Modern Anarchy
Nicole is a queer Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist with training in Psychedelic-Integration Therapy. As one of the leading theorists on non-monogamy and sexuality, Nicole bridges academic research with embodied, pleasure-centered strategies to help individuals navigate intimacy, relationships, and desire. Tune in each Wednesday to join her exploration of sex, relationships, and liberation with pleasure activists from around the world. Are you ready to dive in?
For Resources to Learn More: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Latest episodes
Feb 28, 2024 • 58min
148. Exploring the Nuance of Fundamental Christianity, Psychedelics, and Therapy with Liara Roux
On today’s episode, we have sex worker and writer Liara Roux (They/He/She) join us for a conversation about finding empowerment after the abuse of religion. Together we talk about learning to leave relationships, empowering others to choose for themselves rather than giving advice, and normalizing sex work.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/148-exploring-the-nuance-of-fundamental-christianity-therapy-and-psychedelic-healing-with-liara-r
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Liara's Community:
Website : https://www.liararoux.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/liararoux
Book : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781913462567
Resources to Learn More:
How the Quiverfull movement kills kids (Turpin, Yates,
Pearls) : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fJGpteuMqvU&rco=1
Fireside : https://firesideproject.org/
Sex at the Margins: Migration, Labour Markets and the Rescue
Industry : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781842778609
Feb 21, 2024 • 1h 20min
147. Power Play: Healing, Abolitionism, and Spirituality with Tshegofatso Senne
On today’s episode, we have Tshegofatso Senne (They/Him) join us for a conversation about the transformative nature of power play. Together we talk about an abolitionist perspective to harm and transgression in kink, green flags in play partners, and the spirituality of bdsm.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/147-power-play-healing-abolitionism-and-spirituality-with-tshegofatso-senne
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Tshegofatso Senne's Community:
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/mbongomuffin/
Ted Talk : https://www.ted.com/talks/tshegofatso_senne_reimagining_bdsm/up-next?hasSummary=true
Resource to Learn More:
RACK/PRICK : https://kynk101.com/kink-bdsm-facts/ssc-rack-prick
Radical Ecstasy : https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/503940
Play, Pain and Religion: Creating Gestalt through Kink Encounter : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781800500297
Feb 14, 2024 • 1h 12min
146. Nerding Out On the Wheel of Consent with Dr. Betty Martin
On today’s episode, we have sex educator Dr. Betty Martin (She/Her) join us for a conversation about exercising your personal power. Together we talk about the depth of our programming around consent, tuning in to your somatic experience, and playing outside of the romance fetish.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/146-nerding-out-on-the-wheel-of-consent-with-dr-betty-martin
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Betty’s Community:
Betty is a grandma, erotic explorer, former sex worker, developer of the Wheel of Consent, author of "The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent"
Body Electric School : https://bodyelectric.org/
School of Consent : https://www.schoolofconsent.org/
Website : https://bettymartin.org/
Resources for More:
3 – Minute Game : https://bettymartin.org/how-to-play-the-3-minute-game/
Wheel of consent : https://bettymartin.org/videos/
Feb 7, 2024 • 1h 42min
145. The Gift of Non-Monogamy Ending in Divorce with Dirty Lola
On today's episode, we have Dirty Lola (She/Her) join us for a vulnerable conversation about embracing the discomfort of change as a sex and relationship radical. Together we talk about how don't ask don't tell can really complicate your cruise plans, having a break down in the isle at trader joe's, and how a penis should be the fifth thing to go in your butt.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/145-the-gift-of-non-monogamy-ending-in-divorce
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Lola's Community:
Website : https://www.dirtylola.co/
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/dirtylola/
Spectrum Journal : https://spectrumboutique.com/journal/writer/dirty-lola/
Resources to Learn More:
Revealing Divorce Statistics In 2024 : https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/
Global survey finds 9% of adults identify as LGBTQ : https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-news/global-survey-finds-9-adults-identify-lgbtq-rcna87288
How Common Is Cheating and Infidelity Really? : https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-common-is-cheating-infidelity-really
Jan 31, 2024 • 1h 28min
144. Queering Psychedelics, Consent, and Community with Cy
On today's episode we have Cy (They/Them) join us for a conversation about the transformative power of community. Together we talk about exploring psychedelics for pleasure, creating more equitable access through gardening, and how our kinky buttons change.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/144-queering-psychedelics-consent-and-community-with-cy
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
CY's Community:
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/queerly_psychedelic/
Resource to Learn More:
Sana Healing Collective : https://sanahealingcollective.org/
Fireside Project : https://firesideproject.org/
Dance Safe: https://dancesafe.org/
Bunk Police : https://bunkpolice.com/
Jan 30, 2024 • 1h 29min
143. Kinky Christianity to Relationship Anarchy Embodiment with Juliet Barrett
On today's episode, we have Juliet Barrett (They/Them) join us for a conversation about inviting more curiosity into our lives. Together we talk about the level of inertia needed to break your own reality, the divinity of a sex shop, and blowing bubbles before pegging.
RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/kinky-christianity-to-relationship-anarchy-embodiment-with-juliet-barett
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Jan 20, 2024 • 1h 15min
142. Celebrating Your Slutty Pleasure to Dismantle the Systems with Tamara Pincus
On today's episode, we have licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist, Tamara Pincus (She/Her) join us for a conversation about celebrating sexual pleasure. Together we talk about sex and spirituality, being considered "too" much, and questioning the narratives of authority.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/142-celebrating-your-slutty-pleasure-to-dismantle-the-systems-with-tamara-pincus
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Tamara's Community:
Tamara Pincus LICSW CST is a certified sex therapist who runs a practice providing therapy, coaching and sex education for primarily kinky, poly and LGBTQIA clients.
Website : Www.tamarapincus.com
Resources to Learn More:
Pleasure Activism : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781849353267
Just say no' didn't actually protect students from drugs : https://www.npr.org/2023/11/09/1211217460/fentanyl-drug-education-dare
What is Sexological Bodywork : https://sexologicalbodyworkers.org/whatis
Jan 10, 2024 • 1h 15min
141. The Divine Eroticism of our Fantasy Narratives with Artemisia de Vine
On today’s episode we have professional dominatrix and
sexual fantasy coach Artemisia de Vine (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the erotic psyche. Together we talk about the power of our stories, sex worker wisdom, and the endless exploration of the erotic.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcripts : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/141-the-divine-eroticism-of-our-fantasies-with-artemisia-de-vine
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Artemisia de Vine's Community:
Website : https://www.artemisiadevine.com/
Fantasy Exploration : myfantasyis.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/artemisiadevine/
Resources to Learn More:
How the Brain’s Flow State Keeps Us Creative, Focused, and Happy : https://www.thedailybeast.com/how-the-neuroscience-of-the-brains-flow-state-keeps-us-creative-focused-and-happy
Go with the flow: A neuroscientific view on being fully engaged : https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7983950/
The Brain’s Default Mode: What Is It And Why Meditation Is The Antidote : https://medium.com/swlh/the-brains-default-mode-what-is-it-and-why-meditation-is-the-antidote-d0408ab989d6
Jan 3, 2024 • 1h 31min
140. Trusting in Love: Drugs, Spiritual Healers, and Decolonizing Psychedelic Therapy with Danielle Herrera
Psychedelic psychotherapist Danielle Herrera discusses the healing power of community, decolonizing therapy, and a world beyond the DSM. Topics include challenges in psychedelic therapy, the importance of love in harm reduction, and the impact of systemic factors in therapy sessions.
Dec 20, 2023 • 55min
139. The Sensual and Mindfulness Practice of Kink and Psychedelics with Leia Friedwoman
On today's episode, we have Leia Friedwoman (She/Her) join us for a conversation exploring the cross over of kink and psychedelic practices. Together we talk about learning to surrender, big questions with no answers, and freeing the queef.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/139-the-sensual-and-mindfulness-practice-of-kink-and-psychedelics-with-leia-friedman
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Leia's Community :
The Psychedologist : https://thepsychedologist.com/
Resources to Learn More :
BDSM related fantasies were found to be common (40-70%) in both males and females : https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619#:~:text=BDSM%20related%20fantasies%20were%20found,20%25%20reported%20engaging%20in%20BDSM.
69% of the general population had fantasies about BDSM-related activities : https://academic.oup.com/smoa/article/7/2/129/6956474
The Human Playground : https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10112282/
The New Topping Book : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781890159351
The New Bottoming Book : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781890159351
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