

Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher
Emily Fletcher
Welcome to Why Isn't Everyone Doing This with Emily Fletcher. Each week we’ll explore some of the most spine-tingling, potent modalities that can give you the kind of bliss and pleasure that is your birthright. No topic is off limits: We’ll dive into everything from breathwork to psychedelics, from meditation to BDSM. Join Emily in conversation with scientists, doctors, healers, and innovative thinkers to reveal the tools that have radically changed their lives, and that very well may change yours, too.
We can’t wait to hear which one has you asking, “Why isn’t everyone doing this?”
We can’t wait to hear which one has you asking, “Why isn’t everyone doing this?”
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Nov 7, 2023 • 6min
24. Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? | Season 1 Finale
We’re closing out the first season of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? and want to say THANK YOU from the bottoms of our hearts. Thank you for every minute that you invested in yourself and in listening to the first season of our podcast. In this short episode, Emily shares what’s going on at Ziva and all the exciting ways you can take part and turn up the dial on your divinity.We’re taking a short break, but don’t worry. We’ll come back with new episodes early next year. In the next few weeks, Emily will be interviewing a lot of new guests, so if you like to see someone featured, or would like to learn more about a modality you think the world should be doing more of, go to zivameditation.com/whythis and let us know!===Have you listened to our special episode in which Amber Shirley interviews Emily? Listen on Apple Podcasts here: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/discover-the-sacred-secret-with-emily-fletcher-ep-21===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/

Oct 31, 2023 • 1h 13min
23. Practicing Ayurveda for Human Health & Wellbeing - with Amish Shah
Amish Shah, a successful stockbroker who discovered Ayurveda after experiencing health issues, discusses his journey to finding balance and healing through meditation, yoga, and Ayurveda. They explore the concept of Doshas, the impact of unprocessed toxicity, and lifestyle practices for longevity. The episode highlights the integration of Ayurveda with modern science and the importance of respecting cultural lineages.

Oct 17, 2023 • 1h 8min
22. Processing Your Emotions with Thomas Jones
Thomas Jones, Founder of the Paradox Process, joins Emily to discuss his unique methods for processing emotions and turning pain into gold. They explore vulnerability, harnessing sexual energy for manifestation, and the power of healing. They also touch on the shift in human evolution during the pandemic and the difference between confidence and arrogance.

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Oct 3, 2023 • 1h 20min
21. Discover the Sacred Secret with Emily Fletcher
In this special episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? Emily is interviewed by her dear friend, Amber Shirley, on the movement and formula she’s been creating for the past 3 years.Emily shares the riveting and juicy details of what Sacred Secret IS and how this work can help you become the happiest, hottest, healthiest person you know. Plus, learn how Sacred Secret can pour rocket fuel on your dreams so together we can solve the big challenges we are facing as a species and have a great time doing it.Plus at the end, you’ll get an exciting invitation to a first-of-its-kind offering at Ziva.===00:00:00 - Introduction with Amber Shirley and Emily Fletcher00:05:10 - The Power to Create Heaven on Earth00:10:15 - Falling in Love with Ourselves00:12:46 - Turning up the Dial on Divinity00:15:31 - Remembering Our True Nature00:18:10 - The Modality of Sacred Secret00:20:43 - Accessing Creation Energy00:22:55 - The Power of Feeling Good00:25:24 - Accessing Your Orgasm and Peak Pleasure00:32:34 - Healthy Boundaries and Manifestation00:37:27 - The Transformation of Relationships00:39:57 - The Importance of Preparation for Sacred Sexuality Work00:49:57 - Ego vs Divine Clarity00:54:53 - A New Version of Myself: Choosing Myself01:05:07 - Using Sexual Energy for Manifestation01:14:18 - Creating Community and Spaces & Conclusion ===Emily is the founder of Ziva and the host of the spine-tingling new podcast, Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?She is an international speaker whose superpower is making esoteric tools accessible to a mainstream audience, teaching over 50,000 people meditation and manifesting. Her best-selling book, Stress Less, Accomplish More, debuted at #7 out of all books on Amazon and has been translated into 12 languages. Her work has been featured by The New York Times, Good Morning America and Vogue. She’s taught at Apple, Google and Harvard Business School. A formerly stressed Broadway performer going gray at 27, Emily was desperate for a solution when she found meditation -- which immediately cured her insomnia and anxiety. Her transformation was so dramatic that she quit acting, went to India, and studied the ancient tools Ziva students swear by today.Over the past three years she has dedicated herself to developing innovative embodiment practices that empower individuals to transmute stress into boundless joy. ===Amber Shirley is a certified Life Coach, financial representative, Founder of Soul Sisters Collective and Co Founder of Seen. Heard. Elevated.IG: www.instagram.com/amber_soulsisters===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/

