
Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
Latest episodes

Jun 26, 2025 • 1h 6min
How To Be A Soft Daddy w/ Nick Kroll & Andrew Rannells
The legendary Nick Kroll and Andrew Rannells join Brandon to read some Messy Mail and talk about their new movie "I Don't Understand You." Plus, Brandon's Messy Pick leads them all into a discussion on being a compassionate father. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 19, 2025 • 54min
You Didn’t Get The Sex Talk. Your Kid Still Deserves One w/ Tara Michaela
After a very messy bunch of mail, Brandon finds a question about the sex talk that they can't answer alone. Founder of The Youth Sexpert Program, Tara Michaela, joins Brandon for a full breakdown of the issues in formal sex education, sexual racism and how parents can approach their young people about sex. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 12, 2025 • 1h 16min
"What You Don't See On My OnlyFans" w/ Taylor Stilson
Multi-hyphenate Taylor Stilson worked as a University professor to licensed massage therapist and now has expanded into the world of Adult Content Creation. He and Brandon dive into the demands of the job, the ramifications for Taylor's personal and professional life, and what he's learned — All after a game of This or That. BKG’s essay: Los Angeles: This feels like a reality show, but it’s just reality. https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/los-angeles-this-feels-like-a-reality Educate: https://defendandrecruit.org/Support: Coalition for Humane Immigrant Rights https://www.chirla.org/get-involved/donate-support/give-today/California Immigrant Policy Center: https://caimmigrant.org/Southern California Rapid Response Network: Los Angeles: 888-624-4752 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 5, 2025 • 1h 21min
Your Healing Is Not Dependent On Their Response w/ Lena Waithe
Lena Waithe, acclaimed actor and the Emmy-winning mastermind behind the Thanksgiving episode of Master of None, joins for a heartfelt conversation. They explore the profound impact of parental support—or the lack thereof—on personal identity. Lena shares insights about the importance of curiosity and communication in familial relationships. The discussion also touches on navigating generational shifts in parenting, the necessity of chosen families, and how to embrace discomfort on the path to healing. It's an inspiring dialogue about self-acceptance and the power of community.

May 29, 2025 • 1h 15min
You Can Grieve Correct Decisions Too w/ Dr. Raquel Martin
Clinical psychologist and Black Mental Health advocate Dr. Raquel Martin is back for a one-on-one conversation with Brandon in a special episode of Ask Messy Mom & Dr. Martin. After a game of Smash or Pass, they dive into listener questions, including topics like judging ones self on sexual prowess or being trapped in an emotionally abusive relationship. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 22, 2025 • 1h 16min
Reconfiguring What Happiness Looks Like w/ Trace Lysette
Actress and producer, Trace Lysette, joins to play our second-ever game of Real or Faking. Then, she and Brandon dive into having sex outdoors, channeling your sexy avatar, and what it means to redefine how your life plan looks. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 15, 2025 • 1h 26min
Are You Being Loved Well? w/ Traci Thomas
Champion of books, podcaster and Brandon's close friend, Traci Thomas, joins to share some messy stories as a fellow messy mom. After a game of F*ck, Marry, Block, Brandon and Traci read some mail and dive into interracial relationships that come with the pressure of having people talk behind their backs. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 8, 2025 • 1h 19min
Do Vers Tops Really Exist?! w/ Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle
Legendary superstars and fellow podcasters Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle join Brandon for a whole lot of mess. Both Cody and Andrew share their messy stories (and a few extras) before getting into a discussion about what it means to be vers in today's dating world. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 1, 2025 • 1h 24min
Conversations Are Like Baking Bread w/ John-Michael Bond
Comedian John-Michael Bond joins Brandon to share multiple messy stories after a game of smash or pass. Then, Brandon and John-Michael delve into growing up bisexual in the South, being in a hetero-presenting relationship, and talking about polyamory with parents. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 24, 2025 • 59min
Ask Messy Mom
In our first solo episode, Brandon reads and answers Messy submissions from patrons, including questions about mental health, or a shocking story of a DP with no lube. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.