

Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions. Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
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10 snips
Aug 17, 2023 • 49min
238. You do not have to be the bigger person. Your peace of mind comes first
The podcast discusses when it is okay to not be the bigger person, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing peace of mind. It also explores personal growth, understanding manipulative messages, and rebuilding after difficult situations. The speaker addresses a listener's question about navigating fallout with a friend group after getting married.

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Jul 30, 2023 • 48min
237. How to overcome retroactive jealousy and overthinking in a relationship (E)
On this episode I cover how to deal with feelings of retroactive jealousy and overthinking in a relationship, and how overcoming these feelings will improve the quality of your relationship not only with your partner but with yourself. When you master this, you will feel more confident within yourself and happier in your skin. (Encore episode) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Jul 27, 2023 • 51min
236. Determine your own value and never look for it in other places again
On this episode I break down the difference between perceived value and actual value. How to stop letting other people determine your value and how to use the idea of value exchange and the principal of effort + sacrifice to turn everything around and start determining your own value. Brain Fact : Zahavian signal See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 23, 2023 • 58min
235. Chase change, don’t let change chase you
On today’s episode I talk about my favorite statement and one I try and live by all the time. How to become someone who is adaptable and resilient to change and loss and how to gain so much more along the way. I will talk about how to become someone who takes control of the changes in their life, instead of leading a life where you are only reactive to the things that happen to you and end up feeling powerless to external situations. Brain Fact: The link between oversleeping and health problems See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 20, 2023 • 48min
234. The difference between drive and self-control and how to have both
On today’s episode I break down what drive is compared to self control, how to know where your strengths are and where you weaknesses are and then I give you tools to help create a balance between the two. Brain Fact: Changing your surroundings to improve your focus See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 16, 2023 • 53min
233. Boundaries vs Controlling behaviour AND how to set healthy boundaries to improve your self love
There is so much to talk about on today's episode! I have two main categories. How to know the difference between a boundary and a controlling behaviour (and how to know if it is being done to you) How to be able to set boundaries while keeping your walls down and in turn, helping you increase your self love + confidence Brain Fact: Reverse Psychology See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 13, 2023 • 50min
232. Feeling like you have plateaued? Try this to level up!
Hello! Today's episode is all about how to change things up and feel back on track and kicking goals when you are feeling a bit flat or like everything has plateaued in your life and doesn't excite you like it used to. I give you some tips and ways to approach things differently. Brain Fact : Noise induced hearing loss See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 9, 2023 • 49min
231. Dealing with anxious and stressful thoughts in 5 steps
On this episode I take you through a five step process to help you get your anxious or spiralling thoughts under control, so your emotions don't end up controlling you and your day. Brain Fact : Carbon monoxide poisoning See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Jul 6, 2023 • 49min
230. How to get over the fear of your partner cheating on you or falling for someone else
This episode dives deep into dealing with fearful emotions around if your partner is ever going to fall for someone else, or cheat on you or flirt with someone else. I will go into how to process these thoughts, and what to think about when this happens to make it feel less threatening. And then of course I talk about your own relationship with yourself and how that impacts these feelings of fear. Brain Fact : Ketogenic diet as a treatment for Epilepsy See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Jul 2, 2023 • 59min
229. Why self esteem and purpose are linked and 4 ways to maximize it
On this episode I go over 4 ways to understand how tapping into your purpose and understanding what that is can completely transform your self esteem and significantly improve your relationship with yourself. Brain Fact : The Reflex Arc See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices