This vs. That

On this episode of This vs. That, we sit down with Darby Strickland, a counselor who works with the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation (CCEF). We explore the important topic of harshness versus abuse in relationships. Together, we discuss the dynamics of abusive relationships and the challenges in recognizing and addressing abuse. Join us as we explore the crucial issue of understanding and supporting victims of abuse. Resources from Darby Strickland: What is Abuse?: A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims Something Scary Happened: Comfort for Children in Hard Times Domestic Abuse: Help for the Sufferer Domestic Abuse: Recognize, Respond, Rescue Trauma: Caring for Survivors When Children Experience Trauma: What to Do When Something Scary Happens ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠---- Have you heard the phrase that leaders are made and not born? Lumino Global is an international leadership, coaching, and consulting firm dedicated to helping you grow and reach your full potential as a leader. Lumino believes that leadership development is critical to every mission and every organization. Have you plateaued at your personal or professional growth? Or maybe you have a huge project that you're just trying to figure out where to get started. Coaching is a great way to learn and grow in a highly personalized and confidential environment for personal development. You don't want to miss this opportunity to walk through life with your own coach. You can meet the team of Christian coaches and learn more about careers, ministries, or executive coaching at ⁠⁠www.lumino-global.com⁠⁠. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠----⁠⁠ This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we have Jamie Ivey as our special guest. Jamie is the creator and host of the popular podcast The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey, where we gather all kinds of people to talk about life and Jesus. Jamie is not only an accomplished podcaster but also an author of several books and a worship pastor's wife. In our conversation, we dive deep into the topic of self kingdom versus God's kingdom. We explore the struggles of wanting to be known and building our own self identity, and the tension between seeking personal glory and giving glory to God. Jamie shares her insights on how she navigates success, the importance of community, and the need to steward our gifts and platforms for the glory of God. ----- At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a non profit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. Whether it's 5 or 1, 000, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women, and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today. In order to join us, go to ⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today. ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by Walter Shaw, a prolific reader and book reviewer who runs the WTS Reads account on Instagram. In our conversation with Walter, we explore the topic of readers versus non-readers and delve into the value of reading good books in our hyper-stimulated, fast-paced online culture. We discuss how reading shapes our minds and hearts, its role in our growth as Christians, and how to incorporate more reading into our lives. Walter shares the story of how WTS Reads got started and offers practical advice for those who may not naturally enjoy reading. We also touch on the impact of digital technology on our attention spans and ways to cultivate a habit of reading in a world filled with distractions. Join us as we explore the transformative power of reading and its potential to shape us into the image of Christ. ----- At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a non profit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. Whether it's 5 or 1, 000, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women, and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today. In order to join us, go to anchoredhope.co/give and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today. ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by Dr. Curtis Solomon, the executive director of the Biblical Counseling Coalition and author of I Have PTSD: Reorienting After Trauma. We delve into a thought-provoking discussion about Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) versus everyday stress. We explore the importance of understanding these concepts, especially in today's fast-paced and information-heavy world. Dr. Curtis shares his personal experiences and insights on PTSD, the reasons behind his passion for this topic, and the inspiration behind his book. We also discuss the significant differences between PTSD and general stress, the importance of recognizing and addressing all forms of suffering, and the potential for growth and sanctification after trauma. Join us for this insightful and hopeful conversation on understanding and dealing with trauma and stress. Have you heard the phrase that leaders are made and not born? Lumino Global is an international leadership, coaching, and consulting firm dedicated to helping you grow and reach your full potential as a leader. Lumino believes that leadership development is critical to every mission and every organization. Have you plateaued at your personal or professional growth? Or maybe you have a huge project that you're just trying to figure out where to get started. Coaching is a great way to learn and grow in a highly personalized and confidential environment for personal development. You don't want to miss this opportunity to walk through life with your own coach. You can meet the team of Christian coaches and learn more about careers, ministries, or executive coaching at ⁠www.lumino-global.com⁠. ⁠⁠⁠⁠---- At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ancored Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation. If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email at: ⁠office@biblicalcounseling.online⁠ This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we are joined by our friend Christine Chappell. We have a heartfelt conversation with Christine about the important topic of sadness versus depression. Together, we explore how to discern the difference between ordinary experiences of sadness and the overwhelming darkness of depression. Christine shares her personal journey of being treated for bipolar disorder, depression, panic attacks, and suicidal ideations, and how these experiences have fueled her ministry work to provide help and hope to others. We discuss the significance of understanding the distinction between sadness and depression and the importance of meeting individuals where they are in their struggles. Throughout the conversation, we emphasize the need for genuine empathy, patience, and a willingness to enter into the pain of others. Christine's upcoming book, Midnight Mercies, offers a powerful resource for those struggling with depression. Join us as we shed light on this challenging topic and bring hope to the midst of overwhelming darkness. ----- At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Anchored Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation. If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email at: ⁠⁠office@biblicalcounseling.online⁠⁠ ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into a fascinating conversation with Ryan Ross, the pastor at City Church in Melissa, Texas. In this episode, we explore the dynamic between a pastor as a friend versus a pastor as an authority. Ryan shares his insights and experiences in navigating these roles within his congregation. We discuss the importance of friendship in the church, the challenges of balancing authority and friendship, and the significance of maintaining healthy cross-gendered friendships within the body of Christ. Join us as we explore the complexities and joys of pastoral relationships. ----- At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Anchored Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation. If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email at: ⁠office@biblicalcounseling.online⁠ ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we dive into a thought-provoking conversation about authenticity versus oversharing with special guest Jen Wilkin. Join us as we explore the delicate balance between being open and honest and crossing the line into oversharing. Jen, an author and Bible teacher, shares her insights on why truth matters to believers and how our motives can affect our sharing habits. We also discuss the importance of wisdom and knowing ourselves in navigating when and what to share. Tune in for this enlightening discussion on finding the right balance between authenticity and oversharing in our lives. ----- Have you heard the phrase that leaders are made and not born? Lumino Global is an international leadership, coaching, and consulting firm dedicated to helping you grow and reach your full potential as a leader. Lumino believes that leadership development is critical to every mission and every organization. Have you plateaued at your personal or professional growth? Or maybe you have a huge project that you're just trying to figure out where to get started. Coaching is a great way to learn and grow in a highly personalized and confidential environment for personal development. You don't want to miss this opportunity to walk through life with your own coach. You can meet the team of Christian coaches and learn more about careers, ministries, or executive coaching at www.lumino-global.com. ⁠⁠ At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ancored Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation. If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email at: office@biblicalcounseling.online ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with Joe Keller about confronting versus covering in love. Joe has been in ministry and leadership development for over 20 years and currently serves as the executive pastor at Grace Baptist Church in Santa Clarita, California. We define what it means to confront in love, and how it involves living in a way that promotes and communicates the truth of God's word. We also discuss the importance of motivation and heart when it comes to confronting others. Joe shares the principle of bearing up under small offenses and when it is necessary to confront patterns of sin that are hurting others or the testimony of the gospel. Join us for a thoughtful conversation about how to love and confront well. Featured Article: To Confront or Not Confront? That is the Question ----- Trauma and Abuse. It’s in the headlines. It’s on social media. It’s also in our churches. We live in a fallen world where Christians are not immune from the effects of sin and brokenness. How can we love the hurting and vulnerable in our ministries well? The Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention and Gospel Care Collective are partnering together to help equip ministry leaders to respond to this problem. At TGC23 in Indianapolis, we will host a panel event aiming to provide a biblical perspective on these issues, with a focus on the role of the church in healing trauma and preventing abuse. Join us as we hear from long-time practitioners in ministry and counseling, including Jennifer Greenberg, Eliza Huie, Jason Kovacs, Mike Kruger, and Dr. Jeremy Pierre, to make the church a safer place for vulnerable people. You can find out more and register at ⁠⁠⁠traumainformedchurch.co⁠⁠ ----- At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today. In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today. While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ingrid Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation. If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email@officebiblicalcounseling.online ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

