The Sex Doctors

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about delayed ejaculation—its psychological and medical causes, from anxiety to medication effects—and practical ways to treat it and improve sexual communication. 00:09 Understanding Delayed Ejaculation – The doctors explain what delayed ejaculation is, why it happens, and how it differs from other sexual concerns like premature ejaculation. 03:09 Psychological and Physical Factors – They discuss how anxiety, self-consciousness, and relationship dynamics can combine with biological factors to make orgasm more difficult. 15:25 Exploring Penile Sensation and Neurological Factors – The conversation shifts to nerve sensitivity tests and how neurological or medical conditions like diabetes can affect sexual response. 17:51 The Role of Testosterone in Sexual Response – They outline how low testosterone can reduce arousal and sensation, sometimes making orgasm harder to achieve. 19:41 Medications and Psychological Factors Affecting Ejaculation – The doctors highlight common drugs and emotional factors that can delay ejaculation, emphasizing how both mind and body play key roles. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DelayedEjaculation #SexualHealth #MensHealth

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about new research showing that low testosterone is linked to higher mortality in men with prostate cancer, challenging decades of belief that testosterone fuels the disease and highlighting its role as a vital factor for overall health. 00:23 – Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about testosterone's early link to prostate cancer; they also say this belief shaped medicine for decades. 08:45 – They talk about new data showing low testosterone ties to higher death rates; they also say it overturns old thinking. 15:32 – They talk about testosterone's role in prostate growth; they also say cancer is rare when men are young and levels are highest. 18:31 – They talk about studies on testosterone and outcomes; they also say low levels are linked with worse results. 22:52 – They talk about the future of testosterone therapy; they also say keeping levels normal may support better health and survival. Resources: D'Amico, A. V. (n.d.). Low testosterone level and mortality risk in patients with prostate cancer. [Study referenced in transcript; specific journal details not provided]. Huggins, C., & Hodges, C. V. (1941). Studies on prostatic cancer: The effect of castration, of estrogen and of androgen injection on serum phosphatases in metastatic carcinoma of the prostate. Cancer Research, 1(4), 293–297. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ProstateCancerResearch #TestosteroneTherapy #LowTestosteroneEffects

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how new research on "mom brain" and "dad brain" suggests parents experience brain changes after childbirth—once thought adaptive for bonding, but possibly tied more to sleep loss and stress—raising important questions about how science interprets these shifts. 00:14 Exploring Mom Brain and Dad Brain – Discussing how parenting may shrink brain volume and what that means for bonding. 04:52 The Impact of Sleep on Parenting – Looking at how sleep loss, not biology alone, may explain brain changes in new parents. 12:09 The Importance of Sleep – Highlighting how disrupted sleep affects brain health, mood, and long-term functioning. 12:38 Testosterone and Sexual Behavior – Breaking down how testosterone levels influence libido and relationship dynamics. 17:38 Risks of High Testosterone and Steroid Use – Addressing the dangers of anabolic steroid misuse, from infertility to health decline. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ParentingBrainChanges #SleepDeprivationEffects #TestosteroneMyths

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler discuss how the definition of cheating is shifting in the digital age, from porn and OnlyFans to chatbots and sexting, and why clear boundaries matter more than ever. 00:26 Exploring Modern Cheating: Survey Insights – Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler break down new survey data on how people define cheating in today's digital age. 09:06 Debating Digital and Emotional Cheating – They discuss the blurred lines between sexual red lines, emotional intimacy, and partner expectations. 16:56 Exploring Sexting with Chatbots – The conversation turns to whether sexual exchanges with AI cross the boundary of infidelity. 20:54 The Ethics of Subscribing to OnlyFans – They examine how money, real human interaction, and online platforms complicate trust in relationships. 25:49 The Complexity of Digital Cheating – The episode closes on how technology, from avatars to VR, makes defining cheating more difficult than ever. Resources: Cadet, L., Brooks, A., & Castro, L. (2025, August 26). Digital affairs are here: 61% of singles say sexting or falling in love with AI crosses the line [Survey, DatingAdvice.com & Kinsey Institute]. DatingAdvice.com. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DigitalCheating #RelationshipBoundaries #OnlineInfidelity

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about how AI chatbots are rapidly transforming therapy, potentially replacing many jobs, and why therapists must focus on uniquely human skills to stay relevant. 00:00 Introduction and Article Overview – Dr. Brandon shares a bold new article warning that AI chatbots could soon dominate psychotherapy. 00:35 AI's Impact on Jobs and Therapy – The doctors discuss how AI is already taking over jobs and may soon replace many therapists. 02:12 Concerns About AI Dependency – They explore fears that people are becoming too dependent on chatbots for decisions and emotional support. 04:04 Real-Time AI Demonstration – A live demo shows how empathetic and human-like AI therapy responses have already become. 08:32 Future of AI in Various Fields – The conversation expands to AI in medicine, law, and other jobs, predicting massive workforce changes. 16:23 Concluding Thoughts and Advice – They encourage therapists to focus on work AI can't do, using human connection as their edge. Resources: Frances, A. (2025). Warning: AI chatbots will soon dominate psychotherapy. The British Journal of Psychiatry. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #AIinPsychotherapy #FutureOfWork #HumanVsAI

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about the off-label use of bremelanotide (Vyleesi/PT-141) in men—its potential benefits for libido/erections, origins, side effects (notably nausea), and how patients often access it via compounding pharmacies. 00:05 – Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler dive into Bremelanotide and share how the Goldsteins have been pioneering its research. 02:08 – They laugh about the iconic Katz's Deli "When Harry Met Sally" scene and its connection to sexual medicine history. 03:06 – The doctors explain how Bremelanotide works, how it's used by both women and men, and why refills tell an important story. 08:43 – They tackle the criticism that women take these meds "for men," pushing back and stressing women's right to pleasure. 19:48 – Wrapping up, they encourage listeners to talk with their doctors or compounding pharmacies if they want to explore this option. Resources: Goldstein, I., & Goldstein, S. (n.d.). [Abstract on off-label use of Bremelanotide (PT-141) in men: Refill rates and sexual function outcomes]. The Journal of Sexual Medicine. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #BremelanotideForMen #SexualHealthTreatment #OffLabelUse

