The Sex Doctors

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about real data on orgasm frequency and how to make sense of it in a healthy, guilt-free way. 00:00 – Introduction to Orgasm Frequency Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon open the episode by breaking down real data on how often people actually have orgasms. 01:25 – Defining Hypersexuality and Sex Addiction They unpack why "hypersexuality" is so debated and explain why orgasm frequency alone isn't a reliable marker of sex addiction. 08:25 – Gender Differences in Orgasm Frequency They compare how often men and women typically orgasm each week and highlight why those averages naturally differ. 13:04 – Age and Sexual Activity: A Statistical Dive They explore how orgasm frequency shifts across age groups and how hormones and health influence those changes. 14:47 – Hypersexuality and Masturbation: Breaking the Stigma They normalize daily masturbation and explain why high frequency doesn't automatically mean someone is "hypersexual." 19:34 – Porn Use and Its Implications They discuss how porn use ties into masturbation habits and why time spent on porn—not frequency alone—is what signals potential concern. Resources: Peters, J., & co-authors. (n.d.). Orgasm frequency: Total sexual outlet (TSO) in a national American sample. Archives of Sexual Behavior. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexualHealth #HypersexualityDebunked #MentalHealthAwareness

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the hype around testosterone for women, debunking exaggerated claims, and bringing a grounded, therapist-friendly perspective on how hormone therapy can genuinely improve libido, mood, and quality of life—when used safely and realistically. 00:09 Testosterone in Women: Benefits and Misconceptions – They debunk media hype, explaining testosterone can help women's libido and mood but not in extreme ways. 04:02 Testosterone in Men: Risks and Realities – They note testosterone boosts energy and sex drive but responses and side effects vary. 11:43 Doctors' Concerns and Misconceptions – They warn that overhyped use makes doctors hesitant to prescribe valid treatments. 14:17 Testosterone Therapy for Women – They stress the U.S. lacks approved testosterone options for women despite clear benefits. 16:04 Regulatory Challenges and Future Prospects – They explain approval delays stem from company inaction, though progress abroad offers hope. Resources: Dominus, S. (2024, February). I'm on fire: Testosterone is giving women back their sex drive — and then some. The New York Times Magazine. https://www.nytimes.com/ With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #WomensHealth #RegulatorySupport

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how desire in long-term relationships often fades naturally and shares realistic, therapist-approved ways to reignite attraction, build sexual tension through openness and mindfulness, and better understand the roots of sexual behavior and dysfunction for both men and women. 00:37 Exploring Hormonal and Medical Solutions – Dr. Brandon breaks down how hormones like testosterone and estrogen, along with therapy, can help reignite desire for women in long-term relationships. 01:57 Effort and Awareness in Cultivating Desire – She explains that desire often requires intentional effort through self-awareness, daily sensual habits, and mindfulness rather than waiting for it to return naturally. 06:24 Generating Sexual Tension and Openness – Dr. Brandon shows how sexual polarity and female vulnerability—not weakness—create real tension and connection in relationships. 11:56 Understanding Compulsive Sexual Behavior – She clarifies why porn use and compulsive sexual patterns are complex, individualized issues that require both medical and psychological understanding. 19:32 Sexism in Male Sexual Dysfunction – Dr. Brandon uncovers how sexist double standards in diagnosing male sexual issues feed shame and anxiety, calling for more compassion and balance in therapy. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #LongTermRelationshipDesire #SexualEnergyCultivation #VulnerabilityInIntimacy