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Sep 26, 2023 • 1h 4min
20. Turn Up The Dial on Your Own Divinity - with Layla Martin | Priestess Pilgrimage Part 3
What would the world look like as a matriarchy? Today on Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? We’re launching Part 3 of the Priestess Pilgrimage and taking you on Emily and Layla’s journey through Crete - one of the last matriarchal societies.ICYMI: Emily and Layla Martin took a recent trip through Greece where they traveled to sacred sites where high priestesses were serving medicine and practicing sacred sexuality rituals that helped to form the very fabric of Western society. Catch up on Parts 1 and 2 at the links below.While in other ancient cities, the priestesses were consulted by sovereigns and people in leadership, in Crete the high priestesses WERE the sovereigns. Layla walks us through the migration of our ancient ancestors from ancient Turkey and the Middle East who had worshiped the Goddess and has deep reverence for feminine expressions of marriage, childbirth, fertility and sexuality.Layla and Emily also give practical ways to start with a psychedelic journey if that feels charming, including why it’s integral to be led by a therapist or an experienced guide who can help you move through the full spectrum of your human emotions. Discover how you can prepare your body, heart and soul to experience these initiations if and when you feel ready.Plus, they define Kundalini energy and why so many ancient depictions of women in Ancient Greece are shown with snakes.So why isn’t everyone turning up the dial on their own divinity? Discover the reason in this week’s episode.Here are all 4 episodes of Layla and Emily's Priestess Pilgrimmage:Part 1Part 2Part 3Part 4What part felt like a mic drop moment for you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below.===Layla Martin is a thought leader in the ever-emerging worlds of sexual wellness, Tantra, erotic empowerment, and personal development.Named the Headmistress of Pleasure by Women’s Health Magazine and a Sexpert Extraordinaire by Cosmopolitan, Layla has spent her life studying the science and deep magic of sexuality and human relationships. As founder of the VITA Method, she’s been certifying professionals in a Tantric approach to Love, Sex, and Relationships for over 7 years and has taught over 12,000 paid clients.The VITATM Method is proven to help heal trauma, release limiting beliefs, and awaken life-changing levels of pleasure. For 20 years, Layla traveled the world as a devoted student of Tantra, training with the most high-level teachers of this powerful tradition. She studied human sexuality, neuroscience, and biology at Stanford University, and immersed herself in the energetic traditions of Taoism and early witchcraft.@thelaylamartinJoin Vita Coaching here===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/

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Sep 19, 2023 • 1h 8min
19. Using Psychedelics to Tap into the Divine - with Layla Martin | Priestess Pilgrimage Part 1
Expert Layla Martin and host Emily Fletcher kick off a priestess pilgrimage discussing reclaiming 'witch' and 'priestess', Eleusis rituals, and the power of psychedelics for spiritual connection. They delve into ancient practices, the impact on Western civilization, and the healing potential of psychedelics for PTSD and addiction.

Sep 12, 2023 • 1h 27min
18. Remembering The Sacred Feminine with Sarah Jenks
Sarah Jenks is an ordained priestess, mother, and someone who has spent years studying the Sacred Feminine – guiding thousands of women through the process of remembering their brilliance and unique mission in this lifetime.In this episode of Why Isn't Everyone Doing This?, Emily and Sarah dive into what's possible when you start to build bridges between the seen and the unseen worlds. If you've been curious what a priestess is, you are in luck because Sarah is going to share how we can bring more divinity, ritual and ceremony to our everyday lives, to our families, and to our homes.Sarah and Emily explore the concept of divine communication through synchronicities and future memories. She also defines the Sacred Feminine and they discuss why it’s been erased from history. The answer may shock you, and open you up to an entirely different world of possibility.They also dive into how a matriarchy differs from a patriarchy and Sarah shares how she facilitates Sacred Ceremony without the use of plant medicine.So why isn’t everyone Remembering the Sacred Feminine? Discover the reason in this week’s episode.What part felt like a mic drop moment for you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below.===For FREE bonus content including a mini-masterclass from Sarah on how to do a ceremony called "What's Next for Me?", visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/===Sarah Jenks is the mother of three, a woman who has struggled with body image and lack of direction, and someone who knows what it’s like to feel flat, overwhelmed, frumpy and exhausted. Through her own transformation and years of study in the Sacred Feminine, emotional eating and life coaching, she has been guiding thousands of women for over 10 years through the process of remembering their brilliance and their unique mission in this lifetime.https://sarahjenks.com/IG: @sarahjenks===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/

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Sep 5, 2023 • 1h 17min
17. Prioritizing Community & Friendships with Radha Agrawal
Radha Agrawal, co-founder of Daybreaker and mama extraordinaire, explores the impact of our lack of connection with our community on the challenges we face as a species. They discuss the physiological effects of loneliness and why we've been taught to not prioritize friendships. Discover easy ways to invite more community into your life and start creating a conscious, aligned community.

