

Modern Anarchy
Dr. Nicole Thompson
Modern Anarchy is your weekly invitation to reclaim pleasure, sex, and desire as radical acts of liberation. Hosted by queer psychotherapist and researcher Dr. Nicole, an academic voice on non-monogamy and embodied pleasure who provides psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy, the show explores intimacy, erotic sovereignty, and healing through raw conversations with pleasure activists, artists, therapists, and rebels from around the world. Are you ready to dive in?
Learn more: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Learn more: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Episodes
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Oct 16, 2024 • 1h 37min
181. Relationship Anarchist: Monica Davis
On today’s episode, we have Monica Davis (she/her) join us for another relationship anarchy research episode. Together we talk about the life goal of fluidity, the power of sexual liberation, and the process of compassionate deconstruction.
If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below.
RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/181-relationship-anarchist-monica-davis
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Monica Davis:
Monica goes by many labels: Scientist, Instructor, Mother, Partner, Daughter, Advocate, and Survivor. These are labels I choose because they are accessible to others. RA has allowed me to deconstruct the "normal" of these labels and communicate my definition and use in my
lived reality.

Oct 9, 2024 • 1h 6min
180. Approaching Sex Deeply and Wholistically with Ellen Heed
On today’s episode, we have sexological body worker Ellen Heed (she/her) join us for a conversation about the expansive mind body connection. Together we talk about the neuroplasticity of erotic pleasure, scar tissue remediation, and grounding in the presence of our breath.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/180-approaching-sex-deeply-and-wholistically-with-ellen-heed
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Ellen's Community:
https://www.scartissueremediation.com/
https://www.instagram.com/ellenheed/
https://www.facebook.com/ellenheed.somatic.educator

Oct 2, 2024 • 1h 12min
179. Exploring Psychedelics and Intimacy with Jordan Dobrowski
On today’s episode, we have therapist Jordan Dobrowski (she/they) join us for a conversation about the power of psychedelics to deep intimacy with others, with ourselves, and with our collective healing. Together we talk about letting go of the higher dose, the commune retirement plan, and the importance of integration.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/179-psychedelics-and-intimacy-with-jordan-dobrowski
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Jordan's Community:
Website: https://willowandleafcounseling.com/

Sep 25, 2024 • 1h 17min
178. Looking in the Mirror of Your Relationships with Dominatrix Eva Oh
On today’s episode, we have dominatrix Eva Oh (she/they) join us for a conversation about the never-ending adventure that is connection. Together we talk about doming yourself, the shifting winds of your erotic desires, and learning to lay back and just feel pleasure.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/178-looking-in-the-mirror-of-your-relationships-with-dominatrix-eva-oh
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Eva's Community:
https://www.eva-oh.com/
https://www.youwillpleaseme.com/
Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/youwillplease_me
Insta: https://www.instagram.com/youwillplease_me
Twitter: https://x.com/youwillpleaseme
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@youwillpleaseme

Sep 18, 2024 • 1h 24min
177. Relationship Anarchist: Jase Brakoniecki
On today’s episode, we have relationship anarchist Jase Brakoniecki (they/them) join us for a relationship anarchy research interview. Together we talk about moving beyond the one hug system, needing to find new pop artists, and the power of disruptive love.
If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below.
RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/177-relationship-anarchist-jase-brakoniecki
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Jase's Community:
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/braksbeats/

Sep 11, 2024 • 1h 47min
176. How to Deal with Jealousy in Non-Monogamy: The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide [Audiobook]
On today’s episode, I will be walking you through my book, The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide: Crafting Secure Non-Monogamous and Expansive Relationships. Together we talk about grounding in your body, exploring your set and setting, and connecting to your intention for expansive relating.
Read the Psychedelic Jealousy Guide Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/psychedelicjealousyguide
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/175-the-polysecure-paradigm-shift-with-jessica-fern
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384

Sep 4, 2024 • 1h 11min
175. The Polysecure Paradigm Shift with Jessica Fern
On today’s episode, we have psychotherapist Jessica Fern (she/her) join us for a conversation about polyamory as a catalyst for liberation. Together we talk about learning to go low and slow with NRE, exploring the protectors of our hearts and the much needed updates to attachment theory. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.comLooking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practiceIntro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your SmithTranscript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/175-the-polysecure-paradigm-shift-with-jessica-fernModern Anarchy Community:Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcastPatreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Jessica's Community:Website : https://www.jessicafern.com/

Aug 28, 2024 • 1h 5min
174. Finding Our Collective Healing in Somatics and Social Justice with Staci Haines
On today’s episode, we have author Staci Haines (she/her) join us for a conversation about collective liberation. Together we talk about feeling into the wisdom of our bodies, our inherent draw towards healing, and the connection between personal and systemic transformation.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/174-finding-our-collective-healing-in-somatics-and-social-justice-with-staci-haines
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Staci's Community:
Website : https://www.stacihaines.com/

Aug 21, 2024 • 1h 13min
173. Relationship Anarchist: Jeff Parrett
On today's episode, we have Jeff Parrett (he/him) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about owning our part in the speed bumps, moving into a world of co-creation, and reconfiguring our relationships to flow with change.
If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below.
RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/173-relationship-anarchist-jeff-parrett
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384

Aug 14, 2024 • 1h 8min
172. Expanding into Integrated Narratives of Sexuality and Embodiment with Dr. Ido Cohen
One today’s episode, we have psychologist Dr. Ido Cohen (he/him) join us for a conversation about integrating new archetypes of sexual empowerment. Together we talk about reconnecting with your wild eros, getting clear on your desires, and the vulnerability of play.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community and support the long term sustainability of the show, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/172-expanding-into-integrated-narratives-of-sexuality-and-embodiment-with-dr-ido-cohen
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
Modern Anarchy Community:
Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/modernanarchypodcast
Dr. Ido Cohen's Community:
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/dr.idocohen/?hl=en
The Integration Circle: https://www.theintegrationcircle.com/