With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss how to accurately measure testosterone levels, the common misdiagnoses that stem from outdated testing methods, and the long-standing medical myths linking testosterone therapy to depression, prostate cancer, and heart disease—revealing how evidence now shows the hormone's true benefits for mood, vitality, and overall health. 01:02 Symptoms and Misdiagnoses of Low Testosterone – Low testosterone often mimics depression, leading to unnecessary antidepressant use instead of treating the hormonal root cause affecting mood, energy, and sexual health. 07:14 Understanding Testosterone Measurement – The doctors explain why total testosterone tests fall short and why free or bioavailable testosterone best reflects real hormonal activity. 15:36 The Legacy of Huggins in Prostate Cancer Treatment – They revisit Dr. Charles Huggins's discovery linking testosterone reduction to cancer treatment, which fueled decades of misplaced fear about testosterone therapy. 17:25 Early Experiments and Discoveries with Testosterone – Dr. Morgentaler shares his early research showing how testosterone restores sexual function, mood, and vitality despite medical doubts. 22:46 Debunking Myths: Testosterone and Heart Health – They expose how a flawed 2013 study falsely tied testosterone to heart attacks, while newer evidence shows healthy levels support heart and overall health. Resources: Huggins, C. (1941). Studies on prostatic cancer: The effect of castration, of estrogen and of androgen injection on serum phosphatases in metastatic carcinoma of the prostate. Cancer Research, 1(4), 293–297. https://doi.org/10.1158/jcr.1941.293 Vigen, R., O'Donnell, C. I., Baron, A. E., Grunwald, G. K., Maddox, T. M., Bradley, S. M., ... & Ho, P. M. (2013). Association of testosterone therapy with mortality, myocardial infarction, and stroke in men with low testosterone levels. JAMA, 310(17), 1829–1836. https://doi.org/10.1001/jama.2013.280386 Shores, M. M., Smith, N. L., Forsberg, C. W., Anawalt, B. D., Matsumoto, A. M. (2012). Testosterone treatment and mortality in men with low testosterone levels. Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 97(6), 2050–2058. https://doi.org/10.1210/jc.2011-2591 Muraleedharan, V., Marsh, H., Kapoor, D., Channer, K. S., & Jones, T. H. (2013). Testosterone deficiency is associated with increased mortality and insulin resistance in men with type 2 diabetes. European Journal of Endocrinology, 169(6), 725–733. https://doi.org/10.1530/EJE-13-0321 Meta-analyses of randomized controlled trials on mood and testosterone: Zarrouf, F. A., Artz, S., Griffith, J., Sirbu, C., & Kommor, M. (2009). Testosterone and depression: Systematic review and meta-analysis. Journal of Psychiatric Practice, 15(4), 289–305. https://doi.org/10.1097/01.pra.0000358315.88931.fc #TestosteroneTesting #HormonalImbalance #TestosteroneTherapy

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about the groundbreaking moments that defined Dr. Morgentaler's career—from challenging long-held medical dogmas about testosterone and prostate cancer to reflecting on courage, science, and the evolving state of modern medicine. 00:00 – Introduction and Lifetime Achievement Award In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about his Lifetime Achievement Award and reflect on the meaning of being recognized by peers after decades in sexual medicine. 03:13 – Early Career and Groundbreaking Research They discuss how Dr. Morgentaler's early curiosity about testosterone—from lizard studies at Harvard to treating men others wouldn't—sparked discoveries that reshaped urology. 08:49 – Challenges and Controversies in Urology Dr. Morgentaler recalls standing firm against public criticism from leading urologists as he presented data that contradicted long-held beliefs about testosterone and cancer. 25:03 – Facing the Hardest Moments in Surgery He opens up about the emotional toll of surgical complications and the weight of caring deeply for patients while maintaining composure under pressure. 28:22 – Breakthroughs in Prostate Cancer Treatment They explore his bold use of testosterone therapy—even for men with advanced cancer—and how it restored vitality and meaning for patients once written off. 36:30 – Challenging Medical Dogma Dr. Morgentaler reflects on why medicine resists new evidence, the persistence of outdated myths, and how progress in science often advances one funeral at a time. Resources: 1. Morgentaler, A., Bruning, C. O., & DeWolf, W. C. (1996). Occult prostate cancer in men with low serum testosterone levels. JAMA, 276(23), 1904–1906. https://doi.org/10.1001/jama.1996.03540230040029 2. Morgentaler, A., & DeWolf, W. C. (1997). Implantation of penile prosthesis at the time of radical prostatectomy: A new approach for erectile rehabilitation. Urology, 49(6), 932–936. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0090-4295(97)00127-4 3. Lincoff, A. M., Nissen, S. E., Krum, H., et al. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. New England Journal of Medicine, 389(6), 514–524. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2301761 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ProstateCancerResearch #TestosteroneTherapy #MedicalInnovation

