Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
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It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
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Aug 14, 2025 • 1h 21min
I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 3
Brandon is joined by Dr. Matthew Brinkley and Dr. Emily Nagoski as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault. Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Aug 7, 2025 • 1h 5min
I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 2
Brandon is joined by Dr. Raquel Martin and Dr. Vanessa Marin as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault. Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Aug 7, 2025 • 42min
I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 1
Brandon shares the story of an event that happened to them last September. Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault. Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 17, 2025 • 1h 16min
Heauxperlatives: A Season Retrospective
Brandon takes a look back at this season's episodes for some top highlights from guests, Messy Mail, and lessons learned. Look out for Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 (with video) coming this fall! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 14, 2025 • 19min
MESSY MOM BONUS: Friendship w/ Devere Rogers
Brandon is back with more fun and friendship that didn't make it into last week's episode! Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 10, 2025 • 1h 22min
It's About The Tone w/ Patrik-Ian Polk & Devere Rogers
Acclaimed 'Noah's Arc' creator Patrik-Ian Polk and Brandon's bestie join to talk about life-long friendship, legacy and representation. Plus, Brandon and Devere dive into Love Island and The Ultimatum before sharing their friendship origin story. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 3, 2025 • 1h 5min
Silence Shouldn't Be Currency w/ Corey O’Brien
Comedian, LGBTQ+ advocate and social media creator, Corey O’Brien, joins Brandon for some truly messy discussion on everything from sucking d*ck to being called a slur during sex. They dive into Messy Mail about leaving a relationship and trusting your gut, then discuss Corey's upcoming LGBTQ+ comedy tour in Republican states. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779 Corey O’Brien's Red Tour: https://www.coreyobrienonline.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 30, 2025 • 11min
MESSY MOM BONUS: Die With A Smile
Baby, y’all really lit Brandon up about that Grindr profile name and guess what? They’re back with more thoughts. In this first-ever bonus drop, Brandon is giving unsolicited but absolutely correct advice on what your Grindr name should (and should not) be. Spoiler: Die With a Smile ain’t it. But they love you anyway. Let’s get messy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 26, 2025 • 1h 6min
How To Be A Soft Daddy w/ Nick Kroll & Andrew Rannells
The legendary Nick Kroll and Andrew Rannells join Brandon to read some Messy Mail and talk about their new movie "I Don't Understand You." Plus, Brandon's Messy Pick leads them all into a discussion on being a compassionate father. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 19, 2025 • 54min
You Didn’t Get The Sex Talk. Your Kid Still Deserves One w/ Tara Michaela
After a very messy bunch of mail, Brandon finds a question about the sex talk that they can't answer alone. Founder of The Youth Sexpert Program, Tara Michaela, joins Brandon for a full breakdown of the issues in formal sex education, sexual racism and how parents can approach their young people about sex. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
