Modern Anarchy
Nicole is a queer Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist with training in Psychedelic-Integration Therapy. As one of the leading theorists on non-monogamy and sexuality, Nicole bridges academic research with embodied, pleasure-centered strategies to help individuals navigate intimacy, relationships, and desire. Tune in each Wednesday to join her exploration of sex, relationships, and liberation with pleasure activists from around the world. Are you ready to dive in?
For Resources to Learn More: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Latest episodes
Feb 7, 2024 • 1h 42min
145. The Gift of Non-Monogamy Ending in Divorce with Dirty Lola
On today's episode, we have Dirty Lola (She/Her) join us for a vulnerable conversation about embracing the discomfort of change as a sex and relationship radical. Together we talk about how don't ask don't tell can really complicate your cruise plans, having a break down in the isle at trader joe's, and how a penis should be the fifth thing to go in your butt.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/145-the-gift-of-non-monogamy-ending-in-divorce
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Lola's Community:
Website : https://www.dirtylola.co/
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/dirtylola/
Spectrum Journal : https://spectrumboutique.com/journal/writer/dirty-lola/
Resources to Learn More:
Revealing Divorce Statistics In 2024 : https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/
Global survey finds 9% of adults identify as LGBTQ : https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-news/global-survey-finds-9-adults-identify-lgbtq-rcna87288
How Common Is Cheating and Infidelity Really? : https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-common-is-cheating-infidelity-really
Jan 31, 2024 • 1h 28min
144. Queering Psychedelics, Consent, and Community with Cy
On today's episode we have Cy (They/Them) join us for a conversation about the transformative power of community. Together we talk about exploring psychedelics for pleasure, creating more equitable access through gardening, and how our kinky buttons change.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/144-queering-psychedelics-consent-and-community-with-cy
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
CY's Community:
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/queerly_psychedelic/
Resource to Learn More:
Sana Healing Collective : https://sanahealingcollective.org/
Fireside Project : https://firesideproject.org/
Dance Safe: https://dancesafe.org/
Bunk Police : https://bunkpolice.com/
Jan 30, 2024 • 1h 29min
143. Kinky Christianity to Relationship Anarchy Embodiment with Juliet Barrett
On today's episode, we have Juliet Barrett (They/Them) join us for a conversation about inviting more curiosity into our lives. Together we talk about the level of inertia needed to break your own reality, the divinity of a sex shop, and blowing bubbles before pegging.
RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/kinky-christianity-to-relationship-anarchy-embodiment-with-juliet-barett
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Jan 20, 2024 • 1h 15min
142. Celebrating Your Slutty Pleasure to Dismantle the Systems with Tamara Pincus
On today's episode, we have licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist, Tamara Pincus (She/Her) join us for a conversation about celebrating sexual pleasure. Together we talk about sex and spirituality, being considered "too" much, and questioning the narratives of authority.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/142-celebrating-your-slutty-pleasure-to-dismantle-the-systems-with-tamara-pincus
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Tamara's Community:
Tamara Pincus LICSW CST is a certified sex therapist who runs a practice providing therapy, coaching and sex education for primarily kinky, poly and LGBTQIA clients.
Website : Www.tamarapincus.com
Resources to Learn More:
Pleasure Activism : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781849353267
Just say no' didn't actually protect students from drugs : https://www.npr.org/2023/11/09/1211217460/fentanyl-drug-education-dare
What is Sexological Bodywork : https://sexologicalbodyworkers.org/whatis
Jan 10, 2024 • 1h 15min
141. The Divine Eroticism of our Fantasy Narratives with Artemisia de Vine
On today’s episode we have professional dominatrix and
sexual fantasy coach Artemisia de Vine (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the erotic psyche. Together we talk about the power of our stories, sex worker wisdom, and the endless exploration of the erotic.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcripts : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/141-the-divine-eroticism-of-our-fantasies-with-artemisia-de-vine
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Artemisia de Vine's Community:
Website : https://www.artemisiadevine.com/
Fantasy Exploration : myfantasyis.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/artemisiadevine/
Resources to Learn More:
How the Brain’s Flow State Keeps Us Creative, Focused, and Happy : https://www.thedailybeast.com/how-the-neuroscience-of-the-brains-flow-state-keeps-us-creative-focused-and-happy
Go with the flow: A neuroscientific view on being fully engaged : https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7983950/
The Brain’s Default Mode: What Is It And Why Meditation Is The Antidote : https://medium.com/swlh/the-brains-default-mode-what-is-it-and-why-meditation-is-the-antidote-d0408ab989d6
Jan 3, 2024 • 1h 31min
140. Trusting in Love: Drugs, Spiritual Healers, and Decolonizing Psychedelic Therapy with Danielle Herrera
Psychedelic psychotherapist Danielle Herrera discusses the healing power of community, decolonizing therapy, and a world beyond the DSM. Topics include challenges in psychedelic therapy, the importance of love in harm reduction, and the impact of systemic factors in therapy sessions.
