Modern Anarchy

Dr. Nicole Thompson
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Aug 31, 2022 • 56min

72. Contradictions: Pansexuality, Intersecting Identities, and Shadow Sides with Evelyn Kim

On today's episode, Evelyn Kim (she\her) joins us for a conversation about the journey to embracing her expansive queer identity and the intersection of her Korean-American Identity. Together we talk about the shadow side of the LGBTQIA+ and social justice movements, contradictions in cultural identities, and letting people have their own experience of us.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Evelyn's Community: Website Instagram Resources to Learn More: 5 common misconceptions about pansexuality The Korean War (1950–53) Activism fatigue is killing social justice. Don't Worry, No One Cares A Reason Not to Worry What Others Think
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Aug 24, 2022 • 1h 13min

71. Community Building: Masking, Polysecure, and Boundaries as an Act of Love with Jesse Holzman

On today's episode, we have PhD candidate in Sociology Jesse Holzman (they\them) join us for a conversation all about community building and accessibility. Together we talk about living with the lens of autism, being entitled to take up space, and the beautiful rabbit hole of questioning the status quo.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Jesse's Community:  Instagram Resources to Learn More: A Brief History of Japanese Rope Bondage What to Know About Shibari, the Art of Japanese Rope Bondage What Is Autism? Stimming: What It Is and Why People Do It Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Does Your Self Exist? Self-in-Relation Marriage Is an Inherently Unfeminist Institution Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage
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Aug 17, 2022 • 1h 7min

70. Understanding Sex Within Culture: Condoms, Circumcision, and Capitalistic Competition with Amber Mallery

On today's episode, we have certified sex educator Amber Mallery (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about understanding sex within culture. Together we talk about the assumption that all people with penises are aggressive, navigating the use of de-gendered language, and what it means to be a woman.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Amber's Community: Instagram Ted Talk Sex School Hub Resources to Learn More: How old do you have to be to buy condoms? Circumcision by Country 2022 Comprehensive Sex Education Reduces Teen Pregnancies The average number of sexual partners for men and women in the United States is 7.2 Inside Rwanda’s labia stretching ritual - Gukuna For Her Own Good: Two Centuries of the Experts Advice to Women Feminist Thought and Transcending the Gender Binary
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Aug 10, 2022 • 50min

69. Guided Masturbation Meditation #2: Solo-Date Night

On today's episode, Nicole leads us on a guided masturbation meditation for people with vulvas to slow down and connect with pleasure. Set aside some intentional time to dive into sensation and deepen your embodiment practice through this act of self-love and self-care! Let's dive in together.. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Resources to Explore More: Wearing Socks During Sex Makes You More Likely To Have A Satisfying Orgasm Why sex therapists swear by sensate focus: The mindful touching technique that enhances your sex life Philips Hue White and Color Ambiance Porn: Bellesa Lube: Water Based Lube: Coconut Oil Pom FLEXIBLE VIBRATOR Satisfyer Pro 2 Air-Pulse Clitoris Stimulator Satisfyer Mono Flex Rabbit Vibrator Magic Wand Massager
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Aug 3, 2022 • 56min

68. Independent Sexuality for Women: Relationship Therapy, Navigating Jealousy, and a Look Into the Life of Non-Monogamy with Arushi

On today's episode, we have Arushi (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about navigating the patriarchal construction of monogamy to challenge the status quo. Together we talk about differing from your family value systems, the history of monogamy for women, and navigating non-monogamous relationships.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384  50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Resources to Learn More:  The Pleasure Project Bronfenbrenner's Ecological Systems: 5 Forces Impacting Our Lives Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage Are Women Neurologically Less Suited for Monogamy than Men? Human sexual desire: Is monogamy natural? Monogamous Marriage throughout History: A Female Perspective Women as Legal Property Not Your Mother's Playground What is a schema? Cognitive Developmental Psychology Come As You Are
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Jul 27, 2022 • 44min

