

Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
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It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
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Jul 17, 2025 • 1h 16min
Heauxperlatives: A Season Retrospective
Brandon takes a look back at this season's episodes for some top highlights from guests, Messy Mail, and lessons learned. Look out for Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 (with video) coming this fall! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 14, 2025 • 19min
MESSY MOM BONUS: Friendship w/ Devere Rogers
Brandon is back with more fun and friendship that didn't make it into last week's episode! Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 10, 2025 • 1h 22min
It's About The Tone w/ Patrik-Ian Polk & Devere Rogers
Acclaimed 'Noah's Arc' creator Patrik-Ian Polk and Brandon's bestie join to talk about life-long friendship, legacy and representation. Plus, Brandon and Devere dive into Love Island and The Ultimatum before sharing their friendship origin story. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 3, 2025 • 1h 5min
Silence Shouldn't Be Currency w/ Corey O’Brien
Comedian, LGBTQ+ advocate and social media creator, Corey O’Brien, joins Brandon for some truly messy discussion on everything from sucking d*ck to being called a slur during sex. They dive into Messy Mail about leaving a relationship and trusting your gut, then discuss Corey's upcoming LGBTQ+ comedy tour in Republican states. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779 Corey O’Brien's Red Tour: https://www.coreyobrienonline.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 30, 2025 • 11min
MESSY MOM BONUS: Die With A Smile
Baby, y’all really lit Brandon up about that Grindr profile name and guess what? They’re back with more thoughts. In this first-ever bonus drop, Brandon is giving unsolicited but absolutely correct advice on what your Grindr name should (and should not) be. Spoiler: Die With a Smile ain’t it. But they love you anyway. Let’s get messy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 26, 2025 • 1h 6min
How To Be A Soft Daddy w/ Nick Kroll & Andrew Rannells
The legendary Nick Kroll and Andrew Rannells join Brandon to read some Messy Mail and talk about their new movie "I Don't Understand You." Plus, Brandon's Messy Pick leads them all into a discussion on being a compassionate father. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 19, 2025 • 54min
You Didn’t Get The Sex Talk. Your Kid Still Deserves One w/ Tara Michaela
After a very messy bunch of mail, Brandon finds a question about the sex talk that they can't answer alone. Founder of The Youth Sexpert Program, Tara Michaela, joins Brandon for a full breakdown of the issues in formal sex education, sexual racism and how parents can approach their young people about sex. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 12, 2025 • 1h 16min
"What You Don't See On My OnlyFans" w/ Taylor Stilson
Multi-hyphenate Taylor Stilson worked as a University professor to licensed massage therapist and now has expanded into the world of Adult Content Creation. He and Brandon dive into the demands of the job, the ramifications for Taylor's personal and professional life, and what he's learned — All after a game of This or That. BKG’s essay: Los Angeles: This feels like a reality show, but it’s just reality. https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/los-angeles-this-feels-like-a-reality Educate: https://defendandrecruit.org/Support: Coalition for Humane Immigrant Rights https://www.chirla.org/get-involved/donate-support/give-today/California Immigrant Policy Center: https://caimmigrant.org/Southern California Rapid Response Network: Los Angeles: 888-624-4752 Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 5, 2025 • 1h 21min
Your Healing Is Not Dependent On Their Response w/ Lena Waithe
Lena Waithe, acclaimed actor and the Emmy-winning mastermind behind the Thanksgiving episode of Master of None, joins for a heartfelt conversation. They explore the profound impact of parental support—or the lack thereof—on personal identity. Lena shares insights about the importance of curiosity and communication in familial relationships. The discussion also touches on navigating generational shifts in parenting, the necessity of chosen families, and how to embrace discomfort on the path to healing. It's an inspiring dialogue about self-acceptance and the power of community.

May 29, 2025 • 1h 15min
You Can Grieve Correct Decisions Too w/ Dr. Raquel Martin
Clinical psychologist and Black Mental Health advocate Dr. Raquel Martin is back for a one-on-one conversation with Brandon in a special episode of Ask Messy Mom & Dr. Martin. After a game of Smash or Pass, they dive into listener questions, including topics like judging ones self on sexual prowess or being trapped in an emotionally abusive relationship. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.