Dec 20, 2023 • 55min
139. The Sensual and Mindfulness Practice of Kink and Psychedelics with Leia Friedwoman
On today's episode, we have Leia Friedwoman (She/Her) join us for a conversation exploring the cross over of kink and psychedelic practices. Together we talk about learning to surrender, big questions with no answers, and freeing the queef.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/139-the-sensual-and-mindfulness-practice-of-kink-and-psychedelics-with-leia-friedman
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Leia's Community :
The Psychedologist : https://thepsychedologist.com/
Resources to Learn More :
BDSM related fantasies were found to be common (40-70%) in both males and females : https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619#:~:text=BDSM%20related%20fantasies%20were%20found,20%25%20reported%20engaging%20in%20BDSM.
69% of the general population had fantasies about BDSM-related activities : https://academic.oup.com/smoa/article/7/2/129/6956474
The Human Playground : https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10112282/
The New Topping Book : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781890159351
The New Bottoming Book : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781890159351
Dec 13, 2023 • 1h 9min
138. The Healing of Earth-Based Medicines with Shane Norte
On today's episode, we have Shane Norte (He/Him) join us for a conversation about the capitalization of healing. Together we talk about the psychedelic buffet, when a giraffe tries to give a polar bear advice on how to live, and the need for free access to earth-based medicines.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/the-healing-of-earth-based-medicines-with-shane-norte
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Shane's Community:
Church of the People : https://churchofthepeopleforcreatorandmotherearth.com/our-team
Decriminalize Nature : https://www.decriminalizenature.org/Resources to Learn More:
Medical Debt in the USA : https://www.thirdway.org/report/end-medical-debt#:~:text=Twenty%2Dfive%20percent%20of%20adults,adults%20have%20more%20medical%20debt.
American Wealth Disparity : https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2023/12/06/top-1-american-earners-more-wealth-middle-class/71769832007/
Decriminalize Nature : https://www.decriminalizenature.org/
COMP360 psilocybin treatment in TRD : https://compasspathways.com/our-work/comp360-psilocybin-treatment-in-trd/
Dec 6, 2023 • 1h 34min
137. What's Your Frame For Relationship Anarchy? with Tuck Malloy
On today's episode, we have Tuck Malloy (They/Them) join us for a conversation exploring the practice of relationship anarchy. Together we talk about choosing which feedback we integrate into our narratives, how much discomfort is too much discomfort in nonmonogamy, and the blank white canvas of relationship anarchy.
RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/137-what-s-your-frame-for-relationship-anarchy-with-tuck-malloy
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Tuck's Community:
Tuck Malloy (they/them) is a queer, trans, polyamorous relationship coach and sex educator.
Website : https://intrasensual.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/intra_sensual/
Resources to Learn More:
How Love Conquered Marriage : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780143036678
Relationship Anarchy Occupy : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9798368039442
BDSM related fantasies were found to be common (40-70%) in both males and females :https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619#:~:text=BDSM%20related%20fantasies%20were%20found,20%25%20reported%20engaging%20in%20BDSM.
69% of the general population had fantasies about BDSM-related activities : https://academic.oup.com/smoa/article/7/2/129/6956474
Nov 29, 2023 • 1h 18min
136. Waiting for a Hug: Activism for the Chronically Under-Touched with Aaron Johnson
On today's episode, we have founder of Aaron Johnson (He/Him) join us for a conversation about finding touch balance. Together we talk about the importance of tenderness, how narratives of oppression shape sexuality, and liberating our voices from capitalism.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/136-waiting-for-a-hug-activism-for-the-chronically-under-touched-with-aaron-johnson
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Aaron's Community:
Holistic Resistance : https://www.holisticresistance.com/
Chronically UnderTouched : https://www.cutproject.org/
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/cut.project/
Resource to Learn More:
Aaron's Ted Talk : Vhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=zi_hm0-zrgk