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about desire discrepancy in couples, why it happens, and practical ways to address it through communication, scheduling, and creating a positive sexual vibe. 00:38 Understanding Desire Discrepancy – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss how desire discrepancy occurs when one partner wants sex more than the other and how it's common but can create tension if ignored. 06:46 Strategies for Scheduling Sex – They explain the importance of agreeing on a sexual frequency, like once or twice a week, to keep couples in sync and maintain intimacy. 14:01 Navigating Desire Discrepancies in Relationships – The hosts talk about balancing differences in sexual desire, helping partners feel understood, and addressing resentment before it escalates. 16:25 The Importance of Communication and Initiation – They emphasize taking turns initiating sex, openly discussing preferences, and creating a safe, non-judgmental environment for both partners. 22:59 Creating a Positive Sexual Experience – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler highlight cultivating a good sexual "vibe," showing passion and connection, and helping lower-desire partners engage fully for enjoyable intimacy. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DesireDiscrepancy #RelationshipAdvice #SexualHealth

Discover why women's sexual desire may wane over time and the common factors behind it. The hosts delve into the differences in male and female sexuality, including societal influences and evolutionary perspectives. They highlight real-life issues like stress and body image that can dampen desire. Practical strategies to rekindle intimacy are shared, such as exploring erotica and reconnecting with previous moments of arousal. The advice for couples emphasizes understanding, communication, and joint efforts to navigate low libido.

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about premature ejaculation—explaining why it's a common, treatable condition tied more to physiology and confidence than performance, and how communication, training, and medication can restore intimacy and ease. 01:20 The Double Standards in Sexual Expectations – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how society praises women for climaxing quickly but shames men for the same, creating unfair pressure and stigma. 05:02 Medical Treatments for Premature Ejaculation – They also discuss the most effective treatments available today, from topical sprays to antidepressants and other medications that help men last longer. 13:56 Understanding the Effects of Topical Anesthetics – They also discuss how topical anesthetics can safely delay orgasm by reducing sensitivity and boosting control during sex. 15:25 Exploring SSRIs and Their Side Effects – They also discuss how antidepressants like paroxetine or dapoxetine can help manage PE, though some men experience delayed orgasm or mood changes. 16:20 The Role of PD5 Inhibitors and Practical Solutions – Finally, they discuss how drugs like Viagra or Cialis can ease anxiety, improve confidence, and be combined with behavioral techniques for better results. Resources: Raisi, A., et al. (2025). Efficacy and safety of pharmacological treatments in patients with premature ejaculation. Journal of Sexual Medicine. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #PrematureEjaculation #SexualHealth #IntimacyCommunication

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how men perceive their penis size, why most overestimate it, and how social pressure, body fat, and even evolutionary psychology influence confidence and self-image — while reminding listeners that satisfaction in the bedroom is more about vibe and connection than size. 01:02 Understanding Penis Size and Measurement – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how penis size is measured, what affects it, and why losing weight can make it appear longer. 08:04 Psychological and Social Aspects of Penis Size – They also discuss how men often overestimate their size and how shame, humor, and cultural pressure shape male self-perception. 13:52 Evolutionary Theory and Male Hierarchies – They talk about how men's concern about size may stem from deep evolutionary instincts tied to hierarchy and competition. 15:02 The Psychological Impact of Penis Size – They also discuss how men's confidence, relationships, and self-worth can be influenced more by perception than reality. 19:05 Reassurance and Modern Comparisons – Finally, they discuss how doctors can help men feel reassured about their normal size and compare this to how women often feel about their weight. Resources: Zheng, Z., et al. (2024). Visual illusion in male self-assessment of penile dimensions. Journal of Sexual Medicine. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MensHealth #BodyImage #SexualSatisfaction

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about delayed ejaculation—its psychological and medical causes, from anxiety to medication effects—and practical ways to treat it and improve sexual communication. 00:09 Understanding Delayed Ejaculation – The doctors explain what delayed ejaculation is, why it happens, and how it differs from other sexual concerns like premature ejaculation. 03:09 Psychological and Physical Factors – They discuss how anxiety, self-consciousness, and relationship dynamics can combine with biological factors to make orgasm more difficult. 15:25 Exploring Penile Sensation and Neurological Factors – The conversation shifts to nerve sensitivity tests and how neurological or medical conditions like diabetes can affect sexual response. 17:51 The Role of Testosterone in Sexual Response – They outline how low testosterone can reduce arousal and sensation, sometimes making orgasm harder to achieve. 19:41 Medications and Psychological Factors Affecting Ejaculation – The doctors highlight common drugs and emotional factors that can delay ejaculation, emphasizing how both mind and body play key roles. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DelayedEjaculation #SexualHealth #MensHealth