Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
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It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
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Jan 12, 2026 • 21min
MESSY BONUS: Dealing With The Butt & Being Fired
Hosts of the Dads & Daddies podcast share their messy stories (and advice) that didn't make it into the main episode. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 8, 2026 • 57min
How to Be a Confident Dominant Partner in the Bedroom, Navigate a Friend’s Addiction, and Support Sobriety
Hosts of the Dads & Daddies Podcast, Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow join Brandon for an intimate discussion that gets Brandon hot and bothered, before diving into a Messy Mail covering addiction and more. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 5, 2026 • 9min
MESSY BONUS: Dressing As Cartoon Characters
Who isn't into a little roleplay on Date #4? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 18, 2025 • 55min
Normalizing Intimacy Conversations w/ Jessica Stahl
Cartoonist, creative director and sexual-wellness advocate, Jessica Stahl, joins Brandon with her own important acronym around pleasure communication. Then, she and Brandon dive into boundaries, self-respect and how to learn that you're worth trusting. Plus a second Messy story for the road. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 15, 2025 • 10min
MESSY BONUS: A Gay Anomaly
Brandon finishes the messy story from last week by explaining the "sex accident." Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 11, 2025 • 1h 18min
Through The Storm w/ Jordan E. Cooper
Jordan E. Cooper, playwright, actor, and director joins Brandon to share his experience with his new play OH HAPPY DAY! which then turns into a deep conversation on finding yourself and your place in the world. While there's no Messy Mail today, Jordan certainly brings some thoughts on some messy opinions. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 8, 2025 • 13min
MESSY BONUS: This Thanksgiving, I Was The Turkey
Brandon shares a messy story that gives a new meaning to Thanksgiving stuffing. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 4, 2025 • 54min
The Journey is The Goal w/ Lío Mehiel
Recently starring in the hit movie, After The Hunt, Lío Mehiel joins Brandon to share their experience in growth and feeling good in their place in the world. Messy Mail leads into a discussion of leaving toxic friendships and Lio helps finally settle the age-old debate: Is a harvest bowl the same as a salad? Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Dec 1, 2025 • 12min
Being the Poster Child of HIV
This week's conversation with Hernando Umana was so packed full of goodies, we just had to give you some more. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 27, 2025 • 1h 1min
Thriving with HIV! w/ Hernando Umana
Hernando Umana, actor, entrepreneur, activist and Brandon's close friend, joins the pod to share one of the wildest Messy stories we've ever heard. Plus, some reminiscing and lighthearted fun before diving into the heavy topic of living with HIV. Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