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr Morgentaler talk about how affairs can make a couple's sex life better, worse, or just different—and simple ways to heal and reconnect. 00:16 Understanding the Impact of Affairs: They explain how cheating can change desire and closeness in different ways. 01:12 Nuances in Post-Affair Sexuality: Sex may drop, rise, get more adventurous, or face issues—it depends on the couple. 02:49 Addressing Sexual Dysfunction: They cover anxiety, erection problems, low desire, and using mindfulness or medicine to help. 05:00 Rebuilding Intimacy and Trust: Start slow—talk, apologize, slow dance, gentle touch—and add steps over time. 08:38 Therapeutic Approaches and Conclusion: Therapists help couples heal, try new ways to connect, and keep working together. Resources: Timm, T. M. (2024). The effects of infidelity on the sexual relationship. Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 39(4), 1372–1388. https://doi.org/10.1080/14681994.2023.2283504 Lehmiller, J. J. (2023, June 23). When partners cheat, who do they do it with? Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202304/when-people-cheat-who-do-they-do-it-with With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #PostAffairSexuality #RelationshipRebuilding #SexualDysfunctionTherapy

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some women cheat through an evolutionary lens, how parenting can dull desire, and simple ways couples can rekindle passion while staying connected. 00:09 Discussing the Article: Why Women Cheat: They talk about a study on why some women cheat. 00:49 Evolutionary Perspective on Cheating: From a science view, some marry "good dads" but seek excitement elsewhere. 02:47 Parenting and Sexual Dynamics: Raising kids can make life less romantic and lower desire. 05:33 Rekindling Passion in Long-Term Relationships: Make space, try new things, and rebuild closeness step by step. 15:29 Conclusion and Recommendations: Most women still prefer their partner; talk openly and try the tips. Resources: Murphy, M., Phillips, C. A., & Blake, K. R. (2024). Why women cheat: Testing evolutionary hypotheses for female infidelity in a multinational sample. Evolution and Human Behavior, 45(5), 106595. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2024.106595 Brandon, M. (2014). Unlocking the sexy in surrender: Using the neuroscience of power to recharge your sex life [Kindle eBook]. Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HS9FNMQ With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #EvolutionaryPsychology #RelationshipPassion #InfidelityStudies

In this episode Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the Match.com Singles in America survey with the Kinsey Institute, exploring how modern singles view sex, porn, love, and relationships across generations. 00:14 Match.com Survey Insights — Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss key findings from the Singles in America survey with over 75,000 participants. 06:02 Singles' Beliefs and Relationship Expectations — They explore statistics on porn use, emotional disconnects, and the belief in "one true love." 12:49 Rising Trends in Marriage and Singlehood — The doctors highlight how rates of never-married adults and sexless marriages are reshaping social norms. 17:21 The Role of Sexual Chemistry and Cultural Shifts — They reflect on why 90% of singles prioritize chemistry and how media and porn influence expectations. 20:12 Gen Z's Unique Perspectives on Relationships — They unpack Gen Z's conservative stance on sex, intentional celibacy, and uncertainty about long-term commitments. Resources: Match and The Kinsey Institute (2025). Singles in America: 14th annual study. Match Group. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DatingTrends #RelationshipInsights #SexualBehaviorSurvey

In this episode Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about whether the time of day really matters for testosterone testing, challenging the old "only in the morning" rule and showing how real-world evidence proves it makes little difference. 00:43 Debating Testosterone Testing Times – The doctors question the long-standing rule that testosterone must be tested in the morning. 04:56 Research Findings and Implications – A large study shows no real difference between morning and afternoon testosterone levels. 14:36 Understanding Testosterone Levels and Libido – They explain that libido doesn't rise and fall with small shifts in testosterone throughout the day. 15:20 Challenges with Testosterone Testing Protocols – Insurance rules forcing two morning tests create unnecessary hurdles for patients. 18:02 Debunking Myths and Practical Advice – The doctors stress that symptoms and context matter more than rigid numbers on a lab sheet. Resources: Novaes, L. F., Flores, J. M., Benfante, N., Schofield, E., Katz, D. J., Nelson, C. J., & Mulhall, J. P. (2024). Analysis of diurnal variation in serum testosterone levels in men with symptoms of testosterone deficiency. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 21(5), 408–413. https://doi.org/10.1093/jsxmed/qdae026 Crawford, E. D. (1997). Prostate Cancer Awareness Week: September 22 to 28, 1997. CA: A Cancer Journal for Clinicians, 47(5), 288–296. https://doi.org/10.3322/canjclin.47.5.288 Mulhall, J. P., Trost, L. W., Brannigan, R. E., Kurtz, E. G., Redmon, J. B., Chiles, K. A., Lightner, D. J., Miner, M. M., Murad, M. H., Nelson, C. J., Platz, E. A., Ramanathan, L. V., & Lewis, R. W. (2018; valid through 2024). Evaluation and management of testosterone deficiency: AUA guideline. The Journal of Urology, 200, 423. https://www.auanet.org/guidelines-and-quality/guidelines/testosterone-deficiency-guideline Morgentaler, A., et al. (2015). Fundamental concepts regarding testosterone deficiency and treatment: International expert consensus. Mayo Clinic Proceedings. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTesting #DiurnalVariation #HealthInsuranceRules