Modern Anarchy

On today's episode, Tien (They\Them) joins us for a conversation about the beautiful, gorgeous, and complicated ways our identities intersect. Together we talk about their history of 13 years within the kink community, when non-monogamy is not intuitive, and navigating Dom Sub power dynamics in non-monogamy.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Tien's Community: Instagram Resources to Learn More: Hump Film Festival  Jessie Sparkles  A Guide To Cuckolding Cuckquean Munch (BDSM) What Is Generational Trauma? And Just What Is A Leather Family? 138 - Conscious Monogamy Ambiamorous

On today's episode, sex and intimacy coach Carlene Ostedgaard (She\Her) joins us for a conversation all about unlocking your erotic creativity. Together we talk about your birthright to sexual expression, going from zero to penetration, and rethinking intimacy in our relationships.  RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠ If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Carlene's Community: PLEASURE REVOLUTION COACHING Resources to Learn More: What Is Sexual Surrogacy? What Is Sensate Focus and How Does It Work? 6 Ways Pets Can Improve Your Health The secret to mindful travel? A walk in the woods EcoSexuality: 7 Things You Need To Know About This Sexual Identity 6-WEEK COMPASSION IMMERSION

On today's episode we have somatic sex educator and sexological body worker, Cassie Porter (She\Her), join us for a conversation about moving towards pleasure through sex work. Together we talk about destigmatizing sex work, exploring our kinks, and my fears of a monogamous sex life. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Cassie's Community: Website Resources to Learn More: What Is Somatic Sex Education? THE WHEEL OF CONSENT The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity

On today's episode, we have researcher and professional photographer Emma Phillips (she\her) join us for a conversation all about the aesthetics of sexualization. Together we talk about middle class disgust, respectable femininity, and letting go of the male gaze. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Emma's Community: Instagram Website Resources to Learn More: Ariel Levy - Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the Rise of Raunch Culture The History of the Sex Wars What Is The Orgasm Gap? Cardi B Won't Let Kulture Hear 'WAP' How to talk to your kids about sex: An age-by-age guide You Don't Have to Freak Out if Your Toddler Masturbates Shadowbanning: Instagram’s Sexual Content Policy Endangers Sex Education HOW RIHANNA IS CHANGING MATERNITY FASHION FOR THE BETTER Male Suicide Rates

On today's episode, Evelyn Kim (she\her) joins us for a conversation about the journey to embracing her expansive queer identity and the intersection of her Korean-American Identity. Together we talk about the shadow side of the LGBTQIA+ and social justice movements, contradictions in cultural identities, and letting people have their own experience of us.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Evelyn's Community: Website Instagram Resources to Learn More: 5 common misconceptions about pansexuality The Korean War (1950–53) Activism fatigue is killing social justice. Don't Worry, No One Cares A Reason Not to Worry What Others Think

On today's episode, we have PhD candidate in Sociology Jesse Holzman (they\them) join us for a conversation all about community building and accessibility. Together we talk about living with the lens of autism, being entitled to take up space, and the beautiful rabbit hole of questioning the status quo.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Jesse's Community:  Instagram Resources to Learn More: A Brief History of Japanese Rope Bondage What to Know About Shibari, the Art of Japanese Rope Bondage What Is Autism? Stimming: What It Is and Why People Do It Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Does Your Self Exist? Self-in-Relation Marriage Is an Inherently Unfeminist Institution Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage

On today's episode, we have certified sex educator Amber Mallery (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about understanding sex within culture. Together we talk about the assumption that all people with penises are aggressive, navigating the use of de-gendered language, and what it means to be a woman.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Amber's Community: Instagram Ted Talk Sex School Hub Resources to Learn More: How old do you have to be to buy condoms? Circumcision by Country 2022 Comprehensive Sex Education Reduces Teen Pregnancies The average number of sexual partners for men and women in the United States is 7.2 Inside Rwanda’s labia stretching ritual - Gukuna For Her Own Good: Two Centuries of the Experts Advice to Women Feminist Thought and Transcending the Gender Binary

On today's episode, Nicole leads us on a guided masturbation meditation for people with vulvas to slow down and connect with pleasure. Set aside some intentional time to dive into sensation and deepen your embodiment practice through this act of self-love and self-care! Let's dive in together.. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Resources to Explore More: Wearing Socks During Sex Makes You More Likely To Have A Satisfying Orgasm Why sex therapists swear by sensate focus: The mindful touching technique that enhances your sex life Philips Hue White and Color Ambiance Porn: Bellesa Lube: Water Based Lube: Coconut Oil Pom FLEXIBLE VIBRATOR Satisfyer Pro 2 Air-Pulse Clitoris Stimulator Satisfyer Mono Flex Rabbit Vibrator Magic Wand Massager

On today's episode, we have Arushi (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about navigating the patriarchal construction of monogamy to challenge the status quo. Together we talk about differing from your family value systems, the history of monogamy for women, and navigating non-monogamous relationships.  If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384  50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Resources to Learn More:  The Pleasure Project Bronfenbrenner's Ecological Systems: 5 Forces Impacting Our Lives Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage Are Women Neurologically Less Suited for Monogamy than Men? Human sexual desire: Is monogamy natural? Monogamous Marriage throughout History: A Female Perspective Women as Legal Property Not Your Mother's Playground What is a schema? Cognitive Developmental Psychology Come As You Are

On today's episode, we have researcher and professor Alan Mckee (He\Him) join us for a conversation all about the effects of pornography after 50 years of academic research! Together we talk about the contradictory data about pornography use, informed consent, and life-long sexual learning. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Patreon Instagram Facebook Alan's Community: What Do We Know About the Effects of Pornography After Fifty Years of Academic Research? Resources to Learn More: Vibrator Nation The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: An Introduction Positionality & Research: How our Identities Shape Inquiry Thinking Sex: Notes for a Radical Theory of the Politics of Sexuality Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape Black Lace books Mills & Boon 30 Safe Words For When Things Get Spicy With Your SO Crash Pad Porn Sex School Make Love Not Porn