

Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging
Emma and Fin
Hi! We’re Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our thirties who have been exploring non-monogamy for over 15 years. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship styles to hear their amazing stories.
Many of our guests identify as swingers or polyamorous. However, quite a few have redefined non-monogamy in their own way by creating a unique dynamic that works for them. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.
We hope you enjoy the show and who knows, maybe someday you’ll even be up for sharing your own story. We’d love to hear it!
Many of our guests identify as swingers or polyamorous. However, quite a few have redefined non-monogamy in their own way by creating a unique dynamic that works for them. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.
We hope you enjoy the show and who knows, maybe someday you’ll even be up for sharing your own story. We’d love to hear it!
Episodes
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Apr 24, 2019 • 1h 6min
Ep 60 - Steak + Tequila
The esteemed hosts of the podcast Getting Into the Swing of Things with Steak and Tequila stop by for a super fun chat! They share some tips and tricks on meeting people as well as how they balance their work and life with meeting other sexy people and living it up. They also share what is possibly the bloodiest orgy story we have ever heard.
Show Notes
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
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#Open Dating App
PolyFinda Dating App
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/
Getting Into the Swing of Things With Steak and Tequila

Apr 17, 2019 • 1h 8min
Ep 59 - Josephine + Wyatt
Religion had these two tightly locked in... Then they moved to France and slowly started opening up their view on sex. Fast-forward a few years and they are exploring swinging and non-monogamy! They had a few very intense experiences that caused them to step back a bit and re-evaluate before recently making the decision to go at it again with a much more strategic game plan.
Show Notes
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
PolyFinda App
#Open Dating App
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Apr 15, 2019 • 1h 6min
Ep 58 - PolyFinda App (Nami + Bruce)
As Nami puts it, most of the things Bruce does in life are to help other people. Together, the two of them have created a new app called PolyFinda which is a dating and community resource for people living ethically non-monogamous lifestyles. They talk a bit about the app, but more importantly they share their amazing journey with us. These two are some of the kindest people we have met and we are so happy to be able to support their journey. Please check out their app and meet some amazing people, like us!
Show Notes
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
PolyFinda
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Apr 10, 2019 • 1h
Ep 57 - Catherine + Ray
Catherine and Ray stumbled into swinging on accident after a spur of the moment day trip to Temptation Resort in Cancun on their tenth anniversary. After a few years of discussing and research they decided to move ahead and dive in further. Beyond exploring non-monogamy together, Catherine is a therapist and relationship coach who specializes in working with people in open relationships. They drop some amazing knowledge and insightful stories on us this week. Check it out and definitely check her out if you are struggling or need someone to talk to about your own journey.
Show Notes
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
#Open Dating App
www.expansiveconnection.com
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Apr 3, 2019 • 1h
Ep 56 - Life on the Swingset (Tonia + Dylan)
Tonia and Dylan of Life on the Swingset fame stop by to share their origin story! We talk everything from jealousy and scheduling to sexy board game nights. These two have been navigating non-monogamy in both swinging and polyamory for almost a decade. There is a lot of wisdom in here.
Show Notes
Win a $50 STDCheck.com Gift Card
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
#Open Dating App
Scott's Cheap Flights
Atlanta Poly Weekend
Personal Capital
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/
https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/

Mar 27, 2019 • 1h 19min
Ep 55 - Rapunzel
Rapunzel has explored swinging and polyamory both while married and as a single woman. She has a great outlook on how all of her different relationship styles with many different people impact her life in such a positive way. She also shares some amazing advice on exploring the world of non-monogamy as a parent and more specifically, as a single mother. This interview will brighten your day and might even convince you it's time to start trying to figure out how to make your way to Desire in Cancun!
Show Notes
Win a $50 STDCheck.com Gift Card
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
#Open Dating App
Scott's Cheap Flights
Personal Capital
Atlanta Poly Weekend
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Mar 20, 2019 • 60min
Ep 54 - Heather + Mike
These two have the pedal to the metal! They have been best friends for many many years and finally took it to the next level. Now, they are exploring non-monogamy together and in the course of a few short months have gone from zero-to-orgy! They have a great attitude and approach as well as some fantastic advice on consent and implied consent. This one gets a little sexy so get in here and have a listen!
Show Notes
Win a $50 STDCheck.com Gift Card
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Join Our Patreon Community!
#Open Dating App
Scott's Cheap Flights
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/

Mar 18, 2019 • 43min
Ep 53 - #Open App (Amanda + David)
The creators of the new dating app #Open stop by to share their story and to talk about the revolution they are trying to create in the world of dating and inclusivity. This is an amazing resource for anyone trying to meet people in the non-monogamy space and maybe their mission statement says it best:
"Our mission at #open goes beyond just dating or hooking up—we're working to create a community where people can create genuine connections. And we're hoping to make the world a little better, while we're at it."
Show Notes
Win a $50 STDCheck.com Gift Card
Join Our Patreon Community!
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Scott's Cheap Flights
Atlanta Poly Weekend
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/
https://www.hashtagopen.com

Mar 13, 2019 • 1h 29min
Ep 52 - Life on the Swingset (Ginger + The Prof)
If you know Life on the Swingset, you know Ginger... If you know Ginger, you know The Prof. If you don't. You need to come in here and listen to two of the most amazing and well spoken humans on the topic of non-monogamy. These two are absolute legends and there is not much more to say about it. We cover just about everything under the non-monogamy umbrella from swinging to polyamory and even a bit of kink. Do yourself a solid and listen to this one.
Show Notes
Win a $50 STDCheck.com Gift Card
Join Our Patreon Community!
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Scott's Cheap Flights
Personal Capital
Atlanta Poly Weekend
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/
https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/

Mar 6, 2019 • 1h 7min
Ep 51 - Ann + Brian
If you look up compersion in the dictionary, there is likely a photo of these two amazing people! They found one another after both going through divorces a few years back and have set out on a journey to live life to the fullest in every way possible. They are just starting to explore non-monogamy but have already made it to the elusive "full swap." Since then, they have started to reconsider what they want out of it and are finding their way. Oh, by the way... They do all of this with like fourteen children. Well, maybe a few less than that. Either way, this one will make your day, come have a listen!
Show Notes
Win a $50 STDCheck.com Gift Card
Join Our Patreon Community!
$10 Off - Online STI Testing
Personal Capital
Atlanta Poly Weekend
Scott's Cheap Flights
10% discount at myonecondoms.com with offer code "Emma"
https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/


