Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
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Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! WATCH HERE!
Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
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Feb 2, 2026 • 11min
MESSY BONUS: Trixie Cut Off A Man's Eyebrow
Beauty school stress officially causes long-term autoimmune dysfunction. Watch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 29, 2026 • 1h 12min
Makeup Counters, Hooking Up in Drag, and TikTok Snake Churches with Trixie Mattel
The one-and-only Trixie Mattel joins the show for an unmatchable kiki that covers every topic from loving yourself to snake churches. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 26, 2026 • 6min
MESSY BONUS: Brandon's Villain Arc
Brandon shares the beginning of their villain arc with guest Atsuko Okatsuka. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 22, 2026 • 54min
Decentering the Male Gaze: How to Be Attractive for Yourself and Unlearn Eurocentric Beauty Standards w/ Atsuko Okatsuka
Comedian and actress Atsuko Okatsuka joins Brandon for a hilarious and heartfelt episode with a wild two-part messy story. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 19, 2026 • 17min
MESSY BONUS: Dating With Intention
Nina Parker expands upon her idea of dating with intention. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 15, 2026 • 54min
What to Do If You’re Ghosted, Calling Out Abuse in a Friend’s Relationship, and Setting Healthy Boundaries w/ Nina Parker
The one and only Nina Parker, Emmy-nominated TV host and fashion designer joins Brandon for some tea before getting into the real heart of the conversation. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 12, 2026 • 21min
MESSY BONUS: Dealing With The Butt & Being Fired
Hosts of the Dads & Daddies podcast share their messy stories (and advice) that didn't make it into the main episode. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 8, 2026 • 57min
How to Be a Confident Dominant Partner in the Bedroom, Navigate a Friend’s Addiction, and Support Sobriety w/ Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow
Hosts of the Dads & Daddies Podcast, Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow join Brandon for an intimate discussion that gets Brandon hot and bothered, before diving into a Messy Mail covering addiction and more. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 5, 2026 • 9min
MESSY BONUS: Dressing As Cartoon Characters
Who isn't into a little roleplay on Date #4? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 18, 2025 • 55min
Normalizing Intimacy Conversations w/ Jessica Stahl
Cartoonist, creative director and sexual-wellness advocate, Jessica Stahl, joins Brandon with her own important acronym around pleasure communication. Then, she and Brandon dive into boundaries, self-respect and how to learn that you're worth trusting. Plus a second Messy story for the road. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comWatch Tell Me Something Messy on YouTube!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJyWqYQlC8AbKTb8uvbY6WgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