Aug 29, 2023 • 1h 6min
16. Using Sex and Psychedelics to Heal with Dr. Cat Meyer
In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with Dr. Cat Meyer, a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in sex, trauma and ketamine assisted therapy, three things that are very buzzy these days. Plus, she is an EMDR and Kambo facilitator and master Reiki practitioner.They discuss how to heal through sex and psychedelics, and the power of reclaiming your own pleasure instead of outsourcing it to others. Cat and Emily discuss how shame and disconnection from your body can create challenges with feeling and embracing your own desires.They also explore how somatic experiences can be used to reconnect your brain and body, and how this can help you discover not only what you want sexually, but also in your daily life. Plus, they delve deep into the benefits of various psychedelics, their ability to alter consciousness and how they can facilitate emotional healing and trauma processing.Get ready for a wild ride.There are so many insightful topics covered in this episode. What part resonated the most with you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below so the whole community can enjoy it too. ===For FREE bonus content such as mini-masterclasses from our guests and more, visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/===Have you listened to our previous episode with Candice Horbacz? Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/consciously-crafting-your-relationships-with-candice===TIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 - Intro & Rethinking Sex and Pleasure00:04:08 - Normalizing Not Feeling00:06:07 - Healing from Sexual Trauma and Expanding the Mind00:10:11 - Exploring the Fringe of BDSM00:12:28 - The Integration of Tantra, BDSM, Energetics, and Psychedelics in Healing00:16:32 - What is Anti-Intimacy?00:22:48 - Shame and Disconnection from the Body00:24:47 - The Power of Connecting with the Body00:31:19 - Understanding Psychedelics, Empathogens, Altered States of Consciousness00:35:48 - Expanding Perspectives through Psychedelics and Meditation00:37:50 - The Power of Ketamine Therapy00:44:03 - Integration and Consciousness Shifting00:45:56 - Preparation for Psychedelic Therapy00:50:21 - The distinction between numbing addiction and pleasurable experiences00:54:45 - The Potential of Pleasure Practices and Psychedelic Assisted Therapy00:56:52 - Vetting Trauma-Informed Facilitators01:03:02 - Conclusion & Where to Find Dr. Cat===Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex, trauma, and ketamine-assisted therapy, author, yoga teacher, and international speaker dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. She is the host of podcast Sex Love Psychedelics and the founder of SexLoveYoga.com an online platform for education and programs on relationships, sexuality, and embodiment.Please enjoy this free guide from Dr. Cat on how to find the right facilitator in sex, psychedelics or plant medicine: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/

Aug 22, 2023 • 1h 7min
15. Consciously Crafting Your Relationships with Candice Horbacz
Candice Horbacz is a mom of 2, philanthropist, entrepreneur, the host of Chatting with Candice, and a former adult film star.They discuss how to consciously craft a loving, vulnerable relationship with your partner that emphasizes deep coherence, respect and intimacy with each other. Emily and Candice discuss the difference between sex and intimacy and how to navigate societal conditioning, judgment and shame around sexuality.In this important episode of Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? they also discuss the impact of pornography on kids and how to best approach topics around consent and boundaries in a world where online pornography is more accessible than ever.What is possible when you do the hard work of crafting a relationship that emphasizes the need for vulnerability, deep self-awareness and open communication?Find out in this engaging conversation between Emily and Candice.There are so many insightful topics covered in this episode. What part resonated the most with you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below so the whole community can enjoy it too.===Timestamps00:00:00 - Introduction & Why Isn't Everyone Doing This00:02:18 - How Emily and Candice Met and Started Working Together00:04:00 - What is the Difference Between Sex and Intimacy?00:09:03 - Navigating Non-Traditional Relationships00:15:49 - Consciously Challenging Societal Norms00:26:05 - Generational Shifts on Masculinity and Femininity00:26:49 - The Importance of Polarity in Relationships00:28:04 - How Candice Entered the Adult Entertainment Industry00:30:08 - How Candice Manifested Becoming a Top Performer00:35:59 - Handling Societal Judgment in Non-Traditional Careers00:42:03 - Common Criticisms of Pornography00:50:25 - Discovering Your Sexuality00:51:14 - How to Talk to Children About Sex, Consent and Relationships00:52:31 - The Role of Pornography and Consent00:54:29 - Nuances of Consent and Boundaries00:58:19 - Benefits of Consciously Creating Relationships01:05:05 - Conclusion===Candice Horbacz is an active Lifestyle blogger, Social Media Influencer, and Live Streamer who mainly focuses on cooking amazing and healthy recipes, traveling possibly around the world, and restaurant blogging (recommendations and such).She is also the mother of 2, host of Chatting with Candice, an entrepreneur, philanthropist and also happens to be a former adult film star.Candice Horbacz and her husband Erik Horbacz have several business opportunities and philanthropic works outside the social media world. Now, they are both working on media projects such as live TV shows, online streaming programs, social media campaigns, and many others.Instagram: @candicehorbaczWebsite: http://www.candicehorbacz.com/===Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now.Ziva's free meditation masterclass: zivameditation.com/freemasterclassLearn with Emily live: zivameditation.com/blissDiscover Ziva pleasure practices: zivameditation.com/secretJoin us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/