
Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
Latest episodes

Jun 5, 2025 • 1h 21min
Your Healing Is Not Dependent On Their Response w/ Lena Waithe
Lena Waithe, acclaimed actor and the Emmy-winning mastermind behind the Thanksgiving episode of Master of None, joins for a heartfelt conversation. They explore the profound impact of parental support—or the lack thereof—on personal identity. Lena shares insights about the importance of curiosity and communication in familial relationships. The discussion also touches on navigating generational shifts in parenting, the necessity of chosen families, and how to embrace discomfort on the path to healing. It's an inspiring dialogue about self-acceptance and the power of community.

May 29, 2025 • 1h 15min
You Can Grieve Correct Decisions Too w/ Dr. Raquel Martin
Clinical psychologist and Black Mental Health advocate Dr. Raquel Martin is back for a one-on-one conversation with Brandon in a special episode of Ask Messy Mom & Dr. Martin. After a game of Smash or Pass, they dive into listener questions, including topics like judging ones self on sexual prowess or being trapped in an emotionally abusive relationship. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 22, 2025 • 1h 16min
Reconfiguring What Happiness Looks Like w/ Trace Lysette
Actress and producer, Trace Lysette, joins to play our second-ever game of Real or Faking. Then, she and Brandon dive into having sex outdoors, channeling your sexy avatar, and what it means to redefine how your life plan looks. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 15, 2025 • 1h 26min
Are You Being Loved Well? w/ Traci Thomas
Champion of books, podcaster and Brandon's close friend, Traci Thomas, joins to share some messy stories as a fellow messy mom. After a game of F*ck, Marry, Block, Brandon and Traci read some mail and dive into interracial relationships that come with the pressure of having people talk behind their backs. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 8, 2025 • 1h 19min
Do Vers Tops Really Exist?! w/ Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle
Legendary superstars and fellow podcasters Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle join Brandon for a whole lot of mess. Both Cody and Andrew share their messy stories (and a few extras) before getting into a discussion about what it means to be vers in today's dating world. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 1, 2025 • 1h 24min
Conversations Are Like Baking Bread w/ John-Michael Bond
Comedian John-Michael Bond joins Brandon to share multiple messy stories after a game of smash or pass. Then, Brandon and John-Michael delve into growing up bisexual in the South, being in a hetero-presenting relationship, and talking about polyamory with parents. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 24, 2025 • 59min
Ask Messy Mom
In our first solo episode, Brandon reads and answers Messy submissions from patrons, including questions about mental health, or a shocking story of a DP with no lube. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 17, 2025 • 1h
I'm Star Bottom w/ Willam
Actor, podcaster, author & wig-wearing YouTuber, Willam, joins Brandon for a tea-spilling episode before diving deep into self-love and self-image. But first, a mess-filled game of smash or pass and some hilarious stories set the stage. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 10, 2025 • 1h 21min
Leave Feeling Joy w/ Joel Kim Booster
Joel Kim Booster, a Chicago-bred comedian and writer known for his work on Fire Island, joins the conversation with a slew of messy and hilarious stories. He and Brandon dive into the complexities of monogamy, exploring the chaos of romantic connections while mixing humor with candid insights. They share personal anecdotes about after-party antics and discuss the vital role of communication in intimacy. With playful banter, they also tackle the challenges of navigating love, finances, and the often humorous nuances of relationships today.

Apr 3, 2025 • 1h 21min
A Little Revenge w/ Clark Moore
Writer, director and actor, Clark Moore, shares a mysterious messy story filled with twists, turns, and a little potential revenge. Then, Clark and Brandon discuss the stigma against sides, living life "out of order" and the idea of queer temporality, all before coming full circle and solving the mystery. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.