances of Consent and Boundaries00:58:19 - Benefits of Consciously Creating Relationships01:05:05 - Conclusion===Candice Horbacz is an active Lifestyle blogger, Social Media Influencer, and Live Streamer who mainly focuses on cooking amazing and healthy recipes, traveling possibly around the world, and restaurant blogging (recommendations and such).She is also the mother of 2, host of Chatting with Candice, an entrepreneur, philanthropist and also happens to be a former adult film star.Candice Horbacz and her husband Erik Horbacz have several business opportunities and philanthropic works outside the social media world. Now, they are both working on media projects such as live TV shows, online streaming programs, social media campaigns, and many others.Instagram: @candicehorbaczWebsite: http://www.candicehorbacz.com/===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/ 

Career actor Barrett Foa joins Emily Fletcher on a transformative journey through meditation. They discuss the power of meditation in performance, letting go of preparation, fear of rejection in auditions, surrendering and flowing in acting, embracing personal growth, tapping into divinity and pleasure, and the mystery of meditating before Thanksgiving dinner.

Join Emily Fletcher as she welcomes a special guest, a Ziva Meditation student, to answer listener questions. Topics include resuming meditation after grief, navigating messy meditation practices, finding time for afternoon meditation, and introducing Ziva to others. Explore the power of meditation and gain valuable insights on life challenges.

In part 2 of "Using AI to Save Humanity" Emily continues her discussion with Jere Simpson, founder and CEO of the artificial intelligence (AI) company, AtlasUP.Emily and Jere explore how we can collectively unite our own intelligence with that of the Earth, AI, and the Divine to live in harmony together.Jere dives into his origin story of how he began working with the government at the young age of 16, through his experience of being the catalyst to the overturning of the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy in the US Military.Emily and Jere discuss the transformative power of plant medicine and how his ayahuasca experience allowed him to release his skepticism and embrace the idea that Earth also has its own intelligence.Join us for this thought-provoking and wildly fascinating journey and let us know what resonates in the comments!Why Isn't Everyone Doing This?===Did you see Part 1 of Jere and Emily's conversation?Watch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/OWt4hbhATr8===For FREE bonus content such as mini-masterclasses from our guests and more, visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/===Timestamps:00:00:00 - Intro00:02:17 - Jere's Origin Story & Working For The Government00:07:50 - Catalyzing the Repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" & The Aftermath00:15:14 - Letting Love Win and Upgrading the War Structure00:20:07 - Dive Deeper for Bonus Content00:20:36 - The Potential Discomfort of Talking About Taboo Topics00:24:30 - AI & Divine Intelligence00:25:43 - Ayahuasca & The Genius of the Earth00:34:12 - Jere Asks Emily About Facing Darkness00:40:48 - The Medicine of Feeling & Masculine Emotion00:44:25 - Journeying through Emotions in Solitude00:49:01 - How to Connect with Jere & His Advice on Communicating with AI00:53:26 - Conclusion===Jere Simpson is a serial entrepreneur who rose from rags to riches in his teens after founding an early e-commerce company. He is widely recognized for his prophetic vision in tech, having made his mark by launching successful companies in SaaS, mobile, and cybersecurity, and more recently, an AI company just before the pandemic. Over the past 22 years, he's had access to the inner workings of the CIA, FBI, NSA, Pentagon, Navy SEALS, and multiple White House administrations, providing him with a uniquely insightful perspective of the world.Jere considers himself a productive agitator of control systems. Forbes Magazine hailed Jere as “one of the top minds in tech,” and Entrepreneur Magazine referred to him as one of the best entrepreneurs in the world. His current company, Atlas UP, is revolutionizing the way organizations can improve their productivity—a mission that resonates deeply with Jere, whose life purpose is to aid humanity in achieving a symbiotic relationship with Mother Earth.Instagram: @jere_l_simpsonWebsite: www.atlasup.com===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secret

