

This vs. That
Anchored Virtual
A podcast where we have conversations that explore what we think and why we think it.
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Mar 27, 2024 • 50min
Grieving with Hope vs. Grieving without Hope - Tim Challies
Tim Challies, a Canadian elder and author of "Seasons of Sorrow," shares his profound insights on grief. He contrasts grieving with hope versus without it, emphasizing faith’s role in navigating sorrow. Challies discusses the power of lamentation, the need for authentic emotional expressions, and the supportive role of community in healing. He also reflects on Christ's experience in Gethsemane, advocating for shared grieving as a pathway to companionship and understanding amidst loss.

Mar 20, 2024 • 52min
Frustration vs. Anger - Mark Vroegop
On this episode of This vs. That, we talk with with Mark Vroegop about the concepts of frustration and anger. We explore how these emotions are often intertwined, and how they can be both righteous and unrighteous.
Mark shares his experiences at College Park Church in Indianapolis and also provides a glimpse into his personal life. We examine the complexities of these emotions in the context of our faith and our responses to a world marked by sin and brokenness.
We also discuss the balance of asking questions from a place of suffering versus a place of demand. Finally, we contemplate how dealing with these emotions requires strong theological foundations and faith.
Resources Mentioned
"Good and Angry" by David Powlison
"Respectable Sins" by Jerry Bridges
"Future Grace" by John Piper
"Waiting on God" by Andrew Murray
"The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment" by Jeremiah Burroughs
"How Does Sanctification Work?" by David Powlison
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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.
Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.
For more information or to register, visit:
events.anchoredhope.co
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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit anchoredhope.co and schedule an appointment today.

Mar 13, 2024 • 55min
Listening vs. Talking in Prayer - John Starke
On this episode of This vs. That, we have an enriching conversation with John Starke about the importance of balancing talking and listening in prayer. John shares valuable insights from his book, The Possibility of Prayer, and highlights the transformative power of stillness.
As we explore the challenges many Christians face with prayer, John explains the significance of allowing our anxieties and guilt to rise to the surface and how these 'intolerable things' can be healed through prayer.
We also discuss how interpreting and applying scripture can guide us in our communication with God. Join us as we navigate these essential aspects of the Christian life.
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We're thrilled to announce an exciting event held in partnership between Anchored Hope and Fieldstone Counseling. On June 21st of this year, we'll be hosting an exclusive lunch at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference in Indianapolis, Indiana, featuring two of our dear friends, Michael Keller and Ed Welch.
Michael and Ed will be sharing their unique perspectives on navigating the challenges that we face, both at home, in our relationships, and in the world with the wisdom of Christ. I hope that you'll make plans to join us at this event. Space is limited, so please register as soon as possible. All registrants will receive a boxed lunch, access to the event, as well as a complimentary book from P&R Publishing.
For more information or to register, visit:
events.anchoredhope.co
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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit anchoredhope.co and schedule an appointment today.

Mar 6, 2024 • 53min
Humility vs. Self-Loathing - Jonathan Holmes
Exploring the delicate balance between humility and self-loathing, with insights from a counseling perspective. The importance of self-esteem, self-care, and self-perception in understanding these concepts. Highlighting the influence of God's voice in our lives and the upcoming inspirational lunch event at the Gospel Coalition Women's Conference.

Feb 28, 2024 • 59min
Normal Conflict vs. Critical Conflict in Marriage - Dave Harvey
Dave Harvey discusses the differences between normal and critical conflicts in marriage, highlighting the importance of humility and clarity in resolving conflicts. The conversation delves into the transformative power of conflict in marriage, addressing abuse, embracing transformation through the gospel, and seeking help and community in marriages.

Feb 21, 2024 • 55min
Authoritarian vs. Authoritative Parenting - Julie Lowe
Explore the distinction between Authoritarian and Authoritative Parenting styles with counselor Julie Lowe. Learn how gospel-centered parenting leads to healthier relationships. Challenge traditional parenting norms and prioritize your child's well-being over societal standards of success.

Feb 14, 2024 • 54min
Self-Confidence vs. Confidence in Christ - Elyse Fitzpatrick
Join us as we explore the gospel of self-confidence versus confidence in Christ with Elyse Fitzpatrick. She shares her personal journey, insights on understanding strengths, freedom found in failure, importance of turning to Jesus, and rooting confidence in Him. Discover how confidence in Christ frees us from perpetual success pressure and allows faithful obedience.

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Feb 7, 2024 • 50min
Wisdom vs. Knowledge - Mac Brunson
Dr. Mac Brunson, a minister, discusses the distinction between wisdom and knowledge. He emphasizes the importance of grounding wisdom in the Word of God, seeking guidance from fellow believers, and not pursuing knowledge without godly wisdom. Dr. Brunson highlights the significance of finding comfort and wisdom in Scripture, anchoring one's gaze on Jesus, and the relationship between wisdom, humility, and worship.

Dec 6, 2023 • 48min
Cultural Engagement vs. Avoiding Culture - Albert Mohler
On this episode of This vs. That, we engage in a thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Albert Mohler, president of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary.
Join us as discuss the topic of cultural engagement versus avoiding culture, exploring how Christians can maintain their integrity while actively engaging with the world around them.
Dr. Mohler shares his insights on the value of respectful conversations, even with those who hold different beliefs, and how these interactions can invite others to consider the goodness and beauty of truth. Discover the importance of proximity, the impact of the digital revolution, and practical ways to navigate cultural engagement in our daily lives.
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This vs. That is a podcast of Anchored Hope. Anchored Hope provides practical help to those hurting by anchoring their hope in Jesus and helping others gain a better understanding of his promises. We offer reputable, biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing difficult seasons. Our counselors are highly trained and bring a vast experience in addressing the various issues of life. To meet with a counselor, visit anchoredhope.co and schedule an appointment today.

Nov 29, 2023 • 54min
Panic vs. Fear - Paul Tautges
On this episode of This vs. That, we’ll be talking with Paul Tautges. Join us as we dive into a meaningful conversation on panic versus fear. Paul's personal experiences and insights shed light on the importance of addressing these emotions and finding God's peace in the midst of them. We explore the physical and emotional aspects of panic and anxiety, and discuss the distinction between healthy and harmful fear. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of these topics and discover practical ways to navigate through them with faith and trust in the Lord.
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