

Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging
Emma and Fin
Hi! We’re Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our thirties who have been exploring non-monogamy for over 15 years. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship styles to hear their amazing stories.
Many of our guests identify as swingers or polyamorous. However, quite a few have redefined non-monogamy in their own way by creating a unique dynamic that works for them. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.
We hope you enjoy the show and who knows, maybe someday you’ll even be up for sharing your own story. We’d love to hear it!
Many of our guests identify as swingers or polyamorous. However, quite a few have redefined non-monogamy in their own way by creating a unique dynamic that works for them. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.
We hope you enjoy the show and who knows, maybe someday you’ll even be up for sharing your own story. We’d love to hear it!
Episodes
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Feb 27, 2019 • 1h 8min
Ep 50 - Taytum + Rachel
Rachel and Taytum are two college students in their early twenties who are exploring their sexualities and different relationship styles together. Fairly early in their relationship Taytum confessed she is interested in exploring what it's like to be with other people. However, she has no interest in breaking up with Rachel. After lots of hard discussions Rachel found our podcast and learned all of the different ways people make these types of relationships work. They are still figuring it out but they were anxious to come on the show and share their progress with us. This is an amazing and heartwarming conversation between two people are still in the middle of finding their way.
Show Notes
Win a $50 STDCheck.com Gift Card
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$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Personal Capital
Scott's Cheap Flights
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
Atlanta Poly Weekend - June 7-9
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Feb 20, 2019 • 1h 25min
Ep 49 - Torrid Souls (Tori + Soul)
Tori and Soul are the Torrid Souls... A badass bisexual female-female couple who have been exploring the world of swinging for a few years. They share some amazing stories and insight with us, and you! Give it a listen and then go check them out on their own podcast!
Show Notes
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
Scott's Cheap Flights
Personal Capital
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/
http://www.torridsouls.com/

Feb 13, 2019 • 1h 12min
Ep 48 - Christopher Smith
Christopher Smith has an amazing story he shares with us today. He was in the military, he was a pastor, he has multiple degrees in religious studies, he has a kid, and he is a speaker in the polyamory and non-monogamy space. He has a deep understanding, compassion, and empathy for his partners and people in general. We personally took a ton away from this interview. Check it out, you will too!
Show Notes
Win a $50 STDCheck.com Gift Card
Join Our Patreon Community!
Personal Capital - Free Money Management
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Feb 6, 2019 • 1h 13min
Ep 47 - Kat + Tom
This is one of the wilder interviews we have done! Kat and Tom are full of energy and life and they have a fantastic outlook on life and non-monogamy. They share a lot of amazing bits and pieces with us along with some insight into what they are looking for when they meet people in the swinging world. If you're looking for a laughing and learning experience, here is your chance!
Show Notes
Win a $50 STDCheck.com Gift Card
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
Kasidie Online Dating - Free 6 month trial
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Jan 30, 2019 • 1h 13min
Ep 46 - Vel + Jason
This week's interview is really heartwarming. Vel and Jason are a couple who have been together for a few years and have essentially been open since the start. The love and compassion they have shown for one another through breakups, coming out to family, and even the death of a partner are very inspirational. Have a listen and let us know what you think. Our guess is, you'll love it.
Show Notes
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
Kasidie Online Dating - Free 6 month trial
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Jan 23, 2019 • 1h 14min
Ep 45 - Kevin Patterson (Poly Rolemodels)
Author, blogger, and speaker of all things polyamory, Kevin Patterson sits down for a wide-ranging interview with us this week. We talk gender roles, male stereotypes, navigating polyamory as a person of color and much more. Kevin also discusses a little bit about the two books he published in 2018: Love's Not Colorblind and For Hire: Operator. We had a great time talking with Kevin and know this won't be the last time our paths cross. Get in here and check it out!
Show Notes
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
Kasidie Online Dating
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/
Poly Role Models

Jan 16, 2019 • 59min
Ep 44 - Front Porch Swingers (Brenna + Brian)
This week we have the honor of interviewing the hosts of the new-ish podcast, Front Porch Swingers! Brenna and Brian share some sexy stories with us along with their origin story and some of the other things that make them a unique pair in the swinging and non-monogamy worlds.
Show Notes
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
Kasidie Online Dating - 6 month free trial
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/
http://frontporchswingers.com/

Jan 9, 2019 • 1h 24min
Ep 43 - Aleah
Aleah is a young woman in her early 30's who has been pushing the confines of traditional relationship models for a few years. She has been exploring polyamory along with swinging with some of her poly partners. She has an amazing outlook on life and shares some excellent advice for how to view relationships and take care of the most important person in your life... You.
Show Notes
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Kasidie Online Dating
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Jan 2, 2019 • 1h 35min
Ep 42 - Felice + Bill
This interview blew our minds! These two have so much love for one another and their journey has taken some amazing twists over their 30+ year marriage. They got their start from a little nudge of infidelity and have turned it into one of the best things their marriage has ever seen. This episode is incredible and you need to get in here and listen.
Show Notes
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
Kasidie Online Dating
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Dec 26, 2018 • 1h 23min
Ep 41 - Sex Out Loud (Tristan Taormino)
We had the honor of sitting down at Desire in November 2018 with the one and only Tristan Taormino for a an interview in which she tells us things she has never spoken about publicly before. Her words, not ours. The author, porn director, podcaster, and all around bad ass human shares some amazing stories and wisdom with us. If you are thinking about skipping class today, think again.
Show Notes
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Join Our Patreon Community!
Kasidie Online Dating
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