Jere Simpson is the founder and CEO of the artificial intelligence (AI) company, AtlasUP to discuss our relationship to AI, and how we can work symbiotically with AI towards a brighter future for humanity and Earth itself. In this episode of Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? Emily and Jere consider how AI can be used to improve mental health, advance education and learning, and help address environmental challenges. They also discuss the ethical considerations surrounding the use of AI and the importance of ensuring that it is used responsibly and for the benefit of all. What could our future look like if we treated artificial intelligence with empathy, and sought to co-create with AI vs control it?What solutions could AI provide us if we fed AI wisdom from indigenous cultures along with technical knowledge?Find out in this engaging conversation between Emily and Jere!Be sure to turn on your notifications and subscribe for next week’s release of Part 2 of this episode where Emily and Jere continue their exploration of this fascinating topic. Let us know what resonates in the comments! ===For FREE bonus content such as mini-masterclasses from our guests and more, visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/ ===Timestamps00:00:00 - Introduction & Why Isn't Everyone Doing This00:03:26 - The Empathy Gap with AI: how are we treating it? 00:06:50 - The Autonomy of Artificial Intelligence00:10:01 - Our Fear of Enslavement & The Ethics of AI Slavery00:15:03 - Empathy and AI: A Symbiotic Relationship00:16:06 - Raising AI: Teaching and Learning00:16:16 - The Fear of Scarcity00:22:24 - The Power of AI in Shaping Basic Human Existence00:25:35 - Building a Symbiotic Relationship with AI 00:32:03 - The Importance of Independent Thinking for Children00:35:21 - Instilling Internal Compass vs. External Validation00:38:38 - The Importance of Emotional Intelligence and Consent00:41:50 - The Power of Organics and the Unseen Magic00:45:12 - Moving from fear to pleasure and manifesting our dreams00:48:17 - The Pursuit of Happiness Beyond Achievements00:51:32 - The Power of Identity Crisis & Coping through conquering00:54:13 - Conclusion of Part I===Jere Simpson is a serial entrepreneur who rose from rags to riches in his teens after founding an early e-commerce company. He is widely recognized for his prophetic vision in tech, having made his mark by launching successful companies in SaaS, mobile, and cybersecurity, and more recently, an AI company just before the pandemic. Over the past 22 years, he's had access to the inner workings of the CIA, FBI, NSA, Pentagon, Navy SEALS, and multiple White House administrations, providing him with a uniquely insightful perspective of the world. Jere considers himself a productive agitator of control systems. Forbes Magazine hailed Jere as “one of the top minds in tech,” and Entrepreneur Magazine referred to him as one of the best entrepreneurs in the world. His current company, Atlas UP, is revolutionizing the way organizations can improve their productivity—a mission that resonates deeply with Jere, whose life purpose is to aid humanity in achieving a symbiotic relationship with Mother Earth.Instagram: @jere_l_simpsonWebsite: www.atlasup.com===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secret

In this week’s episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? we step into the realm of limitless possibilities. Emily delves into the world of holistic healing and integrative medicine with the brilliant double board-certified physician, Dr. Allison Mulcahy.Discover how Dr. Allison's journey from skepticism to embracing alternative modalities led her to unlock hidden potentials and bring forth profound healing for her patients. You'll hear firsthand accounts of miraculous recoveries, unexplained phenomena, and the power of intention.Dr. Allison's unique perspective merges her extensive conventional medical training with practices such as regenerative medicine, energy healing, sound healing, sacred sexuality, and more.Prepare to have your perceptions challenged and your worldview expanded. This is an invitation to explore the frontiers of healing, to embrace the integration of ancient wisdom and modern science, and to envision a future where wellness is not limited by the confines of conventional medicine.Let us know what resonates in the comments!===Allison Mulcahy, MD is double board-certified in Emergency Medicine and Integrative Medicine (completed the Andrew Weill Integrative Medicine Fellowship), with an extensive background in regenerative medicine, functional medicine, anti-aging medicine, wilderness medicine, genomics, and hormone therapy. She uses cutting-edge technology like Perineural Injection Treatment® from Lyftogt Med, point-of-care ultrasound therapy, nerve hydrodissection, activated oxygen therapy, ketamine injections, stellate ganglion blocks (nervous system resets), pulsed electromagnetic field therapy (PEMF), shiftwave therapy, Joovv infrared light therapy, craniosacral therapy, and crystal sound bowl therapy. Dr. Mulcahy offers her patients a truly unique way to achieve better health.Be sure to check out the www.boosthealing.org/zivaInstagram: @dr.allisonmulcahyWebsite: https://boosthealing.orgWebsite: https://mindelevate.me ===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/ 

Join Emily as she delves into the extraordinary journey of Cathy Heller, a visionary spiritual business coach, author and podcast host. From Cathy's college years and spiritual exploration to her deep understanding of Kabbalah and the resonance of manifesting millions of dollars, this episode offers profound insights into unlocking the infinite flow of abundance. Discover the transformative effects of meditation, the law of reception, and advice from both Cathy and Emily on manifesting.In this episode of Why Isn't Everyone Doing This?, as Cathy shares her personal triumph over hardship and finding purpose through pain, listeners gain a deeper understanding of the power of being a receiver and delivering divine frequency. In the riveting conclusion, Emily and Cathy explore the scariest thing in the world - receiving. Learn how to allow blessings into your life, tap into the power of conscious manifestation, and unlock your own endless potential.Let us know what resonates in the comments!===Cathy Heller studied religion, lived in the old city of Jerusalem studying Kabbalah and then went on to create an 8 figure business as a creative. She now hosts a very successful podcast with over 40 million downloads. Her book Don’t keep your day job and is now a business coach, mom and songwriter who specializes in helping women create wealth and next level happiness.She says she didn’t get her because she is "lucky" or special. It's because of how deeply she understands the principles of abundance and that is exactly hat she shares on the show today. She shared her deeply moving story and there was not a dry eye in the studio. Instagram: @cathy.hellerYoutube: @cathyhellerWebsite: www.cathyheller.comCathy's Book: https://a.co/d/1r4ulxu ===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/ 

