

Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
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It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
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Feb 6, 2025 • 1h 5min
That's How You Get A Squirtcicle w/ ER Fightmaster
Actor, musician and advocate ER Fightmaster shares an absolutely unforgettable Messy Story and some gems during Smash or Pass. Then, Brandon and ER explore what it means to be attracted to energy versus genitals, and non-binary sexuality during Messy Mail. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 30, 2025 • 1h 15min
I Really Thought I Had Healed From This w/ Johnny Sibilly
LGBTQIA+ rights advocate, actor and producer Johnny Sibilly shares some deep fantasies during his Messy Story and a game of F*ck, Marry or Block. Plus, Messy Mail highlights the emphasis on growth and communication, which prompts Johnny and Brandon to break down what it means to love yourself. Vote for us in the Queerty Awards! https://www.queerty.com/queerties/vote/?category_id=2504 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodmanJoin the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 23, 2025 • 1h 17min
Am I the drama? w/ Griffin Matthews
Close friend, writer and actor Griffin Matthews joins Brandon to share a hilarious and incredibly odd Messy story. A round of F*ck, Marry or Block and then a deeper discussion on what it means to accept who you are makes for a heartwarming episode. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodmanJoin the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 16, 2025 • 1h 3min
I Deserve 100% Of The Space I take Up w/ Emily Nagoski
Famed author and sex educator, Emily Nagoski, joins the show to break down some deep messages about love and self acceptance that causes Brandon to say, "I want to live like that on my best day." But don't worry, there are plenty of messy moments shared to fill the conversation with laughter as well! Find Emily on IG @enagoski SUPPORT for those impacted by fires Resources to help those impacted (includes list of places to donate) https://www.lahsa.org/newsArticle/resources-to-support-those-during-the-la-fires The GoFundMe for My Barber & his girlfriend (Joe & Kayla) https://www.gofundme.com/f/throw-some-dough-at-freethrowjoe-kayla Donate to support incarcerated Youth Fighting LA fires https://antirecidivism.org/donate/ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodmanJoin the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 9, 2025 • 56min
Everyone Needs a "Jay!" w/ Karamo Brown
Emmy nominated host and Culture Expert on Queer Eye, Karamo shares his experiences with a partner who taught him to caress and love himself, which helped open up his sexual and intimate situations. But not before Brandon and Karamo play Smash Or Pass and read some sticky Messy Mail. Find Karamo @karamo Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 2, 2025 • 1h 9min
Heauxing Is Data w/ Griff Stark-Ennis
Actor and podcast host, Griff Stark-Ennis, brings an interesting experience on a dating app as his Messy Story for the day. Some underlying toxic masculinity and racism from a potential hookup prompts a deep discussion on what it means to be black and queer. Find Griff on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/griffstarkennis Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 26, 2024 • 58min
Relationships Don't Make You Whole w/ Kyle June Williams & nicHi Douglas
Brandon surrounds themselves with their chosen fam Kyle June Williams and nicHi Douglas this holiday season in a special Christmas episode filled with laughter and mess. But no holiday is complete without a deep dive into what it means to discover your queerness and being okay with just yourself. Find Kyle June on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/kylejune/ Find nicHi on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/mynameisnichi/ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodmanJoin the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 19, 2024 • 53min
The Person Who Looks Free w/ VINCINT
Pop goddess, VINCINT, shares some messy memories with Brandon and dives into some wildly-hilarious Messy Mail. Then, one one submission prompts a deeper conversation, VINCINT opens up with how they learned to love their sexual needs through self reflection. Find VINCINT on IG @vincint Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodmanJoin the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779 Donate to PanCan at: https://pancan.org/?form=FUNGMWGYGJJSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 12, 2024 • 55min
Everybody Deserves Sexy Underwear & Self Awareness w/ Blakely Thornton
Blakely Thornton, acclaimed “pop culture anthropologist” and close friend to Brandon joins to tell everyone some real tea on the Messy submissions this week. Then, Brandon and Blakely deep dive into the queer experience, masking and fitting into "diverse" spaces. Allow me to reintroduce myself: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/allow-me-to-reintroduce-myself https://www.instagram.com/p/DDFcqjny__5/?igsh=NjZiM2M3MzIxNA%3D%3D&img_index=1 You can find Blakely on IG @blakelythornton Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodmanJoin the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 5, 2024 • 59min
Babe, I Don't Have The Energy To F*ck w/ Danielle Schneider
Writer, performer and co-host of the Podcast BITCH SESH, Danielle Schneider, joins Brandon to shed some light on a topic they've been interested in: Having a sex life while raising children. But before they get in too deep, Brandon and Danielle gush about the Real Housewives and rant about bad kissers. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.