

Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
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It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
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Oct 30, 2025 • 1h 7min
Your Joy & Your Sacred Rage w/ Sophia Bush
 Actor and advocate Sophia Bush brings captivating takes on accepting all facets of your emotions, breaking down gender identity and raising awareness about mental health. Plus, she and Brandon attempt to play a messy game that turns into a discussion on self-reflection.  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

Oct 23, 2025 • 53min
This Is How I Get Free w/ Lena Waithe
 World-renowned writer, actor and producer Lena Waithe is back on the show to dive into her place of worship, parenting and allowing oneself to grow. Plus, some moments of wisdom and guidance for meditation. But first — Can Lena name the movie these famous quotes are from?  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

Oct 20, 2025 • 7min
MESSY BONUS: Who Puts Your Heart At Ease?
 A life-long friendship is hard to find, but so special when you do. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

Oct 16, 2025 • 1h 1min
Sometimes Love Isn’t Broken, It’s Just Not Enough w/ Devere Rogers
 Brandon welcomes comedian, actor and bestie Devere Rogers, who comes in hot with a messy take treading in dangerous territory: Brandy and Monica concert tickets—are we being priced out of nostalgia? The love letter to the R&B queens turns into a discussion about the way legacy, value, and accessibility intersect in pop culture. Then a listener wants to know where the line is drawn between liberation and overindulgence, and another needs advice for complimenting their filthy rich lover. Finally, Devere and Brandon make one last mess with a listener stuck in that unsettled place—a relationship that checks every box but still doesn’t feel right. More about Devere: https://www.instagram.com/itsdevererogers  Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

Oct 13, 2025 • 9min
MESSY BONUS: This Is What Freedom Looks Like
 New York versus LA d*ck.Where do you all stand on the debate?   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

Oct 9, 2025 • 1h 5min
Resentment, Environment, and the Blueprint for Great Sex w/ Erica Chidi
 Brandon sits down with Erica Chidi, writer, producer and health educator, to talk secret trysts, and the thrill of keeping one bedroom a clean, always-ready zone for erotic fun. They dive into Erica’s four-pronged framework for keeping the urgency of intimacy ablaze: letting go of the extra partner in bed, reset your environment, manage pain, and set goals in the bedroom. On this episode, talking it through is the kink, baby!   More about Erica: https://www.ericachidi.com/ Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779 Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com  Video: youtube.com/brandonkgood Substack: brandonkylegoodman.substack.com Heaux Church Tickets: https://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

Oct 2, 2025 • 1h 15min
How Facing Mortality Inspires Better Art w/ Abbi Jacobson
 In this captivating discussion, Abbi Jacobson, celebrated actor, writer, and co-creator of Broad City, shares insights on art and mortality. She emphasizes that not every creation needs to be a masterpiece, advocating for the joy of making art for its own sake. Abbi dives into her latest projects and reflects on how facing mortality enhances creativity. Together with Brandon, they explore the importance of discussing death openly, revealing how it can enrich our experience of life and inspire deeper artistic expression. 

Sep 26, 2025 • 1min
Tell Me Something Messy Season 2 Trailer
 Season Two of Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman is here. Every Tuesday, Brandon invites you into bold, hilarious, and vulnerable conversations that celebrate imperfection and honesty. From Emmy winners to everyday changemakers, guests open up about the messy truths behind identity, relationships, family, career, and self-discovery. With new video episodes and bonus minis every Monday, Season Two promises unfiltered joy, humor, and heart.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

Aug 14, 2025 • 1h 21min
I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 3
 Brandon is joined by Dr. Matthew Brinkley and Dr. Emily Nagoski as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year.  Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 

Aug 7, 2025 • 1h 5min
I Consented But He Roofied Me Anyway - Part 2
 Brandon is joined by Dr. Raquel Martin and Dr. Vanessa Marin as they unpack Brandon's experience from last year.  Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault.  Brandon's Substack article: https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/p/now-that-you-know-what-happened-toSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 