67. PORN, PORN, PORN: Masturbation, BDSM, and Safe Words with Alan Mckee

On today's episode, we have researcher and professor Alan Mckee (He\Him) join us for a conversation all about the effects of pornography after 50 years of academic research! Together we talk about the contradictory data about pornography use, informed consent, and life-long sexual learning. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Patreon Instagram Facebook Alan's Community: What Do We Know About the Effects of Pornography After Fifty Years of Academic Research? Resources to Learn More: Vibrator Nation The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: An Introduction Positionality & Research: How our Identities Shape Inquiry Thinking Sex: Notes for a Radical Theory of the Politics of Sexuality Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape Black Lace books Mills & Boon 30 Safe Words For When Things Get Spicy With Your SO Crash Pad Porn Sex School Make Love Not Porn
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Jul 20, 2022 • 45min

66. I'm a Bionic Bitch: Stepping Into Yourself, Finding Community, and Flow States with Dayna Troisi

On today's episode, we have writer and editor Dayna Troisi (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about celebrating ourselves unapologetically. Together we talk about finding your rhythm with the universe, how the personal is universal, and the gift of community. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Patreon Instagram Facebook Dayna's Community: Instagram Go Magazine Podcast Resources to Learn More:  Angel Giuffria Getting Slutty at Amp Camp Blacking Out In The Blue Dark How to enter ‘flow state’ on command Mitski - Your Best American Girl (Official Video)
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Jul 13, 2022 • 1h 18min

65. Relationship Chemistry: Emotional Self-Awareness, Boundary Setting, and Healing Attachment with Emilee Kerper

On today's episode, we have artist and yogi Emilee Kerper (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about the beautiful complexity that is relationships. Together we talk about healing from attachment trauma through sex work, why we stay in toxic relationships, and the importance of learning to set boundaries. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Patreon Instagram Facebook  Emilee's Community: Instagram Website Resources to Learn More: Single Mother Statistics Learning to Lay Down Boundaries 5 Crucial Qualities to Seek in a Partner How Therapy Works: The Role of Real Rapport 12 Keys To A Great Self-Relationship, Starting Now
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Jul 6, 2022 • 57min

64. Uncensored Sex Education: Sex Positive Clubs, BDSM, and Fruit Fetish with Anarella Martinez-Madrid

On today's episode, we have artist and founder of The Sex School, Anarella Martinez-Madrid (She/Her), join us for a conversation all about living in the future of liberated sexuality. Together we talk about the sex education you didn't receive in school, qualities to look for in play partners, and navigating open relationships.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Patreon Instagram Facebook Anarella's Community: Sex School Instagram Sex School Website Resources To Learn More: What makes sexual chemistry? 7 ways you may be slut-shaming yourself (and why you need to stop) The BDSM Kink Dictionary, Terminology & Vocabulary List Guide To Planning A BDSM Scene
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Jun 29, 2022 • 54min

63. What Does It Mean to Be Authentic? Co-Regulating, Existentialism, and Compersion with Mei Zarnitsyna

On today's episode, we have therapist Mei Zarnitsyna (she/her) join us for a conversation all about existential philosophy and finding authenticity. Together we talk about shifting between our rational mind and body wisdom, recognizing the scale of the universe, and the praxis of philosophy and psychology.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund Modern Anarchy Community: Website Patreon Instagram Facebook Mei's Links: Fundraiser: Free therapy for Ukrainian children and families Resources to Learn More: Jean-Paul Sartre and Existential Choice The Science of Analysis Paralysis Pavlov’s Classical Conditioning Body Wisdom as a Framework for Decision Making It Takes Two: The Role of Co-Regulation in Building Self-Regulation Skills What Do Mirror Neurons Really Do? What Is Compersion? The Polyamory Practice For Rethinking Jealousy The gentle power of highly sensitive people  Universe Size Comparison 2020 The Nap Ministry

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