
Modern Anarchy
Liberate your pleasure with psychedelic sex therapist, Nicole. As a leading theorist on non-monogamy and sexuality, Nicole bridges academic research with embodied, pleasure-centered strategies to help you navigate intimacy, desire, and the politics of connection. Tune in each Wednesday for conversations on sex, relationships, and liberation with pleasure activists from around the world. Are you ready to dive in?
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Jul 20, 2022 • 45min
66. I'm a Bionic Bitch: Stepping Into Yourself, Finding Community, and Flow States with Dayna Troisi
On today's episode, we have writer and editor Dayna Troisi (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about celebrating ourselves unapologetically. Together we talk about finding your rhythm with the universe, how the personal is universal, and the gift of community.
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And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund.
For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/
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Resources to Learn More:
Angel Giuffria
Getting Slutty at Amp Camp
Blacking Out In The Blue Dark
How to enter ‘flow state’ on command
Mitski - Your Best American Girl (Official Video)

Jul 13, 2022 • 1h 18min
65. Relationship Chemistry: Emotional Self-Awareness, Boundary Setting, and Healing Attachment with Emilee Kerper
On today's episode, we have artist and yogi Emilee Kerper (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about the beautiful complexity that is relationships. Together we talk about healing from attachment trauma through sex work, why we stay in toxic relationships, and the importance of learning to set boundaries.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund.
For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/
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Resources to Learn More:
Single Mother Statistics
Learning to Lay Down Boundaries
5 Crucial Qualities to Seek in a Partner
How Therapy Works: The Role of Real Rapport
12 Keys To A Great Self-Relationship, Starting Now

Jul 6, 2022 • 57min
64. Uncensored Sex Education: Sex Positive Clubs, BDSM, and Fruit Fetish with Anarella Martinez-Madrid
On today's episode, we have artist and founder of The Sex School, Anarella Martinez-Madrid (She/Her), join us for a conversation all about living in the future of liberated sexuality. Together we talk about the sex education you didn't receive in school, qualities to look for in play partners, and navigating open relationships.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund.
For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/
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Resources To Learn More:
What makes sexual chemistry?
7 ways you may be slut-shaming yourself (and why you need to stop)
The BDSM Kink Dictionary, Terminology & Vocabulary List
Guide To Planning A BDSM Scene

Jun 29, 2022 • 54min
63. What Does It Mean to Be Authentic? Co-Regulating, Existentialism, and Compersion with Mei Zarnitsyna
On today's episode, we have therapist Mei Zarnitsyna (she/her) join us for a conversation all about existential philosophy and finding authenticity. Together we talk about shifting between our rational mind and body wisdom, recognizing the scale of the universe, and the praxis of philosophy and psychology.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund.
For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund
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Fundraiser: Free therapy for Ukrainian children and families
Resources to Learn More:
Jean-Paul Sartre and Existential Choice
The Science of Analysis Paralysis
Pavlov’s Classical Conditioning
Body Wisdom as a Framework for Decision Making
It Takes Two: The Role of Co-Regulation in Building Self-Regulation Skills
What Do Mirror Neurons Really Do?
What Is Compersion? The Polyamory Practice For Rethinking Jealousy
The gentle power of highly sensitive people
Universe Size Comparison 2020
The Nap Ministry

Jun 22, 2022 • 1h 16min
62. Public Sex: Out of the Closets and Into the Streets with Gem Cut
On today's episode, we have a conversation with smut writer and exhibitionist Gem Cut (they\them) all about the anarchy behind the queer deconstruction of eroticism and sexuality. Together we talk about reckoning with queer bodies, the personality type of an exhibitionist, and expanding our understanding of sex.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund.
For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund
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Resources to Learn More:
Samuel Delany
Dean Spade
We Both Laughed In Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan
Cruising Utopia
Make The Golf Course A Public Sex Forest!
AORTA Films
Four Chambers

Jun 15, 2022 • 1h 1min
61. Wrestling with Questions Around Identity: Sexuality, Gender, and Careers with Betsey Zemke
On today's episode, we have therapist Betsey Zemke (She\They) join us for a conversation about navigating the flux of change. Together we talk about trauma recovery with the pandemic, bird calling your community, and finding contentment within an abundance of choice.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund.
For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund
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The paradox of choice

Jun 8, 2022 • 1h 8min
60. Exploring the Unconscious: Synchronicity, Dreams, and Psychedelic Psychotherapy with Manny Dominguez
On today's episode, we have doctoral candidate and marriage & family therapist, Manny Dominguez (He\Him), who is studying drug assisted psychotherapy. Together we talk about spontaneous mystical experiences, our shadow selves, and learning to decode your personal symbolic language.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund.
For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund
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Resources to Learn More:
What is Epigenetics?
Numinous Encounters
The Dark Night of the Soul (Losing Who We Thought We Were)
The Spirit Molecule
What Are the Jungian Archetypes?
Synchronicity
FANTASTIC FUNGI
Hippocampal Neurogenesis: Effects of Psychedelic Drugs
Adults who microdose psychedelics report health related motivations and lower levels of anxiety and depression compared to non-microdosers
This Is How Psychedelics Hack the Brain, According to Scientists

Jun 1, 2022 • 1h
59. The Intersection of Disability and Sexuality with Robin Wilson Beattie
On today's episode, we have disability activist Robin Wilson Beattie (She\Her) join us for a conversation about navigating being a mom and becoming disabled. Together we talk about internet dating pioneers, wusbands, and defying no.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund.
For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund
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Resources to Learn More:
Bes - ancient Egyptian dwarf god
Millions of disabled Americans could lose federal benefits if they get married
Spinal arteriovenous malformation (AVM)
Preeclampsia
Thrush
What Is White Privilege, Really?

May 25, 2022 • 1h 25min
58. I'm Definitely Gay: Unholy Sex, Disciplinary Action, and Painting the Mormon Church with Clark Hazel
On today's episode, we are joined by the polyamorous and kinky non-binary/trans therapist Clark Hazel (They\Them), who shares their vulnerable story of resilience. Together we talk about never getting the lesbian sex talk, the paradoxical logic of the patriarchy, and processing through shame.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund.
For the month of May, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting The National Network of Abortion Funds (https://abortionfunds.org/)
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Resources to Learn More:
The Singles Ward
Wild and Sublime
Cassie Porter
Spiritual Abuse Resources
Leaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion
Ex-Mormon Sub-reddit

May 18, 2022 • 1h 7min
57. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Ebony Holloway
On today's episode, we have Ebony Holloway (She\Her) join us for a raw and vulnerable conversation about healing and dealing. Together we talk about emotional integrity, internal vs external processing, and embracing growth even when it hurts.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund.
For the month of May, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting The National Network of Abortion Funds (https://abortionfunds.org/)
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Resources to Learn More:
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
Thich Nhat Hanh
Does your body really replace itself every seven years?
The Water in You: Water and the Human Body
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Long Term Physical Health Consequences of Adverse Childhood Experiences