
Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
Latest episodes

Jan 2, 2025 • 1h 9min
Heauxing Is Data w/ Griff Stark-Ennis
Actor and podcast host, Griff Stark-Ennis, brings an interesting experience on a dating app as his Messy Story for the day. Some underlying toxic masculinity and racism from a potential hookup prompts a deep discussion on what it means to be black and queer. Find Griff on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/griffstarkennis Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 26, 2024 • 58min
Relationships Don't Make You Whole w/ Kyle June Williams & nicHi Douglas
Brandon surrounds themselves with their chosen fam Kyle June Williams and nicHi Douglas this holiday season in a special Christmas episode filled with laughter and mess. But no holiday is complete without a deep dive into what it means to discover your queerness and being okay with just yourself. Find Kyle June on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/kylejune/ Find nicHi on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/mynameisnichi/ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodmanJoin the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 19, 2024 • 53min
The Person Who Looks Free w/ VINCINT
Pop goddess, VINCINT, shares some messy memories with Brandon and dives into some wildly-hilarious Messy Mail. Then, one one submission prompts a deeper conversation, VINCINT opens up with how they learned to love their sexual needs through self reflection. Find VINCINT on IG @vincint Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodmanJoin the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779 Donate to PanCan at: https://pancan.org/?form=FUNGMWGYGJJSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 12, 2024 • 55min
Everybody Deserves Sexy Underwear & Self Awareness w/ Blakely Thornton
Blakely Thornton, acclaimed “pop culture anthropologist” and close friend to Brandon joins to tell everyone some real tea on the Messy submissions this week. Then, Brandon and Blakely deep dive into the queer experience, masking and fitting into "diverse" spaces. Allow me to reintroduce myself: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/allow-me-to-reintroduce-myself https://www.instagram.com/p/DDFcqjny__5/?igsh=NjZiM2M3MzIxNA%3D%3D&img_index=1 You can find Blakely on IG @blakelythornton Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodmanJoin the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 5, 2024 • 59min
Babe, I Don't Have The Energy To F*ck w/ Danielle Schneider
Writer, performer and co-host of the Podcast BITCH SESH, Danielle Schneider, joins Brandon to shed some light on a topic they've been interested in: Having a sex life while raising children. But before they get in too deep, Brandon and Danielle gush about the Real Housewives and rant about bad kissers. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 28, 2024 • 1h 9min
F*ck Your Potato Salad w/ Devere Rogers
Brandon and bestie Devere Rogers kiki about Thanksgiving with some holiday F*ck, Marry, Block and Messy Mail. Plus, Devere shares one of the most outrageous Messy stories ever before they lean into some heartfelt discussion on found family and moving forward in these trying times. Find Devere on IG at: itsdevererogers Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 21, 2024 • 56min
Find Your Coven Of Doms w/ Zachary Zane
Columnist and sexual-health-advocate Zachary Zane joins Brandon to share some hilarious messy stories that raise a few really interesting questions about sexual freedom. Then, a question from the community sparks a full discussion on sex party etiquette. https://www.zacharyzane.com/articles https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00GRQKOF2/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Find Zach on IG @ZacharyZane_ Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 14, 2024 • 56min
Butt Seriously w/ Mitra Jouhari & Dr. Evan Goldstein
Does your butt get bigger from having anal sex? Is cum good for your face? Find out when Brandon plays a game of Real or Faking with their Big Mouth work wife and friend, Mitra Jouhari. Then, as they get into some booty-related Messy Mail, Brandon and Mitra are joined by the one-and-only butt doctor, Dr. Evan Goldstein for a heaux sympheauxsium. Follow Mitra on IG at mitrajouhari Follows Dr. Evan on IG at drevangoldstein Find 'Butt Seriously' at your local bookstore. https://www.amazon.com/Butt-Seriously-Definitive-Pleasure-Everything-ebook/dp/B0CH83HNV8See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 7, 2024 • 1h 8min
Ethical Non-Monogamy w/ Matthew Raymond-Goodman
Matthew Raymond-Goodman, a therapist with two master's degrees and partner to Brandon Kyle Goodman, shares insights on their journey through ethical non-monogamy. The duo offers hilarious anecdotes, including Brandon's first sexual encounter and the humorous side of sending unsolicited nudes. They delve deep into the challenges and emotional complexities of open relationships, emphasizing communication and consent. Their candid discussions illuminate the joys and growth that come with navigating love in diverse forms, all while keeping the conversation light and engaging.

Oct 31, 2024 • 43min
I'm Such A Lover Boy w/ Zach Campbell
In a hilarious and self-explorative episode, Brandon and guest Zach Campbell dive into what it means to find yourself in the queer community. Plus, a game of F*ck, Marry, Block that has Brandon wheezing with laughter. Find Zach Campbell at: https://www.instagram.com/zachcampbell or https://www.youtube.com/@ZachCampbell Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.