
Modern Anarchy
Nicole is a queer Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist with training in Psychedelic-Integration Therapy. As one of the leading theorists on non-monogamy and sexuality, Nicole bridges academic research with embodied, pleasure-centered strategies to help individuals navigate intimacy, relationships, and desire. Tune in each Wednesday to join her exploration of sex, relationships, and liberation with pleasure activists from around the world. Are you ready to dive in?
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Feb 15, 2023 • 55min
95. Stories of Collective Liberation: Leadership Beyond Dominance, Psychedelic Expression, and Hope for a New Future with Naomi Grace
On today's episode, we have multi-sensory medicine maker and artsy-fartsy rabble-rouser Naomi Grace (She/They) join us for a conversation all about imagining a new future of collective liberation. Together we talk about leaning into our intuition, stories of pan-African feminine leadership, and a world beyond hierarchy and extraction.
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Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
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Day 4: Neuroplasticity: Neurons that Fire Together Wire Together
Hebbian learning and predictive mirror neurons for actions, sensations and emotions
Psychedelics and Neuroplasticity: A Systematic Review Unraveling the Biological Underpinnings of Psychedelics
Why Representation Matters and Why It’s Still Not Enough
BRIDGET “BIDDY” MASON (1818-1891)
Wangari Maathai
QUEEN NANNY OF THE MAROONS
What is solarpunk and can it help save the planet?
The Fifth Sacred Thing

Feb 8, 2023 • 1h 31min
94. Reclaiming the Power of the Feminine Energy: Community, Intuition, and Rituals with Akinke Lucas
On today's episode shamanic practitioner, indigenous traditional healer, and doctoral student Akinke Lucas (She/Her) joins us for a conversation all about afro-feminine energy. Together we talk about decoupling feminine energy from gender, the need for consistency in our spiritual practices, and the gift of rootedness within community.
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Flowing Waters
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Parental olfactory experience influences behavior and neural structure in subsequent generations
Spare the Kids: Why Whupping Children Won't Save Black America
Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

Feb 1, 2023 • 1h 25min
93. The Week After the Orgy: Time and Energy in Non-Monogamy with Sadie Lune
On today's episode, we have feminist artist and queer sex radical Sadie (She/Her) join us for a conversation exposing the dark side and complications of open-relating. Together we talk about the spectrum of jealousy, navigating the limitations of time and energy, and the wild adventure of co-creating relationships.
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Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships
Stages of Racial and Cultural Identity Development
Style Like You

Jan 25, 2023 • 1h 14min
92. Platonic Intimacy, Forced Birth, and Sexism with Asia Dorsey
On today's episode, podcaster and herbalist Asia Dorsey (She/They) joins us for a conversation all about a critical analysis of contemporary sexism. Together we talk about love as a conduit of oppression, reclaiming with fourth wave feminism, and how the personal is binary but the political is queer.
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Caliban and the Witch: Women, the Body and Primitive Accumulation
The Velvet Glove
The Book That Incited a Worldwide Fear of Overpopulation
Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype
Bernie Sanders explains Democratic Socialism
Cornel West on Democratic socialism
Dr. Cornel West on Socialism | Joe Rogan
Kindred
Relational-Cultural Theory: Fostering Healthy Coexistence Through a Relational Lens

Jan 18, 2023 • 59min
91. What Is The Most Pleasurable Sex You've Experienced? with Annie Philpott
On today's episode, we have the founder of The Pleasure Project, Anne Philpott (She/Her), join us for a conversation all about the liberation of pleasure. Together we talk about the declaration on sexual pleasure, the seven pleasure principles, and changing the paradigm of sex education.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
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Declaration on Sexual Pleasure
10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex
The Ethical Slut
Women who have fewer orgasms expect and desire less during sex with their partners
What Is The Orgasm Gap?
When Spousal Rape First Became a Crime in the U.S.

Jan 11, 2023 • 1h 17min
90. How About Swinging? Pegging, Prostate Orgasms, and the Bisexual Man with Cooper Beckett
On today's episode, we have sex educator and writer Cooper Beckett (he/him) join us for a conversation all about transformative sexual experiences. Together we talk about the spectrum of non-monogamy, sitting with the scary questions, and having the license to be ourselves.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
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Open Relationships Are More Popular Than You Might Think
What to Know About Rising STD Rates Among Seniors
NAUGHTY N'AWLINS
Shortbus

Jan 4, 2023 • 58min
89. Burning The Holy Mormon Underwear: Kink, Community, and the God Complex with Madazon
On today's episode, performing artist and dominatrix Madazon (They/Them) joins us for a conversation about a different understanding of community. Together we talk about the fear of expansive love, being a sacred interrupter, and deconstructing the god complex.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
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What is subspace?
How common is BDSM?
Polygamy in Christianity

Dec 21, 2022 • 1h 25min
88. The Revolution is Now: Are We Ready to Flip The Board of Capitalism? with Kori Doty
On today's episode, Kori Doty (They/Them/Theirs) joins us for a conversation about how the system keeps us disconnected. Together we talk about having a full relationship with our body, time-traveler trouble, and noticing the costs of capitalism.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
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Imagination Revolution
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What is Harm Reduction?
The Link Between Dopamine and ADHD
Tada Hozumi
The Body Keeps the Score
TikTok's algorithm is promoting homophobia and anti-trans violence on For You Pages, experiment finds
These TikTok Creators Say They’re Still Being Suppressed for Posting Black Lives Matter Content
TikTok Admits It Suppressed Videos by Disabled, Queer, and Fat Creators

Dec 14, 2022 • 1h 2min
87. Stop Waiting for Others to Validate Your Shine: A New Paradigm of Healing and Spirituality with Eduardo Viezca
On today's episode, love and relationship coach and psychotherapist, Eduardo Viezca (He/They/King) joins us for a conversation about a new paradigm of healing and spirituality. Together we talk about integrating the transpersonal within western modalities of therapy, following spiritual bread crumbs, and leaning into the beauty of our imperfection.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/
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Understand Your Dreams by Using Jung's “Active Imagination”
The Mestizo perspective
How the mixed-race mestizo myth warped science in Latin America
The Wounded Healer as Cultural Archetype
Jung and the Archetype of the Wounded Healer
Eliminating Microaggressions: The Next Level of Inclusion | Tiffany Alvoid | TEDxOakland
Everything you need to know about Reiki
What is Reiki?
Qigong: What You Need To Know

Dec 7, 2022 • 1h 21min
86. Am I Cutting Off My Identity By Only Having Sex with One Person? with Chris K
On today's episode, Chris K (any pronouns) joins us for a vulnerable conversation about their journey into the liberation of polyamory and unfolding the matrix. Together we talk about the expansiveness of connection, the surrender and trust needed to find security in change, and how our identity shifts through relationships.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/
Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
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Can’t Help but Fly (feat. Be Steadwell & Luqman Frank)