

Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
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It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
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Nov 24, 2025 • 14min
MESSY BONUS: Give Me A Minute
Long-term relationships of any kind can be tricky, so Franchesca Ramsey shares her experiences in opening communication even when you can't respond right away. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 24, 2025 • 2min
Tell Me Something Messy Presents: HIGHKEY!
Heyyy Messy Mob! Check out this trailer for HIGHKEY! ✨ RuPaul’s Drag Race winner Yvie Oddly and culture critic Ryan Mitchell host HIGHKEY! — a boldly queer LGBTQ+ podcast where pop culture, chaos, and surprisingly real conversations collide. It’s like being a fly on the wall for the most unhinged, hilarious, and heartfelt side convo at the party — with past guests like Laverne Cox, Rico Nasty, Bob the Drag Queen, and Lena Waithe, and more queer icons on the way. Welcome to the party — BYOB, pull up a chair, and settle in because this one’s just getting started. Listen and watch full episodes on YouTube @highkeyhere and wherever you get your podcasts. Instagram: @highkeyhere TikTok: @highkeyhereSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 20, 2025 • 57min
You're A Divorcee Who Doesn't Believe In God w/ Franchesca Ramsey
Franchesca Ramsey, actress, writer, comedian, and social justice advocate, joins to show to share her stories of love, loss and recovery. Her messy story is one for the record books, which leads to a fantastic conversation about being open and communicative with lovers, friends and family. And no episode is complete without some hilarious messy mail. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 17, 2025 • 12min
MESSY BONUS: Let Your Uncle Kidnap You
This hilarious conversation with Jay Jurden didn't make it into the main episode, but it sure made its way into our hearts. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 13, 2025 • 51min
Yes Ma'am w/ Jay Jurden
Jay Jurden, a comedian and writer celebrated for his Hulu special, brings his humor to the discussion on gender identities in today's society. He shares insights about how comedians approach sensitive topics, particularly regarding trans women, and the ethics of comedy. The conversation dives into the joy of laughter, authenticity on stage, and advice for first-time orgy-goers. With playful banter and unique games, Jay's wit shines as he tackles the ups and downs of relationships and the messiness of attraction.

Nov 10, 2025 • 22min
MESSY BONUS: There's A Line With Family
Brandon shares a story of their first night out on this New York trip, and some bonus clips from their conversation with Durand on male intimacy. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/ Live in NYC! Join Brandon Kyle Goodman for Messy Q+A and Live Recording with Heaux Church and Ars Nova on Nov 13th. Get tickets at [link] with code MESSY for $15 off.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 6, 2025 • 1h
Non-Practicing Straight Homosexuals w/ Durand Bernarr
Singer-songwriter Durand Bernarr joins the show to discuss what intimacy means for men, specifically between male friendships. But first, Brandon and Durand dive into some particularly spicy messy mail about sleepovers and dating. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/ Live in NYC! Join Brandon Kyle Goodman for Messy Q+A and Live Recording with Heaux Church and Ars Nova on Nov 13th. Get tickets at [link] with code MESSY for $15 off.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 3, 2025 • 13min
MESSY BONUS: Reflecting On Breakdowns
Brandon shares a story about a previous connection, and they and Sophia discuss the gift / curse of the times we live in. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 30, 2025 • 1h 7min
Your Joy & Your Sacred Rage w/ Sophia Bush
Actor and advocate Sophia Bush brings captivating takes on accepting all facets of your emotions, breaking down gender identity and raising awareness about mental health. Plus, she and Brandon attempt to play a messy game that turns into a discussion on self-reflection. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/ Work In Progress podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/work-in-progress-with-sophia-bush/id1479711891See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 23, 2025 • 53min
This Is How I Get Free w/ Lena Waithe
World-renowned writer, actor and producer Lena Waithe is back on the show to dive into her place of worship, parenting and allowing oneself to grow. Plus, some moments of wisdom and guidance for meditation. But first — Can Lena name the movie these famous quotes are from? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


