
Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
Latest episodes

May 16, 2025 • 3min
Introducing: Outlaws with TS Madison
Hi, Tell Me Something Messy Fans! We want to share a new show, Outlaws with TS Madison. About the show: Is it on? Is it on?? Honey, is this thing recording?! TS Madison broke the Internet with six seconds and a 22-inch weave. And she didn’t just go viral — she became part of the culture, from "RuPaul's Drag Race" to Beyoncé’s "Renaissance." Her superpower? Her voice. Her kryptonite? Doesn’t exist. Her podcast? The one they never saw coming. Each week on "Outlaws," Madison sits down with living legends and rising stars who shed their armor and own their stories — turning side-eyes into sermons, pain into punchlines, and grief into galaxies. They speak when silence is safer. They dream when told to disappear. And they know what so many are taught to fear: that when you speak your truth, you open a portal. Some episodes will crack you up. Others may crack you open. Keep the tissues nearby, just in case. "Outlaws" is proud to be part of the Outspoken Network from iHeartPodcasts, in partnership with Turtle Run Entertainment. Listen here and subscribe to Outlaws with TS Madison on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 15, 2025 • 1h 26min
Are You Being Loved Well? w/ Traci Thomas
Champion of books, podcaster and Brandon's close friend, Traci Thomas, joins to share some messy stories as a fellow messy mom. After a game of F*ck, Marry, Block, Brandon and Traci read some mail and dive into interracial relationships that come with the pressure of having people talk behind their backs. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 8, 2025 • 1h 19min
Do Vers Tops Really Exist?! w/ Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle
Legendary superstars and fellow podcasters Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle join Brandon for a whole lot of mess. Both Cody and Andrew share their messy stories (and a few extras) before getting into a discussion about what it means to be vers in today's dating world. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 1, 2025 • 1h 24min
Conversations Are Like Baking Bread w/ John-Michael Bond
Comedian John-Michael Bond joins Brandon to share multiple messy stories after a game of smash or pass. Then, Brandon and John-Michael delve into growing up bisexual in the South, being in a hetero-presenting relationship, and talking about polyamory with parents. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 24, 2025 • 59min
Ask Messy Mom
In our first solo episode, Brandon reads and answers Messy submissions from patrons, including questions about mental health, or a shocking story of a DP with no lube. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 17, 2025 • 1h
I'm Star Bottom w/ Willam
Actor, podcaster, author & wig-wearing YouTuber, Willam, joins Brandon for a tea-spilling episode before diving deep into self-love and self-image. But first, a mess-filled game of smash or pass and some hilarious stories set the stage. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 10, 2025 • 1h 21min
Leave Feeling Joy w/ Joel Kim Booster
Joel Kim Booster, a Chicago-bred comedian and writer known for his work on Fire Island, joins the conversation with a slew of messy and hilarious stories. He and Brandon dive into the complexities of monogamy, exploring the chaos of romantic connections while mixing humor with candid insights. They share personal anecdotes about after-party antics and discuss the vital role of communication in intimacy. With playful banter, they also tackle the challenges of navigating love, finances, and the often humorous nuances of relationships today.

Apr 3, 2025 • 1h 21min
A Little Revenge w/ Clark Moore
Writer, director and actor, Clark Moore, shares a mysterious messy story filled with twists, turns, and a little potential revenge. Then, Clark and Brandon discuss the stigma against sides, living life "out of order" and the idea of queer temporality, all before coming full circle and solving the mystery. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 27, 2025 • 1h 14min
Sacred Sex w/ Liz Goldwyn
Filmmaker, author and podcaster Liz Goldwyn dives right into the deep stuff with Brandon as they talk ex's, healing from being hurt, and of course, a healthy dose of revenge. Plus, some of the wildest submissions of Messy Mail yet! Starf*cker Substack: https://starfcker.substack.com/ https://starfcker.substack.com/p/revenge-is-a-dish-best-served-cold Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 20, 2025 • 1h 4min
Bestie Break Ups w/ Liza Treyger
Actress and comedienne Liza Treyger joins Brandon to do a deep dive into Messy Mail focused around getting into trouble and the complicated nature of friendship. Plus, some much-needed Real Housewives talk and a game of F*ck, Marry, Block. Follow Brandon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman Join the C'Heauxmunity at https://brandonkylegoodman.substack.com/ Submit your own messy story or question at TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com or call (669) 696-3779See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.