Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman Yes Ma'am w/ Jay Jurden
Nov 13, 2025
Jay Jurden, a comedian and writer celebrated for his Hulu special, brings his humor to the discussion on gender identities in today's society. He shares insights about how comedians approach sensitive topics, particularly regarding trans women, and the ethics of comedy. The conversation dives into the joy of laughter, authenticity on stage, and advice for first-time orgy-goers. With playful banter and unique games, Jay's wit shines as he tackles the ups and downs of relationships and the messiness of attraction.
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Trans Jokes Reveal Transactional Misogyny
- Comedians mocking trans women often reflect transactional misogyny rather than honest critique of gender identity.
- Jay Jurden argues the focus on trans women reveals resentment about access and attention, not deeper policy concerns.
Yes Ma'am Special In New Orleans
- Jay filmed his special Yes Ma'am in New Orleans and had worked some jokes for three years before recording.
- He included dirtier versions of televised jokes and now performs a different hour on tour.
Laughter As Authentic Unmasking
- Laughter is an unmasking that signals trust and joy and lets audiences surrender to emotion.
- Jay Jurden values loud, authentic laughs as proof people are truly giving themselves over to joy.
