People who were neglected as children often struggle to form stable, lasting relationships. One big reason is insecure attachment -- a wound of trauma (particularly neglect) that creates a chronic sense of anxiety that you're not wanted, or you are about to be abandoned. You might RUSH in and get enmeshed with someone you just met, or exhaust yourself trying to be good enough for people who are emotionally unavailable. In this 4-video compilation I share four of my most popular videos on childhood neglect and insecure attachment. Learn what this looks like, and why it's so important to begin healing so you can finally be loved at last. Heal trauma-driven patterns and find real love at last: http://bit.ly/3IBbrv7 Take my FREE Course or Quizzes: https://bit.ly/40M2YeW Enroll in my Courses or Membership: https://bit.ly/3HP5qcf Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF  

The reason I say codependency is so destructive to everyone it touches is that A) it drains the person who has abandoned themselves to become entirely focused on fixing another person, and B) the person being fixed is NOT fixed -- and doesn’t like it, and will usually leave. But that’s not what it FEELS like when you’ve been showing up in good faith with someone who is ambivalent toward you. In this video I respond to a letter from a woman whose heart is breaking, and she's finding out what the problem was all along. Signs You are in a Codependent Relationship: FREE PDF Download: https://bit.ly/3pwt5c6 Take my FREE Course or Quizzes: https://bit.ly/40M2YeW Enroll in my Courses or Membership: https://bit.ly/3HP5qcf Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF  

Exploring the impact of childhood neglect on relationships, the longing for genuine love, and the struggle to break free from toxic dynamics. Highlighting the importance of boundaries, self-worth, and seeking support in navigating emotional turmoil and overcoming attachment in relationships.

It's painful for a child to be left out, ignored and never included. This counts as trauma, and leaves behind telltale signs in the form of triggers in adulthood. You may find yourself reacting strongly with anger, anxiety or self-abandonment when people overlook you or disappoint you now, in adulthood. Unfortunately, this aspect of CPTSD can destabilize relationships or push you to bond with partners too quickly. Hear my list of signs and triggers that indicate wounds from neglect and ostracization in childhood. Try the FREE Daily Practice Course: FREE PDF Download: https://bit.ly/3Y4263I Take my FREE Course or Quizzes: https://bit.ly/40M2YeW Enroll in my Courses or Membership: https://bit.ly/3HP5qcf Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF  

Neglect and abandonment during childhood can leave deep emotional scars, triggering patterns of dysregulation in adulthood. The discussion highlights the importance of self-respect and setting boundaries to foster healthier relationships. Recognizing emotional triggers is key to breaking self-defeating behaviors linked to past trauma. The struggle to form social connections after such experiences is emphasized, along with practical strategies for managing fear and taking gradual steps toward healing. Personal insights and journaling techniques are shared for navigating this complex journey.

In this podcast, they discuss how growing up with trauma can lead to feeling disconnected in a loving relationship. They explore the challenges of connecting, pacing, attachment, and grieving in relationships for individuals with CPTSD.

Explore the impact of trauma on relationships, the cycle of kindness and abuse, and the struggles of setting boundaries. Discover strategies for happiness, healthy partnerships, and self-assurance, along with options for online therapy.

Discover how childhood trauma from being ignored can affect adult communication, emotional expression, and boundary setting. Learn about signs indicating lack of validation in childhood and the impact on expressing emotions. Explore how past trauma influences communication patterns in adults, with insights on behaviors like deflection through humor and over-self-disclosure. Uncover consequences in adulthood from a lack of empathetic listening in childhood, such as inappropriate sharing and boundary struggles. Dive into the importance of healing past traumas to enhance connections with others.

Exploring the effects of dysfunctional families, overcoming trauma and disempowerment, healing from family dysfunction, and exploring childhood traumas and attachment issues. Strategies for breaking free from family dysfunction and healing with techniques and resources are discussed.

Exploring the use of deceptive romantic language in dating, setting boundaries in relationships, and moving on from toxic partners with the help of online therapy.