

Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging
Emma and Fin
Hi! We’re Emma and Fin! We’re a married couple in our thirties who have been exploring non-monogamy for over 15 years. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship styles to hear their amazing stories.
Many of our guests identify as swingers or polyamorous. However, quite a few have redefined non-monogamy in their own way by creating a unique dynamic that works for them. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.
We hope you enjoy the show and who knows, maybe someday you’ll even be up for sharing your own story. We’d love to hear it!
Many of our guests identify as swingers or polyamorous. However, quite a few have redefined non-monogamy in their own way by creating a unique dynamic that works for them. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.
We hope you enjoy the show and who knows, maybe someday you’ll even be up for sharing your own story. We’d love to hear it!
Episodes
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Dec 19, 2018 • 1h 24min
Ep 40 - Mila
An incredible interview with an amazing young woman from Argentina who is now living in Barcelona, Spain. She shares a moving story of growing up and exploring her sexuality and different relationship styles with multiple partners while dealing with some extremely traumatic experiences in her life. Most recently, these experiences lead to her falling in love and marrying her best friend who has been going through her own exploration of gender identity. This is is an incredible and moving interview that we are so honored to have been able to be a part of. Thank you to Mila for sharing and taking us along on her journey.
Show Notes
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Dec 12, 2018 • 1h 33min
Ep 39 - Fight Boring Marriages (Danielle + Clayton)
Okay, so these two bloggers are amazing! They travel the world, they dabble in swinging, they had sex for 400 consecutive days, and... They have done all of this while battling against a very strong upbringing in the Mormon church. This episode is a blast and we had a ton of fun talking with Clayton and Danielle and are happy to now call them friends. Have a listen and see for yourself!
Show Notes
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https://www.instagram.com/fight_boring_marriages

Dec 5, 2018 • 55min
Ep 38 - Crystal with blackandpoly.org
Crystal has an incredible story that she shares along with some fantastic discussions around navigating the world of polyamory specifically as it pertains to being a person of color. She is the website editor for blackandpoly.org and has been non-monogamous most of her adult life. She also is on the autism spectrum and shares with us some strategies she uses to help her negotiate multiple relationships. This one is a must listen!
Show Notes
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http://blackandpoly.org/

Nov 28, 2018 • 1h 37min
Ep 37 - Elizabeth + Phillip
We have decided to call this episode "The Parenting Episode" because it is honestly one of the most amazing interviews we have heard about handling being a parent while swinging. It also has one of the craziest blooper moments ever happen in the middle, so give it a listen and you will NOT be disappointed.
Show Notes
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Nov 21, 2018 • 1h 1min
Ep 36 - The A-Slut Podcast with Simon
The host and creator of The A-Slut Podcast joins us all the way from New Zealand for an amazing discussion about consent, BDSM, and polyamory. Give it a listen, but only if you like awesome things that are good for your ears.
Show Notes
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https://shows.pippa.io/thea-slutpodcast

Nov 14, 2018 • 1h 4min
Ep 35 - Angus
Our first (and hopefully not last) interview with a BBC bull who has been exploring the swinging lifestyle for many years as both a single person and while in a couple. It's a fascinating interview with tons of advice for any single guys out there looking to try and navigate the lifestyle. Come on, you know you want to try it. Just listen!
Show Notes
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Nov 7, 2018 • 1h 7min
Ep 34 - Jess + Shawn
This week we have an interview... Duh! It's an amazing interview with a couple who has been exploring swinging for a little over a year and have some fantastic stories as well as one of the funniest coming out to parents stories we've ever heard. Come on, have a listen and a laugh.
Show Notes
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Oct 31, 2018 • 55min
Ep 33 - Cindy + John
Two of our Twitter Followers reached out and wanted to share their story with everyone. Of course, we wanted them to as well so that's what we did. They have been swinging together since high school and have an amazing attitude toward the whole lifestyle that you are going to want to hear.
Show Notes
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Kasidie Online Dating
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Oct 24, 2018 • 1h 15min
Ep 32 - On The Wet Coast (Kat + Flick)
Kat and Flick from the podcast On The Wet Coast join us this week for a diverse interview covering polyamory, swinging, and mental health within the non-monogamy space. Tune in to hear how they have both navigated the world of swinging and poly on and off for for most of their marriage.
Show Notes
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http://podcasts.onthewetcoast.com/

Oct 17, 2018 • 1h 25min
Ep 31 - Abby + Justin
We wrangled some of our sexy friends who are full of knowledge and experience to come on and share some hilarious and helpful stories from throughout their time exploring swinging. They don't really like to be called swingers but hey, I'm the one typing and they can't stop me! So, come listen to one of the funniest first nights at a swinging party we've ever heard and you can thank us later!
Show Notes
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