On this episode of This vs. That, we have a conversation with Ellen Dykas about the topic of adultery. We discuss the balance between knowing too much versus knowing just enough when it comes to adultery or pornography within a marriage. Ellen navigates this heavy topic with ease and provides insights on how to evaluate user feedback effectively. We also discuss the importance of understanding user needs and compiling user research methods into a document. Join us for this important and necessary conversation. Jesus and Your Unwanted Journey ----- Trauma and Abuse. It’s in the headlines. It’s on social media. It’s also in our churches. We live in a fallen world where Christians are not immune from the effects of sin and brokenness. How can we love the hurting and vulnerable in our ministries well? The Evangelical Council for Abuse Prevention and Gospel Care Collective are partnering together to help equip ministry leaders to respond to this problem. At TGC23 in Indianapolis, we will host a panel event aiming to provide a biblical perspective on these issues, with a focus on the role of the church in healing trauma and preventing abuse. Join us as we hear from long-time practitioners in ministry and counseling, including Jennifer Greenberg, Eliza Huie, Jason Kovacs, Mike Kruger, and Dr. Jeremy Pierre, to make the church a safer place for vulnerable people. You can find out more and register at ⁠⁠traumainformedchurch.co⁠⁠ ----- At Anchored Hope, we're committed to excellence. We believe that compassionate, biblically grounded, clinically informed counseling shouldn't be hard to find. That's why we are also committed to affordability and accessibility. To do this as a nonprofit, however, requires us to lock arms with people who care about the mental, emotional, and spiritual crisis happening all around us. If this is you, we need your help. This month we launched a brand new giving campaign and we are seeking to find a hundred people willing to give so that others might live. Whether it's $5 or a thousand dollars, we need your help. These proceeds go to men, women and families, pastors, ministry leaders, and missionaries across the globe in need of counseling care today. In order to join us, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co/give⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and join the cause for accessible, affordable, and excellent counseling care today. While our funds go to people in need of counseling and to support the growing ministry of Ingrid Hope, we have two specific financial needs. One is to serve ministry leaders in a foreign country that are caring and doing outreach to trafficked victims. The other need is a request to help and financing counseling for military families across the nation. If you would like more information about these two opportunities to give, send us an email@officebiblicalcounseling.online ----- This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠anchoredhope.co⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and schedule an appointment today.

Alasdair Groves, Executive Director of CCEF and a faculty member and counselor, discusses Healthy Emotional Expression versus Being Controlled by Our Emotions. He explores the extremes of being defined by emotions or shutting them down, emphasizing the importance of emotional intelligence. They also discuss trauma and abuse within churches, aiming to equip ministry leaders to respond effectively. The chapter descriptions cover topics such as building a positive theology of emotions, embodying Jesus' emotional interaction, the role of emotions in faith and trust, and the importance of emotional expression in counseling.