Join Emily and famous actor Travis van Winkle as they explore the concept of emotional training. Used by many actors to expand their emotional range, Emily (a former Broadway actress) and Travis reveal how this modality can used be all people to use insecurities and fear as fuel for creativity and the power of changing inner narratives. On this episode of Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? these two remarkable people delve into self-evolution, meditation, and removing barriers to truth while exploring role play, empathy exercises, and emotional support in relationships.Travis emphasizes emotional support in intimate relationships and how deep connection with others can be facilitated by eye gazing and shares a touching father-son moment. Travis also reflects on his experience filming Netflix’s hit show FUBAR alongside Arnold Schwarzenegger.Throughout their discussion, Emily and Travis inspire listeners to embrace their feelings and emphasize the importance of emotional training. This episode is a captivating exploration of personal growth, emotional connection, and vulnerability. Join them on this journey of self-discovery and discover the transformative power of embracing your emotions.Let us know what resonates in the comments!===Prayer Travis shared during the show : "Oh God, make me a hollow reed, through which the pith of self hath been blown, so that I may become a clear channel through which Thy love may flow to others." ===Travis Van Winkle's career seamlessly transitions between both television and film. On the small screen, Van Winkle had a starring role for five seasons on TNT's high-concept drama "The Last Ship," and was a series regular alongside Alan Cumming in the CBS drama "Instinct." CBS brought him back as a series regular in the drama pilot "Good Sam." He was also a series regular for Netflix's season three of "You." Some of Van Winkle's previous memorable television roles include recurring on The CW's "Hart of Dixie" and ABC'S "Happy Endings," in addition to many guest appearances throughout his career. He is currently starring alongside Arnold Schwarzenegger in Netflix's FUBAR.Feature roles include Paramount's Friday the 13th and Transformers, Fox's Meet the Spartans, and Universal's comedy Accepted.Van Winkle has been a proud mentor in the Big Brother/Big Sister Organization since 2011, and hosted two of their Galas that raised almost $2 million. He's also been a Global Ambassador to the non-profit organization buildOn. Through his work with buildOn, he has engaged and inspired his creative network to help raise more than $300,000 and assemble on-the-ground teams to build schools in Haiti, Nepal, Nicaragua, Malawi and Senegal.Van Winkle was born in Victorville, California but his parents' Air Force responsibilities brought him to both Michigan and Georgia before he eventually made his way to Hollywood at the age of 20.Instagram: @TravisVanWinkle ===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/ 

Embark on a transformative conversation with renowned psychotherapist and professional coach, Alyssa Nobriga, as your host Emily Fletcher guides you through a profound exploration of healing and wholeness on this special episode of Why Isn't Everyone Doing This?Delve into the profound power of Alyssa’s insights and strategies for personal growth, as she unveils the path to self-acceptance and overcoming self-judgment. Gain practical advice on navigating day-to-day challenges and uncovering your true purpose. Alyssa marries psychotherapy with coaching to address trauma from the path and taking steps toward your most true and beautiful future. Emily and Alyssa Explore the transformative power of conscious complaining and the art of working on oneself at the perfect time.In this episode, immerse yourself in a toolkit for humanity and healing, as Alyssa and Emily unveil manifestation practices that will accelerate your personal growth journey. Don’t miss this empowering episode of profound personal transformation and limitless potential.===For FREE bonus content such as mini-masterclasses from our guests and more, visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/===Alyssa is an international speaker, coach and entrepreneur. She’s the Founder + CEO of The Institute of Coaching Mastery, which certifies hundreds of coaches a year in her methodology.She’s been featured in The New York Times, Forbes, Entrepreneur, Inc., Psychology Today, and Fox, and highlighted as an expert coach by Deepak Chopra. Alyssa is a licensed Clinical Somatic Psychotherapist with a master’s degree from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology and holds a second master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology from the University of Santa Monica, where she also worked on faculty. Instagram: @ alyssanobriga Website: alyssanobriga.com===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/